Current Events > Girl I was seeing the last few months just started flat out ghosting me.

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Doom_Art 01/03/22 8:40:19 AM #1:	Like it wasn't even because of anything in particular. Just flat out stopped responding to or even looking at any messages or whatever that I sent. She asked what I was doing NYE since in our town we're kinda going through a covid spike. I mentioned there was probably going to be a party here but since the spike happened everyone bailed and that apart from my roommates a few of their guests, I was just kinda lying around. Then I asked what she was up to, since she had mentioned staying with her family for the holidays. Then a happy new years message later after midnight Neither of them were either looked at according to Messenger? Then I sent one or two more "hey" and "?". Same situation. Prior to this stuff on NYE we were chatting a bit and she offhandedly mentioned being on her period and in pain, and also alluded to some intense stress from work and that she's "not doing too great". Her and I seemed to be doing alright so I'm just confused and a bit lost and trying not to read too much into this? Being ignored fucking hurts though --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961431686] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Like it wasn't even because of anything in particular. Just flat out stopped responding to or even looking at any messages or whatever that I sent. She asked what I was doing NYE since in our town we're kinda going through a covid spike. I mentioned there was probably going to be a party here but since the spike happened everyone bailed and that apart from my roommates a few of their guests, I was just kinda lying around. Then I asked what she was up to, since she had mentioned staying with her family for the holidays. Then a happy new years message later after midnight Neither of them were either looked at according to Messenger? Then I sent one or two more "hey" and "?". Same situation. Prior to this stuff on NYE we were chatting a bit and she offhandedly mentioned being on her period and in pain, and also alluded to some intense stress from work and that she's "not doing too great". Her and I seemed to be doing alright so I'm just confused and a bit lost and trying not to read too much into this? Being ignored fucking hurts though </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Njolk 01/03/22 8:42:15 AM #2:	Yeah this happened to me, she ended up admitting she felt like I was great on paper but didn't feel a spark when we were together If she's not crazy about you you're wasting your time. Dating is gonna be a lot easier if you drop anyone who isn't stoked for you --- Until you give up the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are <cite>Njolk posted [p:961431715] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Yeah this happened to me, she ended up admitting she felt like I was great on paper but didn't feel a spark when we were together If she's not crazy about you you're wasting your time. Dating is gonna be a lot easier if you drop anyone who isn't stoked for you </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 8:43:06 AM #3:	The weird bit is the last conversation we had was normal (I mean her stress/whatever aside) but it's like mid-conversation she just decided "nah". --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961431725] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>The weird bit is the last conversation we had was normal (I mean her stress/whatever aside) but it's like mid-conversation she just decided "nah". </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VigorouslySwish 01/03/22 8:44:14 AM #4:	She found a genetically superior male or maybe shes dead idk --- i'm just some guy yellin' about apple sauce <cite>VigorouslySwish posted [p:961431742] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>She found a genetically superior male or maybe shes dead idk </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ModLogic 01/03/22 8:44:16 AM #5:	possibly soup related --- Xe / Xir https://youtube.com/shorts/c9qA3KFVJP0 https://i.imgur.com/ZngbqJn.jpg https://i.imgur.com/lbSi0U3.jpg https://i.imgur.com/xaRYKZM.jpg <cite>ModLogic posted [p:961431743] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>possibly soup related </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 8:45:00 AM #6:	Njolk posted... Yeah this happened to me, she ended up admitting she felt like I was great on paper but didn't feel a spark when we were together If she's not crazy about you you're wasting your time. Dating is gonna be a lot easier if you drop anyone who isn't stoked for you Yeah, you're probably right. The annoying part and the part that hurts is that I can handle a lack of interest, but her and I were friends for several years prior to getting together. Not to sound like some entitled "nice" guy but I would've thought that that would at least entitle me to a heads up or a courtesy "Hey here's what's going on" --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961431754] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Njolk posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah this happened to me, she ended up admitting she felt like I was great on paper but didn't feel a spark when we were together If she's not crazy about you you're wasting your time. Dating is gonna be a lot easier if you drop anyone who isn't stoked for you</quote> Yeah, you're probably right. The annoying part and the part that hurts is that I can handle a lack of interest, but her and I were friends for several years prior to getting together. Not to sound like some entitled "nice" guy but I would've thought that that would at least entitle me to a heads up or a courtesy "Hey here's what's going on" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BignutzisBack 01/03/22 8:46:29 AM #7:	She likely met another guy on New Year's Eve --- http://i.imgur.com/plA0Vg9.gif https://media.giphy.com/media/dgK22exekwOLm/giphy.gif <cite>BignutzisBack posted [p:961431768] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>She likely met another guy on New Year's Eve </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CinderLock 01/03/22 8:47:00 AM #8:	ModLogic posted... possibly soup related --- Kathy Bates inspires fear in the soul, hence the validity of humanity. - Wolfy42 <cite>CinderLock posted [p:961431777] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>ModLogic posted... </cite> <quote>possibly soup related</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EndOfDiscOne 01/03/22 8:47:57 AM #9:	BignutzisBack posted... She likely met another guy on New Year's Eve --- I am the Cheese! I am the best character on the show! I am better than both the salami and the bologna *COMBINED!* <cite>EndOfDiscOne posted [p:961431796] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>BignutzisBack posted... </cite> <quote>She likely met another guy on New Year's Eve</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 8:48:38 AM #10:	VigorouslySwish posted... She found a genetically superior male or maybe shes dead idk I mean if she found another guy then alright? I mean I'd be upset and hurt but it's not like we were crazy committed or labelled, at least tell me so I can get over it. BignutzisBack posted... She likely met another guy on New Year's Eve Where tho The city is basically shut down lol --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961431807] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>VigorouslySwish posted... </cite> <quote>She found a genetically superior male or maybe shes dead idk</quote>I mean if she found another guy then alright? I mean I'd be upset and hurt but it's not like we were crazy committed or labelled, at least tell me so I can get over it. BignutzisBack posted... </cite> <quote>She likely met another guy on New Year's Eve</quote> Where tho The city is basically shut down lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
superman 2000 01/03/22 8:50:38 AM #11:	Ghosting people is one of the rudest things weve normalized. --- I don't hold grudges. Let's vehemently argue today and casually have a beer together tomorrow. <cite>superman 2000 posted [p:961431836] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Ghosting people is one of the rudest things weve normalized. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Veggeta_MAX 01/03/22 8:51:02 AM #12:	Based on these topics we're supposed to say it's your fault she did this to you. --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:961431842] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Based on these topics we're supposed to say it's your fault she did this to you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Slayer_22 01/03/22 8:52:10 AM #13:	It's your fault, TC. This is perfectly normal. She's in the right. Did I do it, CE? Did I earn my gold star? --- "And no I'm not signing your twitter after this type of attitude so don't ask..." - IIINCORRUPTIBLE <cite>Slayer_22 posted [p:961431856] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>It's your fault, TC. This is perfectly normal. She's in the right. Did I do it, CE? Did I earn my gold star?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VigorouslySwish 01/03/22 8:53:58 AM #14:	the girl is ALWAYS right (are you seeing my posts, ladies?) --- i'm just some guy yellin' about apple sauce <cite>VigorouslySwish posted [p:961431878] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>the girl is ALWAYS right (are you seeing my posts, ladies?) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 8:54:43 AM #15:	superman 2000 posted... Ghosting people is one of the rudest things weve normalized. Yeah like I've resigned myself to the fact that things probably aren't going to work out between us, but I'm primarily just hurt/annoyed at the fact that I'm seemingly not worth the courtesy of an actual notice. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961431891] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>superman 2000 posted... </cite> <quote>Ghosting people is one of the rudest things weve normalized.</quote>Yeah like I've resigned myself to the fact that things probably aren't going to work out between us, but I'm primarily just hurt/annoyed at the fact that I'm seemingly not worth the courtesy of an actual notice. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:00:02 AM #16:	Because now I'm like "what in particular set this off?" Like did she meet someone else? Is she just not feeling it? Did I not make enough time for her? Is she mad I didn't invite her over for NYE? At least tell me so I can internally confront whatever I did or didn't do and decide how to move on lol --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961431962] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Because now I'm like "what in particular set this off?" Like did she meet someone else? Is she just not feeling it? Did I not make enough time for her? Is she mad I didn't invite her over for NYE? At least tell me so I can internally confront whatever I did or didn't do and decide how to move on lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Number090684 01/03/22 9:01:10 AM #17:	Nah, it's something or someone else. A girl who legitimately cares about you and thinks you're a good person / friend, but doesn't want to be commited to you for whatever reasons wouldn't start ghosting you for no reason. <cite>Number090684 posted [p:961431976] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Nah, it's something or someone else. A girl who legitimately cares about you and thinks you're a good person / friend, but doesn't want to be commited to you for whatever reasons wouldn't start ghosting you for no reason. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 01/03/22 9:01:10 AM #18:	Doesnt have anything to do with your worth, peoples lives are just complicated. --- "if i was a woman i would mail kyle rittenhouse my panties." ~ledbowman "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:961431978] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Doesnt have anything to do with your worth, peoples lives are just complicated. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RetsuZaiZen 01/03/22 9:03:27 AM #19:	I wish I could tell you to not take it personal but you're human. Just chalk it up to a loss and move on. --- Why do nerds always get caught up on the details? Michael Jordan is both the greatest and most overrated basketball player of all time. <cite>RetsuZaiZen posted [p:961431998] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>I wish I could tell you to not take it personal but you're human. Just chalk it up to a loss and move on. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 01/03/22 9:04:48 AM #20:	Been there. Its an awful feeling. My advice is to delete her number, her social media and not give yourself any reason to relapse into stalking her shit. Then go fuck someone else. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:961432026] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Been there. Its an awful feeling. My advice is to delete her number, her social media and not give yourself any reason to relapse into stalking her shit. Then go fuck someone else. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Steve Nick 01/03/22 9:05:26 AM #21:	People are moody AF. If you weren't in an actual relationship just forget about it. She'll eventually reach out with a message again when the tide rolls that way. --- This is my signature. <cite>Steve Nick posted [p:961432039] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>People are moody AF. If you weren't in an actual relationship just forget about it. She'll eventually reach out with a message again when the tide rolls that way. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Steve Nick 01/03/22 9:06:45 AM #22:	pinky0926 posted... Been there. Its an awful feeling. My advice is to delete her number, her social media and not give yourself any reason to relapse into stalking her shit. Then go fuck someone else. this seems extreme. It seems like it was just a casual thing. I've had casual things with girls go off and on for years and intersect with one another. --- This is my signature. <cite>Steve Nick posted [p:961432063] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>pinky0926 posted... </cite> <quote>Been there. Its an awful feeling. My advice is to delete her number, her social media and not give yourself any reason to relapse into stalking her shit. Then go fuck someone else.</quote> this seems extreme. It seems like it was just a casual thing. I've had casual things with girls go off and on for years and intersect with one another. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:08:53 AM #23:	Number090684 posted... Nah, it's something or someone else. A girl who legitimately cares about you and thinks you're a good person / friend, but doesn't want to be commited to you for whatever reasons wouldn't start ghosting you for no reason. If she actually valued you and you guys ended things on good terms she'd at least want to stay friends. The only reason I'm kinda baffled is the aforementioned friendship and the fact that she apparently had been trying to make me and her happen for like a few years now. It's totally possible she just doesn't care about me or value me, I just have a hard time wrapping my head around having such a 180 in opinion so relatively quickly. She had also made reference before about the fact that she tends to have a hard time confronting heavy emotional stuff head on, but always will just "eventually when I feel I'm ready and on my terms" which in hindsight should've been a big red flag lol Shablagoo posted... Doesnt have anything to do with your worth, peoples lives are just complicated. The part that keeps getting me is then just say that to me? Like she knows me pretty well even outside of the relationship she should know I'd have been able to handle something like "Hey I'm in a weird place rn let's hold off on chatting or contact for a bit" --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961432099] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Number090684 posted... </cite> <quote>Nah, it's something or someone else. A girl who legitimately cares about you and thinks you're a good person / friend, but doesn't want to be commited to you for whatever reasons wouldn't start ghosting you for no reason. If she actually valued you and you guys ended things on good terms she'd at least want to stay friends.</quote>The only reason I'm kinda baffled is the aforementioned friendship and the fact that she apparently had been trying to make me and her happen for like a few years now. It's totally possible she just doesn't care about me or value me, I just have a hard time wrapping my head around having such a 180 in opinion so relatively quickly. She had also made reference before about the fact that she tends to have a hard time confronting heavy emotional stuff head on, but always will just "eventually when I feel I'm ready and on my terms" which in hindsight should've been a big red flag lol Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Doesnt have anything to do with your worth, peoples lives are just complicated.</quote>The part that keeps getting me is then just say that to me? Like she knows me pretty well even outside of the relationship she should know I'd have been able to handle something like "Hey I'm in a weird place rn let's hold off on chatting or contact for a bit" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RetsuZaiZen 01/03/22 9:14:08 AM #24:	Steve Nick posted... this seems extreme. It seems like it was just a casual thing. I've had casual things with girls go off and on for years and intersect with one another. It might be best for his mental health though. Especially if he's the type to worry about it. --- Why do nerds always get caught up on the details? Michael Jordan is both the greatest and most overrated basketball player of all time. <cite>RetsuZaiZen posted [p:961432167] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Steve Nick posted... </cite> <quote>this seems extreme. It seems like it was just a casual thing. I've had casual things with girls go off and on for years and intersect with one another.</quote> It might be best for his mental health though. Especially if he's the type to worry about it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:15:01 AM #25:	Steve Nick posted... People are moody AF. If you weren't in an actual relationship just forget about it. She'll eventually reach out with a message again when the tide rolls that way. Yeah I caved and sent one last message basically asking if everything is alright with her/us since she mentioned not feeling great mentally/emotionally and that I'm a bit confused and lost about things. That'll be the last thing I send on my own. Ball is in her court rn and I'm putting her on ignore and hiding her on FB so the temptation isn't there and I'm not checking at my phone to see if she sent anything back lol Only downside is we work in the same industry and said industry isn't very large in town so I'll probably see her in person as soon as tomorrow or later today lol --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961432185] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Steve Nick posted... </cite> <quote>People are moody AF. If you weren't in an actual relationship just forget about it. She'll eventually reach out with a message again when the tide rolls that way.</quote>Yeah I caved and sent one last message basically asking if everything is alright with her/us since she mentioned not feeling great mentally/emotionally and that I'm a bit confused and lost about things. That'll be the last thing I send on my own. Ball is in her court rn and I'm putting her on ignore and hiding her on FB so the temptation isn't there and I'm not checking at my phone to see if she sent anything back lol Only downside is we work in the same industry and said industry isn't very large in town so I'll probably see her in person as soon as tomorrow or later today lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Number090684 01/03/22 9:15:52 AM #26:	Doom_Art posted... The only reason I'm kinda baffled is the aforementioned friendship and the fact that she apparently had been trying to make me and her happen for like a few years now. It's totally possible she just doesn't care about me or value me, I just have a hard time wrapping my head around having such a 180 in opinion so relatively quickly. She had also made reference before about the fact that she tends to have a hard time confronting heavy emotional stuff head on, but always will just "eventually when I feel I'm ready and on my terms" which in hindsight should've been a big red flag lol The part that keeps getting me is then just say that to me? Like she knows me pretty well even outside of the relationship she should know I'd have been able to handle something like "Hey I'm in a weird place rn let's hold off on chatting or contact for a bit" Sounds like it could be that the real you, isn't quite what she envisioned, but that's probably not your fault. When people want something, their imagination tends to run wild with possibilities, and once they have it they can become disillusioned upon discovering the truth of things may not be how they thought. Still, you'd probably be better off putting this fickle, immature girl behind you because she doesn't seem to respect your time, effort and feelings, or you in general. <cite>Number090684 posted [p:961432201] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Doom_Art posted... </cite> <quote>The only reason I'm kinda baffled is the aforementioned friendship and the fact that she apparently had been trying to make me and her happen for like a few years now. It's totally possible she just doesn't care about me or value me, I just have a hard time wrapping my head around having such a 180 in opinion so relatively quickly. She had also made reference before about the fact that she tends to have a hard time confronting heavy emotional stuff head on, but always will just "eventually when I feel I'm ready and on my terms" which in hindsight should've been a big red flag lol The part that keeps getting me is then just say that to me? Like she knows me pretty well even outside of the relationship she should know I'd have been able to handle something like "Hey I'm in a weird place rn let's hold off on chatting or contact for a bit"</quote> Sounds like it could be that the real you, isn't quite what she envisioned, but that's probably not your fault. When people want something, their imagination tends to run wild with possibilities, and once they have it they can become disillusioned upon discovering the truth of things may not be how they thought. Still, you'd probably be better off putting this fickle, immature girl behind you because she doesn't seem to respect your time, effort and feelings, or you in general. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VigorouslySwish 01/03/22 9:16:47 AM #27:	Doom_Art posted... Only downside is we work in the same industry and said industry isn't very large in town so I'll probably see her in person as soon as tomorrow or later today lol hmmm seems unlikely she would flat out ghost you then tbh maybe shes been kidnapped? --- i'm just some guy yellin' about apple sauce <cite>VigorouslySwish posted [p:961432217] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Doom_Art posted... </cite> <quote>Only downside is we work in the same industry and said industry isn't very large in town so I'll probably see her in person as soon as tomorrow or later today lol</quote> hmmm seems unlikely she would flat out ghost you then tbh maybe shes been kidnapped? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VigorouslySwish 01/03/22 9:17:22 AM #28:	ghosting only works if you never run into the person --- i'm just some guy yellin' about apple sauce <cite>VigorouslySwish posted [p:961432227] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>ghosting only works if you never run into the person </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lolife67 01/03/22 9:17:45 AM #29:	Is she active elsewhere? Because she could be sick and non-responsive. <cite>lolife67 posted [p:961432232] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Is she active elsewhere? Because she could be sick and non-responsive. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SweetieBeIle462 01/03/22 9:19:20 AM #30:	ModLogic posted... possibly soup related --- Mac Book Pro 16 - 6-Core i7-9750H @ 2.60GHz - 32gb DDR4 2667 MHz - Radeon Pro 5500M 8gb - 2TB Apple SSD Now Playing: Metroid Dread, Tales of Arise, Dead By Daylight <cite>SweetieBeIle462 posted [p:961432253] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>ModLogic posted... </cite> <quote>possibly soup related</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:20:32 AM #31:	VigorouslySwish posted... hmmm seems unlikely she would flat out ghost you then tbh Yeah Iunno Our workplace/whatever you wanna call it is going through a bit of a scandal right now and that has contributed quite a bit to her stress or whatever. So it seems bizarre that she would heap on "I'll ghost Doom_Art even though I'll still see him all the time" drama on top of that but who knows VigorouslySwish posted... maybe shes been kidnapped? She's been active on FB, Xbox, and other online stuff we're friends on. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961432277] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>VigorouslySwish posted... </cite> <quote>hmmm seems unlikely she would flat out ghost you then tbh</quote>Yeah Iunno Our workplace/whatever you wanna call it is going through a bit of a scandal right now and that has contributed quite a bit to her stress or whatever. So it seems bizarre that she would heap on "I'll ghost Doom_Art even though I'll still see him all the time" drama on top of that but who knows VigorouslySwish posted... </cite> <quote>maybe shes been kidnapped?</quote>She's been active on FB, Xbox, and other online stuff we're friends on. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 01/03/22 9:20:48 AM #32:	Doom_Art posted... The part that keeps getting me is then just say that to me? Like she knows me pretty well even outside of the relationship she should know I'd have been able to handle something like "Hey I'm in a weird place rn let's hold off on chatting or contact for a bit" I guess that gets back to her being bad at confronting emotions. It does suck, and yeah now that I understand your relationship better it does seem odd she couldnt throw you a courtesy text. But again, it doesnt reflect on you at all. Im constantly dropping out of text conversations with no explanation whatsoever even with my closest friends and family and it doesnt say anything negative about them at all, its just me and my own dumb brain not letting me keep up relationships. --- "if i was a woman i would mail kyle rittenhouse my panties." ~ledbowman "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:961432279] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Doom_Art posted... </cite> <quote>The part that keeps getting me is then just say that to me? Like she knows me pretty well even outside of the relationship she should know I'd have been able to handle something like "Hey I'm in a weird place rn let's hold off on chatting or contact for a bit"</quote> I guess that gets back to her being bad at confronting emotions. It does suck, and yeah now that I understand your relationship better it does seem odd she couldnt throw you a courtesy text. But again, it doesnt reflect on you at all. Im constantly dropping out of text conversations with no explanation whatsoever even with my closest friends and family and it doesnt say anything negative about them at all, its just me and my own dumb brain not letting me keep up relationships. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:28:20 AM #33:	For added context, the last time we hung out was the 13th We had plans for more stuff but she had to isolate for several days because she had developed cold symptoms and had a close contact with someone who may have had COVID. She ended up being fine, and when we spoke on Christmas she apologized for not coming over and that "Work is hell, I'm mentally exhausted and just lie in bed not moving, I sleep all day/night" Then developed cold symptoms again on boxing day, so that was a no go for hanging out. Shablagoo posted... I guess that gets back to her being bad at confronting emotions. It does suck, and yeah now that I understand your relationship better it does seem odd she couldnt throw you a courtesy text. But again, it doesnt reflect on you at all. Im constantly dropping out of text conversations with no explanation whatsoever even with my closest friends and family and it doesnt say anything negative about them at all, its just me and my own dumb brain not letting me keep up relationships. Now I'm self conscious that I may have pushed a bit too hard in sending followup messages lol Literally "Happy new year!!! emojis" 1.5 days later: "...?" Several hours after that: "Hey?" This morning: wordy message asking what's wrong/going on with everything --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961432380] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>For added context, the last time we hung out was the 13th We had plans for more stuff but she had to isolate for several days because she had developed cold symptoms and had a close contact with someone who may have had COVID. She ended up being fine, and when we spoke on Christmas she apologized for not coming over and that "Work is hell, I'm mentally exhausted and just lie in bed not moving, I sleep all day/night" Then developed cold symptoms again on boxing day, so that was a no go for hanging out. Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>I guess that gets back to her being bad at confronting emotions. It does suck, and yeah now that I understand your relationship better it does seem odd she couldnt throw you a courtesy text. But again, it doesnt reflect on you at all. Im constantly dropping out of text conversations with no explanation whatsoever even with my closest friends and family and it doesnt say anything negative about them at all, its just me and my own dumb brain not letting me keep up relationships.</quote>Now I'm self conscious that I may have pushed a bit too hard in sending followup messages lol Literally "Happy new year!!! emojis" 1.5 days later: "...?" Several hours after that: "Hey?" This morning: wordy message asking what's wrong/going on with everything </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 01/03/22 9:34:52 AM #34:	Doom_Art posted... Now I'm self conscious that I may have pushed a bit too hard in sending followup messages lol Literally "Happy new year!!! emojis" 1.5 days later: "...?" Several hours after that: "Hey?" This morning: wordy message asking what's wrong/going on with everything I think its fine since you two are so close, and if it isnt then it wouldnt be worth pursuing anyway. But yeah, definitely wait for her to respond before you say anything else at this point, imo. --- "if i was a woman i would mail kyle rittenhouse my panties." ~ledbowman "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:961432497] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Doom_Art posted... </cite> <quote>Now I'm self conscious that I may have pushed a bit too hard in sending followup messages lol Literally "Happy new year!!! emojis" 1.5 days later: "...?" Several hours after that: "Hey?" This morning: wordy message asking what's wrong/going on with everything</quote> I think its fine since you two are so close, and if it isnt then it wouldnt be worth pursuing anyway. But yeah, definitely wait for her to respond before you say anything else at this point, imo. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:36:06 AM #35:	If I see her later today should I address it? --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961432516] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>If I see her later today should I address it? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RetsuZaiZen 01/03/22 9:39:36 AM #37:	Doom_Art posted... If I see her later today should I address it? No --- Why do nerds always get caught up on the details? Michael Jordan is both the greatest and most overrated basketball player of all time. <cite>RetsuZaiZen posted [p:961432557] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Doom_Art posted... </cite> <quote>If I see her later today should I address it?</quote>No </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 01/03/22 9:40:19 AM #38:	Doom_Art posted... If I see her later today should I address it? Up to you but I would say no. If shes having a hard time figuring out what to say over text she probably would hate even more to have it dumped on her in person. I would just keep it casual and friendly if you run into her today. (Unless of course she mentions it or leaves an obvious opportunity for you to bring it up.) --- "if i was a woman i would mail kyle rittenhouse my panties." ~ledbowman "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:961432570] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Doom_Art posted... </cite> <quote>If I see her later today should I address it?</quote> Up to you but I would say no. If shes having a hard time figuring out what to say over text she probably would hate even more to have it dumped on her in person. I would just keep it casual and friendly if you run into her today. (Unless of course she mentions it or leaves an obvious opportunity for you to bring it up.) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorthremar 01/03/22 9:43:07 AM #39:	Doom_Art posted... If I see her later today should I address it? absolutely not lol --- the 9/11 buildings got destroyed in the 9/11 thing - xyphilia <cite>Lorthremar posted [p:961432612] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Doom_Art posted... </cite> <quote>If I see her later today should I address it?</quote>absolutely not lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:44:24 AM #40:	RetsuZaiZen posted... No Shablagoo posted... Up to you but I would say no. If shes having a hard time figuring out what to say over text she probably would hate even more to have it dumped on her in person. I would just keep it casual and friendly if you run into her today. (Unless of course she mentions it or leaves an obvious opportunity for you to bring it up.) Lorthremar posted... absolutely not lol I'll be outwardly pleasant and normal then lol --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961432635] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>RetsuZaiZen posted... </cite> <quote>No</quote> Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Up to you but I would say no. If shes having a hard time figuring out what to say over text she probably would hate even more to have it dumped on her in person. I would just keep it casual and friendly if you run into her today. (Unless of course she mentions it or leaves an obvious opportunity for you to bring it up.)</quote> Lorthremar posted... </cite> <quote>absolutely not lol</quote>I'll be outwardly pleasant and normal then lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:49:26 AM #41:	I was venting to a female friend about this and she suggested something like "Have you considered going to her place and confronting her?" And I'm like, that's the worst idea I've ever heard. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961432700] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>I was venting to a female friend about this and she suggested something like "Have you considered going to her place and confronting her?" And I'm like, that's the worst idea I've ever heard. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:51:59 AM #42:	Anyway, with regards to seeing her today or tomorrow. I can keep up a casual/friendly vibe, but I'm worried if she's frosty towards me it'll throw me off then lol --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961432736] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Anyway, with regards to seeing her today or tomorrow. I can keep up a casual/friendly vibe, but I'm worried if she's frosty towards me it'll throw me off then lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
smoke_break 01/03/22 9:52:29 AM #44:	Steve Nick posted... She'll eventually reach out with a message again when the tide rolls that way. And if that happens he should ignore her, out of his own self-respect. --- https://i.imgur.com/mOCFlRv.jpg <cite>smoke_break posted [p:961432743] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Steve Nick posted... </cite> <quote>She'll eventually reach out with a message again when the tide rolls that way.</quote>And if that happens he should ignore her, out of his own self-respect. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:55:14 AM #46:	smoke_break posted... And if that happens he should ignore her, out of his own self-respect. I mean I don't see myself just flat out ignoring her, if only because we have a prior friendship, working relationship and a history together Whether I bother trying to get back together with her or work things out is a big question mark rn though lol --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961432797] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>smoke_break posted... </cite> <quote>And if that happens he should ignore her, out of his own self-respect.</quote>I mean I don't see myself just flat out ignoring her, if only because we have a prior friendship, working relationship and a history together Whether I bother trying to get back together with her or work things out is a big question mark rn though lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 01/03/22 9:56:46 AM #47:	Steve Nick posted... this seems extreme. It seems like it was just a casual thing. I've had casual things with girls go off and on for years and intersect with one another. If you're emotionally cool with it and how it all went down yhen no worries, but if you're cut up about it you need to remove that from your life like an abcess. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:961432825] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Steve Nick posted... </cite> <quote>this seems extreme. It seems like it was just a casual thing. I've had casual things with girls go off and on for years and intersect with one another.</quote> If you're emotionally cool with it and how it all went down yhen no worries, but if you're cut up about it you need to remove that from your life like an abcess. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sackgurl 01/03/22 9:58:43 AM #48:	based on her messages about feeling unwell emotionally/mentally, what's probably going on here is she's depressed (and probably not because of you) depressed people sometimes stop responding to their entire network and "lie in bed all day/night" doing nothing. they call it 'inertia' and it becomes harder and harder to respond when more time passes from a message safe bet if this is the case you won't see her at work today if you do, and she makes eye contact, i'd suggest asking her how she's feeling--as a friend, since you were friends before --- LittleBigPlanet is like merging dress-up with a real game. <cite>Sackgurl posted [p:961432862] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>based on her messages about feeling unwell emotionally/mentally, what's probably going on here is she's depressed (and probably not because of you) depressed people sometimes stop responding to their entire network and "lie in bed all day/night" doing nothing. they call it 'inertia' and it becomes harder and harder to respond when more time passes from a message safe bet if this is the case you won't see her at work today if you do, and she makes eye contact, i'd suggest asking her how she's feeling--as a friend, since you were friends before </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrizztLink 01/03/22 9:58:55 AM #49:	Doom_Art posted... I was venting to a female friend about this and she suggested something like "Have you considered going to her place and confronting her?" And I'm like, that's the worst idea I've ever heard. Your lady friend is trying to make some soup in your relationship, my son. --- http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://i.imgur.com/M8h2ATe.png https://i.imgur.com/6ezFwG1.png <cite>DrizztLink posted [p:961432868] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Doom_Art posted... </cite> <quote>I was venting to a female friend about this and she suggested something like "Have you considered going to her place and confronting her?" And I'm like, that's the worst idea I've ever heard.</quote>Your lady friend is trying to make some soup in your relationship, my son. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:59:49 AM #50:	pinky0926 posted... If you're emotionally cool with it and how it all went down yhen no worries, but if you're cut up about it you need to remove that from your life like an abcess. I agree with the spirit of "delete her number/facebook" But I find just flat-out removing all trace of her from my life and closing that door entirely to be a bit extreme at the moment Though it might become necessary later on depending on how things shake out. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961432887] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>pinky0926 posted... </cite> <quote>If you're emotionally cool with it and how it all went down yhen no worries, but if you're cut up about it you need to remove that from your life like an abcess.</quote>I agree with the spirit of "delete her number/facebook" But I find just flat-out removing all trace of her from my life and closing that door entirely to be a bit extreme at the moment Though it might become necessary later on depending on how things shake out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ROBANN_88 01/03/22 10:06:27 AM #51:	I had similar issues a while back. Girl i'm playing DnD with started flirting with me, not gonna go into details but it got pretty hot. We could talk for hours daily. And then it just sort of stopped, i'd be lucky to get one word responses. She said it's cause of personal mental health issues That was february last year. it took me months to get over it. I was absolutely miserable for a good while. At least i think i'm over it...most of the time We still talk, as we're still in the same friend group, but it's not the same I don't know where i was going with this post --- http://i.imgur.com/cUNC8DI.jpg <cite>ROBANN_88 posted [p:961433014] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>I had similar issues a while back. Girl i'm playing DnD with started flirting with me, not gonna go into details but it got pretty hot. We could talk for hours daily. And then it just sort of stopped, i'd be lucky to get one word responses. She said it's cause of personal mental health issues That was february last year. it took me months to get over it. I was absolutely miserable for a good while. At least i think i'm over it...most of the time We still talk, as we're still in the same friend group, but it's not the same I don't know where i was going with this post </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 01/03/22 10:17:00 AM #52:	ROBANN_88 posted... I don't know where i was going with this post Nah you're all good. That's a good example of what mental health can do to these sorts of relationships/situations. Sorry that happened to you, man. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961433203] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>ROBANN_88 posted... </cite> <quote>I don't know where i was going with this post</quote> Nah you're all good. That's a good example of what mental health can do to these sorts of relationships/situations. Sorry that happened to you, man. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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