Current Events > That associate who invited me to that trip is lashing out at me

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coolpal23 08/02/21 4:13:02 PM #1:	A while back I made a topic about how one of my associates invited me to an Ark of God roadtrip that took place in Tennessee, I told him that I talked it over with family and decided not to go because I was worried about mine and my family's safety (due to this covid stuff) He absolutely lost it, saying that I didn't give a shit whether or not it meant a lot to him, and he really wanted me to go and that I'm a "fucking asshole" because I'm gonna get covid anyway, and everyone is too eventually, and that I should just accept it It's taking all of my willpower to message him back and tell him to fuck off, I haven't responded to him but I want to so bad He and his family aren't going to get vaccinated and all of them have problems wearing masks--mainly they don't want to --- MSI B360-A PRO\|Asus Rog 8Gb Rtx 2070S\| DDR4 2400 32Gb G.skill\| i5 8600K 3.6Ghz Steam: That Hero Luka "Fact and fiction, where do you draw the line?" <cite>coolpal23 posted [p:956708477] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>A while back I made a topic about how one of my associates invited me to an Ark of God roadtrip that took place in Tennessee, I told him that I talked it over with family and decided not to go because I was worried about mine and my family's safety (due to this covid stuff) He absolutely lost it, saying that I didn't give a shit whether or not it meant a lot to him, and he really wanted me to go and that I'm a "fucking asshole" because I'm gonna get covid anyway, and everyone is too eventually, and that I should just accept it It's taking all of my willpower to message him back and tell him to fuck off, I haven't responded to him but I want to so bad He and his family aren't going to get vaccinated and all of them have problems wearing masks--mainly they don't want to </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shezarr 08/02/21 4:14:54 PM #2:	Dude sounds incredibly unbalanced, especially if they're just an associate and not even a close friend (and that reaction would be weird then too) --- The artist formerly known as RebelElite791 <cite>Shezarr posted [p:956708535] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>Dude sounds incredibly unbalanced, especially if they're just an associate and not even a close friend (and that reaction would be weird then too) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
berlyman101 08/02/21 4:17:33 PM #3:	is this an employee, a co-worker, or a third-party associate? either way it's unprofessional as hell and I'd raise this to my superior. this guy is beyond reason. --- http://www.lukesurl.com/comics/2010-02-24-determinism.png <cite>berlyman101 posted [p:956708618] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>is this an employee, a co-worker, or a third-party associate? either way it's unprofessional as hell and I'd raise this to my superior. this guy is beyond reason. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
coolpal23 08/02/21 4:18:02 PM #4:	He's someone I transport every day of every week someplace due to his insurance paying our company for transporting him at first we used to be friends, but I've been trying to phase him out of my life since he's as you've said, imbalanced berlyman101 posted... is this an employee, a co-worker, or a third-party associate? Third party associate --- MSI B360-A PRO\|Asus Rog 8Gb Rtx 2070S\| DDR4 2400 32Gb G.skill\| i5 8600K 3.6Ghz Steam: That Hero Luka "Fact and fiction, where do you draw the line?" <cite>coolpal23 posted [p:956708637] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>He's someone I transport every day of every week someplace due to his insurance paying our company for transporting him at first we used to be friends, but I've been trying to phase him out of my life since he's as you've said, imbalanced berlyman101 posted... </cite> <quote>is this an employee, a co-worker, or a third-party associate?</quote> Third party associate </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 08/02/21 4:18:18 PM #5:	berlyman101 posted... is this an employee, a co-worker, or a third-party associate? either way it's unprofessional as hell and I'd raise this to my superior. this guy is beyond reason. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:956708646] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>berlyman101 posted... </cite> <quote>is this an employee, a co-worker, or a third-party associate? either way it's unprofessional as hell and I'd raise this to my superior. this guy is beyond reason.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eston 08/02/21 4:21:54 PM #6:	Is there a way for you to not have to drive this guy anymore? Seems like if he's calling you a fucking asshole for prioritizing your family's safety then it would constitute a hostile work environment --- http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i215/estonc/grizzly_bear_chairs_2.jpg https://imgur.com/8kjZU <cite>eston posted [p:956708724] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>Is there a way for you to not have to drive this guy anymore? Seems like if he's calling you a fucking asshole for prioritizing your family's safety then it would constitute a hostile work environment </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
coolpal23 08/02/21 4:23:28 PM #7:	I texted my boss just now about his behavior and I'm waiting on a response from her. I hope I no longer have to be in the same vehicle as him, I didn't even think to do that honestly, dumb moment on my part I guess --- MSI B360-A PRO\|Asus Rog 8Gb Rtx 2070S\| DDR4 2400 32Gb G.skill\| i5 8600K 3.6Ghz Steam: That Hero Luka "Fact and fiction, where do you draw the line?" <cite>coolpal23 posted [p:956708761] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>I texted my boss just now about his behavior and I'm waiting on a response from her. I hope I no longer have to be in the same vehicle as him, I didn't even think to do that honestly, dumb moment on my part I guess </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
coolpal23 08/02/21 4:26:34 PM #8:	She said she really doesn't want to get involved in our personal problems and that she'll try and refrain from having me transport him Not sure how I should take that --- MSI B360-A PRO\|Asus Rog 8Gb Rtx 2070S\| DDR4 2400 32Gb G.skill\| i5 8600K 3.6Ghz Steam: That Hero Luka "Fact and fiction, where do you draw the line?" <cite>coolpal23 posted [p:956708857] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>She said she really doesn't want to get involved in our personal problems and that she'll try and refrain from having me transport him Not sure how I should take that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
berlyman101 08/02/21 4:28:47 PM #9:	coolpal23 posted... She said she really doesn't want to get involved in our personal problems and that she'll try and refrain from having me transport him Not sure how I should take that It's a soft hedge lol --- http://www.lukesurl.com/comics/2010-02-24-determinism.png <cite>berlyman101 posted [p:956708934] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>coolpal23 posted... </cite> <quote>She said she really doesn't want to get involved in our personal problems and that she'll try and refrain from having me transport him Not sure how I should take that</quote> It's a soft hedge lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
silver_stoner 08/02/21 4:38:40 PM #10:	Cool. Text him back and cuss him out. If you do that, please provide an update. --- I find your lack of underwear disturbing. <cite>silver_stoner posted [p:956709231] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>Cool. Text him back and cuss him out. If you do that, please provide an update. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eston 08/02/21 4:43:39 PM #11:	coolpal23 posted... She said she really doesn't want to get involved in our personal problems and that she'll try and refrain from having me transport him Not sure how I should take that It means you need to keep pushing. Her assigning a different driver is not getting involved in your personal problems, because this isn't a personal relationship. --- http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i215/estonc/grizzly_bear_chairs_2.jpg https://imgur.com/8kjZU <cite>eston posted [p:956709385] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>coolpal23 posted... </cite> <quote>She said she really doesn't want to get involved in our personal problems and that she'll try and refrain from having me transport him Not sure how I should take that</quote>It means you need to keep pushing. Her assigning a different driver is not getting involved in your personal problems, because this isn't a personal relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
coolpal23 08/02/21 4:49:32 PM #12:	I thanked her for trying to get other drivers to take him, and she said that she's here for me and has my back Which I am thankful for, sorry for the /blogfaqs guys hah --- MSI B360-A PRO\|Asus Rog 8Gb Rtx 2070S\| DDR4 2400 32Gb G.skill\| i5 8600K 3.6Ghz Steam: That Hero Luka "Fact and fiction, where do you draw the line?" <cite>coolpal23 posted [p:956709558] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>I thanked her for trying to get other drivers to take him, and she said that she's here for me and has my back Which I am thankful for, sorry for the /blogfaqs guys hah </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eston 08/02/21 5:03:09 PM #13:	Nah it's cool man, sometimes you just need other people to tell you that you aren't wrong --- http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i215/estonc/grizzly_bear_chairs_2.jpg https://imgur.com/8kjZU <cite>eston posted [p:956709935] in That assoc... [t:79595313]...</cite> <quote>Nah it's cool man, sometimes you just need other people to tell you that you aren't wrong </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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