Current Events > Nothing is more unattractive than someone who avoid spending time with their kid

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80/80.

So basically I have this friend on Snapchat and I watch her story sometimes I notice shes always hanging out with this one friend of hers.

Anyways, I was on tinder the other day and I saw this chick and found out she has multiple kids Then I realized how often I see her on my friends Snapchat story.. They are always out late at night and having sleepovers and getting drunk and spending literally ALL of their free time together it seems.

Obviously I dont know the whole story, but theres no way she spending a lot of time with her kids if shes constantly out with her friend Guarantee you she has the grandparents watching the kids most of the time That shit is so unattractive.

dolomedes posted...

XD

Whats funny about that?

Being a terrible parent is unattractive.

Being out late at night means she doesn't spend time with her kids?... While the kid is probably sleeping?
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Nothing is more unattractive than someone with a kid
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TheChosenPurist posted...

80/80.

So basically I have this friend on Snapchat and I watch her story sometimes I notice shes always hanging out with this one friend of hers.

Anyways, I was on tinder the other day and I saw this chick and found out she has multiple kids Then I realized how often I see her on my friends Snapchat story.. They are always out late at night and having sleepovers and getting drunk and spending literally ALL of their free time together it seems.

Obviously I dont know the whole story, but theres no way she spending a lot of time with her kids if shes constantly out with her friend Guarantee you she has the grandparents watching the kids most of the time That shit is so unattractive.

Why do you care about how other people live their life? Strange.

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emblem boy posted...

Being out late at night means she doesn't spend time with her kids?... While the kid is probably sleeping?

Sleepovers

Leaving kids go drink

Shes single so 100% she has her parents watching them while she goes out and parties.

Reminds me of my own mother.

Blade_Trinity posted...

Why do you care about how other people live their life? Strange.

I agree with TC. Attraction is subjective, but objectively an absentee parent is a shitty parent.

Smashingpmkns posted...

Nothing is more unattractive than someone with a kid

Why? Proof that they put out.....

Smashingpmkns posted...

Nothing is more unattractive than someone with a kid

I have a kid and I'm sexy AF

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Snooping and making assumptions about people is also pretty unattractive TBQH

Murphiroth posted...

Snooping and making assumptions about people is also pretty unattractive TBQH

Its not really an assumption when you observe someone spending copious amounts of time away from their children

TheChosenPurist posted...

emblem boy posted...

Being out late at night means she doesn't spend time with her kids?... While the kid is probably sleeping?

Sleepovers

Leaving kids go drink

Shes single so 100% she has her parents watching them while she goes out and parties.

Reminds me of my own mother.

I get what you're saying, but I guess nothing that you've said seems overly absent. If her parents are willing to help out, then that's wonderful. Parents should be encouraged to have their own life outside of their kids.

But ya, I don't know the full story and any history. Just saying, I'm hesitant to like, start blaming her or whatever
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