Current Events > Just found out my gf ad her ex take her to her Xmas get together.

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I always thought TC was a girl from the selfie topics.

They smashing for sure.
Have some self respect and break up.

yemmy posted...

lol this

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He is alive as of 1 hour ago

Dont hurt yourself bro, just cut all contact

I remember seeing a vid probably 10 years ago and i think it was a compliation of people eho committed suicide. One of them was a young kid (18 or 19) who went on youtube and was bawling his eyes out. I wish i could have had the chance to show him there are plenty of other options out there. If a girl loses interest on you you just move on.

SauI_Goodman posted...

I remember seeing a vid probably 10 years ago and i think it was a compliation of people eho committed suicide. One of them was a young kid (18 or 19) who went on youtube and was bawling his eyes out. I wish i could have had the chance to show him there are plenty of other options out there. If a girl loses interest on you you just move on.

Yeah, lots of women out there

@WrestlinFan
Hey what's up

yemmy posted...

Fuck her one more time before you break up TC.

And then pull it out and bust a load on her yelling out "it's over bitch how you like them apples"!

No this is horrible advice as she can claim it was non consensual and fuck with his life.

He needs to dump her and block her completely, then move the hell on as she is not worth an ounce of piss and sure as hell not worth hurting himself over.

WrestlinFan posted...

She told me she was sick and was throwing up and had fever all day and that was why she couldnt see me or call me. Turns out her mom posted a pic on FB an hour ago of her family and her ex all posing together like a big happy family. I want to do things to myself that would get this post moderated.

Use this as a learning experience. You got cucked because of something you did. There are portions of your personality/behavior that either:

• convinced her that she could do this to you without repercussions
• made her not respect you, and caused her to use you as an object for her own personal gain, rather than view you as a human being on equal footing with her
• she found unattractive, and it caused her to no longer care about you
• led you to giving a terrible person who was never worth your time & energy in the first placewellled you to giving them your time & energy

Yes, shes terrible. However, being bitter about it will yield nothing but negative results. Instead just use this as a learning experience, recognize what faults in your own personality/behavior allowed this shit to happen, and fix that shit.

Self-Improve yourself, and then go out and get a better partner. Go find happiness. You are capable of it, you deserve it, and its 100% within your reach it just takes a little effort.

Try visiting the sex board for actual helpful advice, dont take anything CE says seriously at all dude. Good luck

Why do people even develop bonds with others in the first place? There's not a single soul out there that can be trusted, as they'll will backstab you the first chance they get if it means that they get theirs.

STEROLIZER posted...

Use this as a learning experience. You got cucked because of something you did. There are portions of your personality/behavior that either:

* convinced her that she could do this to you without repercussions
* made her not respect you, and caused her to use you as an object for her own personal gain, rather than view you as a human being on equal footing with her
* she found unattractive, and it caused her to no longer care about you
* led you to giving a terrible person who was never worth your time & energy in the first placewellled you to giving them your time & energy

Yes, shes terrible. However, being bitter about it will have both nothing but negative results. Instead just use this as a learning experience, recognize what faults in your own personality/behave allowed this shit to happen, and fix that shit.

Self-Improve yourself, and then go out and get a better partner. Go find happiness. You are capable of it, you deserve it, and its 100% within your reach it just takes a little effort.

Try visiting the sex board for actual helpful advice, dont take anything CE says seriously at all dude. Good luck

The sex board is filled with a bunch of virgins though

RedLuigi posted...

The sex board is filled with a bunch of virgins though

Less than CE, at least among the active posters

RedLuigi posted...

The sex board is filled with a bunch of virgins though

True. 40% virgins by there own admission, but mostly are just lurkers from this board which is 60% virgins by its own admission.

The difference being that the 60% of virgins on CE actually interact with CE on a daily basis whereas the 40% of Virgins on the Sex board also interact with CE on a daily basis but only about 5% of them actually interact with the Sex board itself.

cardoor123 posted...

Why do people even develop bonds with others in the first place? There's not a single soul out there that can be trusted, as they'll will backstab you the first chance they get if it means that they get theirs.

This is why yall need to stop posting here if you want to actually dig yourselves out of your pits of inceldom and despair.

Its ableist bullshit like this that prevents wayward users from self-improve enough to actually put themselves on a path that will lead them to a happy and fulfilling life.

Dump her, man. They have too much history and youre clearly not being respected.

SauI_Goodman posted...

That doesnt necessarily mean theyre banging. Relax my man dont make it worse.

Oh no. It totally does. Acceptance before denial dude.

Its a good thing. 7 years of shitty marriage isnt as terrible as 8 years of a shitty marriage. Time to get out there and find a better horse to ride off into the sunset

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Sure. Dont listen to the guy telling you that this sucks buts its going to be alright. Instead listen to the incels who are telling you not to ever form emotional bonds ever again.

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But hes right. This situation is super disrespectful to TC and he deserves better.

cardoor123 posted...

Why do people even develop bonds with others in the first place? There's not a single soul out there that can be trusted, as they'll will backstab you the first chance they get if it means that they get theirs.

WTF? Not true

PuppetPalClem posted...

But hes right. This situation is super disrespectful to TC and he deserves better.

STEROLIZERs Gimmick

Dont take advice from the CE incels seriously.

Its not okay to be lonely and sad. Everyone is both deserving and CAPABLE of love, family, and happiness. So lets make it happen!

Yea, this gimmick fucking enrages CE to no end

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No what he said is pretty true.

Men in their desperation to not be lonely will absolutely do things for women that they shouldn't and act as a "doormats with perks"

I can get my last few girlfriends over for sex at any time. My recent ex has offered to come see me many times since we broke up last November. I called her to give her the hulu password(don't care if she uses it) and she STILL answers on the first ring for me.

You're fucked. Don't let anyone tell you different, in fact she most likely had sex with him at that gathering in a car or an empty room once the festivities died down. Seriously, prepare for your separation.

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It is actually a pretty good post for anyone who has experience with dating. Focusing on how you can improve and what you may have done wrong is empowering and improves your life. While TC's gf is very much in the wrong here, you still gotta focus on what you can do differently next time.

Sorry smo but if you dont understand that what Stero said was true, maybe you should just leave the topic, or change your attitude

STEROLIZER posted...

Sure. Dont listen to the guy telling you that this sucks buts its going to be alright. Instead listen to the incels who are telling you not to ever form emotional bonds ever again.

Should note that that guy is the boyfriend of CE's Popcorn Queen, Woozul. They serve excellent popcorn when trolling CE.

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And there's the thing you're missing.

No one's saying what the girlfriend did isn't unexcusable and s***** behavior but if you enable that behavior and fail to see the signs of a user, you make yourself easy to exploit.

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And what is your experience with relationships?

I always think about how I can improve for next time, regardless of how it ended. It isn't victim blaming; it is taking control of your life.

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It is not. The girlfriends actions are not excusable, but they still happened for a reason.

The best thing that can be done in this situation is too learn from it. Dump her, and then figure out what went wrong, and make the proper corrections to patch them up.

This is why after a relationship ends people take time off to work on themselves

I actually advise getting back on the horse ASAP, and working on yourself in real time. Just be conscious of your past experiences and try not to make the same mistakes.

Men who just accept that their wife cheating on them was out of their control are doomed to repeat the same mistakes.

STEROLIZER posted...

Use this as a learning experience. You got cucked because of something you did. There are portions of your personality/behavior that either:

* convinced her that she could do this to you without repercussions
* made her not respect you, and caused her to use you as an object for her own personal gain, rather than view you as a human being on equal footing with her
* she found unattractive, and it caused her to no longer care about you
* led you to giving a terrible person who was never worth your time & energy in the first placewellled you to giving them your time & energy

Yes, shes terrible. However, being bitter about it will yield nothing but negative results. Instead just use this as a learning experience, recognize what faults in your own personality/behavior allowed this shit to happen, and fix that shit.

Self-Improve yourself, and then go out and get a better partner. Go find happiness. You are capable of it, you deserve it, and its 100% within your reach it just takes a little effort.

Try visiting the sex board for actual helpful advice, dont take anything CE says seriously at all dude. Good luck

CEmen do not have the spine to accept this advice sadly. They will attack you and call you an incel. Not only are they willfully ignorant, they behave this way to avoid responsibility for self improving even though it leads to these poor outcomes. They feed the issues they cry about.

Like the guys who cry about women acting a certain way online, posting certain content, cry about women making onlyfans...but 90% of guys complaining consume it. I don't even have social media besides Linkedin and a blank IG with no pictures/info used for pure communication with women i bag when I'm out and about. Literally just to coordinate because most women prefer IG to giving phone numbers these days.

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I hope youre misinterpreting Steros post on purpose. Otherwise, big yikes. Just take the L and dip.

If she is willing to lie about being sick, she is willing to lie about banging her ex.

Well, first, since it is just a FB picture, are you able to confirm that the picture was from this Christmas?

Sometimes Facebook will nudge you to repost pictures from previous years' events.

Fony posted...

CEmen do not have the spine to accept this advice sadly. They will attack you and call you an incel. Not only are they willfully ignorant, they behave this way to avoid responsibility for self improving even though it leads to these poor outcomes. They feed the issues they cry about.

Like the guys who cry about women acting a certain way online, posting certain content, cry about women making onlyfans...but 90% of guys here consume it. I don't even have social media besides Linkedin and a blank IG with no pictures/info used for pure communication with women i bag when I'm out and about. Literally just to coordinate because most women prefer IG to giving phone numbers these days.

Quite true. CEmen cannot take a differing opinion, writing them off as "trolling." They also love selling the victim narrative to get the pity party, and toss the "victim blaming" defense whenever called out for their lack of personal responsibility. Oh and they will also block you because some are so fragile that they need their own personal echo chamber.

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Red Flags is what is wrong with someone else. Being a catalyst is whats wrong with yourself. The two are not mutually exclusive.

It takes two to tango.

Esrac posted...

Well, first, since it is just a FB picture, are you able to confirm that the picture was from this Christmas?

Sometimes Facebook will nudge you to repost pictures from previous years' events.

this is also true

STEROLIZER posted...

It is not. The girlfriends actions are not excusable, but they still happened for a reason.

The best thing that can be done in this situation is too learn from it. Dump her, and then figure out what went wrong, and make the proper corrections to patch them up.

This is why after a relationship ends people take time off to work on themselves

I actually advise getting back on the horse ASAP, and working on yourself in real time. Just be conscious of your past experiences and try not to make the same mistakes.

Men who just accept that their wife cheating on them was out of their control are doomed to repeat the same mistakes.

I agree with everything you said except for saying that it happened because of something TC did. It's good for TC to learn from this and better himself, but blaming him for her actions doesn't help him. He already started this topic basically stating he wanted to hurt himself. Don't add "it's your fault" onto how down he's already feeling.

STEROLIZER posted...

Red Flags is what is wrong with someone else. Being a catalyst is whats wrong with yourself. The two are not mutually exclusive.

It takes two to tango.

Brother, these guys do not take responsibility for their contribution to shitty relationships. How can you just write off a woman as bad and move on yet don't examine how you allowed the thing to spiral to this or allowed her to be your woman period? If she is bad, you're making bad picks!

We are not born with our dick in some girl. We are not born with a partner. We CHOOSE them. We show them what is allowed by our actions. Problem is these guys don't do what they need to do to give themselves GOOD options to choose from.

I bet anything that OP's woman has shown signs of regretting losing her ex or signs of liking him or other men, to his face. I guarantee that.

The fact is this, these guys have a deeper loneliness pool and a deeper need for validation pool than their self respect or reasoning pools. OP isn't BAD and his woman is bad, but he allowed this to happen.

Fony posted...

Brother, these guys do not take responsibility for their contribution to shitty relationships. How can you just write off a woman as bad and move on yet don't examine how you allowed the thing to spiral to this or allowed her to be your woman period? If she is bad, you're making bad picks!

We are not born with our dick in some girl. We are not born with a partner. We CHOOSE them. We show them what is allowed by our actions. Problem is these guys don't do what they need to do to give themselves GOOD options to choose from.

I bet anything that OP's woman has shown signs of regretting losing her ex or signs of liking him or other men, to his face. I guarantee that.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t4A-Ml8YHyM

NoxObscuras posted...

I agree with everything you said except for saying that it happened because of something TC did. It's good for TC to learn from this and better himself, but blaming him for her actions doesn't help him. He already started this topic basically stating he wanted to hurt himself. Don't add "it's your fault" onto how down he's already feeling.

Bro, I told him everything is going to be okay. This is not the end of the world, and can in fact be a good thing.

I told him hes both capable and deserving of happinesses, and gave him actual advice to help him achieve it.

If anyone in this topic is encouraging him to not harm himself, it is most definitely me. There are a plethora of posts in here basically telling him the the world is out of his control, and its not worth it.

Fuck that noise! The world is an amazing place full of wonder, riches, and orgasmic glory and its his for the taking.

STEROLIZER posted...

Bro, I told him everything is going to be okay. This is not the end of the world, and can in fact be a good thing.

I told him hes both capable and deserving of happinesses, and gave him actual advice to help him achieve it.

If anyone in this topic is encouraging him to not harm himself, it is most definitely me. There are a plethora of posts in here basically telling him the the world is out of his control, and its not worth it.

Fuck that noise! The world is an amazing place full of wonder, riches, and orgasmic glory and its his for the taking. He just has to go out and take it.

CE will have OP stumbling right into another trap of another woman like this. It's crazy and sad. He is already talking about self deletion. He needs actual help to BETTER his situation, not the empty moralizing and self victimization(removing his power to change his own life) of other CEmen who are in the same spot as him and just haven't found out.

You're doing the lord's work out here.