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No

It varies. Sometimes I think I'm ok, other times I can barely stand to look at myself. Currently, very much no.

Not with my whore mouth open. Cause my teeth need work and I had a bad experience at the dentist that makes me scared.

You three are very sexy and cute

DespondentDeity posted...

You three are very sexy and cute

Honestly, I fluctuate between moods. I never actually pinned down my overall view of my appearance. I feel like it would just get in my way. It's much easier not to get in the way if you leave it ambiguous. But I know you like doing make up and stuff, so I know that's not really how it works for everyone. Im a self proclaimed scrub and like living in that realm lol. I like having nothing to live up to. Appreciate it tho.

Slightly above average, but can feel inadequate due to being on the skinny side ( 5'10 150 pounds) and wearing glasses.

Some days I do.

I'm decently good looking I think

DespondentDeity posted...

You three are very sexy and cute

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Not anymore.

I was when I was about 17-22

Not really but sometimes I'll see a picture where I look like a calvin klein model so idk I guess it's hit or miss

Yes

Maybe to a blind person in the dark.

Lost_All_Senses posted...

Honestly, I fluctuate between moods. I never actually pinned down my overall view of my appearance. I feel like it would just get in my way. It's much easier not to get in the way if you leave it ambiguous. But I know you like doing make up and stuff, so I know that's not really how it works for everyone. Im a self proclaimed scrub and like living in that realm lol. I like having nothing to live up to. Appreciate it tho.

My belief has become that its impossible to really understand how we look to other people, so my goal is just to please myself with my appearance. If doing that gives other people a chance to see something they find attractive then thats cool too. The thing that ends up happening is I feel like I want to just keep pushing that standard I have for myself and learn more and more techniques. Im still struggling with body image issues tho, like sometimes I just sit right and see this lumpy part of myself and its kinda like, well this whole week is shot.

You call yourself scrubby but I dont really see it that way, you just kinda have a down to earth practical style. If youre happy with it, that should be the important thing.

i think i'm an alright looking guy, maybe a 6/10. but not perfect. i have a big ole nose, and i don't put on muscle very easily. but all things considered i'm alright looking.

Yes

Crimsoness posted...

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Im honest as fuck

I guess I'd rate myself as being between 5-7 out of 10 depending on the day

Do you consider yourself attractive?

Personally, no.

Literally, yes. I was proposed to.

yes

sometimes. not in awhile tho.

Kind of. I got a lot of attention in highschool presumably because I was cute. That certainly gave me confidence boost. At this point I'm older and don't really see the same cuteness I use to like. I've always had scarring on my face and have a bit recession of my hair that bothers me too.

I'm an 8 on a bad day.

hell no

Nope :D

No

Im hot

DespondentDeity posted...

My belief has become that its impossible to really understand how we look to other people, so my goal is just to please myself with my appearance. If doing that gives other people a chance to see something they find attractive then thats cool too. The thing that ends up happening is I feel like I want to just keep pushing that standard I have for myself and learn more and more techniques. Im still struggling with body image issues tho, like sometimes I just sit right and see this lumpy part of myself and its kinda like, well this whole week is shot.

You call yourself scrubby but I dont really see it that way, you just kinda have a down to earth practical style. If youre happy with it, that should be the important thing.

That's definitely a cooler way to put it lol. It's not like I feel any visceral way about myself when I use words like scrubby. I actually do it in an attempt to see if I can pull terms up with me. Not on any major scale, as I have no reach. But just in the perception of those around me. I never actually know if it's working, but the attempt is fun enough. Maybe it's a power play to try to redefine words in your circles lol. But it's not one that hurts anyone else. They can completely ignore it :p

But yeah, it wouldn't make sense for me to have a lot of nice clothes or to try too much, as 95% of the stuff I do when Im not in my house involves stuff in dirt. And half my clothes in my hamper are stained with the smell of burning wood lol.

Your philosophy is exactly the state of mind Id hope people would end up in from any of advice I stumble through lol. You'll never be able to fully guess what someone else likes. It's much easier to do what you like and let those who like the same thing spot you and be drawn to you. It just creates a way more sustainable foundation over time. You don't wanna do it for someone else and fuck around and let them have the ability to take all the foundation you built with them if they leave. You gotta hold the deed to that foundation yourself. You can let people build onto it, but that's a whole nother conversation and this post os already to big of a rant lol. After 3 paragraphs, it looks too exhausting to read :p

I am below average for sure.

Absolutely not...

Nope

Might have used to be. But not for years

i'm quite ugly

So-so, leaning to "yes". I'm definitely not a Zac Efron. But I'm in an okay shape and friendly looking.

I think attractiveness is overrated though. I'd never judge a person more/less just because they are attractive. It's the inner values that count.