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daynlokki
07/04/21 5:07:49 AM
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Have done a skiptrace on her car. Found a general vicinity of where she is living (in a town of only 1,000). Getting a boots on the ground PI to track her down from there in Texas. Filed an order for custody, plus a temporary order that would force her to either move back to Oregon for my regular visits or give me my son for the duration of the court proceedings. Also asked for her to pay my lawyers fees which are 10k and counting so far. Not expecting for that to happen and will use it as a bargaining chip to get her to give up sooner.

She has 3 other kids with 3 other dads and ALL of the other dads are filing the same paperwork I am in Oregon. Still trying to directly serve her as all we have is a phone number and email addresses for service so far. When we can get that figured out shes utterly fucked. Will be in court half her time with no lawyer since she cant afford one for our case, let alone 4 in total.

Her own friends are jumping ship. Might actually get her address from one of them. They are saying they think she had a mental breakdown and ran because of that.

For anyone who may think this is harsh, when her last relationship ended we offered our extra rooms in our house for her, free of charge, so she could go job searching and get herself together. She declined.
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Number090684
07/04/21 5:17:17 AM
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You thought it was a good idea to have a kid with this woman knowing her history?
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Lonestar2000
07/04/21 5:46:04 AM
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daynlokki posted...
She has 3 other kids with 3 other dads
Damn, you fucked up.

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daynlokki
07/04/21 6:46:31 AM
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Number090684 posted...
You thought it was a good idea to have a kid with this woman knowing her history?
Im dad 1. Probably shouldnt make assumptions.
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Flauros
07/04/21 6:50:43 AM
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I feel you there. I got lucky with my custody battle and spent a total of 100 bucks (to file the motion) when all was said and done and got full custody and child support (that she still hasnt paid a dime into BTW >_>)

Keep fighting the fight and dont give up.

Hopefully she cant sucker another guy into the trap, but when she loses all the kids a lot of the red flags will be gone.

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ShineboxPhil
07/04/21 6:51:07 AM
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Imagine posting your custody battle on CE board

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Funkydog
07/04/21 6:57:38 AM
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daynlokki posted...
Im dad 1. Probably shouldnt make assumptions.
So what you're saying is that you DIDN'T consult an oracle pre relationship?

SMH

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daynlokki
07/04/21 7:04:12 AM
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Funkydog posted...
So what you're saying is that you DIDN'T consult an oracle pre relationship?

SMH
I know right? Went to the wrong damn psychic. Next time I wont use Miss Cleo.
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daynlokki
07/04/21 7:05:11 AM
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ShineboxPhil posted...
Imagine posting your custody battle on CE board
Imagine thinking I care what you think.
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indica
07/04/21 7:19:56 AM
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daynlokki posted...
Im dad 1. Probably shouldnt make assumptions.
That doesn't make it look better...

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daynlokki
07/04/21 7:24:59 AM
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indica posted...
That doesn't make it look better...
Yes because I knew exactly what she would turn out to be 13 years ago. People kinda change over a decade, my bad for not being Nostradamus.
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Kingbuffet
07/04/21 7:26:34 AM
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How much does a PI cost
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Ruvan22
07/04/21 7:26:59 AM
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I don't know your backstory (or what happened) but good luck, it's always awesome to see parents trying to move mountains for their kids.
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BlockAddition
07/04/21 7:46:19 AM
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daynlokki posted...
Im dad 1.



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viewmaster_pi
07/04/21 8:01:12 AM
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Kingbuffet posted...
How much does a PI cost
i work pro bono

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daynlokki
07/04/21 8:03:12 AM
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Kingbuffet posted...
How much does a PI cost
For the skip trace and such it was $200. The PI in Texas will cost several times that for his time unless I get extremely lucky.
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