Current Events > "don't tell me how to raise my kids"

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Bitch maybe if you weren't doing a questionable job child-rearing the no one would have to say anything the fact that anyone even has to say anything clearly means that are you doing something wrong or you need something to work on your judgment as a parent is an infallible you're just a person who had a child you're not some kind of arbiter of perfect judgment anybody can give you suggestions on what to do with your offspring

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Um... WHAT
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Did something happen or are you just making up scenarios in your head?

So if anyone tells you you're doing something wrong, you immediately accept that theirway is better?

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Lost_All_Senses posted...

So if anyone tells you you're doing something wrong, you immediately accept that theirway is better?

... Did I say you have to accept it?
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GeraldDarko posted...

Did something happen or are you just making up scenarios in your head?

... Huh?
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Said by every abusive parent out there

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TC ain't wrong tho

Most parents develop this weird martyr complex where they treat parenting as this magical act that only a chosen few are capable of pulling off, as if they did the world a favor by having a kid.

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LostForest posted...

TC ain't wrong tho

Most parents develop this weird martyr complex where they treat parenting as this magical act that only a chosen few are capable of pulling off, as if they did the world a favor by having a kid.

Trust me when you have kids everyone has got an opinion no matter how little knowledge they have.

You hear some terrifying stuff if your kid has an allergy.

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Darmik posted...

Trust me when you have kids everyone has got an opinion no matter how little knowledge they have

Tbf, I don't know many parents with degrees in childcare or psychology either.

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LostForest posted...

Tbf, I don't know many parents with degrees in childcare or psychology either.

You sound like the unreasonable one.

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Lost_All_Senses posted...

You sound like the unreasonable one.

All I'm saying is that just because you do something doesn't automatically mean you do it well \_()_/
If that were the case, inbred hicks like Westboto Baptist Church with like 9 kids in one house would be the greatest parents in the world.

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LostForest posted...

Tbf, I don't know many parents with degrees in childcare or psychology either.

You don't need a degree to know about your own kid.

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LostForest posted...

All I'm saying is that just because you do something doesn't automatically mean you do it well \_()_/

Thanks genius

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Didn't you make this topic before?

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Darmik posted...

You don't need a degree to know about your own kid.

Lemme ask you then. My sister and her husband are raising their kids anti-vaxx and already dropped one child out of school as a result, who's not receiving a real education anymore. All four of them had COVID earlier this year.

But, it's their kids. Does that mean it's all okay? Is it out of line if me or my mother criticized those choices?

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You should definitely raise your kid the way other people want it raised. And if someone says you're doing something wrong then you're obviously doing something wrong.

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LostForest posted...

Lemme ask you then. My sister and her husband are raising their kids anti-vaxx and already dropped one child out of school as a result, who's not receiving a real education anymore. All four of them had COVID earlier this year.

But, it's their kids. Does that mean it's all okay?

I never said anything at all that implied all parents are correct. Parents are also given plenty of dumb advice about stuff like vaccines. Often from other parents.

My point was that parents constantly get advice from all sources. Everything from how to feed them, how to get them to sleep, how to control their behavior etc. Most people don't know what they're talking about because every kid is different and nobody knows your kid more than you do. Most of it isn't worth going to.

It's as I said. When it comes to parenting a shitload of people want you to listen to their opinions. Even if you try your best at being a good parent.

Stuff like vaccines should really be common sense anyway. Of course you can criticize anti-vax people.

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Darmik posted...

I never said anything at all that implied all parents are correct. Parents are also given plenty of dumb advice about stuff like vaccines. Often from other parents.

My point was that parents constantly get advice from all sources. Everything from how to feed them, how to get them to sleep, how to control their behavior etc. Most people don't know what they're talking about because every kid is different and nobody knows your kid more than you do. Most of it isn't worth going to.

It's as I said. When it comes to parenting a shitload of people want you to listen to their opinions. Even if you try your best at being a good parent.

Stuff like vaccines should really be common sense anyway. Of course you can criticize anti-vax people.

That's fair. It seems like we're trying to make two different points then. My bad.

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shnangyboos posted...

You should definitely raise your kid the way other people want it raised. And if someone says you're doing something wrong then you're obviously doing something wrong.

Case in Point.

Look how defensive they get, and the pathetic strawman arguments.
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But they tell her how to go to the hospital to make them born?

I doubt rising kids pattern belong to the roads Queens.

We need a movement to make kids and rise kids. And we need Great Leader in this movements. They will take charge of the commission.

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ya I feel like if you even have to say that to a stranger it should tell you you're being a garbage parent

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Yup
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Lol, huh?
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... No
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