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Sunhawk
01/16/22 3:47:34 PM
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Also, what age do you think is the cutoff point for it being abnormal?

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Kiyune
01/16/22 4:01:40 PM
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I'm 22 and haven't had mine because I'm still getting over my fear of physical intimacy with the support of my boyfriend. I've never agreed with the mindset that you have to rush into things like that to be normal, and I don't think it's right to stigmatize and call it abnormal just because people haven't had one or don't feel ready for various reasons, I think that understanding is far healthier to promote than negative stigma is.

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toreysback
01/16/22 4:04:30 PM
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around the chest area first, then downward from there

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NOM
01/16/22 4:04:54 PM
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35 male here never had one.

I mean, I understand why. I'm a pretty practical thinking guy. I'm ugly, socially awkward, and I have a big distrust of people, especially women. Pretty easy to see why it hasn't and won't happen lol.

OH but when it comes to others.... I don't feel anything about them taking so long for their first kiss. That's their issue they gotta work through and ain't none of my damn business.

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Guide
01/19/22 3:09:21 AM
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The cutoff point would be the sharpest drop-off from the average age, I guess. Maybe there are stats on that.

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Kakapo
01/19/22 3:13:30 AM
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Who gives a shit?

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dj1200
01/19/22 3:47:45 AM
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NOM posted...
35 male here never had one.

I mean, I understand why. I'm a pretty practical thinking guy. I'm ugly, socially awkward, and I have a big distrust of people, especially women. Pretty easy to see why it hasn't and won't happen lol.

OH but when it comes to others.... I don't feel anything about them taking so long for their first kiss. That's their issue they gotta work through and ain't none of my damn business.

go for less attractive girls. Youll get it.

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Zikten
01/19/22 3:51:01 AM
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How do you feel about someone who got a first kiss in their teens but then years went by and they never got a 2nd kiss?
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Kakapo
01/19/22 3:53:10 AM
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Kiyune posted...
I'm 22 and haven't had mine because I'm still getting over my fear of physical intimacy with the support of my boyfriend. I've never agreed with the mindset that you have to rush into things like that to be normal, and I don't think it's right to stigmatize and call it abnormal just because people haven't had one or don't feel ready for various reasons, I think that understanding is far healthier to promote than negative stigma is.

This is a pretty good take.

Its one of those things that feels like a really big deal for some people, until it happens. Same with sex, really.

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PiOverlord
01/19/22 3:53:35 AM
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My first kiss was with a stripper

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dj1200
01/19/22 3:54:30 AM
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Zikten posted...
How do you feel about someone who got a first kiss in their teens but then years went by and they never got a 2nd kiss?

how many years? And I dont feel a certain way about it.

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Zikten
01/19/22 3:58:53 AM
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dj1200 posted...


how many years? And I dont feel a certain way about it.

I got kissed in 1997. Still waiting on kiss 2. Not that I believe it will ever happen
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Arcanine2009
01/19/22 4:03:05 AM
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That's fine. I'm sure they had their reasons, if it was mutual. As long as they are happy now.

I've been in that situation too and lost a potential relationship out of it. It was awkward. Especially with covid and wearing masks. You just have to go for it, if you know they like you back. Otherwise they will lose interest (might even think you are friend zoning them).

Could be first date or second date. Hug them and step back and lean for a kiss.

If you never try and make excuses out of it, you'll never move forward into a serious relationship, unless you get into an arranged marriage..

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