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Doom_Art 11/01/21 4:01:34 PM #1: |
...is stinky and the smell from her disgusting habit sank into my clothes and now my favorite jacket has cigarette stink all up in it?
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RedLuigi 11/01/21 4:02:00 PM #2: |
Exactly that lol
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MFBKBass5 11/01/21 4:03:01 PM #3: |
Just be honest. You dont owe her anything. Tell her you want to break up. If she asks why, then tell her. Youll be doing her a favor by being honest about what you dont like.
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Doom_Art 11/01/21 4:05:32 PM #4: |
RedLuigi posted...
Exactly that lolShould I tell her that it was shitty how she couldn't even last a hour without falling back and indulging in her disgusting habit and that seeing her need to suck back a ciggy was repulsive to me? Again I'm not trying to hurt her feelings here --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AABLMD82 11/01/21 4:07:23 PM #6: |
Doom_Art posted...
Should I tell her that it was shitty how she couldn't even last a hour without falling back and indulging in her disgusting habit and that seeing her need to suck back a ciggy was repulsive to me?Yes use those exact words --- What ever happened to Mad Stalker? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MedeaLysistrata 11/01/21 4:08:55 PM #7: |
Direct her to this topic
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Steffenfield 11/01/21 4:25:17 PM #8: |
Be politeful and simple say you have allergies.
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MedeaLysistrata 11/01/21 4:25:58 PM #9: |
lol who is ignoring me, what's the matter?
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Naysaspace 11/01/21 4:26:24 PM #10: |
Doom_Art posted...
...is stinky and the smell from her disgusting habit sank into my clothes and now my favorite jacket has cigarette stink all up in it?you seem like you're incapable of doing it nicely, so just rip the bandaid off. also why'd you get together with her in the first place if you disliked it so much? honest question, because that's exactly what she's going to ask too --- #BladeGang ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pope_Francis_I 11/01/21 4:27:12 PM #11: |
Wow I guess beggars CAN be choosers
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Arcanine2009 11/01/21 4:42:27 PM #12: |
Just say, "I'm sorry but I can't move forward with this with you. I really don't like the smell of smoke"
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g0ldie 11/01/21 4:45:30 PM #13: |
be like, "I really can't stand the cigarettes, and they're a definite deal breaker. I'm not asking you to stop, but I'm telling you how it is"
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Paragon21XX 11/01/21 4:49:02 PM #14: |
"I can't see myself being with a smoker."
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Eat More Beef 11/01/21 5:17:31 PM #15: |
Didn't you survive cancer? Just tell her you can't be around someone who smokes due to that.
Or, you know, just straight up tell her you don't wanna date a smoker cause you find it gross. Be a real human and express your own truth instead of worrying about walking on eggshells. --- I wrote a horror short story collection. You can check it out, and other free short stories at http://www.aarondeck.com ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LostForest 11/01/21 5:18:45 PM #16: |
g0ldie posted...
be like, "I really can't stand the cigarettes, and they're a definite deal breaker. I'm not asking you to stop, but I'm telling you how it is" Paragon21XX posted... "I can't see myself being with a smoker." These, basically. Cigarettes are a pretty common dealbreaker at this point, so I don't think you need to worry about hurting her feelings. --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com Agender, curry fan, Top 10 lister, indie dev, gym hitter, musician, et al. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Solid Snake07 11/01/21 5:21:30 PM #17: |
Think you can just say you don't like that she smokes and leave it at that. Or just don't give her an explanation, it doesn't really matter
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Tyranthraxus 11/01/21 5:24:12 PM #18: |
It's impossible to not hurt feelings but here's what I would say.
"I want to split up. Your tobacco use has made me doubt for any long term future between us. I don't think this is going to work out." --- It says right here in Matthew 16:4 "Jesus doth not need a giant Mecha." https://imgur.com/dQgC4kv ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garioshi 11/01/21 5:25:57 PM #19: |
Tyranthraxus posted...
It's impossible to not hurt feelings but here's what I would say.Stop using corporate language, just say it how it is. --- "I play with myself" - Darklit_Minuet, 2018 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Trumble 11/01/21 5:27:45 PM #20: |
"I am dumping you because you smell."
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Pogo_Marimo 11/01/21 5:28:25 PM #21: |
"I don't want to see you again because cig smoking is gross and unhealthy."
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Gobstoppers12 11/01/21 5:55:01 PM #25: |
Smoking cigarettes is one of the most disgusting things a person can do. The smell immediately clings to the surrounding area. They're literally sucking pollution into their lungs. It makes their breath bad, it messes with their voice, it turns their teeth yellow/brown...if they smoke inside, the walls, floor, tables, etc. etc. get dirty with the buildup of ash particles...
It's just the worst fucking thing to walk into a smoker's house. That's without even mentioning the most annoying part: Doom_Art posted... it was shitty how she couldn't even last a hour without falling back and indulging in her disgusting habitPeople who smoke are restless. They're always coming and going. Sometimes they leave for 10 minutes to smoke on the porch. Sometimes they leave for 25 to go get more cigarettes from the only gas station in town that's open at 2 a.m. I like to relax, and I find that it's hard to relax when I'm hanging out with somebody who can't sit still for more than 30 minutes at a time because they're compelled to run out and smoke. --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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rexcrk 11/01/21 6:40:38 PM #26: |
No but really just tell her the smoking is an issue.
It sure as hell is one of my dealbreakers. Absolutely disgusting habit. --- Bah weep grannah weep ni ni bon ... Copied to Clipboard!
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skermac 11/01/21 6:45:28 PM #27: |
Let her read this topic?
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RedLuigi 11/02/21 9:06:35 AM #28: |
Gobstoppers12 posted...
I like to relax, and I find that it's hard to relax when I'm hanging out with somebody who can't sit still for more than 30 minutes at a time because they're compelled to run out and smoke. The trick is to always hangout outside because then thatd make you the person who cant sit still because its too cold to be outside lol If its inconvenient, then imagine the inside is inconvenient for reasons too :P --- It's-a-me! Green Mario! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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eston 11/02/21 9:09:33 AM #29: |
Tell her that her addiction is tearing this family apart
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