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ZannoL 08/22/21 8:51:09 PM #1:	Say you've been with someone for four years. You are crazy about them, but they had sex with their ex. They confessed and apologized. Would you give them a second chance? Most likely yes. Most likely not. Say you've been with someone for four years. You are crazy about them, but they had sex with their ex. They confessed and apologized. Would you give them a second chance? - Results (86 votes) Most likely yes. 9.3% (8 votes) 8 Most likely not. 90.7% (78 votes) 78 What would you dudes do? <cite>ZannoL posted [p:957343705] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote> Say you've been with someone for four years. You are crazy about them, but they had sex with their ex. They confessed and apologized. Would you give them a second chance? Most likely yes. Most likely not. Vote View Results Say you've been with someone for four years. You are crazy about them, but they had sex with their ex. They confessed and apologized. Would you give them a second chance? - Results (86 votes) Most likely yes. 9.3% (8 votes) 8 Most likely not. 90.7% (78 votes) 78 Show Voting Form What would you dudes do? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Beveren_Rabbit 08/22/21 8:51:30 PM #2:	Yes --- flops <cite>Beveren_Rabbit posted [p:957343716] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Yes</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tappor 08/22/21 8:54:20 PM #4:	HELL no. Not after what they said their exes have done to them. And especially not after 4 years --- There is no signature; take off your clothes. <cite>Tappor posted [p:957343811] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>HELL no. Not after what they said their exes have done to them. And especially not after 4 years </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Payzmaykr 08/22/21 8:55:21 PM #5:	No. If she does it once, shes going to do it again. Taking her back is teaching her its okay. --- So long, Thanks for all the fish! <cite>Payzmaykr posted [p:957343843] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>No. If she does it once, shes going to do it again. Taking her back is teaching her its okay. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 08/22/21 8:55:35 PM #6:	Fuck no --- MSI MEG X570 Unify \| Ryzen 7 5800X \| 32GB DDR4-3600 \| RTX 3080 Samsung Odyssey G7 32" - 1440p, 240hz, GSync <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:957343854] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Fuck no </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ZannoL 08/22/21 8:59:54 PM #7:	Im not going to earn any popularity points for saying this, but I cheated on my boyfriend when I was 20 (weve been together since we were 18). Were both 29 now. Ive never done it since. Took a long time to get his trust back, but it was possible. <cite>ZannoL posted [p:957343968] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Im not going to earn any popularity points for saying this, but I cheated on my boyfriend when I was 20 (weve been together since we were 18). Were both 29 now. Ive never done it since. Took a long time to get his trust back, but it was possible. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Catgirl Fondler 08/22/21 9:00:58 PM #8:	Absolutely fucking not. --- IDD <cite>The Catgirl Fondler posted [p:957344005] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Absolutely fucking not.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ZannoL 08/22/21 9:10:34 PM #9:	Majority voting no so far. <cite>ZannoL posted [p:957344300] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Majority voting no so far. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BipBapBam 08/22/21 9:10:56 PM #10:	Nope --- Regardless of warnings, the future doesn't scare me at all. This is where the fun begins. <cite>BipBapBam posted [p:957344314] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Nope </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bleuets 08/22/21 9:11:49 PM #11:	Nope. If that happened Id always be paranoid it would happen again and never truly trust them again. So, it wouldnt be fair to me or them. <cite>Bleuets posted [p:957344345] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Nope. If that happened Id always be paranoid it would happen again and never truly trust them again. So, it wouldnt be fair to me or them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodMoon7 08/22/21 9:15:25 PM #12:	Their chance was me even agreeing to date them. Fuck them, they're out. --- My maid will hear about this. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:957344446] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Their chance was me even agreeing to date them. Fuck them, they're out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Slaya4 08/22/21 9:16:37 PM #13:	Nah, been there done that. Trust is too hard for me to give it as is. --- Am I going too hard? <cite>Slaya4 posted [p:957344491] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Nah, been there done that. Trust is too hard for me to give it as is. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HBOSS 08/22/21 9:18:18 PM #14:	Once a cheater always a cheater! People change though... But im not that someone to give another chance to those who cheat on me. Quit playing games --- You don't stop playing because you grow old, You grow old because you stop playing <cite>HBOSS posted [p:957344550] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Once a cheater always a cheater! People change though... But im not that someone to give another chance to those who cheat on me. Quit playing games </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pfh1001 08/22/21 11:16:29 PM #15:	The Catgirl Fondler posted... Absolutely fucking not. Same. I did once before & it wasn't worth it in the long run. <cite>pfh1001 posted [p:957347864] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>The Catgirl Fondler posted...</cite> <quote>Absolutely fucking not.</quote> Same. I did once before & it wasn't worth it in the long run.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Beveren_Rabbit 08/23/21 9:34:43 AM #16:	wow at the responses. Cheating isn't always the end of a relationship. You can still love each other after an affair. --- flops <cite>Beveren_Rabbit posted [p:957356659] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>wow at the responses. Cheating isn't always the end of a relationship. You can still love each other after an affair.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wedge Antilles 08/23/21 9:36:14 AM #17:	No. I wouldn't be able to trust them anymore and a relationship without trust is a bad relationship. --- I used the knife. I saved a child. I won a war. God forgive me. <cite>Wedge Antilles posted [p:957356681] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>No. I wouldn't be able to trust them anymore and a relationship without trust is a bad relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tom Clark 08/23/21 9:36:35 AM #18:	Been in this situation (except that it wasn't an ex), and no. --- https://imgur.com/6eF0W <cite>Tom Clark posted [p:957356686] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Been in this situation (except that it wasn't an ex), and no. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ALIEN_WORK2HOP 08/23/21 9:36:54 AM #19:	depends on the circumstances, drunk one night stand or real nasty completely on purpose cheating over a longer period of time? I have done some stupid shit while drunk which I would never have done sober so I could probably look the other way if something like that happened once --- If you have selfish, ignorant citizens, you're going to get selfish, ignorant leaders. <cite>ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted [p:957356696] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>depends on the circumstances, drunk one night stand or real nasty completely on purpose cheating over a longer period of time? I have done some stupid shit while drunk which I would never have done sober so I could probably look the other way if something like that happened once </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
monkmith 08/23/21 9:37:09 AM #20:	Beveren_Rabbit posted... wow at the responses. Cheating isn't always the end of a relationship. You can still love each other after an affair. but you cant trust them. relationships without trust are going to fail. --- Taarsidath-an halsaam. Quando il gioco e finito, il re e il pedone vanno nella stessa scatola <cite>monkmith posted [p:957356703] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Beveren_Rabbit posted... </cite> <quote>wow at the responses. Cheating isn't always the end of a relationship. You can still love each other after an affair.</quote>but you cant trust them. relationships without trust are going to fail. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MaddenDude-- 08/23/21 9:40:47 AM #21:	Depends on my situation. My answer my whole life was 'fuck no'. But now that I have 2 kids and we've been together for over 10 years, married for over 5, it gets complicated. I would be a massive hit to my ego but I would take the hit and simply talk to her about it, try to overcome issues, and try to move on for the sole reason that our kids get to grow up with 2 parents in a single loving household. If it was repeated behavior, then things get tougher cuz its hard to fake a normal relationship and kids can see through that. --- I am Dan_Haren <cite>MaddenDude-- posted [p:957356782] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Depends on my situation. My answer my whole life was 'fuck no'. But now that I have 2 kids and we've been together for over 10 years, married for over 5, it gets complicated. I would be a massive hit to my ego but I would take the hit and simply talk to her about it, try to overcome issues, and try to move on for the sole reason that our kids get to grow up with 2 parents in a single loving household. If it was repeated behavior, then things get tougher cuz its hard to fake a normal relationship and kids can see through that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ALIEN_WORK2HOP 08/23/21 1:10:59 PM #22:	monkmith posted... but you cant trust them. relationships without trust are going to fail. bro 90% of all relationships fail, in what dream world are you living where no shitty things happen during a relationship that may break trust? --- If you have selfish, ignorant citizens, you're going to get selfish, ignorant leaders. <cite>ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted [p:957362573] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>monkmith posted... </cite> <quote>but you cant trust them. relationships without trust are going to fail.</quote> bro 90% of all relationships fail, in what dream world are you living where no shitty things happen during a relationship that may break trust? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Compsognathus 08/23/21 1:14:46 PM #23:	It would permanently shatter my trust in a way I don't think I would ever get over. Like I'm the kind of person who always gives the benefit of the doubt and trusts a significant other, even in situations that feel sketchy. Because I'd rather trust and then be hurt than not trust at all. But once that trust is gone...I don't think I could recover it, even if I did genuinely believe they were sorry. --- Gheb is my other account <cite>Compsognathus posted [p:957362688] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>It would permanently shatter my trust in a way I don't think I would ever get over. Like I'm the kind of person who always gives the benefit of the doubt and trusts a significant other, even in situations that feel sketchy. Because I'd rather trust and then be hurt than not trust at all. But once that trust is gone...I don't think I could recover it, even if I did genuinely believe they were sorry. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garlands_Soul 08/24/21 6:36:56 AM #25:	God no. That's fucking evil --- "I, Garland, will knock you all down!" <cite>Garlands_Soul posted [p:957386211] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>God no. That's fucking evil </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Valjackal 08/24/21 6:42:17 AM #26:	Been there, done that. 0/10, would not try again. --- Remember...remember us. Remember...that we once lived... The artist (formerly?) known as Citrik <cite>Valjackal posted [p:957386257] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Been there, done that. 0/10, would not try again. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nfearurspecimn 08/24/21 6:49:40 AM #27:	even if I did the relationship would be doomed to fail regardless --- Wake up. You have to wake up. currently a preta/hungry ghost Dai Grepher: I was wrong. My entire theory is incorrect. Zero Mission IS a remake of Metroid. <cite>nfearurspecimn posted [p:957386336] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>even if I did the relationship would be doomed to fail regardless </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DocDelicious 08/24/21 7:03:58 AM #28:	Absolutely not. --- o7 Let strength be granted so the world might be mended. <cite>DocDelicious posted [p:957386509] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Absolutely not. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Glob 08/24/21 7:04:39 AM #29:	Never. <cite>Glob posted [p:957386515] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Never. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gwynevere 08/24/21 7:10:07 AM #30:	Hell no --- A hunter is a hunter...even in a dream <cite>Gwynevere posted [p:957386571] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Hell no </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
smoke_break 08/24/21 7:36:25 AM #31:	I'd say yeah until I found someone else then leave them. --- https://imgur.com/mOCFlRv <cite>smoke_break posted [p:957386890] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>I'd say yeah until I found someone else then leave them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Master Kazuya 08/24/21 7:45:11 AM #32:	I think it'd be funny to accept them back and not make it a big deal whatsoever, as if she told me the store ran out of Coke so she got Pepsi instead. Then make her wonder, hey wait a sec does he even give a shit about me? Or if I suddenly start acting suspicious like coming home late hours, mistaking her name, etc just enough so now she's worried that I'm cheating but I'm actually not --- itt my post is the best <cite>Master Kazuya posted [p:957387004] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>I think it'd be funny to accept them back and not make it a big deal whatsoever, as if she told me the store ran out of Coke so she got Pepsi instead. Then make her wonder, hey wait a sec does he even give a shit about me? Or if I suddenly start acting suspicious like coming home late hours, mistaking her name, etc just enough so now she's worried that I'm cheating but I'm actually not </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Iczer 08/24/21 7:50:21 AM #33:	Compsognathus posted... It would permanently shatter my trust in a way I don't think I would ever get over. Like I'm the kind of person who always gives the benefit of the doubt and trusts a significant other, even in situations that feel sketchy. Because I'd rather trust and then be hurt than not trust at all. But once that trust is gone...I don't think I could recover it, even if I did genuinely believe they were sorry. Exactly. And when you aren't home or late coming home... --- "Build a man a fire, keep him warm for a day. Set a man on fire, keep him warm for the rest of his life." <cite>Iczer posted [p:957387063] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Compsognathus posted... </cite> <quote>It would permanently shatter my trust in a way I don't think I would ever get over. Like I'm the kind of person who always gives the benefit of the doubt and trusts a significant other, even in situations that feel sketchy. Because I'd rather trust and then be hurt than not trust at all. But once that trust is gone...I don't think I could recover it, even if I did genuinely believe they were sorry.</quote> Exactly. And when you aren't home or late coming home... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
008Zulu 08/24/21 7:52:18 AM #34:	You are forgiven once. There will not be a second time. --- If you protest, it's because you feel your voice isn't being heard. If you riot, it's because you feel your voice is being ignored. <cite>008Zulu posted [p:957387082] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>You are forgiven once. There will not be a second time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 08/24/21 7:54:43 AM #35:	Payzmaykr posted... No. If she does it once, shes going to do it again. Taking her back is teaching her its okay. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:957387109] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Payzmaykr posted... </cite> <quote>No. If she does it once, shes going to do it again. Taking her back is teaching her its okay.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 08/24/21 7:58:12 AM #36:	Nah. If you stab me in the back once, I'm not giving you a second opportunity. --- Black Lives Matter. ~DYL~ (On mobile) 12-18-19 and 01-13-21: Times Donald Trump has officially been impeached. <cite>Umbreon posted [p:957387155] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Nah. If you stab me in the back once, I'm not giving you a second opportunity. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 08/24/21 8:00:14 AM #37:	Beveren_Rabbit posted... wow at the responses. Cheating isn't always the end of a relationship. You can still love each other after an affair. If you take a cheater back they lose all respect for you and only learn that they can cheat again when another opportunity presents itself. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:957387189] in Would you ... [t:79626930]...</cite> <quote>Beveren_Rabbit posted... </cite> <quote>wow at the responses. Cheating isn't always the end of a relationship. You can still love each other after an affair.</quote>If you take a cheater back they lose all respect for you and only learn that they can cheat again when another opportunity presents itself. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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