Current Events > When a girl tells you to randomly meet her at a bar, do you go?

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She flaked on our date last wk

I was understanding but didnt try to reschedule yet

She randomly texts me now to meet her at a bar down the street

Should I go? I assume she's with her friends, which might make it a poor choice
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Don't go

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Normally after a girl flakes once I ignore her forever, but in this situation where she is asking you to meet up with her right now I would probably go if I was free.

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BignutzisBack posted...

Normally after a girl flakes once I ignore her forever, but in this situation where she is asking you to meet up with her right now I would probably go if I was free.

You're missing out on +EV by not following up with girls who flake

This girl said she had a major migraine. Assuming she's telling the truth, that is a good reason to flake

Honestly I'd probably usually skip it but I am currently free and bored
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I wtgi if a girl would ever ask me, still waiting

Could be lame depending. If they're just their by themselves, then that doesn't even really make sense to me. You may as well at least go out for something to eat like a normal date first. If they have a group of friends though, I get it. Then it just matters on if you're game or not. You just gotta be willing to play up the crowd dynamics in that case.

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masticatingman posted...

Could be lame depending. If they're just their by themselves, then that doesn't even really make sense to me. You may as well at least go out for something to eat like a normal date first. If they have a group of friends though, I get it. Then it just matters on if you're game or not. You just gotta be willing to play up the crowd dynamics in that case.

This is p much what it boils down to. If I already have the leverage for a date, it's pointless to do this. But I should be solid enough I wouldn't lose leverage for a date and strengthen the possibility in case she was getting flaky...

I'm bored enough and it's close enough I'll probably give it a shot
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lol im back home already, only stated about 35 minutes

she was with a group of 5 other girls (2 of the other ones were hot)

it went well enough, don't think it will burn any bridges for me...but she was preoccupied with her friends the entire time. p much what i expected, and i was able to work the group dynamic well enough. but she rarely went out of her way to accommodate me, which is not a good sign. i had to ask them to move their purses out of the 7th chair so i could sit down and she didn't offer me any of her giant pretzel which she ordered. they were all headed to an event next door, and once they switched venues i decided to dip

we'll see if that made it more solid to get her out on a date, or maybe her friends will shit talk me, we shall see
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Go back to being warned

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I stay away from bars so i would not go.

TrollTrace posted...

I stay away from bars so i would not go.

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and now she hasn't replied yet today lmao
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