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Hmm not her, she's too old

Wait. I'M that old. Fuck

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Dating at all be like.


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That's why you date chicks in their 20s, no matter how old you are.

Problem = SOLVED

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NeonOctopus posted...

That's why you date chicks in their 20s, no matter how old you are.

Problem = SOLVED

This

I'm finding the opposite. The older I get the more I appreciate older women.

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NeonOctopus posted...

That's why you date chicks in their 20s, no matter how old you are.

Problem = SOLVED

The older I get though the more of a nightmare this becomes.

1. I'm going to ruin them emotionally
2. They're going to ruin me financially
3. We will date and the sex will be good until either one of us gets too attached and then realises we're not compatible

Give me those older broken women tbh.

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I thought you were moving to London with your girlfirend?

just wait til you get into your 40s!

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They all have fucking kids.

also, true, i'm in my mid-30s and i know the struggle. last woman who wanted the D had like 3 kids by 3 different men, and the 1st of the fathers went to prison for a long time for whatever reason

i just got a nice paying job and part of my solution is that i'm moving to a place with easy access to all sorts of social opportunities. more chances at finding a good answer = greater opportunity for success.

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pinky0926 posted...

The older I get though the more of a nightmare the younger women become.

1. I'm going to ruin them emotionally
2. They're going to ruin me financially
3. We will date and the sex will be good until either one of us gets too attached and then realises we're not compatible
Give me those older broken women tbh.

women in their 30s have higher sex drive and Id guess more experience in general

pinky0926 posted...

The older I get though the more of a nightmare the younger women become.

1. I'm going to ruin them emotionally
2. They're going to ruin me financially
3. We will date and the sex will be good until either one of us gets too attached and then realises we're not compatible
Give me those older broken women tbh.

LMAO. Okay boomer.

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Women in their 30s are hot, though. Its not like theyre 60.

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XxKrebsxX posted...

They all have fucking kids.

Or if you're lesbian like myself...

They're all married to a guy or looking for a third where interacting with him is mandatory.

Plus the part where I'm trans so the fraction of bi and lesbian girls I can date are like... Maybe 5-10% of the cis ones in my age range, and trans girls, and femme presenting NBs. Forget a needle in a haystack, I need to find a particular sentence in a specific book in a library.

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36 year old woman, physically attractive, pretty funny and talkative. But heres the thing, shes never been married, no kids. Whats the catch? Makes me wonder why no one has put a ring on her yet?

Shes invited me to her place twice but i declined lol.

It feels like everyone in the 27-34 range are either in a LTR already, divorced or with kids.

toyota posted...

36 year old woman, physically attractive, pretty funny and talkative. But heres the thing, shes never been married, no kids. Whats the catch? Makes me wonder why no one has put a ring on her yet?

Shes invited me to her place twice but i declined lol.

It feels like everyone in the 27-34 range are either in a LTR already, divorced or with kids.

Why didn't you just hit and quit it?

toyota posted...

36 year old woman, physically attractive, pretty funny and talkative. But heres the thing, shes never been married, no kids. Whats the catch? Makes me wonder why no one has put a ring on her yet?

Shes invited me to her place twice but i declined lol.

It feels like everyone in the 27-34 range are either in a LTR already, divorced or with kids.

you declined why?

BabyRoxann posted...

Lol

To be fair she's a cute gilf

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NeonOctopus posted...

That's why you date chicks in their 20s, no matter how old you are.

Problem = SOLVED

I mean, that's what I did. I'm 44 and she's 28

I didn't seek this out on purpose. She had been my friend for 3 years and it just made sense

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toyota posted...

36 year old woman, physically attractive, pretty funny and talkative. But heres the thing, shes never been married, no kids. Whats the catch? Makes me wonder why no one has put a ring on her yet?

Shes invited me to her place twice but i declined lol.

It feels like everyone in the 27-34 range are either in a LTR already, divorced or with kids.

I hope you are kidding that you declined because she had never been married by 36. That's just dumb.

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bsp77 posted...

I'm 44 and she's 28

Did anyone treat you guys weird over it?

As a 32 year old, is 22 too young? Theres a 22 year old who im legit crushing on, like she has the sweetest smile and personality ive met. And I dont think ive had a crush since i was like around 20 lol. Shes such a genuinely nice person

ROOTFayth posted...

you declined why?

unnamedsoldier posted...

Why didn't you just hit and quit it?

lol that would be rude. I was very tempted to but I got cold feet. We really clicked too and this sounds dumb but I was paranoid she was 'too old' or just 'settling'. tbh I could probably still turn things into a fwb situation but that feels so wrong.

bsp77 posted...

I hope you are kidding that you declined because she had never been married by 36. That's just dumb.

I know but it just seems so weird. I can get why guys could be in their 30s, never been married, or even never held hands or hugged a girl. But a girl who is quite attractive and never been married? It seems suspicious lol. I dont even know why

edit: oh and she pays for cable and didnt know how to stream nor really wanted to learn how, which really bothered me for some reason too lol. though i guess how she records her shows is kind of cute.

bsp77 posted...

I mean, that's what I did. I'm 44 and she's 28

I didn't seek this out on purpose. She had been my friend for 3 years and it just made sense

How'd you guys meet?

NeonOctopus posted...

That's why you date chicks in their 20s, no matter how old you are.

Problem = SOLVED

This.
Also have money.
We live in a capitalist world. She's in love with you as much as she's in love with your current earning potential.

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toyota posted...

I know but it just seems so weird. I can get why guys could be in their 30s, never been married, or even never held hands or hugged a girl. But a girl who is quite attractive and never been married? It seems suspicious lol. I dont even know why

guys in their 30s who have never been married, held hands or hugged a girl are no better than their female counterpart man

KINDERFELD posted...

We live in a capitalist world. She's in live with you as much as she's in love with your current earning potential.

This

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toyota posted...

Did anyone treat you guys weird over it?

As a 32 year old, is 22 too young? Theres a 22 year old who im legit crushing on, like she has the sweetest smile and personality ive met. And I dont think ive had a crush since i was like around 20 lol. Shes such a genuinely nice person

I don't know of anyone who has been weird about. My ex girlfriend (who I am friends with) made fun of me about it but she does like her.

No, 22 is not necessarily too young if there isn't a maturity gap that can't be overcome. Is she into you?

I know but it just seems so weird. I can get why guys could be in their 30s, never been married, or even never held hands or hugged a girl. But a girl who is quite attractive and never been married? It seems suspicious lol. I dont even know why

edit: oh and she pays for cable and didnt know how to stream nor really wanted to learn how, which really bothered me for some reason too lol. though i guess how she records her shows is kind of cute.

Okay, not knowing how to stream is a major turn off. She is in her 30s but most 50 and 60 year olds can stream.

Ruvan22 posted...

How'd you guys meet?

After my divorce, I joined a geeky Meetup to meet people, most of whom were in their 20s and 30s. I met her through that. She wasn't a regular member of the group, but she would always come when I personally invited her. I knew she had a major crush on me, but she was 25 and quite innocent at the time and I was a post divorce man whore and it felt wrong. 3 years later, she was still quite innocent but I realized I truly liked her and wouldn't just have the tendency to "hit it and quit it" so to speak.

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bsp77 posted...

I mean, that's what I did. I'm 44 and she's 28

I didn't seek this out on purpose. She had been my friend for 3 years and it just made sense

So you were friends with a 25yo when you were 41? Slay that tight pussy yo

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toyota posted...

36 year old woman, physically attractive, pretty funny and talkative. But heres the thing, shes never been married, no kids. Whats the catch?

this describes one of my best friends

she's a highly educated, very successful professional in a city where college educated women outnumber college educated men 2:1

from what i've seen, the men in this city only really want to settle down if they find themselves in a long term relationship at a young age. the older they get the less interested they are in commitment, even medium-term commitment

she's not perfect but her flaws aren't any worse than anyone else's. sometimes the problem is simply demographics.

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https://twitter.com/RetroDeathRow/status/1404892943035547648?s=19

Trying to get a date is like

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NeonOctopus posted...

So you were friends with a 25yo when you were 41? Slay that tight pussy yo

I had a quite a few 20 something female friends

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when you are in your 40's and older you will only want to date girls in their 20's

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bsp77 posted...

I had a quite a few 20 something female friends

My man!

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bsp77 posted...

I had a quite a few 20 something female friends

how?

then again I somehow have a 19 year old gay friend. i wonder if he can hook me up with someone from his church

* takes out a Bible *

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bsp77 posted...

After my divorce, I joined a geeky Meetup to meet people, most of whom were in their 20s and 30s. I met her through that. She wasn't a regular member of the group, but she would always come when I personally invited her. I knew she had a major crush on me, but she was 25 and quite innocent at the time and I was a post divorce man whore and it felt wrong. 3 years later, she was still quite innocent but I realized I truly liked her and wouldn't just have the tendency to "hit it and quit it" so to speak.

You know that's a relatable story - I'm just a couple of years younger than you but have been to some board game Meetups prior to COVID and while most of the crowd was younger nobody seemed to talk much about ages.

toyota posted...

how?

then again I somehow have a 19 year old gay friend. i wonder if he can hook me up with someone from his church

As I said, Meetup. A core group of people from the group, maybe 20 of us, started hanging out frequently outside of the group. Lots of alcohol often involved. My current gf wasn't in that core group though.

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Ruvan22 posted...

You know that's a relatable story - I'm just a couple of years younger than you but have been to some board game Meetups prior to COVID and while most of the crowd was younger nobody seemed to talk much about ages.

Exactly! And when I told them my age, they all had thought I was like 10 years younger. I do stay in really good shape though.

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For real. And then even men at my own age and younger who are single at this point I find are almost alien to me in behaviour and likes. And not having much better success with women either, as most just want something casual - which is fine but I kind of want something more than a fuckbuddy at this point.

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im 28 and never dated, never held hands, never talked to a girl outside work :/

ill probably die a virgin and alone

Kloe_Rinz posted...

im 28 and never dated, never held hands, never talked to a girl outside work :/

ill probably die a virgin and alone

But you can work on that

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It's very hard for me to get dates, dating sucks

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Thirty year old chicks are ready to fuck though.

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bsp77 posted...

But you can work on that

im introverted with crippling social anxiety. im also very insecure irl

Is that CEman who used to talk endlessly about his elderly turbovirginity still active

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Kloe_Rinz posted...

im introverted with crippling social anxiety. im also very insecure irl

Introverted and insecure aren't an issue, as practice helps with both of those. Social anxiety is tougher. Do you have any friends in real life?

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bsp77 posted...

Introverted and insecure aren't an issue, as practice helps with both of those. Social anxiety is tougher. Do you have any friends in real life?

like 2. but they moved to a different city so i only ever talk to them online

toyota posted...

36 year old woman, physically attractive, pretty funny and talkative. But heres the thing, shes never been married, no kids. Whats the catch? Makes me wonder why no one has put a ring on her yet?

Shes invited me to her place twice but i declined lol.

It feels like everyone in the 27-34 range are either in a LTR already, divorced or with kids.

This is literally the same logic women use when rejecting men in the same situation. Fuck outta here.

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DaveTheUseless posted...

Is that CEman who used to talk endlessly about his elderly turbovirginity still active

Apocalypse Edge?

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Funkydog posted...

For real. And then even men at my own age and younger who are single at this point I find are almost alien to me in behaviour and likes. And not having much better success with women either, as most just want something casual - which is fine but I kind of want something more than a fuckbuddy at this point.

Lesbian tinder is the most dire thing I've ever seen. You can choose between absolute disaster humans or couples looking for a unicorn, there's very little in between

PSA: Don't mind me, I'm still bitter over my breakup

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