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so every year I have this party right

some of you might've heard of it bc I've mentioned it a few times

It's called wingsgiving and it's basically a friends giving where everyone brings wings and a sauce.

When I started planning this years wings I still had my apartment and everything was hunky dory.

Problem is, me and my ex are broken up now and he kinda stole the apartment from me but that's a whole other story for a whole other day.

So now I'm panicking bc I don't want to cancel or postpone but now I have nowhere to have it. I have a decent enough budget to rent a place but I also want to and I know that's gonna be a challenge wherever I try to go.

So here are my options:
1) rent a shore house in NJ. This wouldn't be a problem but it will also be November and I also don't know how to properly google these things
2) rent a place up in the Poconos. See #1 for problem w this
3) rent a few hotel rooms and have the main party in one while other ppl party in the other 2 rooms. Hopefully we can get some attached but idk how this works either.
4) beg my parents to have the wingsgiving portion at their place and rent a few hotel rooms for the ppl who are gonna be staying the night and stuff

barring all this ill postpone to June but Id rather drink battery acid than do that so if anybody can help me come up w a feasible option that'd be dope

CE care pls

Have you tried asking one of the party goers if they could have it at their place?

Strider102 posted...

Have you tried asking one of the party goers if they could have it at their place?

might ask my one friend but idk man it's a big ask especially post COVID ya know? I'm gonna def ask him for at least suggestions when I see him next week I'm praying maybe he just offers lmao

seduce the friend by eating wings sensually in front of him so he'll say yes

SSJ2GrimReaper posted...

seduce the friend by eating wings sensually in front of him so he'll say yes

good idea

you want us to feel bad that you might have to postpone a party

ask someone else to invite it. they will understand.

You broke up with that guy? That is awesome news, congratulations!

If they're actually your friends, one of them will host.

TheGoldenEel posted...

you want us to feel bad that you might have to postpone a party

are we really gonna whataboutism me needing advice Abt how to plan a party? Lmao touch grass my dude

krazychao5 posted...

ask someone else to invite it. they will understand.

I mean if I tossed someone 1.5k to just have maybe 20-30 ppl over w very minimal questions asked and ground rules laid I'm sure I'd get SOMEONE to do it. The real problem is I'm not a real adult so I need someone to sit down and do this with me so I don't get scammed/fuck this up.
The_Creep_2020 posted...

You broke up with that guy? That is awesome news, congratulations!

thanks man feels ok good

kbelfisBACK posted...

are we really gonna whataboutism me needing advice Abt how to plan a party? Lmao touch grass my dude

the lesson should be sometimes life happens and plans change, the reaction shouldnt be panicking and freaking out and Id rather drink battery acid than not have a party

Get some tents and go to the woods

I dont think anyone really cares about you or your life anymore.

Worried about a party yet you lost your place.

Your parents fucked up raising you, and should be ashamed.

-BrokenSpiral- posted...

Your parents fucked up raising you, and should be ashamed.

that's a bit harsh

anyway why wouldn't you just explain that you have no home and someone else needs to host if they still want to do it? just communicate

Dude literally just explain the situation. If theyre really your friends, they arent going to give a fuck that you have to reschedule for very legitimate reasons.

Jiggy101011 posted...

I dont think anyone really cares about you or your life anymore.

it's responses like this that make me wonder why I even come to ce lmao

EDIT: anyway I'm locking this bc y'all don't know how to fucking act lmao