Current Events > AITA if I left my ex and one of the main reason was his weight?

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epik_fail1 06/16/22 2:12:03 PM #1:	Well? YTA NTA Neutral Well? - Results (33 votes) YTA 21.21% (7 votes) 7 NTA 66.67% (22 votes) 22 Neutral 12.12% (4 votes) 4 So am I an asshole if I dumped my ex and one of the main reasons(there was plenty of others though) was his weight? He gained about 100 pounds. Snored atrociously during the night and my furnitures litterally got destroyed under his weight. --- Dragaux for smash! <cite>epik_fail1 posted [p:965862251] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote> Well? YTA NTA Neutral Vote View Results Well? - Results (33 votes) YTA 21.21% (7 votes) 7 NTA 66.67% (22 votes) 22 Neutral 12.12% (4 votes) 4 Show Voting Form function poll_vote() { var vote_option = $("input[name='poll_vote']:checked").val(); if(!vote_option) return; $.ajax({ type: 'POST', url: '/ajax/forum_poll_vote', data: { option: vote_option, board: '400', topic: '80059896', message: '0', key: '1571cdaf' }, success: function(response) { if(response.error) { alert(response.error); } else { $("#poll_vote").hide(); $("#poll_results").html(response.html).show(); } } }); } function view_results_legacy() { $("#poll_vote").hide(); $("#poll_results").show(); } function hide_results_legacy() { $("#poll_results").hide(); $("#poll_vote").show(); } So am I an asshole if I dumped my ex and one of the main reasons(there was plenty of others though) was his weight? He gained about 100 pounds. Snored atrociously during the night and my furnitures litterally got destroyed under his weight.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MC_BatCommander 06/16/22 2:14:40 PM #2:	Nothing wrong with leaving someone who's not willing to take care of themselves. 100 pounds is significant and dangerous weight gain --- The Legend is True! <cite>MC_BatCommander posted [p:965862319] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>Nothing wrong with leaving someone who's not willing to take care of themselves. 100 pounds is significant and dangerous weight gain </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SHRlKE 06/16/22 2:16:52 PM #3:	Did you have a conversation with him before about it being an issue? If you did and he didnt give a shit then fair enough. You dont wanna be responsible for looking after someone in a few years when they start having major health issues. <cite>SHRlKE posted [p:965862371] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>Did you have a conversation with him before about it being an issue? If you did and he didnt give a shit then fair enough. You dont wanna be responsible for looking after someone in a few years when they start having major health issues. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DespondentDeity 06/16/22 2:17:16 PM #4:	No, how can you really love someone who doesnt love their self? --- SHE: In black of night, a die is cast, heavens overflow with stars HER: All is light, all is ash, you must become just as you are <cite>DespondentDeity posted [p:965862380] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>No, how can you really love someone who doesnt love their self? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
epik_fail1 06/16/22 2:20:09 PM #5:	SHRlKE posted... Did you have a conversation with him before about it being an issue? If you did and he didnt give a shit then fair enough. You dont wanna be responsible for looking after someone in a few years when they start having major health issues. I did. He promised me to work out, but he drank a lot and got mad at me when I asked him to go to the gym at the hour he litterally promised me to be ready --- Dragaux for smash! <cite>epik_fail1 posted [p:965862438] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>SHRlKE posted...</cite> <quote>Did you have a conversation with him before about it being an issue? If you did and he didnt give a shit then fair enough. You dont wanna be responsible for looking after someone in a few years when they start having major health issues. </quote> I did. He promised me to work out, but he drank a lot and got mad at me when I asked him to go to the gym at the hour he litterally promised me to be ready</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
epik_fail1 06/16/22 4:40:24 PM #6:	Bump --- Dragaux for smash! <cite>epik_fail1 posted [p:965866077] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>Bump</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 06/16/22 4:42:24 PM #7:	epik_fail1 posted... I did. He promised me to work out, but he drank a lot and got mad at me when I asked him to go to the gym at the hour he litterally promised me to be ready This sounds exactly the same as my ex --- Currently playing: I'm taking a gaming break <cite>bsp77 posted [p:965866145] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>epik_fail1 posted... </cite> <quote>I did. He promised me to work out, but he drank a lot and got mad at me when I asked him to go to the gym at the hour he litterally promised me to be ready</quote>This sounds exactly the same as my ex </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
K181 06/16/22 4:42:46 PM #8:	No. Whether or not you're physically attracted to someone is a perfectly rational reason to be in a relationship or not, with the caveat that the way you break up with someone could make you an asshole regardless of reason. --- Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. <cite>K181 posted [p:965866160] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>No. Whether or not you're physically attracted to someone is a perfectly rational reason to be in a relationship or not, with the caveat that the way you break up with someone could make you an asshole regardless of reason. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lokison 06/16/22 4:42:52 PM #9:	Nope. If you're not attracted to him anymore, you are under no obligation to stay with that person. --- Word from the wise: Don't run in the shower. <cite>Lokison posted [p:965866166] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>Nope. If you're not attracted to him anymore, you are under no obligation to stay with that person. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pauIie 06/16/22 4:44:38 PM #10:	in this case, nope. --- http://i.imgur.com/O5APL.jpg http://www.last.fm/user/jaeganja <cite>pauIie posted [p:965866220] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>in this case, nope. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 06/16/22 4:45:05 PM #11:	Typically that situation needs some sort of therapist involvement to get actual results, but there's only so much you can do if they resist any change. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:965866240] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>Typically that situation needs some sort of therapist involvement to get actual results, but there's only so much you can do if they resist any change. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TerraSeeker 06/16/22 4:50:29 PM #12:	I wish you would use actual words instead of letters, but there's nothing wrong with leaving someone who chooses not to take care of themselves. --- Your words are as empty as your soul <cite>TerraSeeker posted [p:965866402] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>I wish you would use actual words instead of letters, but there's nothing wrong with leaving someone who chooses not to take care of themselves. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 06/16/22 4:51:02 PM #13:	TerraSeeker posted... I wish you would use actual words instead of letters. ____ ___ ____ __. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:965866417] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>TerraSeeker posted... </cite> <quote>I wish you would use actual words instead of letters.</quote> ____ ___ ____ __. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DespondentDeity 06/16/22 4:55:13 PM #14:	TerraSeeker posted... I wish you would use actual words instead of letters, but there's nothing wrong with leaving someone who chooses not to take care of themselves. You can just say NTA you goon --- SHE: In black of night, a die is cast, heavens overflow with stars HER: All is light, all is ash, you must become just as you are <cite>DespondentDeity posted [p:965866536] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>TerraSeeker posted... </cite> <quote>I wish you would use actual words instead of letters, but there's nothing wrong with leaving someone who chooses not to take care of themselves.</quote> You can just say NTA you goon </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSJPurple 06/16/22 5:16:18 PM #15:	Despite what the internet might have you believe you are allowed to have preferences and standards You are not obligated to be in a committed relationship for any reason. If someone being obese doesnt do it for you then thats just how it is. Anyone hating on you for that should mind their business. --- Gray/Grey <cite>SSJPurple posted [p:965867091] in AITA if I ... [t:80059896]...</cite> <quote>Despite what the internet might have you believe you are allowed to have preferences and standards You are not obligated to be in a committed relationship for any reason. If someone being obese doesnt do it for you then thats just how it is. Anyone hating on you for that should mind their business. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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