Poll of the Day > Why do some people just have magnetic personalities?

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Ive met a handful of them throughout my life, where people are just drawn to them and want to be around them. And if theyre of an orientation to be romantically interested in the magnetic person, they are. Its like these people just have a supernatural pull.

and it doesnt come down to being kind or open or honest or vulnerable or active listening or anything like that, because some of these magnetic people Ive met are just straight up sassy, mean, immature, and rude.

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High Charisma stat

It probably has to do with a multitude of factors. Looks for starters, cause that's the first thing people see. They might behave a certain way and mirror other peoples tone and mannerisms, because people like similarities. They probably are fun to be around or offer great insights or make people feel good about themselves in some way.

If a person is sassy, mean, immature, or rude, they probably won't remain magnetic for long; unless association offers some sort of material benefit: But then would u say THEY are magnetic or is the reward?

Sometimes it's the drugger vibe attracting the druggies.

sabin017 posted...

Sometimes it's the drugger vibe attracting the druggies.

I mean this all independently of mind alternating substances in play.

Idk, just being around people who appreciate who you are sort of brings out the best in you imo.

If you're around people who think you're boring, then you'll probably feel more boring. You'll probably spend all your time scraping together something interesting to say, and you won't really be any better for it.

In middle school I had a group of friends that just tolerated my presence, so I found another group that thought I was cool and funny, then all the sudden I was cool and funny.

Maybe they are a little......

Bi-polar

JigsawTDCII posted...

Ive met a handful of them throughout my life, where people are just drawn to them and want to be around them. And if theyre of an orientation to be romantically interested in the magnetic person, they are. Its like these people just have a supernatural pull.

and it doesnt come down to being kind or open or honest or vulnerable or active listening or anything like that, because some of these magnetic people Ive met are just straight up sassy, mean, immature, and rude.

GIVE ME THE ANSWER POTD, YOURE MY ONLY HOPE

I don't think I've ever noticed this. To me this just sounds like the halo effect, especially if they have rude or immature personalities. People find them physically attractive so they invent and attribute interesting personality characteristics to that person and want to be around them. I might be completely wrong though.

actual magnets in their genome structure

JigsawTDCII posted...

people are just drawn to them and want to be around them

Magnets can also repel.

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