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WingsOfGood
08/31/21 9:35:55 PM
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This site has repeated this so many times yet we as users would probably have more fun hanging out with a nice guy than a chad.

We could watch anime, play video games, meme around, discuss why women hate them, discuss their high paying engineer job, be treat to ice cream on their dime.

What can you do with Chad? I mean Chad probably give you a taste of his unlimited....

But what else?
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Turbam
08/31/21 9:36:41 PM
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Nice guys finish last
Bad guys have a blast
Steal his money
Grab his honey
Dump that loser fast!

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SauI_Goodman
08/31/21 9:37:28 PM
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Remember how will ferrell treated eva mendes in other guys lmao. Women love the bad boys. You dont ever see nice guys get the girl.

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Dark_SilverX
08/31/21 9:37:47 PM
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Yep.

They are only good for sitting in the chair and observing.

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WingsOfGood
08/31/21 9:38:04 PM
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SauI_Goodman posted...
Remember how will ferrell treated eva mendes in other guys lmao.

No, not really. Please explain.
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WingsOfGood
08/31/21 10:00:09 PM
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Dark_SilverX posted...
Yep.

They are only good for sitting in the chair and observing.

What you mean by this?
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Darmik
08/31/21 10:02:40 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
We could watch anime, play video games, meme around, discuss why women hate them, discuss their high paying engineer job, be treat to ice cream on their dime.

None of this has anything to do with being nice or mean.

Hell have you been on the internet? A lot of these people are assholes. Especially if they're discussing why women hate them.

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SauI_Goodman
08/31/21 10:03:07 PM
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Basically ferrel and wahlberg are cop buddies and walhnerg goes over to ferrels house for dinner. Ferrel is a 3 at best and eva is an 11. Walhneegs like who is this chick? And she like im his wife. And walhbergs like no really who are you. Ferrell proceeds to call her okay and good enough for now. Eva leans in for a kiss and ferrels like bitch not in front of guests.

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Ratchetrockon
08/31/21 10:05:08 PM
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they are pretty boring.

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haloiscoolisbak
08/31/21 10:07:22 PM
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dolomedes posted...
i guess if you're a nice guy with no interests or passions yeah you'd be pretty boring

Yeah this lol

It's possible to be nice while also being funny and knowing how to flirt

I hate people convincing themselves being nice is the reason they can't get girls

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MedeaLysistrata
08/31/21 10:09:37 PM
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Lmao at the collection of users in this thread

I'll form the head

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metralo
08/31/21 10:11:16 PM
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nice guys get that boring rep because their entire personality is being "nice".

there are plenty of men who are nice but are fun to be around and have personality. "nice" guys literally just are nothing but nice and try to use being nice like a currency for sex. they're boring.

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ShineboxPhil
08/31/21 10:14:19 PM
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SauI_Goodman posted...
Remember how will ferrell treated eva mendes in other guys lmao. Women love the bad boys. You dont ever see nice guys get the girl.
Gator's bitches better be using jimmies

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deoxxys
08/31/21 10:16:59 PM
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dolomedes posted...
i'm a nice guy! that's why i held the door open for you - and you didn't even thank me, stupid bitch! this is the thanks i get for being nice????
As much as people like to blame this being the reason nice guys cant get women, its untrue.

This is a very small minority.

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Giblet_Enjoyer
08/31/21 10:23:59 PM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
Yeah this lol

It's possible to be nice while also being funny and knowing how to flirt

I hate people convincing themselves being nice is the reason they can't get girls
This post sort of trips over the point, but basically, this.
Nice IS boring to girls (pretty ones in particular) because it's taboo to be mean to women and society just values them highly in general so they're treated nicely constantly and by everyone. In order to make yourself stand out to them as yet another nice person, you have to have something else flashy about you like a really good sense of humor, money, cool hobbies, etc.

It's a detriment that has to be overcome but it you can make up for being nice by being otherwise interesting

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deoxxys
08/31/21 10:25:04 PM
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The reason "Nice" guys are boring is because women like normal people or guys that stimulate a lot of different emotions for them, because thats exciting to them.

What I mean to say by nice guys arent normal is half true. Too many of these "nice" guys are actually simps. In simple terms, before I do this "nice thing" for this girl, ask yourself, would I do the same thing for a guy? If the answer is no, then you are probably simping. Before you ask them a question in order to get to know them, would I be asking this the same way to a guy friend/coworker? Again if the answer is no, you are simping or being awkward in a way the girl will easily be able to perceive.

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SauI_Goodman
08/31/21 10:25:21 PM
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ShineboxPhil posted...
Gator's bitches better be using jimmies
Get out!!

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Darmik
08/31/21 10:25:42 PM
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deoxxys posted...
As much as people like to blame this being the reason nice guys cant get women, its untrue.

The problem is having nice as a trait isn't anything rare or unusual as much as 'nice guys' like to act otherwise. Lots of people manage that fine. Especially to people they're attracted to. But to make it your defining trait is a bit of a red flag because you're basically saying the bare minimum for pleasant social interactions is what you primarily offer.

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Giblet_Enjoyer
08/31/21 10:33:13 PM
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deoxxys posted...
In simple terms, before I do this "nice thing" for this girl, ask yourself, would I do the same thing for a guy? If the answer is no, then you are probably simping.
This is really good life advice tbh. Remember to continue to apply it even if you're in a relationship, (unless she treats you like a king, then it's ok to simp sometimes)

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Gamerguymass
08/31/21 10:44:08 PM
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I mean studies have shown treating women like shit is five times more likely to get you laid, so you can draw your own conclusions from that.

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smoke_break
08/31/21 10:56:49 PM
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I think so but is boring bad? I like being boring.

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Pepys Monster
08/31/21 11:04:24 PM
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This is a complex issue because every person is different, and everyone's idea of a nice guy is different. Are there boring nice guys? Probably. Are there fun, awesome nice guys? Probably. Maybe we need to change our thinking about lumping all nice guys together.

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haloiscoolisbak
08/31/21 11:48:24 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
This is a complex issue because every person is different, and everyone's idea of a nice guy is different. Are there boring nice guys? Probably. Are there fun, awesome nice guys? Probably. Maybe we need to change our thinking about lumping all nice guys together.

Yeah like I smile all the time and basically never insult anybody ever... but I'm not some weird chivalrous "my lady" type nice guy

Maybe the definition needs tweaking


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WingsOfGood
09/01/21 12:04:41 AM
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Gamerguymass posted...
I mean studies have shown treating women like shit is five times more likely to get you laid, so you can draw your own conclusions from that.

What studies?
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Guide
09/01/21 12:07:13 AM
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I haven't seen "nice guys are boring", I've seen "being nice doesn't make up for being boring".

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