Current Events > I got drunk and unintentionally said some horrible things to people.

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Iamdepressed 12/03/22 11:06:51 AM #1:	For context: Hear me gripe: Recently I joined a discord server, where we have once a week get togethers and chat live through webcam. A good 20-30 people are usually on, always engaging in friendly banter; there's no hostility and everybody is inclusive. You see...I worked really hard to present myself as this friendly quiet guy, despite my natural inclination to be sort of abrasive and loud. Well a few days ago, I happened to drink too much and I got really drunk. The douche-bag in me came out in full force, and I may have said some heated things that were offensive. I'm not sure of the things I said, but I remember the reactions were extremely unpleasant and people were surprised. Now I'm thinking, there's no way I can go back. I just ruined the only safe space that I had. Why did I do this? WHYYYY??? Can anybody here relate? I suddenly feel so empty again. <cite>Iamdepressed posted [p:969883051] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>For context: Hear me gripe: Recently I joined a discord server, where we have once a week get togethers and chat live through webcam. A good 20-30 people are usually on, always engaging in friendly banter; there's no hostility and everybody is inclusive. You see...I worked really hard to present myself as this friendly quiet guy, despite my natural inclination to be sort of abrasive and loud. Well a few days ago, I happened to drink too much and I got really drunk. The douche-bag in me came out in full force, and I may have said some heated things that were offensive. I'm not sure of the things I said, but I remember the reactions were extremely unpleasant and people were surprised. Now I'm thinking, there's no way I can go back. I just ruined the only safe space that I had. Why did I do this? WHYYYY???Can anybody here relate? I suddenly feel so empty again. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KainWind 12/03/22 11:07:51 AM #2:	I'm sure running away will help --- Momentai <cite>KainWind posted [p:969883073] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>I'm sure running away will help</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Robot2600 12/03/22 11:08:09 AM #3:	internet full of discord weirdos begging you to hang out with them so i think youll be ok --- --- <cite>Robot2600 posted [p:969883079] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>internet full of discord weirdos begging you to hang out with them so i think youll be ok</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TetsuoS2 12/03/22 11:09:21 AM #4:	if you are real then just go apologize or just talk again normally. --- Lurker by trade just an idiot passing through <cite>TetsuoS2 posted [p:969883095] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>if you are real then just go apologize or just talk again normally.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
__aCEr__ 12/03/22 11:10:16 AM #6:	When in doubt just blame it on Ambien. --- See you next Wednesday. <cite>__aCEr__ posted [p:969883113] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>When in doubt just blame it on Ambien.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenstar 12/03/22 11:10:27 AM #7:	This is a gimmick, right? --- Just a dead, cold, round ball in the middle of nowhere. <cite>frozenstar posted [p:969883114] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>This is a gimmick, right?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YugiNoob 12/03/22 11:11:04 AM #8:	A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts... --- ( ^_^)/\(^_^ ) Maya High-Five! <cite>YugiNoob posted [p:969883123] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kombucha 12/03/22 11:11:11 AM #9:	Gimmick or no gimmick I used to do the same shit all the time (both online and off). I got a year of therapy and have been sober for 1 year, 7 months. --- http://www.last.fm/user/walkingishonest <cite>Kombucha posted [p:969883126] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>Gimmick or no gimmick I used to do the same shit all the time (both online and off). I got a year of therapy and have been sober for 1 year, 7 months.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thronedfire2 12/03/22 11:12:12 AM #10:	Is this the same person that does this every week --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:969883141] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>Is this the same person that does this every week </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Iamdepressed 12/03/22 11:14:32 AM #11:	TetsuoS2 posted... if you are real then just go apologize or just talk again normally. But don't you think there's a point of no return, where an apology won't cut it? They were a group of guys and gals who more on the prude side. <cite>Iamdepressed posted [p:969883179] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>TetsuoS2 posted... </cite><quote>if you are real then just go apologize or just talk again normally.</quote>But don't you think there's a point of no return, where an apology won't cut it? They were a group of guys and gals who more on the prude side. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Iamdepressed 12/03/22 11:18:11 AM #12:	Kombucha posted... Gimmick or no gimmick I used to do the same shit all the time (both online and off). I got a year of therapy and have been sober for 1 year, 7 months. Care to share a story of some of the ridiculous things you did to offend people while intoxicated? I guess I'm looking for some kind of solace. <cite>Iamdepressed posted [p:969883246] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>Kombucha posted... </cite><quote>Gimmick or no gimmick I used to do the same shit all the time (both online and off). I got a year of therapy and have been sober for 1 year, 7 months.</quote>Care to share a story of some of the ridiculous things you did to offend people while intoxicated? I guess I'm looking for some kind of solace. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HudGard 12/03/22 11:20:23 AM #13:	Own it and apologize. If theyre half decent friends theyll forgive and this will even be a growth moment in the relationship. <cite>HudGard posted [p:969883278] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>Own it and apologize. If theyre half decent friends theyll forgive and this will even be a growth moment in the relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TetsuoS2 12/03/22 11:20:44 AM #14:	i think it doesnt hurt to try. i know how i am when im drunk, but id never say something so offensive that it would put me instantly in the cutoff completely zone. usually takes something massively bigoted to do that. --- Lurker by trade just an idiot passing through <cite>TetsuoS2 posted [p:969883285] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>i think it doesnt hurt to try.i know how i am when im drunk, but id never say something so offensive that it would put me instantly in the cutoff completely zone.usually takes something massively bigoted to do that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
a-c-a-b 12/03/22 11:35:33 AM #16:	frozenstar posted... This is a gimmick, right? Funny you should say that. I was expecting this to be another one of your alts. --- Save for your doomed future <cite>a-c-a-b posted [p:969883542] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>frozenstar posted... </cite><quote>This is a gimmick, right?</quote>Funny you should say that.I was expecting this to be another one of your alts.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Iamdepressed 12/03/22 11:35:45 AM #17:	TetsuoS2 posted... i think it doesnt hurt to try. i know how i am when im drunk, but id never say something so offensive that it would put me instantly in the cutoff completely zone. usually takes something massively bigoted to do that. I don't think I said anything bigoted, but I tried to dominate almost every conversation by interrupting speakers. Now that I'm looking back, that was an incredibly rude thing to do. <cite>Iamdepressed posted [p:969883547] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>TetsuoS2 posted... </cite><quote>i think it doesnt hurt to try.i know how i am when im drunk, but id never say something so offensive that it would put me instantly in the cutoff completely zone.usually takes something massively bigoted to do that.</quote>I don't think I said anything bigoted, but I tried to dominate almost every conversation by interrupting speakers. Now that I'm looking back, that was an incredibly rude thing to do. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrKapowski 12/03/22 11:40:09 AM #18:	Iamdepressed posted... I happened to drink too much and I got really drunk Found the problem --- So! You want to hear a story, eh? <cite>MrKapowski posted [p:969883637] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>Iamdepressed posted... </cite><quote>I happened to drink too much and I got really drunk</quote>Found the problem</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Michael_Booth 12/03/22 11:55:14 AM #19:	YugiNoob posted... A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts... *In vino veritas* <cite>Michael_Booth posted [p:969883893] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>YugiNoob posted... </cite><quote>A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts...</quote>In vino veritas</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Yahtz09 12/03/22 12:05:31 PM #20:	Iamdepressed posted... I worked really hard to present myself as this friendly quiet guy, despite my natural inclination to be sort of abrasive and loud. If your natural inclination is to be an asshole, you have some work to do on yourself. Putting a mask on in front of your friends isnt a long-term answer. As for this particular case, you should be able to apologize and everyone move on. If this becomes regular or even every-once-in-a-while behavior, then yeah, these people arent going to always forgive you and probably wont want to be your friend. MrKapowski posted... Found the problem The alcohol definitely didnt help, but I think the root issue here is he admits his natural instinct is to be a dick. I think that is the bigger issue. --- Arkansas Razorbacks \|\| Oklahoma City Thunder \|\| Cleveland Sports <cite>The_Yahtz09 posted [p:969884073] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>Iamdepressed posted... </cite><quote>I worked really hard to present myself as this friendly quiet guy, despite my natural inclination to be sort of abrasive and loud.</quote>If your natural inclination is to be an asshole, you have some work to do on yourself. Putting a mask on in front of your friends isnt a long-term answer.As for this particular case, you should be able to apologize and everyone move on. If this becomes regular or even every-once-in-a-while behavior, then yeah, these people arent going to always forgive you and probably wont want to be your friend.MrKapowski posted... </cite><quote>Found the problem</quote>The alcohol definitely didnt help, but I think the root issue here is he admits his natural instinct is to be a dick. I think that is the bigger issue. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheLiarParadox 12/03/22 12:27:33 PM #21:	YugiNoob posted... A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts... It was mostly the opposite for me. I lied WAY more when I was drunk, not just in frequency but in size. There were times I saw video footage of me black-out wasted and it was like watching someone else, not just because I didn't remember anything but because everything I said was Grade A bullshit. There was one night I was going on and on about my rap prodigy niece who was gaining traction on youtube. ~~I didn't even have a niece at the time.~~ There are also tons of secrets, about myself and others, that I hated to keep but am confident I haven't divulged because there would have been massive consequences if certain people ever found out. They most certainly would have were I to speak drunken truths as much as I spoke drunken lies <_< --- Spongebob is not a contraceptive. <cite>TheLiarParadox posted [p:969884490] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>YugiNoob posted... </cite><quote>A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts...</quote>It was mostly the opposite for me. I lied WAY more when I was drunk, not just in frequency but in size. There were times I saw video footage of me black-out wasted and it was like watching someone else, not just because I didn't remember anything but because everything I said was Grade A bullshit. There was one night I was going on and on about my rap prodigy niece who was gaining traction on youtube. I didn't even have a niece at the time. There are also tons of secrets, about myself and others, that I hated to keep but am confident I haven't divulged because there would have been massive consequences if certain people ever found out. They most certainly would have were I to speak drunken truths as much as I spoke drunken lies <_<</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PoundGarden 12/03/22 12:29:55 PM #22:	These things happen and many of us have been there. For example, one time I joined a discord server, where we have once a week get togethers and chat live through webcam. A good 20-30 people are usually on, always engaging in friendly banter; there's no hostility and everybody is inclusive. You see...I worked really hard to present myself as this friendly quiet guy, despite my natural inclination to be sort of abrasive and loud. Well a few days ago, I happened to drink too much and I got really drunk. The douche-bag in me came out in full force, and I may have said some heated things that were offensive. I'm not sure of the things I said, but I remember the reactions were extremely unpleasant and people were surprised. Now I'm thinking, there's no way I can go back. I just ruined the only safe space that I had. Why did I do this? WHYYYY??? --- "You go. I'm just going to stare at the lake and think about how I almost just killed a baby." <cite>PoundGarden posted [p:969884549] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>These things happen and many of us have been there. For example, one time I joined a discord server, where we have once a week get togethers and chat live through webcam. A good 20-30 people are usually on, always engaging in friendly banter; there's no hostility and everybody is inclusive. You see...I worked really hard to present myself as this friendly quiet guy, despite my natural inclination to be sort of abrasive and loud. Well a few days ago, I happened to drink too much and I got really drunk. The douche-bag in me came out in full force, and I may have said some heated things that were offensive. I'm not sure of the things I said, but I remember the reactions were extremely unpleasant and people were surprised. Now I'm thinking, there's no way I can go back. I just ruined the only safe space that I had. Why did I do this? WHYYYY???</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenstar 12/03/22 12:50:43 PM #23:	a-c-a-b posted... Funny you should say that. I was expecting this to be another one of your alts. heh --- Just a dead, cold, round ball in the middle of nowhere. <cite>frozenstar posted [p:969884941] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>a-c-a-b posted... </cite><quote>Funny you should say that.I was expecting this to be another one of your alts.</quote>heh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smackems 12/03/22 1:03:24 PM #24:	This is half the reason I quit drinking --- Common sense says it may not taste good, but it'll make a turd. <cite>Smackems posted [p:969885170] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>This is half the reason I quit drinking</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Questionmarktarius 12/03/22 1:06:10 PM #25:	which CEMan is... oh wait. <cite>Questionmarktarius posted [p:969885217] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>which CEMan is...oh wait.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Suolevram 12/03/22 1:09:19 PM #26:	Robot2600 posted... internet full of discord weirdos begging you to hang out with them so i think youll be ok --- fay ce que vouldras <cite>Suolevram posted [p:969885286] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>Robot2600 posted... </cite><quote>internet full of discord weirdos begging you to hang out with them so i think youll be ok</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LeoRavus 12/03/22 1:15:42 PM #27:	Yeah, I had to delete FB because I kept drunk posting craziness. Some of it was funny, then I'd flip around and say awful shit. I mean it was all true but often caused some sort of thing. --- This is where cool people write stuff. <cite>LeoRavus posted [p:969885416] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>Yeah, I had to delete FB because I kept drunk posting craziness. Some of it was funny, then I'd flip around and say awful shit. I mean it was all true but often caused some sort of thing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Suolevram 12/03/22 1:24:46 PM #28:	LeoRavus posted... Yeah, I had to delete FB because I kept drunk posting craziness. Some of it was funny, then I'd flip around and say awful shit. I mean it was all true but often caused some sort of thing. It'd be cool if your name was Mike. Then you might be a dude I know who did this quite frequently. --- fay ce que vouldras <cite>Suolevram posted [p:969885596] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>LeoRavus posted... </cite><quote>Yeah, I had to delete FB because I kept drunk posting craziness. Some of it was funny, then I'd flip around and say awful shit. I mean it was all true but often caused some sort of thing.</quote>It'd be cool if your name was Mike. Then you might be a dude I know who did this quite frequently. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Iodine 12/03/22 1:38:55 PM #30:	TetsuoS2 posted... if you are real then just go apologize or just talk again normally. --- In Belichick we Trust <cite>Iodine posted [p:969885871] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>TetsuoS2 posted... </cite><quote>if you are real then just go apologize or just talk again normally.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 12/03/22 1:39:17 PM #31:	TetsuoS2 posted... if you are real then just go apologize or just talk again normally. This. Id accept the apology unless it became a routine thing. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:969885876] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>TetsuoS2 posted... </cite><quote>if you are real then just go apologize or just talk again normally.</quote>This. Id accept the apology unless it became a routine thing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenstar 12/03/22 2:14:41 PM #32:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] trying to be cool by being based and having something cool to say --- Just a dead, cold, round ball in the middle of nowhere. <cite>frozenstar posted [p:969886636] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> trying to be cool by being based and having something cool to say</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Oubliettes 12/03/22 2:24:02 PM #33:	im a completely different person when i drink sober i'm shy af give me some tequila and ill be half naked in public --- Your anus can't read. - Heartomaton <cite>Oubliettes posted [p:969886846] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>im a completely different person when i drinksober i'm shy af give me some tequila and ill be half naked in public</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
josifrees 12/03/22 2:25:25 PM #34:	This is a lot of fun to do --- Quit Crying <cite>josifrees posted [p:969886881] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>This is a lot of fun to do </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 12/03/22 2:31:15 PM #35:	Oubliettes posted... im a completely different person when i drink sober i'm shy af give me some tequila and ill be half naked in public Same. Not super duper shy. Im open, but I make no effort to initiate 90% of the time People love me when Im drunk tho. Im still nice, Im just less filtered than normal. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:969887005] in I got drun... [t:80261009]...</cite> <quote>Oubliettes posted... </cite><quote>im a completely different person when i drinksober i'm shy af give me some tequila and ill be half naked in public</quote>Same. Not super duper shy. Im open, but I make no effort to initiate 90% of the time People love me when Im drunk tho. Im still nice, Im just less filtered than normal. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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