Current Events > This girl wants pics of me but isn't sending pics of herself when I ask

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We wanna bang each other (I think) but she's weird about sending pics and that makes me feel weird. I send her pics whenever she asks. If I ask, she'll make excuses or ignore it, and then be like "I'm horny, what porn do you like". She's sent some before but then deletes them after. If I send them when she asks, I feel like it's only fair that she sends them once I ask after I send mine. It's a huge turnoff and I'm just keeping her on the backburner/cooldown/etc, pulled away but not cut the rope.

I notice that I'm starting to fall into the same pattern of not holding someone accountable to reciprocation that I need because I don't wanna lose them, and even if it's as small as this, I've been in this pattern enough. It's been my Achilles heel throughout my life with women. I don't hold onto standards and my brain eventually makes up excuses why it's okay for her to not do the same thing for me that I'm doing for her.

She's probably not a real person.

Its a scam.

A_Good_Boy posted...

She's probably not a real person.

We've talked on the phone before for like 2 hours

You've already sent her pics and she hasn't sent you one? Don't waste your time op. At best it's a scam. At worst, you send one unflattering pic and they're blackmail you for money

Yeah, I told this one girl I would only give her my number if she sent me nudes so I could judge if she was worth the drive. She immediately sent me a face pic, then asked me what kind of music I liked. I blocked her.

Master Kazuya posted...

We've talked on the phone before for like 2 hours

You are so gullible.

Its a blackmail scam

I'd move on.

As soon as she sends one she'll follow it by saying if you want more she needs help paying for her phone.

she just rly shy ;)

Master Kazuya posted...

We've talked on the phone before for like 2 hours

You've communicated with a voice, yeah. But are you really getting a good look at the person behind the voice?

If the pic thing is such an issue then just tell her you're no longer comfortable sending any because she doesn't reciprocate. If you don't wanna completely burn that bridge then float the possibility of taking pictures together once you guys meet up.

faizan_faizan posted...

You've already sent her pics and she hasn't sent you one? Don't waste your time op. At best it's a scam. At worst, you send one unflattering pic and they're blackmail you for money

She's sent me pics too, I mean just within the last 2 days it's been like this.

I haven't done anything 'blackmail' worthy, def not gonna send any nudes or anything, have already learned that the hard way lol.

Monolith1676 posted...

You are so gullible.

Lol maybe, if nudity or finances are involved then I'm cutting contact, if anything I'm doing okay that I'm questioning the whole thing instead of doubling down

A_Good_Boy posted...

You've communicated with a voice, yeah. But are you really getting a good look at the person behind the voice?

If the pic thing is such an issue then just tell her you're no longer comfortable sending any because she doesn't reciprocate. If you don't wanna completely burn that bridge then float the possibility of taking pictures together once you guys meet up.

She hasn't asked since yesterday, I asked twice after I sent mine, once after and once again at 4:30 am (lol). It's not like I'm sending pics every day and she's not, it's only been an imbalance count of 2, but even that's enough info to get an opinion.

Master Kazuya posted...

She hasn't asked since yesterday, I asked twice after I sent mine, once after and once again at 4:30 am (lol). It's not like I'm sending pics every day and she's not, it's only been an imbalance count of 2, but even that's enough info to get an opinion.

If that's all you're dealing with then I guess it would be too soon to cut ties over it. If the imbalance is bothering you this much though then wait for her to ask again then go from there.

I called her out on it, she sent me one

Ask to meet.

God, why do girls do shit like this

Master Kazuya posted...

I called her out on it, she sent me one

Did you reverse image search it?

WrkHrdPlayHrdr posted...

Did you reverse image search it?

I've never had that work. Not even an Instagram post of someone I later found out to be real a person with their dating app photo on their social media

haloiscoolisbak posted...

I've never had that work. Not even an Instagram post of someone I later found out to be real a person with their dating app photo on their social media

Yeah it's hit or miss with me too. But when it does work it's awesome.

Master Kazuya posted...

I called her out on it, she sent me one

Now listen here sir, the best thing to do now that she's trusted you and sent a picture despite clearly being hesitant to is to post the picture on gamefaqs.gamespot.com without her consent for everyone to see

I wonder if TinEye still exists. I used to use that for reverse image searching. Was far better than throwing a pic into Google I think.

Is her name Jun Kazama?

haloiscoolisbak posted...

Ask to meet.

We have plans to either this weekend or next

WrkHrdPlayHrdr posted...

Did you reverse image search it?

Nah, I asked what she was wearing before I asked to see so seems legit enough for me

Touch posted...

Is her name Jun Kazama?

Hey man I'm still not over her