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Intro2Logic
07/08/22 5:07:35 PM
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About how often do your first dates lead to second dates? I'm at 5/11 so far, which feels like a good ratio to me, but idk.

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TheBrainbuster
07/08/22 5:08:13 PM
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i'd say 1 in 5.

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Intro2Logic
07/08/22 5:27:45 PM
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bump

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Intro2Logic
07/08/22 6:30:53 PM
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:|

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NoxObscuras
07/08/22 6:44:09 PM
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100%. But I've only gone on first dates with 2 women so far lol. Have another 1st date coming up this weekend. She's been extremely interested, so that should also lead to a second date, unless I royally fuck up during the date.

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bsp77
07/08/22 6:46:41 PM
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About 50% (like 20 out of 40). And about 80% of those I then ended up sleeping with.

Also, most of the time I was the one not interested in a second date.

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TheBrainbuster
07/08/22 11:02:25 PM
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bsp77 posted...
About 50% (like 20 out of 40). And about 80% of those I then ended up sleeping with.

Also, most of the time I was the one not interested in a second date.

^ this guy is a lot more successful than me.

I literally had one 1st date where I messaged the girl on OKCupid afterwards "Did you make it home okay?" and she Unmatched me without a word.

I was like holy shit that's harsh...hurt my feelings a bit honestly.

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Nerevar791
07/08/22 11:03:41 PM
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Haven't been on a date in a few months because I've been busy with work and such, but more often than not there's a second. 2nd to 3rd is the bigger cutoff ime.

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bsp77
07/08/22 11:04:45 PM
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TheBrainbuster posted...
^ this guy is a lot more successful than me.

I literally had one 1st date where I messaged the girl on OKCupid afterwards "Did you make it home okay?" and she Unmatched me without a word.

I was like holy shit that's harsh...hurt my feelings a bit honestly.
To be fair, I have had a couple variations of that happen to me. It's just a numbers game. Keep at it and you'll get there.

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TheBrainbuster
07/08/22 11:05:25 PM
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bsp77 posted...
To be fair, I have had a couple variations of that happen to me. It's just a numbers game. Keep at it and you'll get there.

I have a girlfriend now. First date was last July - official since November

Met her on OKCupid, so I mean -- yup

Also it's worth mentioning I lost my virginity off OKCupid in 2013.

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bsp77
07/08/22 11:06:01 PM
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TheBrainbuster posted...
I have a girlfriend now. First date was last July - official since November

Met her on OKCupid, so I mean -- yup

Also it's worth mentioning I lost my virginity off OKCupid in 2013.
Oh sweet! Nevermind then :)

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FelineCyborg
07/08/22 11:06:13 PM
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I either never make it past a 1st date or we fall in love instantly and things get weeeeird

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haloiscoolisbak
07/08/22 11:09:50 PM
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I think from 9 girls I've met on dating apps, 6 had a second date

And from those 6 only 3 lead to something serious, and from those 3 there was only 1 I really could see a long future with

I've kind of gone for hotter girls the more confident I've got, and so that's lead to a bit of hurt on my end. The first 5-6 was always me trying to convince myself I could be with someone I just wasn't that into and it wasn't much fun

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Intro2Logic
07/09/22 10:17:46 AM
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Bump for the morning crowd

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angeleyes94
07/09/22 10:18:36 AM
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1 in 20

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Damn_Underscore
07/09/22 10:19:22 AM
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A question for fish who are actively walking


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coolpal23
07/09/22 10:23:38 AM
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Met my current gf at an anime convention last may
talked a lot, then hung out at a mall about 2 weeks later
a week after that we went on a date, and started dating immediately

So after like 8 years I met her and we immediately hit it off

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angeleyes94
07/09/22 10:35:55 AM
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coolpal23 posted...
Met my current gf at an anime convention last may
talked a lot, then hung out at a mall about 2 weeks later
a week after that we went on a date, and started dating immediately

So after like 8 years I met her and we immediately hit it off


How's her ass?

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coolpal23
07/09/22 10:39:30 AM
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angeleyes94 posted...
How's her ass?
Very nice ngl

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angeleyes94
07/09/22 10:42:47 AM
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coolpal23 posted...

Very nice ngl


Noice you dirty dog.

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Ruvan22
07/09/22 10:43:30 AM
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coolpal23 posted...
Very nice ngl

Did you compliment it by comparing it an anime character?
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coolpal23
07/09/22 10:51:58 AM
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Ruvan22 posted...
Did you compliment it by comparing it an anime character?
Well she cosplayed as Toga, and Raven (from TT)
So yes I did lol

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Arcanine2009
07/09/22 10:56:12 AM
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bsp77 posted...
About 50% (like 20 out of 40). And about 80% of those I then ended up sleeping with.

Also, most of the time I was the one not interested in a second date.
what date/meet up did you usually end up sleeping with them?

Anyway, i got a first date this afternoon...

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bsp77
07/09/22 11:08:36 AM
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Arcanine2009 posted...
what date/meet up did you usually end up sleeping with them?

Anyway, i got a first date this afternoon...
Bumble, OK Cupid and Tinder, in that order

Good luck!

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Slowking199
07/09/22 7:26:20 PM
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I wouldn't know. I'm 30 and have never been on a date before.
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