Current Events > Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out.

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 2:32:23 AM
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From being on CE, I know a large portion of you are against this, but I'm about to confess it all anyway. Feel welcome to judge, encourage, or discourage me.

I'm almost positive she'll agree to hanging out with me. Right now, I only have platonic intentions -- I would REALLY enjoy just having the company of this drop dead gorgeous girl. We're both going through stuff right now, and we feel so comfortable venting to each other. Our whole day gets brighter every time we see each other.

But I know if we spend enough time together, one of us will develop feelings. If not me, then her. And there's another red flag here besides the age difference. She just got checked out of a mental hospital. For the sake of us bonding... or anything else that may happen in the future, that doesn't bother me at all. BUT people will already say I'm taking advantage/manipulating her because of the age difference. Add her mental health condition to the equation..... that's not gonna make me look good.

Anyway, there's the situation. I'm not dead set that I will ask her to hang out yet, but I know I want to. Whatever kind of person that makes me.
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TentacleDemon
08/18/22 2:48:29 AM
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You're both adults. Go for it.


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AirFresh
08/18/22 2:49:38 AM
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bro

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MICHALECOLE
08/18/22 2:55:59 AM
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Age aint nothin but a number, baby
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Master_Kazuya
08/18/22 2:56:21 AM
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You wanna bang a hot and crazy 19 year old that you vibe with

Just say it with you chest bro

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JTilly
08/18/22 2:58:58 AM
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If you wanna hang out than hang out

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gunplagirl
08/18/22 2:59:11 AM
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Metal_Bug posted...
And there's another red flag here besides the age difference. She just got checked out of a mental hospital. For the sake of us bonding... or anything else that may happen in the future, that doesn't bother me at all. BUT people will already say I'm taking advantage/manipulating her because of the age difference. Add her mental health condition to the equation..... that's not gonna make me look good.
Dude stop, this is even more creepy precisely because you're aware of how bad it looks, and you're still interested in doing it. What about this seems like a good idea?

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 2:59:57 AM
#8:


Master_Kazuya posted...
You wanna bang a hot and crazy 19 year old that you vibe with

Just say it with you chest bro
I mean there's not a lie here. While we're hanging out, I have no intentions to try to make any sort of move. But if she wants to, I'm probably shitting myself if I said I would stop her.
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GamerGuy0040
08/18/22 3:00:11 AM
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Before finding my gf (5.5 years younger) I had a few dates with a few 20-25 year olds as a 35 year old. Never felt awkward.

Go for it if you want to.
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Dan_Haren-
08/18/22 3:01:51 AM
#10:


Fuck
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gunplagirl
08/18/22 3:02:25 AM
#11:


@Ankha
You already know why my eyes are rolling out of my head

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TerraSeeker
08/18/22 3:02:49 AM
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I don't think anything is wrong with it. Most of the people I know already have the friends they want, kids, and don't seem like they would be too interested in hanging out. So if you find someone who wants to hangout go for it.

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Lanzol
08/18/22 3:02:57 AM
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yikes

tag for updates
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VampireCoyote
08/18/22 3:04:21 AM
#14:


Just dont take advantage of someone. If it feels wrong then dont do it. In most cases a 19 year old is perfectly capable of making their own decisions.

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 3:14:28 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Co-workers. We work on opposite shifts, though. At the actual, physical work place, we get to talk to each other for like, 30 minutes total per week, tops.
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tripleh213
08/18/22 3:17:03 AM
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Creepy people in this topic tbh...

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 3:18:43 AM
#19:


gunplagirl posted...
What about this seems like a good idea?


Metal_Bug posted...
19y/o

Metal_Bug posted...
drop dead gorgeous girl

Metal_Bug posted...
Our whole day gets brighter every time we see each other.

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The_Wheelman1
08/18/22 3:23:04 AM
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Go for it. She's legal adult so there's nothing to worry about.

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VampireCoyote
08/18/22 3:23:20 AM
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I didnt catch the part about her just being hospitalized. That definitely sounds like someone that is vulnerable at the moment. Probably not fair to them to pursue a romantic or sexual relationship any time soon.

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 3:31:31 AM
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VampireCoyote posted...
Probably not fair to them to pursue a romantic or sexual relationship any time soon.
Right. As I said in the OP, right now my goals with her are platonic. We love venting to each other and being around her takes the sting away from things we're going through. And despite what I said in post #8, if she tried to turn things sexual, I can see myself saying "No, I don't want to lose your friendship." But I can also see myself giving in. She is drop dead gorgeous, after all.
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Patchwork
08/18/22 3:36:08 AM
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I mean

Shes apparently hot, demonstrably crazy, and you work at the same place.

Youre going to regret this, man.

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Naysaspace
08/18/22 3:37:22 AM
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any man who's ever done this knows that the generation gap is real and that no amount of pussy can overcome having to hang out with a 19 year old girl. one or two night stand, go for it. don't expect to turn it into a relationship or anything meaningful, because it's literally different worlds.
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Patchwork
08/18/22 3:42:05 AM
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Mentally unstable, my bad.

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Buu_88
08/18/22 3:45:37 AM
#28:


Metal_Bug posted...
Our whole day gets brighter every time we see each other.

Do you speak for her?

But more importantly: how's her ass?


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bulletproofvita
08/18/22 3:46:55 AM
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tripleh213 posted...
Creepy people in this topic tbh...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/0/0/AAZ1uBAADkyM.jpg

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 3:49:44 AM
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Buu_88 posted...
Do you speak for her?
Involuntary, nonverbal behavior tells me everything I need to know.
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gunplagirl
08/18/22 4:05:35 AM
#31:


Metal_Bug posted...
Involuntary, nonverbal behavior tells me everything I need to know.
Yi-
And I cannot emphasize this enough
-kes

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Centipeter
08/18/22 4:08:11 AM
#32:


Jesus tapdancing Christ. If it wasn't creepy before, it is now.

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FunkyCat
08/18/22 4:12:44 AM
#33:


Just stop.

Please.

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 4:16:10 AM
#34:


Really? THAT was more creepy than anything I said in the OP? I'm gonna assume none of you have had the experience of seeing someone's face light up to see you before. Must be painful.
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tripleh213
08/18/22 4:17:55 AM
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Tc is so creepy

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 4:24:02 AM
#37:


"Involuntary, nonverbal behavior" was not referring to sexual consent. I was telling Buu_88 that's how I know it brightens her day to see me. That's platonic as fuck, and absolutely not creepy.
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gunplagirl
08/18/22 4:27:51 AM
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I'm just waiting for tc to mention telomeres, I'm getting that kind of vibe

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 4:33:23 AM
#39:


gunplagirl posted...
I'm just waiting for tc to mention telomeres, I'm getting that kind of vibe
Respond to the post directly above yours.
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Onimusha
08/18/22 4:39:59 AM
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Nah dont do that

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 4:47:29 AM
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Lol that's what I thought. Cat got EVERYONE'S tongue that responded hastily to post #30.
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bulletproofvita
08/18/22 4:51:45 AM
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Aaaah good job ...


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darkmaian23
08/18/22 4:53:10 AM
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Metal_Bug posted...
Involuntary, nonverbal behavior tells me everything I need to know.
Well, that's the creepiest sentence I've read in a long time.

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 5:01:47 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

OK, here's the entire convo for context.

Metal_Bug posted...
Our whole day gets brighter every time we see each other.

Buu_88 posted...
Do you speak for her?

Metal_Bug posted...
Involuntary, nonverbal behavior tells me everything I need to know.

*everyone flips out, having not read the post Buu_88 responded to*

Metal_Bug posted...
"Involuntary, nonverbal behavior" was not referring to sexual consent. I was telling Buu_88 that's how I know it brightens her day to see me. That's platonic as fuck, and absolutely not creepy.

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Kajagogo
08/18/22 5:02:52 AM
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Metal_Bug posted...
Lol that's what I thought. Cat got EVERYONE'S tongue that responded hastily to post #30.

This is totally a Principal Skinner "No, everyone else is wrong" type of thing.

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gunplagirl
08/18/22 5:02:53 AM
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The more you repeat it insisting nothing is wrong, the more grossed out I am.

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Metal_Bug
08/18/22 5:08:38 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Whatever. Seems like it got resolved.

gunplagirl posted...
The more you repeat it insisting nothing is wrong, the more grossed out I am.
Still haven't responded to the post I asked you to. But that's normal for you.
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tripleh213
08/18/22 5:11:29 AM
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Just stop talking please

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