Current Events > I've just learned about /r/femaledatingstrategy

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celestia3 posted...

They deleted PinkPill, GenderCritical, BlackPill and all of the actual critical, engaged, long-form groups for women and left FDS so that "feminists" get to foisted with the blame for posts that are impotent catharsis and unenlightened, mainstream, shitty women playing "the game" of dating. A lot of these posts are also obviously as fake as the "AITA because I was late to dinner at my MIL's house because I saved a bus full of quadruplegic orphans from getting mugged?" stuff on other subreddits.

Meanwhile, reddits about panty-shots, pornography, MAGA shit, demeaning women, abuse hacks, anorexia, etc. persist.

So what you're saying is many of the posts in that sub are from incel men pretending to be caricatures of feminist women in order to make women look bad?
Because incels are well known for being able to sound like unhinged third wave feminists.
Most of them can barely string a sentence together.
None of those other subs excuse what's written on that sub.
Damn.

celestia3 posted...

They deleted PinkPill, GenderCritical, BlackPill and all of the actual critical, engaged, long-form groups for women

Gender Critical and PinkPill were just places where TERFs could stroke each other over their hateful views. I wouldn't describe that as critical nor engaged

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Would they consider @No_U_L7 to be a high value man?

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We need Kevin Samuels on the line

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Damar posted...

So what you're saying is many of the posts in that sub are from incel men pretending to be caricatures of feminist women in order to make women look bad?
Because incels are well known for being able to sound like unhinged third wave feminists.
Most of them can barely string a sentence together.
None of those other subs excuse what's written on that sub.
Damn.

I'm saying that to the extent these are real, they're not representative of women nor of "feminists" and that Reddit allowing FDS while deleting second, third and fourth-wave spaces -- while rabidly anti-feminist like the porn boards also remain -- is a deliberate move to discredit and silence feminist activism and critique.

And that there are a lot of shitposts.

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Holy shit the term LVM is so good

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BUT at least these women aren't actually physically threatening anyone!

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celestia3 posted...

They deleted PinkPill, GenderCritical, BlackPill and all of the actual critical, engaged, long-form groups for women and left FDS so that "feminists" get to foisted with the blame for posts that are impotent catharsis and unenlightened, mainstream, shitty women playing "the game" of dating. A lot of these posts are also obviously as fake as the "AITA because I was late to dinner at my MIL's house because I saved a bus full of quadruplegic orphans from getting mugged?" stuff on other subreddits.

Meanwhile, reddits about panty-shots, pornography, MAGA shit, demeaning women, abuse hacks, anorexia, etc. persist.

GenderCritical's main gimmick is that the users there hated trans people. There wasn't any "critical" or "engaging" discussion there. They were literally banned for hate speech lmao

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VanananaHeyHey posted...

I'm saying that to the extent these are real, they're not representative of women nor of "feminists" and that Reddit allowing FDS while deleting second, third and fourth-wave spaces -- while rabidly anti-feminist like the porn boards also remain -- is a deliberate move to discredit and silence feminist activism and critique.

And that there are a lot of shitposts.

I mean who are you to say these women aren't feminists they certainly seem to self identify as such. Seems like the no true Scotsman fallacy to me.
And how are the porn boards rabidly anti feminist?
I mean some pornstars consider themselves feminists.
If objectivication and exploitation of women is anti feminist then porn isn't the only industry guilty of such behavior. You need look no further than Hollywood for a current example.

Woozul posted...

.......yes? like ... do you not see how being dead or injured is probably worse than someone not trusting or liking you?

It's worst for sure. However, why do you need bring up horrible men to compare to this specific subreddit?

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Bahahaha this shit's wild.

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Woozul posted...

Because someone brought up how other subs with similar mindsets were banned swiftly

Oh ok

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No guys who say, How do I compete with that? after hearing about how well my ex treated me with taking us on trips and spoiling me after they directly asked me how Ive been able to travel so much and build up my home gym while being a student. My reply going forward will be, Easy: Take me on trips and spoil me even more.

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Simp posted...

damn I got put on blast on that site

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pbhxs5/i_need_to_learn_to_trust_my_instincts/

Okay I'm a straight cis male but that guy made me lose all interest

Woozul posted...

.......yes? like ... do you not see how being dead or injured is probably worse than someone not trusting or liking you?

They litterally encouraged men to kill themselves. Take some time to read more.

One being worse than the other doesn't make a bad thing good
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Has anyone noticed how similar the TERFer argument is to the right wingers who always go "I'm just asking questions!"?

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epik_fail1 posted...

They also hate sex workers, claim that bdsm is abuse even if everyone is consensual.

this sounds like something gen z (no offense) women would primarily say

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Zodd3224 posted...

One date with a CEman is all they need

i mean.. that's the opposite of what they want.. but in reality, that's what they deserve.

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Arcanine2009 posted...

Zodd3224 posted...

One date with a CEman is all they need

i mean.. that's the opposite of what they want.. but in reality, that's what they deserve.

what do you mean? CE is home to the highest value of males tbqh fr fr
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omg this topic is amazing

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J03can posted...

Holy shit the term LVM is so good

Based on their criteria and how full of crystal clear misandrists that board is, I'm pretty sure the entire male population are "LVMs."

They expect attractive wealthy guys to simp and wait months to have sex with them and to worship them and offer absolutely nothing in return...basically, these guys don't exist.

At best, they can maybe get wealthy old disgusting guys, a lot of which are cheating with them on the side and have a wife who is getting access to far more of their "resources" anyway.

It's a site full of gold diggers and sex workers that are damaged goods and have deep seated misandry that will likely keep them from ever having a truly healthy relationship.

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ManaYuka posted...

Just like men talk about high value men and how you need to become one of those in order to get women atall

We do?

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ledbowman posted...

i do agree that men should always pay 100%

Why? I'm dating her, not raising her.

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Umbreon posted...

Shittiness is gender neutral.

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Woozul posted...

But I literally didn't say that or imply it I was addressing a post discussing the discrepancy in the moderation on Reddit... and I've read enough to know they can be shitty as hell. Not denying that ?

I will remember for future reference that no one on CE would ever tell someone to kill themselves or contribute to that crap. Glad to see people who dont think it's appropriate.

I never said that, the difference is that the mods here ban people who do that while FDS encourages this kind of behavior
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are you still browsing it?

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MedeaLysistrata posted...

are you still browsing it?

Nah, I find these kinds of subreddit amusing in theory but they give me real anger to actually read. Not good for the MH.

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I stopped browsing one particular board daily and replaced it with this one lol

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Woozul posted...

There are a multitude of people who still post here and partake in that behavior. Encouraging someone being suicidal is more than just telling someone to off themselves.

is this r/GameFAQsPostingStrategy?

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dave_is_slick posted...

Why? I'm dating her, not raising her.

because if i like her i want to give to her

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Honestly I have no idea who's in the right

Are the women being too picky?

Oh are the guys complaining about the women having too high of standards for them?

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Woozul posted...

There are a multitude of people who still post here and partake in that behavior. Encouraging someone being suicidal is more than just telling someone to off themselves.

That's bad, but it's still against the rules of Gamefaqs. It's not against FDS
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ledbowman posted...

because if i like her i want to give to her

Should she be giving to you as well?

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Woozul posted...

this is why i honestly don't think ce can discuss this in good faith, people are legit pressed that ledbowman wants to pay for dates and stuff lmao

i agree with him on a grand sum of zero of pretty much everything else but yall getting mad someone is happy to pay for dates? fr?

Who's mad?

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pinky0926 posted...

I've just learned about /r/femaledatingstrategy

You have my condolences.

But fear not. The average inhabitant there is doing their part uplifting the vital cat food and litter industry to the stars.

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Male incels are bad enough now we have the female version of that?

God humanity is so fucked.

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pojr posted...

Honestly I have no idea who's in the right

Are the women being too picky?

Oh are the guys complaining about the women having too high of standards for them?

The former, obviously, if youre talking about fds.

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pikachupwnage posted...

Male incels are bad enough now we have the female version of that?

God humanity is so fucked.

This is different. This is about women avoiding poor men or the bottom 80% of men, and trying to find the top 20% of men and lock them down.

Very hard to do. But much different then Incels. Incels just want sex, these girls want relationships. Problem is the top 10-20% of men have options and sleep around cause... why not? If every girl wants him, he might as well fuck a bunch of them before he settles down.

Everygirl think they deserve the rich lifestyle....media promote this really. Vacations, male makes more than enough so wife doesnt have to work, can have multiple kids and save for retirement/401k. Millennial men arent really in this position on average, but the women still want that, and will largely avoid men in their 20s/30s unless they are secure.

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Why do they feel so entitled to an all expanses paid night out at a decent restaurant on the first date?

Expecting the guy to put in effort and money is one thing but what are they putting in aside from their time? And what do they have to offer sadi guy longterm aside from their body's?


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