Current Events > QUICKLY! Girl just told me she's not in a good mental place to go out on a date.

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She wants you to fuck off but is trying to be polite about it. Just tell her you hope she feels better and leave her alone.

She wants you to fuck off but is trying to be polite about it. Just tell her you hope she feels better and leave her alone.

She wants you to fuck off but is trying to be polite about it. Just tell her you hope she feels better and leave her alone.

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She wants you to fuck off but is trying to be polite about it. Just tell her you hope she feels better and leave her alone.

It just sucks man. I by do I always have to lose.. Theres no such thing as Im not ready if the guy is hit enough. Women will drop their whole life and husband if Leonardo DiCaprio asked them out.

Theres no such thing as Im not ready if the guy is hit enough

It just sucks man. Why do I always have to lose.. Theres no such thing as Im not ready if the guy is hot enough. Women will drop their whole life and husband if Leonardo DiCaprio asked them out.

It just sucks man. Why do I always have to lose.. Theres no such thing as Im not ready if the guy is hot enough. Women will drop their whole life and husband if Leonardo DiCaprio asked them out.

Not a good mindset. You're taking it personally. Don't do that.

When it happens with 100 women. I dont have a choice but to take it personally. Im not desirable.

When it happens with 100 women. I dont have a choice but to take it personally. Im not desirable.

It just sucks man. Why do I always have to lose.. Theres no such thing as Im not ready if the guy is right for them.

Women will drop their whole life and husband if Leonardo DiCaprio asked them out.

Edited. Don't make it all about looks.

Not true and borderline misogynistic.

This is not the right attitude. I know it can be rough, but positivity and perseverance is important.

It is about the looks. Because my friends who have the stereotypical muscular and fresh shirt haircut look are doing the exact same thing as me, worse than me, and constantly sleeping with the girls. They invite them for movie nights and the girls go have sex with them. Hundreds over the last 7 years. Meanwhile I ask them on a date and get left on read 99% of the time or they give me their numbers and never text me the next day.

Theres no need to coddle this bullshit. Its a god eat dog world and men know if theyre not desirable. Women are different because someone is always interested in them. Things come to them constantly. Average looks or not.

With this attitude no wonder no one wants to fucking date you lol.

i bet your messages come off as needy and desperate.

Youre an idiot for making that assumption. I already explained that I am a gentleman, whereas my friends are not. Their personality is worse/needy/creepy constantly inviting the girls to go back to their place. My personality is laid back, professional, no desperation.

In my case they dont even want to go in a date? But in my friendss case The girls fuck them and go over to their apartments without ever dating or going on a date. If youre hot enough its a different game.

I invite them to dinner. My friends invite them to come over to their apartment. One of us fucks, one of us doesnt.

100% of the time if a girl says this it means they don't want to date you

I mean I'd say it's probably a bit of a problem that your first reaction to a girl telling you she's "not in a good mental place to go on a date" is to immediately think "how can I manipulate her into doing it anyway?"

I mean I'd say it's probably a bit of a problem that your first reaction to a girl telling you she's "not in a good mental place to go on a date" is to immediately think "how can I manipulate her into doing it anyway?"

Yup haha, one of the other users pointed this out so I politely told her I hope she feels better and I let her be. Its weird because she texted me all the time, I thought she was interested.

You do realize that it's entirely within the realm of possibility for women to talk to people WITHOUT wanting to have sex with them, right?

Many, and I mean many women in my life have actually told me their biggest turn of us when I guy quits too soon. The women give you a challenge because they want to know I would youre going to work for them, or you would walk away when things are hard in a relationship. They test you by pretending to not be interested. I even knew this before a woman ever told me, because I would see the same girl reject my friend and then go sleep with him 2 weeks or a month later when he sees her at the bar a 2nd/3rd time. Youre not as smart as you think you are by assuming the whole world runs under the same mental principles.

For all anyone here knows.. That girl tested me the other night. She said what she said but she was hoping I would respond with Im sorry, we can do something closer to FWB?, we dont have to date. My friends do that all the time and it works most times. I just personally dont. And since I didnt offer, for all I know she pretended she wasnt interested. But she really is, women just never show sexual desire because they consider it unattractive in our culture. Women will never tell you they want to sleep with you even though they do. You have to work for it because they want to see that youre courageous. So while you may think Im dumb, in reality its possible I couldve actually had that girl and her response was just a test for me. But I didnt want to play her little game, I never do with girls. Im above that shit. She either meant it, or she was playing a game. I dont care to stick around and find out.

I learned all this from my friends that get more girls than you can imagine. Im the only one in my friend group that wants to date and marry, I have mo desire to just fuck.

"no desperation"

"girl doesn't want to date me, how can I get them to do it anyway?"

Lol you just showed the internet youre a virgin and have no experience dating. Girls will pretend to not be interested even when they are. They want confirmation that you realllly like them so theyll make you work for it by giving uninterested texts. And if you make them smile, youll have a better chance of grabbing their attention. Asking others for advice on humorous texts is common place amongst men. Which is what happened here, I asked what would be something funny to say thatll make her laugh and forget about the bad things shes going through.

When you finish high school youll understand comfort/laughter makes people happy and changes their mood entirely. But youre probably 15.

Lol you just showed the internet youre a virgin and have no experience dating. Girls will pretend to not be interested even when they are. They want confirmation that you realllly like them so theyll make you work for it by giving uninterested texts. And if you make them smile, youll have a better chance of grabbing their attention. Asking others for advice on humorous texts is common place amongst men. Which is what happened here, I asked what would be something funny to say thatll make her laugh and forget about the bad things shes going through.

When you finish high school youll understand comfort/laughter makes people happy and changes their mood entirely. But youre probably 15.