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The_Creep_2020 07/23/22 10:31:27 AM #1:	Inspired by a comment on here. Do you believe its an expectation and a duty for a women to fulfil her husbands sexual needs? Hell, lets make that more inclusive. Do you believe that its an expectation and a duty for someone to fulfil their partners sexual needs? --- All that I am and all I'll ever be is a brain in a body. <cite>The_Creep_2020 posted [p:966778591] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Inspired by a comment on here. Do you believe its an expectation and a duty for a women to fulfil her husbands sexual needs? Hell, lets make that more inclusive. Do you believe that its an expectation and a duty for someone to fulfil their partners sexual needs? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zombified_Toast 07/23/22 10:34:49 AM #2:	I feel like where both partners would stand on sexual obligations and what not would be ironed out well before marriage comes along in a relationship. --- stant447 - So suicide is illegal. But smoking is not? I'm allowed to passively kill myself, but not actively? Transmutant - Just as long as you die I'm happy. <cite>Zombified_Toast posted [p:966778666] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>I feel like where both partners would stand on sexual obligations and what not would be ironed out well before marriage comes along in a relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KobiusBrandle_F 07/23/22 10:35:49 AM #3:	yes and husbandly duties also exist. can't be no dead weight in a marriage --- When I find myself in times of trouble, Justin Bieber comes to me. Speaking words of wisdom, what do u mean <cite>KobiusBrandle_F posted [p:966778686] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>yes and husbandly duties also exist. can't be no dead weight in a marriage </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 07/23/22 10:37:10 AM #4:	No, no one is 'obligated' to have sex with you. Though healthy relationships between spouses often involve a healthy sex life. --- Black Lives Matter. ~DYL~ (On mobile) 12-18-19 and 01-13-21: Times Donald Trump has officially been impeached. <cite>Umbreon posted [p:966778713] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>No, no one is 'obligated' to have sex with you. Though healthy relationships between spouses often involve a healthy sex life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 10:37:28 AM #5:	The_Creep_2020 posted... Do you believe that its an expectation and a duty for someone to fulfil their partners sexual needs? Yes and no. Actual "duty", no. But I feel in a healthy relationship, both parties want to satisfy the other. If that isn't happening, it is likely there is something going on, either with the individual who doesn't want to, or an issue between the two of them that is causing friction. It should be resolved whatever it is, because a sex free relationship causes serious resentment unless neither cares about sex. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966778720] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>The_Creep_2020 posted... </cite> <quote>Do you believe that its an expectation and a duty for someone to fulfil their partners sexual needs?</quote>Yes and no. Actual "duty", no. But I feel in a healthy relationship, both parties want to satisfy the other. If that isn't happening, it is likely there is something going on, either with the individual who doesn't want to, or an issue between the two of them that is causing friction. It should be resolved whatever it is, because a sex free relationship causes serious resentment unless neither cares about sex. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EmbraceOfDeath 07/23/22 10:38:21 AM #6:	Not exactly. Expectations should be set and discussed by the people in the relationship. --- No more shall man have wings to bear him to paradise. Henceforth, he shall walk. <cite>EmbraceOfDeath posted [p:966778742] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Not exactly. Expectations should be set and discussed by the people in the relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flea_Plus 07/23/22 10:39:19 AM #7:	Umbreon posted... No, no one is 'obligated' to have sex with you. If it gets to the point where someone leverages that to their advantage in a romantic partnership, that's probably a sign that the relationship is unstable, as bsp said. Because I really don't think somebody should jump into a relationship with that kind of menality. If you're unsure if you can fill your partner's sexual needs, don't date. Not hard. <cite>Flea_Plus posted [p:966778760] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted... </cite> <quote>No, no one is 'obligated' to have sex with you.</quote> If it gets to the point where someone leverages that to their advantage in a romantic partnership, that's probably a sign that the relationship is unstable, as bsp said. Because I really don't think somebody should jump into a relationship with that kind of menality. If you're unsure if you can fill your partner's sexual needs, don't date. Not hard. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flea_Plus 07/23/22 10:39:28 AM #8:	EmbraceOfDeath posted... Not exactly. Expectations should be set and discussed by the people in the relationship. This too. <cite>Flea_Plus posted [p:966778764] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>EmbraceOfDeath posted... </cite> <quote>Not exactly. Expectations should be set and discussed by the people in the relationship.</quote> This too. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alteres 07/23/22 10:41:11 AM #9:	No duty no, I did think it was a little amusing the tract you immediately took in that thread though. Ive heard more women talk like that irl than men, especially men that never get laid. --- ........the ghost in the machine... IGN: Fox, FC: 5344-2646-0982 <cite>Alteres posted [p:966778795] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>No duty no, I did think it was a little amusing the tract you immediately took in that thread though. Ive heard more women talk like that irl than men, especially men that never get laid. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Creep_2020 07/23/22 10:45:56 AM #10:	Alteres posted... No duty no, I did think it was a little amusing the tract you immediately took in that thread though. Ive heard more women talk like that irl than men, especially men that never get laid. They are more than welcome to prove me wrong, lol. --- All that I am and all I'll ever be is a brain in a body. <cite>The_Creep_2020 posted [p:966778864] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Alteres posted... </cite> <quote>No duty no, I did think it was a little amusing the tract you immediately took in that thread though. Ive heard more women talk like that irl than men, especially men that never get laid.</quote> They are more than welcome to prove me wrong, lol. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 07/23/22 10:46:29 AM #11:	Flea_Plus posted... If it gets to the point where someone leverages that to their advantage in a romantic partnership, that's probably a sign that the relationship is unstable, as bsp said. Because I really don't think somebody should jump into a relationship with that kind of menality. If you're unsure if you can fill your partner's sexual needs, don't date. Not hard. Well yeah. I also said that healthy romantic relationships tend to involve that. --- Black Lives Matter. ~DYL~ (On mobile) 12-18-19 and 01-13-21: Times Donald Trump has officially been impeached. <cite>Umbreon posted [p:966778877] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Flea_Plus posted... </cite> <quote>If it gets to the point where someone leverages that to their advantage in a romantic partnership, that's probably a sign that the relationship is unstable, as bsp said. Because I really don't think somebody should jump into a relationship with that kind of menality. If you're unsure if you can fill your partner's sexual needs, don't date. Not hard.</quote> Well yeah. I also said that healthy romantic relationships tend to involve that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GrandConjuraton 07/23/22 10:46:39 AM #12:	Umbreon posted... No, no one is 'obligated' to have sex with you. Though healthy relationships between spouses often involve a healthy sex life. --- Crown of creation, creation of shame. https://imgur.com/o21DN7r <cite>GrandConjuraton posted [p:966778879] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted... </cite> <quote>No, no one is 'obligated' to have sex with you. Though healthy relationships between spouses often involve a healthy sex life.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alteres 07/23/22 10:48:21 AM #13:	Oh I didnt say anything. They seemed angry for no real reason. --- ........the ghost in the machine... IGN: Fox, FC: 5344-2646-0982 <cite>Alteres posted [p:966778900] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Oh I didnt say anything. They seemed angry for no real reason. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SauI_Goodman 07/23/22 10:58:54 AM #15:	A real man would take care of her needs first. Sometimes even doing it with nothing in return. --- Italian, French, German. <cite>SauI_Goodman posted [p:966779078] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>A real man would take care of her needs first. Sometimes even doing it with nothing in return. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dragon239 07/23/22 11:23:38 AM #16:	Alteres posted... thread though. Ive heard more women talk like that irl than men, especially men that never get laid. Eh? Which thread/where? --- http://i.imgur.com/nkZgO.jpg <cite>Dragon239 posted [p:966779519] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Alteres posted... </cite> <quote>thread though. Ive heard more women talk like that irl than men, especially men that never get laid.</quote>Eh? Which thread/where? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrDrMan 07/23/22 11:25:33 AM #17:	No but I dont see why youd ever be with someone you dont want to have sex with. Obviously that doesnt apply if your partner isnt too worried about sex. --- Insert sig here <cite>MrDrMan posted [p:966779552] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>No but I dont see why youd ever be with someone you dont want to have sex with. Obviously that doesnt apply if your partner isnt too worried about sex. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alteres 07/23/22 11:28:09 AM #18:	I honestly dont recall, and I didnt post so I dont have it in my amp. Something with bill and Hillary tho edit I lied, I did post just earlier. The Hilary one. --- ........the ghost in the machine...* IGN: Fox, FC: 5344-2646-0982 <cite>Alteres posted [p:966779598] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>I honestly dont recall, and I didnt post so I dont have it in my amp. Something with bill and Hillary tho *edit I lied, I did post just earlier. The Hilary one. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lairen 07/23/22 11:29:27 AM #19:	If having sex is a problem i dont understand why theyre together..... --- When it rains, it pours. <cite>Lairen posted [p:966779614] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>If having sex is a problem i dont understand why theyre together..... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 07/23/22 11:31:24 AM #20:	MrDrMan posted... No but I dont see why youd ever be with someone you dont want to have sex with. Obviously that doesnt apply if your partner isnt too worried about sex. I can see falling in love with someone who can't due to some sort of physical limitations. It happens --- I don't believe in belts. There should be no ranking system for toughness. <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:966779655] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>MrDrMan posted... </cite> <quote>No but I dont see why youd ever be with someone you dont want to have sex with. Obviously that doesnt apply if your partner isnt too worried about sex.</quote>I can see falling in love with someone who can't due to some sort of physical limitations. It happens </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guns_of_Verdun 07/23/22 11:33:01 AM #21:	Lairen posted... If having sex is a problem i dont understand why theyre together..... Sometimes one person wants to have sex and the other doesn't Sometimes one person wants to do more extreme sex acts than the other Did this come up in judge judy or something like that? A husband expecting his wife to perform oral sex on him every morning --- http://i.imgur.com/VwJsmAR.gifv <cite>Guns_of_Verdun posted [p:966779682] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Lairen posted... </cite> <quote>If having sex is a problem i dont understand why theyre together.....</quote>Sometimes one person wants to have sex and the other doesn't Sometimes one person wants to do more extreme sex acts than the other Did this come up in judge judy or something like that? A husband expecting his wife to perform oral sex on him every morning </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pepys_Monster 07/23/22 11:33:45 AM #22:	Every person is different, and every relationship is different. I wouldn't marry a woman who never had sex with me. --- Ryzen 3700X \| ASUS RTX 3070 8GB \| 16GB DDR4 3200 \| Crucial MX500 2TB <cite>Pepys_Monster posted [p:966779701] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Every person is different, and every relationship is different. I wouldn't marry a woman who never had sex with me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Damn_Underscore 07/23/22 11:36:30 AM #23:	SauI_Goodman posted... A real man would take care of her needs first. Sometimes even doing it with nothing in return. Well a real woman would take care of his needs first. Sometimes even doing it with nothing in return. so I guess it works out --- She left me roses by the stairs. Surprises let me know she cares. <cite>Damn_Underscore posted [p:966779751] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>SauI_Goodman posted... </cite> <quote>A real man would take care of her needs first. Sometimes even doing it with nothing in return.</quote> Well a real woman would take care of his needs first. Sometimes even doing it with nothing in return. so I guess it works out </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The_Creep_2020 07/23/22 11:36:51 AM #25:	Pepys_Monster posted... Every person is different, and every relationship is different. I wouldn't marry a woman who never had sex with me. Good point. I guess the question would be whether a woman would also marry you? --- All that I am and all I'll ever be is a brain in a body. <cite>The_Creep_2020 posted [p:966779758] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Pepys_Monster posted... </cite> <quote>Every person is different, and every relationship is different. I wouldn't marry a woman who never had sex with me.</quote>Good point. I guess the question would be whether a woman would also marry you? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrDrMan 07/23/22 11:38:08 AM #26:	Jiek_Fafn posted... I can see falling in love with someone who can't due to some sort of physical limitations. It happens I could understand that. I was more so talking about people perfectly healthy and havent had sex in months. Like why? --- Insert sig here <cite>MrDrMan posted [p:966779787] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Jiek_Fafn posted... </cite> <quote>I can see falling in love with someone who can't due to some sort of physical limitations. It happens</quote> I could understand that. I was more so talking about people perfectly healthy and havent had sex in months. Like why? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Naysaspace 07/23/22 11:40:07 AM #27:	Childbirth, breastfeeding, stuff like that <cite>Naysaspace posted [p:966779827] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Childbirth, breastfeeding, stuff like that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pepys_Monster 07/23/22 11:41:25 AM #28:	The_Creep_2020 posted... Good point. I guess the question would be whether a woman would also marry you? There were two who wanted to. The first was an abuser who left when I stood up for myself. The second was a good woman who I lost. --- Ryzen 3700X \| ASUS RTX 3070 8GB \| 16GB DDR4 3200 \| Crucial MX500 2TB <cite>Pepys_Monster posted [p:966779851] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>The_Creep_2020 posted... </cite> <quote>Good point. I guess the question would be whether a woman would also marry you?</quote>There were two who wanted to. The first was an abuser who left when I stood up for myself. The second was a good woman who I lost. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 07/23/22 11:44:42 AM #29:	Flea_Plus posted... If you're unsure if you can fill your partner's sexual needs, don't date. Not hard. Maybe I'm not understanding what you're trying to say here, but isn't dating the whole point of finding out if you're compatible with other people? --- All posters and events depicted in this post are entirely fictitious. Any similarity to actual events or posters, living or dead, is purely coincidental. <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:966779910] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Flea_Plus posted... </cite> <quote>If you're unsure if you can fill your partner's sexual needs, don't date. Not hard.</quote>Maybe I'm not understanding what you're trying to say here, but isn't dating the whole point of finding out if you're compatible with other people? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BuckVanHammer 07/23/22 12:20:51 PM #30:	going in with a checklist seems kinda fucked. ive been monogamous with my gf for 15 years now and we have a much more organic relationship, its a dialog. i wanna do this this and this and if thats cool its cool, same with her. now if something seems off where we arent getting what we want, we just hash it out. --- Minimal, yet feature rich. https://imgur.com/bphehs8 <cite>BuckVanHammer posted [p:966780565] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>going in with a checklist seems kinda fucked. ive been monogamous with my gf for 15 years now and we have a much more organic relationship, its a dialog. i wanna do this this and this and if thats cool its cool, same with her. now if something seems off where we arent getting what we want, we just hash it out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 12:29:15 PM #31:	BuckVanHammer posted... going in with a checklist seems kinda fucked. ive been monogamous with my gf for 15 years now and we have a much more organic relationship, its a dialog. i wanna do this this and this and if thats cool its cool, same with her. now if something seems off where we arent getting what we want, we just hash it out. Not sure what you are responding to. No one is talking about checklists --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966780719] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>BuckVanHammer posted... </cite> <quote>going in with a checklist seems kinda fucked. ive been monogamous with my gf for 15 years now and we have a much more organic relationship, its a dialog. i wanna do this this and this and if thats cool its cool, same with her. now if something seems off where we arent getting what we want, we just hash it out.</quote>Not sure what you are responding to. No one is talking about checklists </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BuckVanHammer 07/23/22 12:31:02 PM #32:	bsp77 posted... Not sure what you are responding to. No one is talking about checklists whats a list of expectations? --- Minimal, yet feature rich. https://imgur.com/bphehs8 <cite>BuckVanHammer posted [p:966780754] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>Not sure what you are responding to. No one is talking about checklists</quote>whats a list of expectations? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Billyionaire 07/23/22 12:32:21 PM #33:	The Bible says it is a wife's place to be warm of heart and meek of spirit, as well as to remain faithful. So yes, I do believe a woman has certain "duties" in a relationship. --- $ex <cite>Billyionaire posted [p:966780774] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>The Bible says it is a wife's place to be warm of heart and meek of spirit, as well as to remain faithful. So yes, I do believe a woman has certain "duties" in a relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 12:45:37 PM #34:	BuckVanHammer posted... whats a list of expectations? No one said "list". Simply is there an expectation of sex in a relationship. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966781000] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>BuckVanHammer posted... </cite> <quote>whats a list of expectations?</quote>No one said "list". Simply is there an expectation of sex in a relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 12:46:14 PM #35:	Billyionaire posted... The Bible says it is a wife's place to be warm of heart and meek of spirit, as well as to remain faithful. So yes, I do believe a woman has certain "duties" in a relationship. Meek of spirit? Shut the fuck up --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966781011] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Billyionaire posted... </cite> <quote>The Bible says it is a wife's place to be warm of heart and meek of spirit, as well as to remain faithful. So yes, I do believe a woman has certain "duties" in a relationship.</quote>Meek of spirit? Shut the fuck up </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BuckVanHammer 07/23/22 12:49:36 PM #36:	bsp77 posted... No one said "list". Simply is there an expectation of sex in a relationship. ah i see sex and relationships are super simple without any kind of naunce to you still...gotcha. --- Minimal, yet feature rich. https://imgur.com/bphehs8 <cite>BuckVanHammer posted [p:966781058] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>No one said "list". Simply is there an expectation of sex in a relationship.</quote>ah i see sex and relationships are super simple without any kind of naunce to you still...gotcha. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kimimaro 07/23/22 12:50:31 PM #37:	There are reasonable things to expect in a relationship, and not getting those expectations fulfilled can be grounds for a termination of the relationship if any compromise or understanding is not possible. Calling them duties is a bit overboard, though. <cite>Kimimaro posted [p:966781075] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>There are reasonable things to expect in a relationship, and not getting those expectations fulfilled can be grounds for a termination of the relationship if any compromise or understanding is not possible. Calling them duties is a bit overboard, though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 1:00:02 PM #38:	BuckVanHammer posted... ah i see sex and relationships are super simple without any kind of naunce to you still...gotcha. Huh? I don't think either is simple. And I wasn't trying to start an argument. I just didn't think the thread was about a list of sexual needs, but more about when one person doesn't "put out" so to speak. I was married for 16 years and it did reach the point where she never wanted sex and it put a strain in the relationship. Or maybe the strain was there first? Regardless, I have had a much healthier sex life since the divorce and I know that communication about needs, sexual and non sexual, is paramount. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966781222] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>BuckVanHammer posted... </cite> <quote>ah i see sex and relationships are super simple without any kind of naunce to you still...gotcha.</quote>Huh? I don't think either is simple. And I wasn't trying to start an argument. I just didn't think the thread was about a list of sexual needs, but more about when one person doesn't "put out" so to speak. I was married for 16 years and it did reach the point where she never wanted sex and it put a strain in the relationship. Or maybe the strain was there first? Regardless, I have had a much healthier sex life since the divorce and I know that communication about needs, sexual and non sexual, is paramount. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BuckVanHammer 07/23/22 1:08:18 PM #39:	bsp77 posted... Huh? I don't think either is simple. And I wasn't trying to start an argument. I just didn't think the thread was about a list of sexual needs, but more about when one person doesn't "put out" so to speak. I was married for 16 years and it did reach the point where she never wanted sex and it put a strain in the relationship. Or maybe the strain was there first? Regardless, I have had a much healthier sex life since the divorce and I know that communication about needs, sexual and non sexual, is paramount. going into a relationship with a rigid set of expectations like a checklist seems wack was all i was getting at, not trying to get pissy but you seemed to be hung up on a nonpoint. --- Minimal, yet feature rich. https://imgur.com/bphehs8 <cite>BuckVanHammer posted [p:966781365] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>Huh? I don't think either is simple. And I wasn't trying to start an argument. I just didn't think the thread was about a list of sexual needs, but more about when one person doesn't "put out" so to speak. I was married for 16 years and it did reach the point where she never wanted sex and it put a strain in the relationship. Or maybe the strain was there first? Regardless, I have had a much healthier sex life since the divorce and I know that communication about needs, sexual and non sexual, is paramount.</quote>going into a relationship with a rigid set of expectations like a checklist seems wack was all i was getting at, not trying to get pissy but you seemed to be hung up on a nonpoint. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 1:12:33 PM #40:	BuckVanHammer posted... going into a relationship with a rigid set of expectations like a checklist seems wack was all i was getting at, not trying to get pissy but you seemed to be hung up on a nonpoint. I agree with you. I only wasn't sure who expressed otherwise. You seemed like you are arguing but there was no one you were arguing with. You were literally the first person to say checklist or even list. Maybe I missed a post that implied it, but it doesn't matter. One of us had some level of misunderstanding and we should just move on. We probably mostly agree here :) --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966781444] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>BuckVanHammer posted... </cite> <quote>going into a relationship with a rigid set of expectations like a checklist seems wack was all i was getting at, not trying to get pissy but you seemed to be hung up on a nonpoint.</quote>I agree with you. I only wasn't sure who expressed otherwise. You seemed like you are arguing but there was no one you were arguing with. You were literally the first person to say checklist or even list. Maybe I missed a post that implied it, but it doesn't matter. One of us had some level of misunderstanding and we should just move on. We probably mostly agree here :) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BuckVanHammer 07/23/22 1:19:07 PM #41:	bsp77 posted... I agree with you. I only wasn't sure who expressed otherwise. You seemed like you are arguing but there was no one you were arguing with. You were literally the first person to say checklist or even list. Maybe I missed a post that implied it, but it doesn't matter. One of us had some level of misunderstanding and we should just move on. We probably mostly agree here :) sure. i go a bit deeper with the checklist thing... a dudes expectations may be he wants sex every night, wants butt stuff, wont do oral, expects oral...etc.. maybe thats reasonable to some one, but should he get pissy if all that isnt satisfied? if youre going in with that mindset, shit most likely isnt going to work. was just getting at that the expectations should be a dialog with each other and organic, right. --- Minimal, yet feature rich. https://imgur.com/bphehs8 <cite>BuckVanHammer posted [p:966781565] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>I agree with you. I only wasn't sure who expressed otherwise. You seemed like you are arguing but there was no one you were arguing with. You were literally the first person to say checklist or even list. Maybe I missed a post that implied it, but it doesn't matter. One of us had some level of misunderstanding and we should just move on. We probably mostly agree here :)</quote>sure. i go a bit deeper with the checklist thing... a dudes expectations may be he wants sex every night, wants butt stuff, wont do oral, expects oral...etc.. maybe thats reasonable to some one, but should he get pissy if all that isnt satisfied? if youre going in with that mindset, shit most likely isnt going to work. was just getting at that the expectations should be a dialog with each other and organic, right. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 1:25:27 PM #42:	BuckVanHammer posted... sure. i go a bit deeper with the checklist thing... a dudes expectations may be he wants sex every night, wants butt stuff, wont do oral, expects oral...etc.. maybe thats reasonable to some one, but should he get pissy if all that isnt satisfied? if youre going in with that mindset, shit most likely isnt going to work. was just getting at that the expectations should be a dialog with each other and organic, right. Now this is a good convo! Sorry if I derailed before. I don't know if someone should go in with a list of sexual needs that must be met. But I also think that the modern mindset of GGG (good, giving, game) is healthy. Being able to push out of one's comfort zone to satisfy the other can be healthy, but on the other hand, certain boundaries can also be healthy. My current gf was a virgin when we started dating (unbeknownst to me), and her openness to try things grew immensely over the first year we were together. There are only a couple things she is still hesitant about, but they are things that a lot of women are hesitant about. So this maybe backs up what you said, in that upfront expectations would have been too much, but through the course of the relationship and with communication, almost any expectations I might have had have now been met. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966781691] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>BuckVanHammer posted... </cite> <quote>sure. i go a bit deeper with the checklist thing... a dudes expectations may be he wants sex every night, wants butt stuff, wont do oral, expects oral...etc.. maybe thats reasonable to some one, but should he get pissy if all that isnt satisfied? if youre going in with that mindset, shit most likely isnt going to work. was just getting at that the expectations should be a dialog with each other and organic, right.</quote>Now this is a good convo! Sorry if I derailed before. I don't know if someone should go in with a list of sexual needs that must be met. But I also think that the modern mindset of GGG (good, giving, game) is healthy. Being able to push out of one's comfort zone to satisfy the other can be healthy, but on the other hand, certain boundaries can also be healthy. My current gf was a virgin when we started dating (unbeknownst to me), and her openness to try things grew immensely over the first year we were together. There are only a couple things she is still hesitant about, but they are things that a lot of women are hesitant about. So this maybe backs up what you said, in that upfront expectations would have been too much, but through the course of the relationship and with communication, almost any expectations I might have had have now been met. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AirFresh 07/23/22 1:26:11 PM #43:	God no lol That shit is like a job --- Don't Stress, Become #Fresh <cite>AirFresh posted [p:966781709] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>God no lol That shit is like a job </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nerevarine791 07/23/22 1:26:42 PM #44:	Umbreon posted... No, no one is 'obligated' to have sex with you. Though healthy relationships between spouses often involve a healthy sex life. This, and it's important to communicate about when your desires aren't being met or have changed or lowered, from both partners. --- The artist formerly known as RebelElite791 <cite>Nerevarine791 posted [p:966781718] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted... </cite> <quote>No, no one is 'obligated' to have sex with you. Though healthy relationships between spouses often involve a healthy sex life.</quote>This, and it's important to communicate about when your desires aren't being met or have changed or lowered, from both partners. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
divot1338 07/23/22 3:06:26 PM #45:	Wifely dooty --- Moustache twirling villian https://i.imgur.com/U3lt3H4.jpg- Kerbey <cite>divot1338 posted [p:966783727] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Wifely dooty </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Priere 07/23/22 3:07:57 PM #46:	Don't get married and you don't have to worry about being stuck in a sexless marriage for the rest of your life. --- https://imgur.com/iQep35u https://i.imgur.com/PmX8smn.gif https://i.imgur.com/mwTy0iF.gif https://i.imgur.com/FCER80e.gif <cite>Priere posted [p:966783764] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Don't get married and you don't have to worry about being stuck in a sexless marriage for the rest of your life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hoodroar 07/23/22 3:34:21 PM #47:	No, that's misogynistic. --- sigless user logic <cite>Hoodroar posted [p:966784287] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>No, that's misogynistic.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Michael_Booth 07/23/22 3:45:41 PM #48:	My wife expects me to worship at her altar once a day, and twice on Sundays. <cite>Michael_Booth posted [p:966784521] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>My wife expects me to worship at her altar once a day, and twice on Sundays. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Billyionaire 07/23/22 4:09:53 PM #49:	bsp77 posted... Meek of spirit? Shut the fuck up Go read some scripture kid. --- $ex <cite>Billyionaire posted [p:966785014] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>Meek of spirit? Shut the fuck up</quote>Go read some scripture kid. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
josifrees 07/23/22 4:10:49 PM #50:	Hmmm --- Quit Crying <cite>josifrees posted [p:966785036] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>Hmmm </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
josifrees 07/23/22 4:11:45 PM #51:	imo this should can only be called out if they were fucking before they got married and then they stop fucking after they get married. --- Quit Crying <cite>josifrees posted [p:966785062] in Do you bel... [t:80103983]...</cite> <quote>imo this should can only be called out if they were fucking before they got married and then they stop fucking after they get married. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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