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sLaCkEr408___RJ 12/09/21 6:30:22 PM #1:	Whose Side Do You Take? Bride Ex-Friend Whose Side Do You Take? - Results (13 votes) Bride 61.54% (8 votes) 8 Ex-Friend 38.46% (5 votes) 5 Bride reasons it's because ex-friend wasn't supportive of the relationship for years. Ex-friend stands her ground and inexplicitly takes their entire friend group with her; bride is left with just family to attend. <cite>sLaCkEr408___RJ posted [p:960768365] in Long-time ... [t:79802931]...</cite> <quote> Whose Side Do You Take? Bride Ex-Friend Vote View Results Whose Side Do You Take? - Results (13 votes) Bride 61.54% (8 votes) 8 Ex-Friend 38.46% (5 votes) 5 Show Voting Form Bride reasons it's because ex-friend wasn't supportive of the relationship for years. Ex-friend stands her ground and inexplicitly takes their entire friend group with her; bride is left with just family to attend. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SauI_Goodman 12/09/21 6:32:03 PM #2:	doesn't sound like their friendship was worth a damn to begin with lol --- If you can see this message it's a wonder why it hasn't been modded yet by the snowflakes. <cite>SauI_Goodman posted [p:960768411] in Long-time ... [t:79802931]...</cite> <quote>doesn't sound like their friendship was worth a damn to begin with lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AngelicRadiance 12/09/21 6:32:42 PM #3:	I mean if the entire friend group abandoned the bride over this maybe she's the one in the wrong --- She/Her <cite>AngelicRadiance posted [p:960768438] in Long-time ... [t:79802931]...</cite> <quote>I mean if the entire friend group abandoned the bride over this maybe she's the one in the wrong </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Critic 12/09/21 6:32:56 PM #4:	If the entire friend group leaves decent chance the guy sucks big time. <cite>The_Critic posted [p:960768443] in Long-time ... [t:79802931]...</cite> <quote>If the entire friend group leaves decent chance the guy sucks big time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 12/09/21 6:35:24 PM #5:	sLaCkEr408___RJ posted... Bride reasons it's because ex-friend wasn't supportive of the relationship for years. Ex-friend stands her ground and inexplicitly takes their entire friend group with her; bride is left with just family to attend. Sounds like none of the people convinced to go were even friends with her in the first place. Aside from that bride is in the right, its her wedding she has the right to pick whoever she wants as bridesmaids, if your not supportive of the relationship why would you even want to be a bridesmaid in the first place it explicitly goes against your stance on the relationship. Also convincing everyone else not to go is petty and pathetic. --- All posters and events depicted in this post are entirely fictitious. Any similarity to actual events or posters, living or dead, is purely coincidental. <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:960768513] in Long-time ... [t:79802931]...</cite> <quote>sLaCkEr408___RJ posted... </cite> <quote>Bride reasons it's because ex-friend wasn't supportive of the relationship for years. Ex-friend stands her ground and inexplicitly takes their entire friend group with her; bride is left with just family to attend.</quote>Sounds like none of the people convinced to go were even friends with her in the first place. Aside from that bride is in the right, its her wedding she has the right to pick whoever she wants as bridesmaids, if your not supportive of the relationship why would you even want to be a bridesmaid in the first place it explicitly goes against your stance on the relationship. Also convincing everyone else not to go is petty and pathetic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
creativeme 12/09/21 6:36:06 PM #6:	AngelicRadiance posted... I mean if the entire friend group abandoned the bride over this maybe she's the one in the wrong yea i'm guessing there's a lot more to the story. black and white with the 1 line context we got. the bride is right. now if we had more info and the guy is some douchebag than the ex friend is right. <cite>creativeme posted [p:960768539] in Long-time ... [t:79802931]...</cite> <quote>AngelicRadiance posted... </cite> <quote>I mean if the entire friend group abandoned the bride over this maybe she's the one in the wrong</quote> yea i'm guessing there's a lot more to the story. black and white with the 1 line context we got. the bride is right. now if we had more info and the guy is some douchebag than the ex friend is right. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sLaCkEr408___RJ 12/09/21 6:36:23 PM #7:	SauI_Goodman posted... doesn't sound like their friendship was worth a damn to begin with lol Ex-friend was usually the alpha. AngelicRadiance posted... I mean if the entire friend group abandoned the bride over this maybe she's the one in the wrong Bride and ex-friends have been together since middle school. They met their new group together, but seemed to follow ex-friends lead. The_Critic posted... If the entire friend group leaves decent chance the guy sucks big time. Bride stated it was the ex-friend and fiance that butted heads, but everyone else was cool. IfGodCouldDie posted... Sounds like none of the people convinced to go were even friends with her in the first place. Aside from that bride is in the right, its her wedding she has the right to pick whoever she wants as bridesmaids, if your not supportive of the relationship why would you even want to be a bridesmaid in the first place it explicitly goes against your stance on the relationship. Also convincing everyone else not to go is petty and pathetic. It was during covid, so the plan was to just invite close friends and family. It was during wedding planning that the friends had a falling out. The bride tried to keep in touch with the remaining friends, but they slowly faded away. It's unknown if the ex-friend persuaded others not to speak to bride or if they just weren't as close with her as the bride thought. creativeme posted... yea i'm guessing there's a lot more to the story. black and white with the 1 line context we got. the bride is right. now if we had more info and the guy is some douchebag than the ex friend is right. Stand by for more groom info <cite>sLaCkEr408___RJ posted [p:960768549] in Long-time ... [t:79802931]...</cite> <quote>SauI_Goodman posted... </cite> <quote>doesn't sound like their friendship was worth a damn to begin with lol</quote>Ex-friend was usually the alpha. AngelicRadiance posted... </cite> <quote>I mean if the entire friend group abandoned the bride over this maybe she's the one in the wrong</quote>Bride and ex-friends have been together since middle school. They met their new group together, but seemed to follow ex-friends lead. The_Critic posted... </cite> <quote>If the entire friend group leaves decent chance the guy sucks big time.</quote>Bride stated it was the ex-friend and fiance that butted heads, but everyone else was cool. IfGodCouldDie posted... </cite> <quote>Sounds like none of the people convinced to go were even friends with her in the first place. Aside from that bride is in the right, its her wedding she has the right to pick whoever she wants as bridesmaids, if your not supportive of the relationship why would you even want to be a bridesmaid in the first place it explicitly goes against your stance on the relationship. Also convincing everyone else not to go is petty and pathetic.</quote>It was during covid, so the plan was to just invite close friends and family. It was during wedding planning that the friends had a falling out. The bride tried to keep in touch with the remaining friends, but they slowly faded away. It's unknown if the ex-friend persuaded others not to speak to bride or if they just weren't as close with her as the bride thought. creativeme posted... </cite> <quote>yea i'm guessing there's a lot more to the story. black and white with the 1 line context we got. the bride is right. now if we had more info and the guy is some douchebag than the ex friend is right.</quote>Stand by for more groom info </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 12/09/21 6:40:04 PM #8:	Imagine being so entitled and petty that you convince your mutual friends not to go, just because you didn't get your way at someone else's wedding. Bride is right and it sounds like she's better off without that toxic friend. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 \| i9-10900K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 3600 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:960768677] in Long-time ... [t:79802931]...</cite> <quote>Imagine being so entitled and petty that you convince your mutual friends not to go, just because you didn't get your way at someone else's wedding. Bride is right and it sounds like she's better off without that toxic friend. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sLaCkEr408___RJ 12/09/21 9:58:52 PM #9:	NoxObscuras posted... Imagine being so entitled and petty that you convince your mutual friends not to go, just because you didn't get your way at someone else's wedding. Bride is right and it sounds like she's better off without that toxic friend. I feel bad for the bride because she's so sweet and non-confrontational, but when she finally stood up for her wedding, her best friend couldn't take it. Bride feels bad about it but she shouldn't have to. The friend just adding stress on top of all the planning. <cite>sLaCkEr408___RJ posted [p:960776445] in Long-time ... [t:79802931]...</cite> <quote>NoxObscuras posted... </cite> <quote>Imagine being so entitled and petty that you convince your mutual friends not to go, just because you didn't get your way at someone else's wedding. Bride is right and it sounds like she's better off without that toxic friend.</quote>I feel bad for the bride because she's so sweet and non-confrontational, but when she finally stood up for her wedding, her best friend couldn't take it. Bride feels bad about it but she shouldn't have to. The friend just adding stress on top of all the planning. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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