Current Events > You're 32. Drop-dead gorgeous 18 y/o starts chasing you. WYD?

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Metal_Bug
10/14/21 2:42:58 AM
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She could easily pass for a 20-something model. You're single, she's single. She smiles very warmly and is always friendly towards you, going out of her way to see you and seems eager to know more about you all the time. You often try to end the conversations pretty shortly, because you're worried what your associates will think if they see you talking a lot to a girl half your age. You never initiate flirting, but she finds her way to be near you as often as possible. Although you're not being aggressive or exhibiting any predatory behavior towards her at all, people who see the two of you talking a lot might not give you the benefit of the doubt.

She's fucking gorgeous though. The largest part of me wants to flirt back, but the sensible part of me keeps saying I probably shouldn't. What do you guys think?
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Chicken
10/14/21 2:44:29 AM
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that's like a child

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TheChariot
10/14/21 2:44:34 AM
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Flirt back. Take her to my apartment and bang her. etc. Why not?

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Verdekal
10/14/21 2:47:13 AM
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No.

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UnholyMudcrab
10/14/21 2:48:16 AM
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yemmy
10/14/21 2:49:37 AM
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I dated a 19 year old when I was 29.

It didn't work out but some 6 years later and we're still pretty good friends.

I dunno, I mean if you get along go for it but her priorities are gonna be way different.

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joe40001
10/14/21 2:50:11 AM
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I don't understand what the problem is.

If you both connect and she's attractive it's good.

And if you don't connect then it's bad.

Would be true if she was 18, 32, or 50

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bulletproofvita
10/14/21 2:50:37 AM
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Be happy I'm 32 again :)

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DeathDeathSong
10/14/21 2:52:34 AM
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UnholyMudcrab posted...
18 year olds are still children
this

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nothanks1
10/14/21 2:53:14 AM
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Her mom
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Turtlebread
10/14/21 2:53:34 AM
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TheChariot posted...
Flirt back. Take her to my apartment and bang her. etc. Why not?


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GMAK2442
10/14/21 2:54:14 AM
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I think I need to find a girls that has the Diplomas. She need to do something in my house. And with me.

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joe40001
10/14/21 2:55:41 AM
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One thing I always found really weird is people who would have sex with somebody they'd feel "icky" dating. Like if you feel icky dating them, you shouldn't have sex with them.

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Metal_Bug
10/14/21 2:55:44 AM
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joe40001 posted...
If you both connect and she's attractive it's good.
This is the amount of simplicity I would love for the situation to be.

Idk. Maybe next time I see her, I'll tell her I'm almost 32 (I get mistaken for mid-20's a lot). Maybe then she'll think I'm gross and talk to me less. If she keeps flirting with me though, I guess I won't stop her.
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joe40001
10/14/21 2:56:23 AM
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Metal_Bug posted...
This is the amount of simplicity I would love for the situation to be.

Idk. Maybe next time I see her, I'll tell her I'm almost 32 (I get mistaken for mid-20's a lot). Maybe then she'll think I'm gross and talk to me less. If she keeps flirting with me though, I guess I won't stop her.

Why do you feel obligated to mention your age?

Your age doesn't define you.

You define you.

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divot1338
10/14/21 2:57:59 AM
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Use whatever window of time that exists where shes interested to give her a truly mediocre fucking.

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Pepys Monster
10/14/21 2:58:12 AM
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I become her daddy.

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BloodMoon7
10/14/21 2:59:33 AM
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Texas SMASH

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CommunismFTW
10/14/21 2:59:42 AM
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Verdekal posted...
No.


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Chicken
10/14/21 3:02:20 AM
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joe40001 posted...
Why do you feel obligated to mention your age?

Your age doesn't define you.


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trappedunderice
10/14/21 3:06:03 AM
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Chicken posted...
that's like a child

UnholyMudcrab posted...
18 year olds are still children
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SoIidLegacy
10/14/21 3:13:25 AM
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I'd bang. CE would probably call me pedo, but they'd do that even if the girl would be 29. Also, nobody actually cares what CE thinks anyway, especially when you get to have sex.

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joe40001
10/14/21 3:13:26 AM
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Chicken posted...

What? A person's age doesn't define them.

Do you chase around old people playing tennis and yell "go fuck yourself grandma, you should be in a home! You are to old to have fun"?

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Bishop9800
10/14/21 3:19:29 AM
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nothanks1 posted...
Her mom

THIS

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Gobstoppers12
10/14/21 3:21:59 AM
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My 33 year old brother is expecting a child with his 21 year old girlfriend. There's nothing weird about their relationship; they get along great, they're equals in the relationship, she loves him and he loves her.

As long as both people involved are old enough to legally consent, there's really nothing wrong with an age gap.

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Metal_Bug
10/14/21 3:29:54 AM
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joe40001 posted...
One thing I always found really weird is people who would have sex with somebody they'd feel "icky" dating. Like if you feel icky dating them, you shouldn't have sex with them.

I personally wouldn't feel "icky" about it. I might end up thinking she's immature. I'm mostly worried about society's taboos and getting a bad reputation.
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DarthAragorn
10/14/21 3:32:17 AM
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We'll bang, ok?

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yusiko
10/14/21 3:39:01 AM
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if i see a 32 year old man about to have a 1 night stand with a 18 year old i dont see any issue with that
both are consenting adults able to make their own decisions

but if i see a 32 year old man that is in a relationship with a 18 year old it makes me wonder about him
i mean they are at 2 different places in their life i cant imagine they have much in common

is the 18 year old a gold digger after the mans money?

is he incredibly immature for his age? whats wrong with him that he failed to start a relationship with someone his own age?

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ZevLoveDOOM
10/14/21 3:40:17 AM
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call her parents and ask them to pick her up...
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DeathDeathSong
10/14/21 3:41:58 AM
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Metal_Bug posted...
I'm mostly worried about society's taboos and getting a bad reputation.
i feel like a 30 year old going after teenagers deserve all the bad reputation they get but thats just me

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Gobstoppers12
10/14/21 3:42:03 AM
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yusiko posted...
i mean they are at 2 different places in their life i cant imagine they have much in common
Just because one person is still in college and the other person has a steady job doesn't mean they can't have anything in common. They might like the same kind of music, the same kind of movies, have the same views on family traditions, share the same religion (or lack thereof), play the same games, etc.

There are literally millions of things two people can have in common that have almost nothing to do with age.

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joe40001
10/14/21 3:44:11 AM
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Metal_Bug posted...
I personally wouldn't feel "icky" about it. I might end up thinking she's immature. I'm mostly worried about society's taboos and getting a bad reputation.

Yeah, I wasn't referring to you. You seem to have a good sense of things.

Just be yourself and if she's herself and you get along then it's all fine.

Ageism is dumb, IMO.

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joe40001
10/14/21 3:47:04 AM
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yusiko posted...
if i see a 32 year old man about to have a 1 night stand with a 18 year old i dont see any issue with that
both are consenting adults able to make their own decisions

but if i see a 32 year old man that is in a relationship with a 18 year old it makes me wonder about him
i mean they are at 2 different places in their life i cant imagine they have much in common

is the 18 year old a gold digger after the mans money?

is he incredibly immature for his age? whats wrong with him that he failed to start a relationship with someone his own age?

How would you define "immature" in this context?

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yusiko
10/14/21 3:51:03 AM
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joe40001 posted...
How would you define "immature" in this context?


in this context immature can cover a few things, irresponsible with money, unable to compromise in a relationship and gets angry when things dont go exactly his way, selfish to his partner, struggles to handle basic facets of adult life.

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The Catgirl Fondler
10/14/21 3:51:27 AM
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I'd assume it was a prank between her and her friends and think nothing more of it, but then I would assume the same thing of any woman showing interest in me regardless of her age.

That said, I don't have a problem with age gaps like this, it's still two adults. I'm just not under any delusion that it would actually happen to me personally.
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yusiko
10/14/21 3:52:14 AM
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and im not saying a relationship with a large age difference couldnt work
one of my best friends in high school married a man 12 years older than her when she was 19 and they are still together to this day

im just saying an age difference will raise eyebrows

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Stalolin
10/14/21 3:53:33 AM
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Just watch out your next partner doesnt write a short story about you.

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joe40001
10/14/21 3:53:54 AM
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yusiko posted...
in this context immature can cover a few things, irresponsible with money, unable to compromise in a relationship and gets angry when things dont go exactly his way, selfish to his partner, struggles to handle basic facets of adult life.

Why would you think such a person would be more likely to date somebody younger?

Or why do you think a "mature" person would be more likely to date somebody older?

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Webbernet
10/14/21 3:55:06 AM
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Gobstoppers12 posted...
My 33 year old brother is expecting a child with his 21 year old girlfriend. There's nothing weird about their relationship; they get along great, they're equals in the relationship, she loves him and he loves her.
The thing you need to remember is when you're younger a year means a lot more. 18 is barely out of high school; 21 is nearly out of college. That's a huge difference in a person on a maturity and experience level. Being over 20 is a big deal imo, bare minimum.

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ForsakenHermit
10/14/21 3:56:32 AM
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Wake up because I'm dreaming.

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Gobstoppers12
10/14/21 4:14:01 AM
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Webbernet posted...
The thing you need to remember is when you're younger a year means a lot more. 18 is barely out of high school; 21 is nearly out of college. That's a huge difference in a person on a maturity and experience level. Being over 20 is a big deal imo, bare minimum.
She was 18 when they started dating, though. She didn't change remarkably over the last three years.

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