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skermac
09/26/21 1:06:28 AM
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I was taugh they is plural meaning more than one, but i now see more and more people using they for one person and it feels weird to me, whats up with that?

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MedeaLysistrata
09/26/21 1:07:22 AM
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Hundreds of years ago if you care to look

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skermac
09/26/21 1:09:37 AM
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MedeaLysistrata posted...
Hundreds of years ago if you care to look

I didnt go to school that long ago but when I went it was taught they is plural so I dont know where you came up with 100s of years ago

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Smackems
09/26/21 1:10:31 AM
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Around the time you started touching yourself at night

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Doom_Art
09/26/21 1:11:13 AM
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People used they singularly for a long ass time. Calm down lol.

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EngineerGamer
09/26/21 1:11:17 AM
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It's always been fine. English is not a prescriptive language anyway. Taking issue with singular "they" has become a really popular stance among transphobes trying to be coy about their intentional misgendering but it's pretty fun to inform them that they aren't being as fackshual as they think :)
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AldousIsDead
09/26/21 1:12:04 AM
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EngineerGamer posted...
It's always been fine. English is not a prescriptive language anyway. Taking issue with singular "they" has become a really popular stance among transphobes trying to be coy about their intentional misgendering but it's pretty fun to inform them that they aren't being as fackshual as they think :)
This.

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MedeaLysistrata
09/26/21 1:16:17 AM
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skermac posted...
I didnt go to school that long ago but when I went it was taught they is plural so I dont know where you came up with 100s of years ago
And you didn't think to question your overseers?

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Shadowplay
09/26/21 1:18:23 AM
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They is fine in some contexts, but one should stick to he or she (and obviously not misgender trans people) to avoid looking like a virtue signaler.

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skermac
09/26/21 1:19:00 AM
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EngineerGamer posted...
It's always been fine. English is not a prescriptive language anyway. Taking issue with singular "they" has become a really popular stance among transphobes trying to be coy about their intentional misgendering but it's pretty fun to inform them that they aren't being as fackshual as they think :)

funny how you made this about transphobia but im using words the way i was taught I will never call one person they but you are free to do as you please

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Smashingpmkns
09/26/21 1:20:22 AM
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skermac posted...
funny how you made this about transphobia

You did that when you made this topic
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Doom_Art
09/26/21 1:20:28 AM
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skermac posted...
funny how you made this about transphobia but im using words the way i was taught I will never call one person they but you are free to do as you please
You're literally doing what he accused you of lol

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skermac
09/26/21 1:21:41 AM
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MedeaLysistrata posted...
And you didn't think to question your overseers?

what elementary school kids is going to question things, I could just imagine telling my teachers they are wrong because people on the internet said so lol too funny

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skermac
09/26/21 1:22:01 AM
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Doom_Art posted...
You're literally doing what he accused you of lol

how so?

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MedeaLysistrata
09/26/21 1:22:42 AM
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skermac posted...
what elementary school king is going to question things, I could just imagine telling my teachers they are wrong because people on the internet said so lol too funny
So you stopped learning English in elementary school. OK.

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skermac
09/26/21 1:22:45 AM
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Doom_Art posted...
You're literally doing what he accused you of lol

no im talking about many people not certain groups but keep making stuff up

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Doom_Art
09/26/21 1:22:51 AM
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What's your endgame with this topic lol

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skermac
09/26/21 1:24:15 AM
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Smashingpmkns posted...
You did that when you made this topic

so talking about the English language is transphobic, dont have kids, I can find no place that says they is a trans word

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skermac
09/26/21 1:25:12 AM
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Doom_Art posted...
What's your endgame with this topic lol

just wondering why so many use words incorrectly

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_Rinku_
09/26/21 1:26:44 AM
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skermac posted...
so talking about the English language is transphobic, dont have kids, I can find no place that says they is a trans word
Non-binary people often use "they" and some of them consider themselves to be transgender.

It really costs you nothing to just be kind and respect people's pronouns.
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skermac
09/26/21 1:27:02 AM
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A group of people were taking a walk, they looked happy, oh wait dont call them they, you will appear to be a hater, smh

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Smashingpmkns
09/26/21 1:27:21 AM
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skermac posted...
so talking about the English language is transphobic, dont have kids, I can find no place that says they is a trans word

Learn how to use a comma before moving on to the advanced stuff. Or just own up to your bigoted beliefs instead of being a coward.
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Flauros
09/26/21 1:27:49 AM
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PMarth2002
09/26/21 1:27:57 AM
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Since the 14th century or so.

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cadcrafter
09/26/21 1:30:00 AM
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skermac posted...
just wondering why so many use words incorrectly
Cause the people who speak a language make it... If a lot of people use a word some way its not really gramatically wrong anymore

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skermac
09/26/21 1:30:44 AM
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Flauros posted...
everything is somethingphobic these days

lol true

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Tyranthraxus
09/26/21 1:31:15 AM
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skermac posted...
I didnt go to school that long ago but when I went it was taught they is plural so I dont know where you came up with 100s of years ago

It was literally just one professor in the early 20th century who started insisting "they" should be plural only. Historically the word was always acceptable for singular references.

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skermac
09/26/21 1:31:24 AM
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cadcrafter posted...
Cause the people who speak a language make it... If a lot of people use a word some way its not really gramatically wrong anymore

only in murca

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skermac
09/26/21 1:32:05 AM
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PMarth2002 posted...
Since the 14th century or so.

not in America

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skermac
09/26/21 1:33:34 AM
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_Rinku_ posted...
Non-binary people often use "they" and some of them consider themselves to be transgender.

It really costs you nothing to just be kind and respect people's pronouns.
I do respect but I also use words the way i was taught in English class, not saying you have to, its your choice, i was only curious why

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AldousIsDead
09/26/21 1:36:09 AM
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skermac posted...
funny how you made this about transphobia but im using words the way i was taught I will never call one person they but you are free to do as you please
And if they asked you to and you didn't, what would that make you?

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pegusus123456
09/26/21 1:40:07 AM
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TC's so worried about being grammatically correct that the only punctuation he's using is being used incorrectly.

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MedeaLysistrata
09/26/21 1:41:46 AM
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pegusus123456 posted...
TC's so worried about being grammatically correct that the only punctuation he's using is being used incorrectly.
lol I didn't even care to notice that

Skermac which rules of grammar do you care about?

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_Rinku_
09/26/21 1:42:55 AM
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skermac posted...
I do respect but I also use words the way i was taught in English class, not saying you have to, its your choice, i was only curious why
Okay, here's something neat: language evolves. Things change. You have to constantly learn new things or you'll get left in the dust along with the textbook from the 90s you probably used in school. That goes for almost all things in life.
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Doe
09/26/21 1:44:24 AM
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Literally everyone has used it forever

'Did you see where he or she went?'
^NOBODY SAYS THAT!!!!

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PMarth2002
09/26/21 1:45:47 AM
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skermac posted...
not in America

Bullshit. I'm american and its an acceptable and commonly used gender neutral pronoun for as long as I can remember.

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skermac
09/26/21 1:48:44 AM
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Doe posted...
Literally everyone has used it forever

'Did you see where he or she went?'
^NOBODY SAYS THAT!!!!

when I know a persons prefered gender i use the correct word for example my sister is she, my brother is he

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AldousIsDead
09/26/21 1:50:28 AM
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skermac posted...
when I know a persons prefered gender i use the correct word for example my sister is she, my brother is he
And if their preferred pronoun is they you use that. Discussion over.

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hockeybub89
09/26/21 1:51:49 AM
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Rhylos
09/26/21 2:01:11 AM
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Using they as singular just isn't part of the current english lexicon, and people are trying to force it and then crying when there's any sort of resistance.

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sktgamer_13dude
09/26/21 2:01:33 AM
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skermac has a foot in mouth fetish it seems like.

Where he likes putting his foot in his mouth over and over again.

Hey guys, Im just asking questions, but gonna be aggressive when people give me the answer I dont want and then continue to totally not get the point.
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Scintillant
09/26/21 2:05:00 AM
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since always but you already knew that

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Raikuro
09/26/21 2:07:14 AM
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Even back in grade school, it was taught "they" was acceptable in situations where he or she would be inapplicable. Sounds like you forgot or were taught half-assed.
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hockeybub89
09/26/21 2:12:08 AM
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Rhylos posted...
Using they as singular just isn't part of the current english lexicon, and people are trying to force it and then crying when there's any sort of resistance.
It is odd when a person thinks they are right, when they are obviously wrong.

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Disney_Dave
09/26/21 2:28:07 AM
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Since forever
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MedeaLysistrata
09/26/21 2:28:36 AM
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hockeybub89 posted...
I used singular they before it was cool
Hmmm

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Mezcla
09/26/21 2:38:25 AM
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since always? lmao wtf

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marthsheretoo
09/26/21 2:42:35 AM
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TC, you've probably used the singular they many times in your life and not even noticed because it's so normal. It's pretty much the default way to refer to someone whose gender you don't know.

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