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Slayerblade11
05/30/22 3:33:13 PM
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I shower once a week if that
have rotten teeth
out of shape
wear shitty clothes
resent women but still lust for them
have no job

If I was 6 foot instead of 5'7 woman would date me

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MedeaLysistrata
05/30/22 3:34:23 PM
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I'd probably date you

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LinkDaLunatic
05/30/22 3:34:36 PM
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a lot of dudes legitimately think like this and it's so fucking weird
"absolutely zero women want to be with me. maybe it's because i'm a disgusting slob.
no... it's the women who are to blame."
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CRON
05/30/22 3:37:07 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

"I don't get it! I'm nice! What more could they ask for?'
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MedeaLysistrata
05/30/22 3:43:11 PM
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If you don't want me at my worst...

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LinkDaLunatic
05/30/22 3:50:05 PM
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CRON posted...
"I don't get it! I'm nice! What more could they ask for?'
right? if your only selling point is something that should just be a given... then you already fucked up
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RealityDose
05/30/22 3:53:02 PM
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job, showering more often (and having clean clothes) and not hating women would help

TBQH, showering + clean clothes + not hating women + being a bare decent human being would just get you drowning in women actually giving you a chance

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CrimsonAngel
05/30/22 3:53:35 PM
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"Ugh she's probably getting fucked by Chad right now"

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Arcanine2009
05/30/22 3:56:24 PM
#10:


Slayerblade11 posted...
I shower once a week if that
have rotten teeth
out of shape
wear shitty clothes
resent women but still lust for them
have no job
If I was 6 foot instead of 5'7 woman would date me
so why don't you stop self pitying yourself and fix yourself?

-shower everyday
-brush your teeth and practice good hygiene
eat healthy and exercise. Walk a few miles everyday, lift weights 3-4x a week and go running
-buy new clothes and good ones
-treat women like humans and know that you are not entitled to them
-apply for a job/go back to school.

5'7" is fine. Change your attitude first and foremost into a positive one and improve yourself everyday.

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Arcanine2009
05/30/22 3:57:04 PM
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RealityDose posted...
job, showering more often (and having clean clothes) and not hating women would help

TBQH, showering + clean clothes + not hating women + being a bare decent human being would just get you drowning in women actually giving you a chance
nah he needs to change his attitude and talk to them without being a creep too

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Tyranthraxus
05/30/22 4:01:53 PM
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Woosh

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1337eye4n00bguy
05/30/22 4:15:38 PM
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Maybe TC was being facetious but theres probably quite a few men here who would still benefit from Arcanines post. Like that guy who got suspended in Tyranthraxuss topic earlier lol

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Background_Guy
05/30/22 4:39:19 PM
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Arcanine2009 posted...
so why don't you stop self pitying yourself and fix yourself?

-shower everyday
-brush your teeth and practice good hygiene
eat healthy and exercise. Walk a few miles everyday, lift weights 3-4x a week and go running
-buy new clothes and good ones
-treat women like humans and know that you are not entitled to them
-apply for a job/go back to school.

5'7" is fine. Change your attitude first and foremost into a positive one and improve yourself everyday.
He'd still be a manlet though lol
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Slayerblade11
05/30/22 4:42:52 PM
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Background_Guy posted...
He'd still be a manlet though lol

Exactly. Might as well lay down and rot. Face and height is all that matters
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HovaRex
05/30/22 4:45:51 PM
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I don't really understand the online dating thing, never used one of those apps. But like is it really that hard to go out with a group of your friends and meet someone socially?

Every date I ever went on was from meeting chick's at a bar, or asking out a server/bartender at a restaurant.

I literally used to use the same line verbatim. "Hey I've had a good time talking to you tonight, I think you're really pretty. Would you wanna go get dinner with me?"

Worked 99% of the time, only time it didn't is when I intentionally asked out my exes best friend to piss her off. (I was immature and struggling with the breakup.)

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Solution_45
05/30/22 4:47:51 PM
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Slayerblade11 posted...
Exactly. Might as well lay down and rot. Face and height is all that matters

and the size of your wallet
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HovaRex
05/30/22 4:57:12 PM
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I stole it from one of my female friends at the time. She was basically bitching one night about how that's how she'd want to be asked out. And I was just like no way that works...and then it proved to be very effective lol

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HovaRex
05/30/22 5:10:38 PM
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Yeah, but it also takes confidence to message a girl and ask her out etc. It's not that much different in person imo, if anything it's way more forgiving because a girl isn't gonna micro analyze all your responses. The informality of being in a social setting helps ease tension on both sides imo.

Also, it's worth noting I was doing this in a college town where there was something like 4 girls for every guy at the University.

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1337eye4n00bguy
05/30/22 5:26:18 PM
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If someone expresses their attraction in a straightforward and respectful way, and theyre making it easy to understand and engage with their intentions, do you not also think any possible rejection would be straightforward and respectful? When youre in a physical space with someone, it doesnt make as much sense to be suspicious of their character, because they are undeniably real and you can pick up the physical cues from their body language and facial expressions.

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HovaRex
05/30/22 6:05:19 PM
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1337eye4n00bguy posted...
If someone expresses their attraction in a straightforward and respectful way, and theyre making it easy to understand and engage with their intentions, do you not also think any possible rejection would be straightforward and respectful? When youre in a physical space with someone, it doesnt make as much sense to be suspicious of their character, because they are undeniably real and you can pick up the physical cues from their body language and facial expressions.

This is more or less my feelings on the issue. I never experienced a rejection that was anything like my fears were. Never was a girl like "ew no." The worst I got was just your typical "I have a bf" "I'm not interested in dating rn" Which are super mild, and didn't make me feel down or dejected.

I think public settings are a better alternative for some guys. It's just a less pressure scenario like people said. Also the more you expose yourself to the socialization and possible rejection of finding a date in public the easier it gets.

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rexcrk
05/30/22 6:12:16 PM
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Slayerblade11 posted...
I shower once a week if that
have rotten teeth
out of shape
wear shitty clothes
resent women but still lust for them
have no job

If I was 6 foot instead of 5'7 woman would date me


I refuse to believe either that:

1) This is real

or

2) That if it is real, that you dont understand why people wouldnt be attracted to you and how easy some of those are to fix.

But this is probably not real and youre just trying to get attention, so, good job.



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Living-Legendx8
05/30/22 6:14:28 PM
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LinkDaLunatic posted...
right? if your only selling point is something that should just be a given... then you already fucked up
Also a good portion of the people who are self proclaimed nice are probably actually assholes
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Fobby
05/30/22 6:15:19 PM
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Hearing someone use the word normality is really nice
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Billyionaire
05/30/22 6:18:41 PM
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how to get woman sex?

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Tyranthraxus
05/30/22 7:29:37 PM
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Fobby posted...
Hearing someone use the word normality is really nice

I'm imagining the most boring mortal Kombat game ever now.

Like paramedics show up to take care of the dude you just beat up and you have to go to court and plead self defense and then the game just ends.

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LinkDaLunatic
05/30/22 9:20:22 PM
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Living-Legendx8 posted...
Also a good portion of the people who are self proclaimed nice are probably actually assholes
Doing nice things for no reason = kindness. Doing nice things for personal gain = manipulation.
so many dudes do not understand the difference. a guy who is nice to someone and does nice things for them hoping they will get to fuck them is a manipulator. straight up.
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bsp77
05/30/22 9:21:34 PM
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LinkDaLunatic posted...
Doing nice things for no reason = kindness. Doing nice things for personal gain = manipulation.
so many dudes do not understand the difference. a guy who is nice to someone and does nice things for them hoping they will get to fuck them is a manipulator. straight up.
Yep, "nice guys" are terrible

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Shablagoo
05/30/22 9:23:07 PM
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OP made me lol, nicely written

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Background_Guy
05/30/22 9:24:16 PM
#37:


so why don't you stop self pitying yourself and fix yourself?

-Watch Morbius
-Watch Morbius everyday
-Work out like Morbius
-Buy clothes like Morbius
-Treat women like Morbius
-Go to school to get a degree in Morbing
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1337eye4n00bguy
05/30/22 9:25:07 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Yep, "nice guys" are terrible

they keep being nice as long as we dont set boundaries, disagree with them, expressing any disaffection/disapproval (no matter how minor), or step off the eggshells in any other way.

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Background_Guy
05/30/22 9:28:50 PM
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Bruh you people are recycling 2013 "nice guy" discourse like you came up with it all by yourselves. We all read the tumblr blogs, this isn't new information to anyone here
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Fobby
05/30/22 9:31:01 PM
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Tyranthraxus posted...
I'm imagining the most boring mortal Kombat game ever now.

Like paramedics show up to take care of the dude you just beat up and you have to go to court and plead self defense and then the game just ends.
Lmao watching a movie like that with the original movie's cast would be amazing
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bsp77
05/30/22 9:35:38 PM
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Background_Guy posted...
Bruh you people are recycling 2013 "nice guy" discourse like you came up with it all by yourselves. We all read the tumblr blogs, this isn't new information to anyone here
But it still happens and the guys who act that way still complain about how women only like assholes not realizing the hypocrisy

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LinkDaLunatic
05/30/22 9:35:53 PM
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Background_Guy posted...
Bruh you people are recycling 2013 "nice guy" discourse like you came up with it all by yourselves. We all read the tumblr blogs, this isn't new information to anyone here
said the dude who just posted all that cringe about morbing like that meme's not already old and tired af
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Background_Guy
05/30/22 9:37:48 PM
#43:


LinkDaLunatic posted...
said the dude who just posted all that cringe about morbing like that meme's not already old and tired af
Broseph I'm new and hip and 2022 you're old and busted I bet you still do the Harlem Shake
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CobraGT
05/30/22 9:39:39 PM
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MedeaLysistrata posted...
If you don't want me at my worst...

Point. However each side is scoring it differently.

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Cobra1010
05/30/22 9:47:36 PM
#45:


You definitely need a good job. Majority of women don't love you for what you are alone.

There are ones willing to be with you through thick and thin. But they are rare these days.


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GS4Life
05/30/22 9:49:37 PM
#46:


I feel ya even when I just got through saying in another topic when I was younger I was working out a lot, wasn't balding nearly as much as I am now and still got nothing but rejections and disinterest from girls.

Some of us guys just don't have the it factor


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Punished_Blinx
05/30/22 9:53:36 PM
#47:


HovaRex posted...
This is more or less my feelings on the issue. I never experienced a rejection that was anything like my fears were. Never was a girl like "ew no." The worst I got was just your typical "I have a bf" "I'm not interested in dating rn" Which are super mild, and didn't make me feel down or dejected.

I think public settings are a better alternative for some guys. It's just a less pressure scenario like people said. Also the more you expose yourself to the socialization and possible rejection of finding a date in public the easier it gets.

Keep in mind that a chunk of people here don't go out and socialize at all.

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cuttin_in_farm
05/30/22 10:01:06 PM
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I feel this topic is trying to pretend that a large portion of guys dont have bad lick in dating. And that its not to do with being fake nice or slobs.

Like, people are increasingly depressed. And the addition of online dating and social media makes it to where the competition dudes have to compete with is higher.

Like, add in that some guys dont have friends, and what are they to do, really?

I just feel its lazy to go the Well, have yall tried not being a fake nice guy route.

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