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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/28/21 7:11:28 PM
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Is a 30 years old dating a 21 years old predatory?



Many people on Twitter are saying this

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LordMarshal
09/28/21 7:12:18 PM
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Its hot.

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09/28/21 7:12:37 PM
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Duncanwii
09/28/21 7:12:43 PM
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Lol no.
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Ving_Rhames
09/28/21 7:13:30 PM
#5:


Predatory? Nah.
Lame? Yeah. Get you an actual woman.

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epik_fail1
09/28/21 7:27:42 PM
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Ving_Rhames posted...
Predatory? Nah.
Lame? Yeah. Get you an actual woman.


What's an "actual woman"?
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eggcorn
09/28/21 7:31:13 PM
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Ving_Rhames posted...
Predatory? Nah.
Lame? Yeah. Get you an actual woman.
what

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hitokoriX
09/28/21 7:32:01 PM
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I chose depends for one reason. It's predatory if the 30 year old knew the 21 year old when they were well underage. A 30 year old who runs into 21 year olds at a bar, that's fine.

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Lost_All_Senses
09/28/21 7:36:34 PM
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Id say if you target a lot younger women it's predatory. But if you organically have chemistry, then the age difference shouldn't get in the way of a real connection. Normalizing men of all ages preying on the young just cause it's not against the law will never not be gross to me. I can never tell if they're faking it or they're really just that fuckin stupid about how the psychology works and how more life experience plays into it. They'll acknowledge in every other aspect of life that getting practice makes a difference except actual life itself. That's where they're like "nope, more experience doesn't mean they have a clear advantage". And it's not even just a man preying on woman thing. It can work in reverse. It's just men normalized it way more and made it something to be proud of. Now, give me all your one line recycled responses with no thought put onto them dismissing everything I said and then shut the fuck up.

Edit: 30 and 21 isn't something Id side eye a couple for tho. Id give them the benefit of the doubt.

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dj1200
09/28/21 7:50:08 PM
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Ving_Rhames posted...
Predatory? Nah.
Lame? Yeah. Get you an actual woman.

huh? There are married 21 year olds with careers and children. 21 isnt an adult?

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AldousIsDead
09/28/21 7:57:55 PM
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It'd raise an eyebrow, but not much else. Mature girl, immature guy, maybe predatory, maybe not.

Not particularly my problem.

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Beefbud
09/28/21 7:58:22 PM
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Predatory behavior can happen between people of any age, and age gaps don't necessarily mean predatory behavior is involved, so the answer is obviously "it depends"

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Njolk
09/28/21 8:00:10 PM
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I can tell you I'm 32 and would absolutely never consider it

21 year olds are not adults

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epik_fail1
09/28/21 8:37:54 PM
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Njolk posted...
I can tell you I'm 32 and would absolutely never consider it

21 year olds are not adults


When is an adult?
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nothanks1
09/29/21 12:31:37 AM
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Lol
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Raikuro
09/29/21 12:34:14 AM
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21 yo preying on a 30 yo that has their shit together and will pay for stuff
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PBusted
09/29/21 12:38:57 AM
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epik_fail1 posted...
When is an adult?
People who say that are either projecting their own late bloomer issues or they haven't mentally matured themselves.
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toadfan64
09/29/21 12:55:54 AM
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I'm definitely gonna have to say no especially since my GF will be 21 when I turn 30, lol.
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AldousIsDead
09/29/21 12:56:50 AM
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toadfan64 posted...
I'm definitely gonna have to say no especially since my GF will be 21 when I turn 30, lol.
... how old are you now?

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Kanaya413
09/29/21 12:59:05 AM
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No
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toadfan64
09/29/21 12:59:21 AM
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AldousIsDead posted...

... how old are you now?

28, we generally have 8 years apart, but the 1 month between our birthdays will make it 9 for a short time.
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Oubliettes
09/29/21 1:00:18 AM
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my parents have about the same age difference and they've been married like 50 years.

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KStateKing17
09/29/21 1:06:12 AM
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I think 21 is fine. They've been adults for a few years and should have some experience dealing with other adults in society. There are less limitations on a 21 year old than on an 18 year old financially and professionally too.

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Total_Jenius
09/29/21 1:10:49 AM
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This is fine.

Age/2+7=?
30/2+7=?
15+7=?
21=?

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nfearurspecimn
09/29/21 1:16:43 AM
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not necessarily. she can legally drink/smoke weed so that's a huge difference if say she was 20

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Kanaya413
09/29/21 1:22:53 AM
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Adult plus adult is always okay unless the older one knew the younger one as a child thats fucking weird
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Delirious_Beard
09/29/21 1:26:55 AM
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god it is so fucking uncomfortable that VioletMassacre guy comes into every one of these kind of topics

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Kanaya413
09/29/21 1:29:01 AM
#30:


Some 21-year olds are adults.

some??????????
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PesticideDream
09/29/21 1:53:02 AM
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What is with this sudden weird new narrative online that adult women in their 20s that have probably had a job for 5 years and almost through with college and can legally drink and gamble are considered helpless children now?
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ExtremeLuchador
09/29/21 2:03:20 AM
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One of my Aunts married a 30-year-old when she was 20 or 21. They're still together after 50+ years. My cousin married a 33-year-old when she was 21. They're still going strong after 12 years.

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toadfan64
09/29/21 2:03:37 AM
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VioletMassacre posted...
toadfan64 posted...
28, we generally have 8 years apart, but the 1 month between our birthdays will make it 9 for a short time.

How long've you been together?


8 months but talking for like a year
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Damn_Underscore
09/29/21 10:55:29 AM
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Poll results look like a dick LOL

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SpiritSephiroth
09/29/21 10:58:14 AM
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Not in the slightest. One of the girls I'm most attracted to is 21 and I'm 30.

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Damn_Underscore
09/29/21 11:00:07 AM
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Should escorts and pr0n stars who are 21 also not be allowed?

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Flockaveli
09/29/21 11:06:18 AM
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Younger women go after older men all the time.

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Demon1050
09/29/21 11:38:22 AM
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ExtremeLuchador posted...
One of my Aunts married a 30-year-old when she was 20 or 21. They're still together after 50+ years. My cousin married a 33-year-old when she was 21. They're still going strong after 12 years.


And this my friends, is all that matters at the end of the day for anyone 18+

I don't care if a 36 year old goes with an 18 year old; if they're together 30,40,50 years later their happiness is all that matters.

A hook up would be a different story. Find someone near your own damn age.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
09/29/21 11:46:36 AM
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PesticideDream posted...
What is with this sudden weird new narrative online that adult women in their 20s that have probably had a job for 5 years and almost through with college and can legally drink and gamble are considered helpless children now?
Bitter angry older women who are ignored by men their age who rather date a woman in her 20s who is not jaded, a single mother, nor do they have a huge list of requirements of the man when they themselves bring nothing to the table.

Only one of my friends in their 30s is dating a woman his age and they are breaking up due to politics being more important to her then the relationship.

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toadfan64
09/29/21 11:53:40 AM
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VioletMassacre posted...


Sounds liked you just barely missed the CE Predator Badge.

A badge I'm happy to have missed, lol
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CE_gonna_CE
09/29/21 12:21:59 PM
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TC hasnt come back to comment after dropping this hook? Kinda surprised, thats usually not his MO.

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TerraSeeker
09/29/21 12:22:30 PM
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No, I don't see a 30 year old being somehow more mature or something than a 21 year old. If they like each other, what's the problem?

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MrDrMan
09/29/21 12:25:33 PM
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I wouldnt say predatory but Id advise against it. Im 27, my girlfriend is 23 and sometimes even I fe like the conversations were having are immature af.

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epik_fail1
09/29/21 12:28:18 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

Bitter angry older women who are ignored by men their age who rather date a woman in her 20s who is not jaded, a single mother, nor do they have a huge list of requirements of the man when they themselves bring nothing to the table.

Only one of my friends in their 30s is dating a woman his age and they are breaking up due to politics being more important to her then the relationship.


The funny thing is that a woman named Trisha Ptasse in her late 30s claimed the age of consent should be 25 years old, but she did onlyfans collab with a 22 years old.

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Fony
09/29/21 12:29:51 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Bitter angry older women who are ignored by men their age who rather date a woman in her 20s who is not jaded, a single mother, nor do they have a huge list of requirements of the man when they themselves bring nothing to the table.

Only one of my friends in their 30s is dating a woman his age and they are breaking up due to politics being more important to her then the relationship.

Exactly this.

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