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Master Kazuya
05/27/22 7:43:38 PM
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What's


We had plans today but she wasn't sure if she could so she had to play it by ear. We chatted this morning, I asked 4 hours ago if she's free to hang today and nothing yet. I'm leaning towards get drunk but idk. She should tell me instead of me waiting on my hands and knees for her response.

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AloneIBreak
05/27/22 7:53:02 PM
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Get drunk and if she responds say sorry I made other plans because you didnt fucking respond, except really the other plans are just you drinking alone.

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R1masher
05/27/22 7:56:43 PM
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She sounds perfect, you should marry her

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Master Kazuya
05/27/22 7:59:41 PM
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AloneIBreak posted...
Get drunk and if she responds say sorry I made other plans because you didnt fucking respond, except really the other plans are just you drinking alone.

I jive with this. Tho idk if I should say I made other plans, I kinda just wanna say "I'm zooted, can't really hang" if she does end up responding.

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MrDrMan
05/27/22 8:00:49 PM
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Just have some drinks and if she hits you later you can still hang with her. You dont want to seem salty about it. Basically show her life goes on with or without her. Women like that kind of stuff.

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Master Kazuya
05/27/22 8:08:21 PM
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MrDrMan posted...
Basically show her life goes on with or without her.

I think this is one of the hardest things for me personally. I feel like either I'm committed to her or I'm not, either she's what I wanna think about or I don't wanna think about her. Would probably help to be less black and white but it's hard.

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Master Kazuya
05/27/22 8:34:45 PM
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The thing I don't get is, what if tomorrow she hits me up and just says "Hey"? Like if she just straight up ignores me asking to hang but still wants to talk. Is it toxic if I keep going? Should I call her out on that too? Think nothing of it?

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MrDrMan
05/27/22 11:07:24 PM
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Master Kazuya posted...
The thing I don't get is, what if tomorrow she hits me up and just says "Hey"? Like if she just straight up ignores me asking to hang but still wants to talk. Is it toxic if I keep going? Should I call her out on that too? Think nothing of it?

Just play it cool. Match the energy. If all she says is hey then say hey whats up and leave it at that until she responds. Becoming too invested and letting her know that is how you get played.

If you make plans with her, have a backup plan so youre not bummed if it falls through.


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MrDrMan
05/27/22 11:08:21 PM
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Master Kazuya posted...
I think this is one of the hardest things for me personally. I feel like either I'm committed to her or I'm not, either she's what I wanna think about or I don't wanna think about her. Would probably help to be less black and white but it's hard.

Until shes your girlfriend and you guys are both under the understanding that youre exclusive, dont commit.


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Master Kazuya
05/27/22 11:17:25 PM
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MrDrMan posted...
Just play it cool. Match the energy. If all she says is hey then say hey whats up and leave it at that until she responds. Becoming too invested and letting her know that is how you get played.

If you make plans with her, have a backup plan so youre not bummed if it falls through.

I feel as if one of my other major problems is not expressing enough interest. I feel like I'm in this spiral of being invested at the wrong times and being not invested at the wrong times. I feel shame when I express interest and it's been a lot to deal with. Recently I've been more comfortable in being honest about my interest and it's made things more comfortable regardless of the outcome. Idk if I'll ever figure it out; I'm becoming more okay with deserving to be alone.

MrDrMan posted...
Until shes your girlfriend and you guys are both under the understanding that youre exclusive, dont commit.

Yeah I'm not fully committed.

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Master Kazuya
05/28/22 5:52:58 AM
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She said "sorry / work happened then the day happened /idk just getting into bed / bad at messaging some days"

Fuck this

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Trumble
05/28/22 5:59:21 AM
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Rickroll her to assert dominance. It's the only way.

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Master Kazuya
05/28/22 9:25:56 AM
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Really tho should I even say anything?

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gatorsPENSbucs
05/28/22 9:28:21 AM
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Oh damn, alright then

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LordYeezus
05/28/22 9:36:48 AM
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Tipsy

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Master Kazuya
05/28/22 9:36:54 AM
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gatorsPENSbucs posted...
Oh damn, alright then

That's what to say if I do say something, but I'm wondering should I even say anything in the first place, or just walk away

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Master Kazuya
05/28/22 10:00:50 AM
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I probably will end up dying this way

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