Current Events > C or D: It's okay to be selfish in matters of LOVE

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RedLuigi
03/05/22 11:52:22 PM
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C or D


When youre meeting someone, dating someone, or even when youre married to someone

What does CE think?

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MixedRaceBaby
03/05/22 11:54:23 PM
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what does that mean

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haloiscoolisbak
03/05/22 11:55:08 PM
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I dunno. I used to think hell no, then the last person I dated burned me so hard and I was completely caught by surprise. So I now I see the merit in acting a little selfish to protect yourself, people are fickle these days so you gotta be very careful, at least in the first few months

maybe in a long term relationship you should have a bit more faith and try to be selfless, but I dunno I've never had one longer than 6 months

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Ar0ge
03/05/22 11:56:32 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean. The answer could be yes or no depending.
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RedLuigi
03/05/22 11:56:41 PM
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MixedRaceBaby posted...
what does that mean

Is there any time where its warranted to act selfish when making decisions or setting boundaries in love

Is it even called selfishness when it comes to doing these things? What about other things?

The question is vague for the purposes of having people recollect if there was ever any time they felt they were acting selfish.. maybe it turned out it wasnt selfishness

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haloiscoolisbak
03/05/22 11:58:42 PM
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RedLuigi posted...
Is there any time where its warranted to act selfish when making decisions or setting boundaries in love

Is it even called selfishness when it comes to doing these things? What about other things?

The question is vague for the purposes of having people recollect if there was ever any time they felt they were acting selfish.. maybe it turned out it wasnt selfishness

Yeah I feel I get what you mean. Basically any decision you make that benefits them over you, including not voicing an opinion that might hurt them. I feel you can get yourself easily gaslit if you're too selfless because some people will just walk all over you if you let them

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Lil_Bit83
03/06/22 12:49:55 AM
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It's alright to be a little selfish and take time and care for yourself. But not too selfish. That's in any relationship be it family, friend, or romance.

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AlCalavicci
03/06/22 12:51:19 AM
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I mean this could have a lot of interpretations

TC could be married and in LOVE with some other person and looking for justification to be SELFISH to cheat on his wife

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