Poll of the Day > My friends ex has been blowing me up on messenger

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He called me 6 times and sent 6 messages (and deleted 5 of them because he's a bitch) over the course of the last 12 hours. It's pretty funny, he's trying to get me to believe she thinks I'm a simp for her and doesn't like me, which makes no sense and he's clearly just talking out of his ass because she buys me stuff all the time and asks me to hang out more than I ask her.

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Maybe he is hitting on you?

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Muscles posted...

He called me 6 times and sent 6 messages (and deleted 5 of them because he's a bitch) over the course of the last 12 hours. It's pretty funny, he's trying to get me to believe she thinks I'm a simp for her and doesn't like me, which makes no sense and he's clearly just talking out of his ass because she buys me stuff all the time and asks me to hang out more than I ask her.

Oh that's your cue to buy her stuff and then wonder why she won't date you.
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I buy her stuff sometimes and she buys me stuff sometimes, I don't keep score but it seems about 50/50 which is better than any of my other friends

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I've never had friends where we randomly buy each other things.

BlackScythe0 posted...

I've never had friends where we randomly buy each other things.

It's usually lunch or drinks or something like that

Usually one of us will buy it for the other when they are low on money

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BlackScythe0 posted...

I've never had friends where we randomly buy each other things.

Add me on steam and Ill buy you a random game from your wishlist every Christmas.

TC, how old is this dude?

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29 or 30, he also hit her (once, which lead to their break up) then proceeded to spam call/text her (even after she blocked him with fake numbers), stalked her, and messaged other friends of hers similar things

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So he's a jealous ex? Eh. Those happen. What I wounder is why have you not blocked his arse. Also does she even bother with him anymore?

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wwinterj25 posted...

So he's a jealous ex? Eh. Those happen. What I wounder is why have you not blocked his arse. Also does she even bother with him anymore?

He made a fb account just to message me (and possibly other friends of hers), and then blocked me before I could even answer (he did this mostly over the span that I was sleeping). As far as she goes, she tries not to talk to him but that's hard when he keeps using fake numbers when she blocks him

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Wa?

BlackScythe0 posted...

I've never had friends where we randomly buy each other things.

My friend and I did all the time. Tickets to the movies, food and drinks, snacks, etc Even more expensive things if we were low. Ots not a big deal. And my friend here and I split the cost of things all the time. Like hell buy tickets for the movie, and Ill buy snacks. Or Ill buy fact food when we go, and hell buy stuff from the store to eat. Just whatever We even gifted steam games before
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Muscles posted...

He made a fb account just to message me (and possibly other friends of hers), and then blocked me before I could even answer (he did this mostly over the span that I was sleeping). As far as she goes, she tries not to talk to him but that's hard when he keeps using fake numbers when she blocks him

... but how does he know your phone number? Why doesn't she change her number?


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He found me on Facebook, he doesn't have my number. She probably will but this was a more recent thing, not sure why he's starting to escalate this now when's it's been over for a bit.

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wwinterj25 posted...

Why doesn't she change her number?

Thats a little extreme. Changing you number to get rid of one person means changing not only your number of a lot of different things, but also making sure everyone who needs you number has it. And hoping that no one gives the other guy (or he finds out) her new number She could possibly go to the police, though. Get a restraining order on him
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LinkPizza posted...

Thats a little extreme. Changing you number to get rid of one person means changing not only your number of a lot of different things, but also making sure everyone who needs you number has it.

Damn near every account you have wants your phone number. I would hate to have to try and update them all.


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Muscles posted...

29 or 30, he also hit her (once, which lead to their break up) then proceeded to spam call/text her (even after she blocked him with fake numbers), stalked her, and messaged other friends of hers similar things

I talk a lot about how women test men. But when a man strikes a woman thats him testing her. And if she forgives it... she will doom herself to it for the rest of her life. He will also lose(even more) respect for her for staying.

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LinkPizza posted...

Thats a little extreme.

It is but so is a abusive ex.

She could possibly go to the police, though. Get a restraining order on him

That could work too.


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