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SHRlKE
11/28/22 10:38:02 AM
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My partner moved in a few weeks back and its been great on the main. But shes still got some of her possessions at her ex partners house. I told her to get a storage unit but she insists she doesnt trust keeping it there so instead wants to keep it here. The only room I have is a guest bed room / my office which is basically a bed and my office desk with screens etc on it.

I dont really want to keep her crap here as I dont think there is enough room but then shes being unreasonable not wanting to take it to a storage unit.

3rd option is she pays her ex to keep it there for a few months but then that just makes thing awkward. Not really sure what to do. Any ideas?
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LincolnDuncan
11/28/22 10:41:39 AM
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So..the issue is she's moved in but you don't want her stuff at your place?

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emblem-man
11/28/22 10:43:30 AM
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Are these junk items or something? How much items exactly?

Also, storage units can get expensive

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BuckVanHammer
11/28/22 10:43:34 AM
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Maybe compromise and get joint storage unit for both of your stuff? Give her a little more space for her shit?

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MedeaLysistrata
11/28/22 10:43:39 AM
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Glob
11/28/22 10:44:41 AM
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LincolnDuncan posted...
So..the issue is she's moved in but you don't want her stuff at your place?

That is how it comes across.
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Melzargard
11/28/22 10:45:53 AM
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Why does she have stuff at her ex's?

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Ruvan22
11/28/22 10:48:17 AM
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Is this the same person that was asking you to make your lifelong indoor cat an outdoor cat?
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NonDairyMiltank
11/28/22 10:49:56 AM
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why is the last guy an ex?

first question any new guy should ask
dont expect honest answers 100% of the time...

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bsp77
11/28/22 10:50:56 AM
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Melzargard posted...
Why does she have stuff at her ex's?
That's normal. Can take awhile to get everything sometimes.

But yeah...
LincolnDuncan posted...
So..the issue is she's moved in but you don't want her stuff at your place?
More explanation is needed.

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CommonStar
11/28/22 10:51:00 AM
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No, she's not asking too much. You guys decided to move in together. Now you have to make compromises.
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bsp77
11/28/22 10:51:40 AM
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NonDairyMiltank posted...
why is the last guy an ex?

first question any new guy should ask
dont expect honest answers 100% of the time...
Lol

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DoesntMatter
11/28/22 10:52:26 AM
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SHRlKE posted...
I dont really want to keep her crap here
wow dude

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Mensis
11/28/22 10:55:53 AM
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LincolnDuncan posted...
So..the issue is she's moved in but you don't want her stuff at your place?
Yeah wtf

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Flockaveli
11/28/22 10:59:59 AM
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MedeaLysistrata
11/28/22 11:02:24 AM
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Flockaveli posted...
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He made that last part up

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Crimson_Corsair
11/28/22 11:03:13 AM
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He made everything up.

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MabusIncarnate
11/28/22 11:05:17 AM
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Just move in the ex boyfriend, pay less on rent

Eddie Murphy thinking meme

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NoxObscuras
11/28/22 11:17:48 AM
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The Saga continues!

MabusIncarnate posted...
Eddie Murphy thinking meme
It's actually an actor named Kayode Ewumi that played a character on a parody series on BBC

https://youtu.be/ZFm-t58_E_E

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SHRlKE
11/28/22 11:45:37 AM
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LincolnDuncan posted...
So..the issue is she's moved in but you don't want her stuff at your place?

Its not that. She moved out of her ex boyfriends house pretty suddenly. Had a lot more stuff than she originally said.

She moved in a few weeks back and had a good amount of stuff. But then let it slip she had a load more still at her exes and she didnt know what to do with it. By then shed already moved in but I dont have the room for the extra stuff.
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MarcoRubio
11/28/22 11:46:40 AM
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Stop responding to this shit

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SHRlKE
11/28/22 11:46:41 AM
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Ruvan22 posted...
Is this the same person that was asking you to make your lifelong indoor cat an outdoor cat?

Yeah thats the one. We compromised in getting a cat flap in the end and keeping the spare room cat free in case she wanted to sleep in there if it got too bad for her allergies.

Good idea as she does stay in the 4 or 5 nights a week.
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MedeaLysistrata
11/28/22 1:10:34 PM
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SHRlKE posted...
Yeah thats the one. We compromised in getting a cat flap in the end and keeping the spare room cat free in case she wanted to sleep in there if it got too bad for her allergies.

Good idea as she does stay in the 4 or 5 nights a week.
lol why do you like her

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SHRlKE
11/28/22 1:12:34 PM
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Honest answer? I'm incredibly lonely and it's good to actually have a girlfriend. I know it's probably not the most healthy relationship but it's better than nothing and I'm not getting too attached.
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emblem-man
11/28/22 3:23:44 PM
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SHRlKE posted...
and I'm not getting too attached.

You're moving in together...that's getting attached

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MICHALECOLE
11/28/22 3:25:30 PM
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NonDairyMiltank posted...
why is the last guy an ex?

first question any new guy should ask
dont expect honest answers 100% of the time...
His penis was too large
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Makeveli_lives
11/28/22 3:27:25 PM
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SHRlKE posted...
Honest answer? I'm incredibly lonely and it's good to actually have a girlfriend. I know it's probably not the most healthy relationship but it's better than nothing and I'm not getting too attached.
How you gonna say you aint attached but you let the woman move in?

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Payzmaykr
11/28/22 3:28:07 PM
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I mean, I would rather put up with some clutter than have my GF running around texting her EX Boyfriend. Just saying. You might even consider talking to her about deleting his contact info. To me, it just seems toxic for either party to still keep in contact with an ex if youre moving on with someone.

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bsp77
11/28/22 3:29:47 PM
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Payzmaykr posted...
I mean, I would rather put up with some clutter than have my GF running around texting her EX Boyfriend. Just saying. You might even consider talking to her about deleting his contact info. To me, it just seems toxic for either party to still keep in contact with an ex if youre moving on with someone.
I am engaged and friends with two of my exes. It doesn't have to be toxic.

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spikethedevil
11/28/22 3:32:31 PM
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Flockaveli posted...
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What happened to your wife TC?

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Iron-Tarkus
11/28/22 4:28:00 PM
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Payzmaykr posted...
ou might even consider talking to her about deleting his contact info. To me, it just seems toxic for either party to still keep in contact with an ex if youre moving on with someone.
Doesnt have to be at all and the mentality of essentially blacklisting your ex is something Ill never understand. Suggesting your partner does so also comes across as very controlling

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bsp77
11/28/22 4:33:27 PM
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Iron-Tarkus posted...
Doesnt have to be at all and the mentality of essentially blacklisting your ex is something Ill never understand. Suggesting your partner does so also comes across as very controlling
Yep

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MICHALECOLE
11/28/22 4:40:52 PM
#38:


Payzmaykr posted...
I mean, I would rather put up with some clutter than have my GF running around texting her EX Boyfriend. Just saying. You might even consider talking to her about deleting his contact info. To me, it just seems toxic for either party to still keep in contact with an ex if youre moving on with someone.
I agree, control your women. They can not be trusted, so you must put them in situations where they cant stray!
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SHRlKE
11/28/22 4:51:57 PM
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Makeveli_lives posted...
How you gonna say you aint attached but you let the woman move in?

She needed somewhere to live bro plus Im hoping shell contribute to the rent when things settle down.
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SHRlKE
11/28/22 4:53:11 PM
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Payzmaykr posted...
I mean, I would rather put up with some clutter than have my GF running around texting her EX Boyfriend. Just saying. You might even consider talking to her about deleting his contact info. To me, it just seems toxic for either party to still keep in contact with an ex if youre moving on with someone.

Nah. Shes asking me to go round there and talk to him about it.m cause shes too scared too.
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Payzmaykr
11/28/22 5:12:00 PM
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Oh, my bad. After reading my post and the replies, I can recognize that its time to reevaluate my position and evolve with the modern world.
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emblem-man
11/28/22 5:33:31 PM
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SHRlKE posted...
She needed somewhere to live bro plus Im hoping shell contribute to the rent when things settle down.

Bruh.

I get how this situation can happen. I just think it can turn into a difficult situation.

Does she not have a job? If you two break up, or if you have any doubts about the relationship, would you be willing to break it off with her if you think breaking up with her essentially means kicking her out when she has no job/money? Or will her financial circumstances force you to stay with her?

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spikethedevil
11/28/22 5:49:44 PM
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spikethedevil posted...
What happened to your wife TC?


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Lorenzo_2003
11/28/22 5:50:47 PM
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He will also have a difficult time evicting her, assuming she doesnt leave when he wants her to.

Im waiting for TC to tell us he gave her his ATM pin because its more convenient or that hes planning on co-signing a gigantic loan for her.

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RenescoStCewl
11/28/22 5:57:18 PM
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Flockaveli posted...
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Tc always ignores this. His stories are made up.

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TheGoldenEel
11/28/22 6:13:47 PM
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RenescoStCewl posted...
Tc always ignores this. His stories are made up.
Why shouldnt he ignore?

lots of users keep seriously responding to his fake posts

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Kakapo
11/28/22 6:19:57 PM
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Payzmaykr posted...
I mean, I would rather put up with some clutter than have my GF running around texting her EX Boyfriend. Just saying. You might even consider talking to her about deleting his contact info. To me, it just seems toxic for either party to still keep in contact with an ex if youre moving on with someone.

Making her delete his contact info is pretty extreme.

If you dont trust someone, dont be with them. Simples lol.

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