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Damn_Underscore
03/14/22 5:37:05 PM
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?????



well?

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Tappor
03/14/22 5:37:42 PM
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hey man, don't assume everyone's like you

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nfearurspecimn
03/14/22 5:38:28 PM
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regret is a weird word for it

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ZannoL
03/14/22 5:38:40 PM
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Tappor posted...
hey man, don't assume everyone's like you
This.

I lost my virginity when I was 18. First time was with my boyfriend, who Im still with today.
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Dakimakura
03/14/22 5:38:59 PM
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regret comes in form of a child or sexually transmitted infection

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Garioshi
03/14/22 5:39:06 PM
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Virginity is nothing to be ashamed of

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Damn_Underscore
03/14/22 5:39:13 PM
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Tappor posted...
hey man, don't assume everyone's like you

You do in fact post on CE, I'm sorry my friend...

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bsp77
03/14/22 5:39:15 PM
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Odd topic. Or at least odd phrasing.

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Tappor
03/14/22 5:40:13 PM
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Damn_Underscore posted...
You do in fact post on CE, I'm sorry my friend...
I might be socially stunted but even I find my way around sometimes

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bsp77
03/14/22 5:40:14 PM
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ZannoL posted...
This.

I lost my virginity when I was 18. First time was with my boyfriend, who Im still with today.
Well, that's boring!

I'm joking. I married my first, but that marriage eventually went downhill.

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nfearurspecimn
03/14/22 5:41:21 PM
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Tappor posted...
I might be socially stunted but even I find my way around sometimes
youre one of the better posters on CE though

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Machete
03/14/22 5:44:35 PM
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bsp77 posted...
I'm joking. I married my first, but that marriage eventually went downhill.

I didn't even get the name of mine... or if I did, I failed to remember it.

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Legato-and-Vash
03/14/22 5:45:50 PM
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I've been coming to GameFAQs since I was 12. I'm now 31. I lost my virginity in 9th grade. I have had many different partners since. I have a kid now. Not everybody on GameFAQs has trouble talking to girls.

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bsp77
03/14/22 5:47:39 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Probably because a lot of us are not virgins. Hard to believe here, I know

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bsp77
03/14/22 5:49:19 PM
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Machete posted...
I didn't even get the name of mine... or if I did, I failed to remember it.
I am happy that I remember everyone's name. Feels kind of wrong not to remember them. Not judging as I am just talking about myself

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TentacleDemon
03/14/22 5:51:09 PM
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If I were still a virgin at my age I certainly would regret it.

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Machete
03/14/22 5:53:33 PM
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We were both wasted and she didn't seem interested in knowing my name. I probably gave her a fake one if I told her any name at all, given I was weird like that back then. I didn't stick around after.

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ZannoL
03/14/22 5:56:23 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Nothing wrong with that. I think its weird how others shame virgins for being virgins. Like, how about focusing on your own sex life, you know? I think most of that shaming is a straight guy thing. I have almost never seen a gay guy get shamed for being a virgin.

bsp77 posted...
Well, that's boring!

I'm joking. I married my first, but that marriage eventually went downhill.
Boring can be good

Im sorry to hear about your marriage. Are you currently in a relationship?
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bsp77
03/14/22 6:02:39 PM
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ZannoL posted...
Boring can be good

Im sorry to hear about your marriage. Are you currently in a relationship?
Meh, it was 5 years ago. I went nuts with the dating for awhile (post divorce midlfe crisis), but now I am in a boring relationship with an introvert

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ThyCorndog
03/14/22 6:04:02 PM
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I lost my virginity later than most and it did not change me as a person. the only thing new is what you would expect: that you have a new experience

I know this will ring hollow (and it probably should) but the main difference is that when you hit a dry spell after you've had it, it feels worse than when you were a virgin because you know what you're missing out on

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CelestialVoices
03/14/22 6:05:55 PM
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not at all. soon the power will be mine

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nfearurspecimn
03/14/22 7:34:28 PM
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ThyCorndog posted...
I know this will ring hollow (and it probably should) but the main difference is that when you hit a dry spell after you've had it, it feels worse than when you were a virgin because you know what you're missing out on
I'll be honest that doesn't make me feel better about it, just worse lol.

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The_Creep_2020
03/14/22 7:37:03 PM
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Every day

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viewmaster_pi
03/14/22 7:37:29 PM
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if i could, i'd restore my virginity, like humanity in dark souls, i need a virgin effigy

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bsp77
03/14/22 7:37:59 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

How do you have no control?

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nfearurspecimn
03/14/22 7:40:46 PM
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bsp77 posted...
How do you have no control?
some people are born2lose

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haloiscoolisbak
03/14/22 7:41:14 PM
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ThyCorndog posted...
I lost my virginity later than most and it did not change me as a person. the only thing new is what you would expect: that you have a new experience

I know this will ring hollow (and it probably should) but the main difference is that when you hit a dry spell after you've had it, it feels worse than when you were a virgin because you know what you're missing out on

Strongly disagree. As someone else who lost their virginity way later than I should have, dry spells are hardly depressing at for me because now I know sex isn't really a big deal or that important. When I was an adult virgin my whole situation felt impossible to fix and I felt I'd never be able to be loved etc. Now it's just like, damn I'm kinda horny and wish I was dating someone.

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Aristoph
03/14/22 7:42:29 PM
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Not at all. I've had opportunities, recognized them at the time, and chosen not to take them for various reasons. It's never felt right, so I've never gone for it. I remember the reasons, and I don't regret any of them. Sex has never really been a big motivator for me anyway. Not quite "asexual" or anything like that, I think I'd enjoy it with the right person. Just haven't found that person yet and don't feel a very strong urge to do so.

There was one girl in college that I somewhat regret not putting more effort into, but that's not really the same thing.

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bsp77
03/14/22 7:42:46 PM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
some people are born2lose
Other than a very small percentage with severe defects, I do not believe this at all. I think most of you guys here could get someone if you put the work in. But it's the kind of work and self reflection that many people refuse to take

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PMarth2002
03/14/22 7:43:40 PM
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I'm not. I hired an escort when I was 20. Haven't really had much sex though.

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JimmyFraska
03/14/22 7:44:20 PM
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I regret not being an adult virgin, would have been better to wait.
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nfearurspecimn
03/14/22 7:45:02 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Other than a very small percentage with severe defects, I do not believe this at all. I think most of you guys here could get someone if you put the work in. But it's the kind of work and self reflection that many people refuse to take
maybe. i dont see myself changing enough for someone to want me though

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-Unowninator-
03/14/22 7:47:32 PM
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I'm fine being a 28 year old virgin, and I'd rather stay that way as opposed to being a father.

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Heartomaton
03/14/22 7:48:55 PM
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I regret not losing it until the age of 24, yes.

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bsp77
03/14/22 7:49:13 PM
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-Unowninator- posted...
I'm fine being a 28 year old virgin, and I'd rather stay that way as opposed to being a father.
There is plenty of in between there though. Of course I am a father, but not on accident

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The_Creep_2020
03/14/22 7:51:53 PM
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-Unowninator- posted...
I'm fine being a 28 year old virgin, and I'd rather stay that way as opposed to being a father.
Thats what birth controls for, though.

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-Unowninator-
03/14/22 7:52:39 PM
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bsp77 posted...

There is plenty of in between there though. Of course I am a father, but not on accident

I have no desire for that kind of responsibility.

The_Creep_2020 posted...

Thats what birth controls for, though.

Doesn't that have a chance of failure?

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The_Creep_2020
03/14/22 7:56:00 PM
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-Unowninator- posted...
I have no desire for that kind of responsibility.

Doesn't that have a chance of failure?
Well, yeah, but theyre very low if youre using it the right way. Particularly if you use multiple forms at the same time.

Personally, Id be more worried about STIs than pregnancy.

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bsp77
03/14/22 7:56:38 PM
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-Unowninator- posted...
I have no desire for that kind of responsibility.

Doesn't that have a chance of failure?
Yes there is a chance but very slim. You can't live your life in fear.

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haloiscoolisbak
03/14/22 8:05:42 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Yes there is a chance but very slim. You can't live your life in fear.

Also, in this hypothetical scenario (accidental pregnancy from a virgin who didn't know what he was doing) I think most girls wouldn't hesitate to get an abortion. Don't date a religious person, heh

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ThyCorndog
03/14/22 8:23:40 PM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
I'll be honest that doesn't make me feel better about it, just worse lol.
sorry :(

haloiscoolisbak posted...
Strongly disagree. As someone else who lost their virginity way later than I should have, dry spells are hardly depressing at for me because now I know sex isn't really a big deal or that important. When I was an adult virgin my whole situation felt impossible to fix and I felt I'd never be able to be loved etc. Now it's just like, damn I'm kinda horny and wish I was dating someone.
maybe it's different for me because I've only had sex with people I was in relationships with and probably associate it with intimacy and more emotions. never had sex with someone random or someone I didn't want to be with long term

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KogaSteelfang
03/14/22 8:24:30 PM
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I don't think regret is the right word. I certainly don't like it, but it's not a regret. My concerns are more future oriented. Like, I feel it's something I'll never experience and I'd like to.

I do also have quite a bit of emotional trauma and feeling like I'm not good enough for anyone really triggers those a lot.

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haloiscoolisbak
03/14/22 8:31:21 PM
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ThyCorndog posted...
sorry :(

maybe it's different for me because I've only had sex with people I was in relationships with and probably associate it with intimacy and more emotions. never had sex with someone random or someone I didn't want to be with long term

But surely that impossibility feeling has left you right? Or maybe you were a more positive virgin than me. I had serious confidence issues from it. Maybe I lost it at a later age than you and had spiralled into a darker place. I crave relationships too and now have way less concern about being able to get into another one.

Like when I was a virgin I was convinced I'd meet someone, hit it off amazingly and then my lack of sexual experience would ruin everything. It ended up not being anything close to that

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mooreandrew58
03/16/22 10:45:53 PM
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Lost mine on a tarp in the woods at 16.

That being said I probably had more sex at 16 and 17 then my whole adult life combined

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Kanaya413
03/16/22 10:46:39 PM
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Eh
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03/16/22 10:48:58 PM
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TentacleDemon posted...
If I were still a virgin at my age I certainly would regret it.


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