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V-E-G-Y-
01/19/22 7:42:37 AM
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Do you agree with dis?


Its ok CEmen, you're safe ITT

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Turbam
01/19/22 7:44:01 AM
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I think dat

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wackyteen
01/19/22 7:44:24 AM
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Being with someone that you can't openly and honestly discuss your feelings with sounds toxic as hell

No wonder so many men are miserable

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Nemu
01/19/22 7:47:16 AM
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Theres definitely merit in keeping ones emotions fairly under control, but taking that to the point of bottling everything up is definitely a few steps too far. You can see examples of the opposite extreme in overly emotional people who cry at nearly any opportunity.
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mooreandrew58
01/19/22 7:50:37 AM
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I don't agree with it but it's how I am. I was a crybaby in elementary school and had it drilled into my head I had to quit or I'd be bullied. Got bullied in middle school anyways. It took joining the football team to make most my bullies quit (they also where on the team so I got to hit them in practice) then in high-school I started wearing a trench coat and that wiped away the rest

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PMarth2002
01/19/22 7:51:59 AM
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I believe that's called toxic masculinity...

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phat32
01/19/22 7:52:17 AM
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Addressing your feelings and emotions certainly has benefits, but I will think less of anyone who leans on their emotions too heavily in decision making.
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phat32
01/19/22 7:53:22 AM
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PMarth2002 posted...
I believe that's called toxic masculinity...
No, toxic masculinity is telling the doctor "no thank you" to the oxycontin they tell you is not addictive.
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PMarth2002
01/19/22 7:54:09 AM
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phat32 posted...
No, toxic masculinity is telling the doctor "no thank you" to the oxycontin they tell you is not addictive.

its a bunch of things, but what tc is talking about is part of it.

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Xavier_On_High
01/19/22 7:55:22 AM
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phat32 posted...
Addressing your feelings and emotions certainly has benefits, but I will think less of anyone who leans on their emotions too heavily in decision making.

Being controlled by your emotions isn't the same as expressing them. You can be completely calm and stoic while fuelled purely by rage, and vice versa.

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phat32
01/19/22 7:55:53 AM
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PMarth2002 posted...
its a bunch of things, but what tc is talking about is part of it.
What tc is talking about is vague, actually.
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mooreandrew58
01/19/22 7:56:14 AM
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phat32 posted...
No, toxic masculinity is telling the doctor "no thank you" to the oxycontin they tell you is not addictive.

I take the prescription just don't use it lol. Pain killers at best give me a placebo effect. And regular ass Tylenol does that for me which I also rarely take.

Someone told me if I took a perc and drank I couple of beers I'd be feeling good. That was a lie

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PMarth2002
01/19/22 8:01:34 AM
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phat32 posted...
What tc is talking about is vague, actually.

I thought it was straight forward and not vague at all.

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UnfairRepresent
01/19/22 8:05:49 AM
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PMarth2002 posted...
I believe that's called toxic masculinity...


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bsp77
01/19/22 8:07:39 AM
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I feel sorry for men who have not learned to express their emotions

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mooreandrew58
01/19/22 8:13:41 AM
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bsp77 posted...
I feel sorry for men who have not learned to express their emotions

Some of us can't help it. I was partially raised by my grandad. A boomer. And one that had a rough life at that. When I say rough I mean he volunteered for the military around Vietnam just to get away from his family.

It's weird for me though. Fiction can make me tear up quicker than real life. I've cried or teared up over many video games or movies but few things in real life even get a reaction out of me

I hate it. Cause I've discovered a good cry seems to relieve a lot of built up tension. Probably why I like fictional stories that can make me cry

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Lordgold666
01/19/22 8:14:18 AM
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Only low class trash believe that

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bsp77
01/19/22 8:18:39 AM
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mooreandrew58 posted...
Some of us can't help it. I was partially raised by my grandad. A boomer. And one that had a rough life at that. When I say rough I mean he volunteered for the military around Vietnam just to get away from his family.

It's weird for me though. Fiction can make me tear up quicker than real life. I've cried or teared up over many video games or movies but few things in real life even get a reaction out of me

I hate it. Cause I've discovered a good cry seems to relieve a lot of built up tension. Probably why I like fictional stories that can make me cry
I appreciate your honesty. The fact that you realize this is great. Sometimes it takes finding the right person to open up to.

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Glob
01/19/22 8:22:09 AM
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PMarth2002 posted...
I believe that's called toxic masculinity...

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wackyteen
01/19/22 12:34:32 PM
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mooreandrew58 posted...
Someone told me if I took a perc and drank I couple of beers I'd be feeling good. That was a lie
I took a prescribed perc after wisdom teeth removal.

Didn't do much for me.

I took a prescribed Hydrocodone. Same, didn't do much for me.

Took the two together and when I woke up, I immediately understood why people become addicted to painkillers cause I couldn't feel a goddamned thing

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Smackems
01/19/22 12:37:07 PM
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Depends on who with and what for

Edit: meant to say that others will perceive you as weak depending on who with and what for

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Smackems
01/19/22 12:38:54 PM
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wackyteen posted...
I took a prescribed perc after wisdom teeth removal.

Didn't do much for me.

I took a prescribed Hydrocodone. Same, didn't do much for me.

Took the two together and when I woke up, I immediately understood why people become addicted to painkillers cause I couldn't feel a goddamned thing
We get addicted to them because we like being high btw

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BaronAloha
01/19/22 12:41:00 PM
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SauI_Goodman
01/19/22 12:42:15 PM
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Girls love it when you do this. Sensitive in private but macho in public.

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Smackems
01/19/22 12:45:42 PM
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BaronAloha posted...

Lmao

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PlantBased
01/19/22 12:46:03 PM
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I disagree with that concept but I become uneasy and even a bit annoyed when I see anyone crying when it isn't death related. I know that's wrong of me but it hits me on an uncontrollably visceral level. I don't want to shame them but it does make me want to just walk away from someone in distress, which makes it difficult to comfort people. In some instances, it does influence how I see a person but I know how that makes me look and try to overcome it.
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mooreandrew58
01/19/22 1:43:52 PM
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wackyteen posted...
I took a prescribed perc after wisdom teeth removal.

Didn't do much for me.

I took a prescribed Hydrocodone. Same, didn't do much for me.

Took the two together and when I woke up, I immediately understood why people become addicted to painkillers cause I couldn't feel a goddamned thing

I ate vicodin like candy in elementary school. I got a headache daily and they couldn't figure it out other than claiming I had hyper sensitivity to light and sound. I haven't had a non hangover related headache in decades but now I got a super tolerance to pain killers.

bsp77 posted...
I appreciate your honesty. The fact that you realize this is great. Sometimes it takes finding the right person to open up to.

That's the problem. I can open up to my mom but it annoys her cause it's so engraved in me to keep it to myself now. Not fully her fault she just wanted me to be able to control my crying and nothing more but I went full on with it. Like I even have a hard time showing happiness. If I show emotion it's usually anger that's the one that finally comes to the surface and its cause I bottle it up.

It sucks cause I do feel all these emotions but I can't bring myself to share these emotions. So it feels like I'm doing everything completely alone.

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BignutzisBack
01/19/22 1:55:30 PM
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I've been crying multiple times a day for two weeks over my dog, anyone who has a problem with that can eat a dick

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mooreandrew58
01/19/22 2:06:10 PM
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BignutzisBack posted...
I've been crying multiple times a day for two weeks over my dog, anyone who has a problem with that can eat a dick

I'm still tore up I couldn't manage a tear over my last dog dying. And that shit had me sad as fuck cause her being put down was scheduled. So I spent a week counting down the days I had left with her. Even gave her the best meal she ever ate the day before. That shit killed me cause she seemed perfectly fine during that but I said fuck it and included chocolate in her final meal cause what harm would it do at that point.

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V-E-G-Y-
01/20/22 7:46:35 AM
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Who voted yes

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