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So I work at a gas station. Soemtimes people forget their wallets or dont have enough for a item. Depends on of I have the money too, but it's just something I do.

The story is that this chick comes in during the nights. She usually buys this strawberry margarita bottle or some wine. About a week ago she forgot her wallet at home and so I paid for it. She said she was gonna pay me back and I told her not to worry about. So she came back in today and said she still owes me, so o told her just make me one of those strawberry margaritas and we can call it even. She responded very low and said yeah csnt say no to that. I think I screwed up cause she probably thinks I did it just to get in her pants or something now. When I'm jsut being a nice dude and I all I want is to try out the strawberry margarita lol didn't think about it tell after she left. I'm an idiot.

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ProfessorKukui posted...

blame it on electrical infetterence

lol

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It sounds like she appreciated the gesture you made for her, regardless of what she thinks your motive was. So I don't see why you're saying you're screwed, unless you're trying to humble brag about an interaction you had with a female.

Or maybe you're worried that she got the wrong idea and she's not your type. If that's the case, just continue to be nice, but don't ever flirt with her. Girls are used to letting guys make all the moves, so if she keeps coming around and doesn't feel like it's going anywhere, she'll give up eventually and look elsewhere. I've only had two incidents where they absolutely would not take the hint and I ended up having to be a dick.

Just go for da smash. Even if she was just joking and isn't up for da smash you still get a margarita out of it.

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BloodMoon7 posted...

Just go for da smash. Even if she was just joking and isn't up for da smash you still get a margarita out of it.

This. I cant see how you can lose.

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Do what I do: tell her your gay. It's a lie for sure (maybe not for you, I dont know your life), but it shuts down the conversation really fast without you coming off rude. Thats my go to when I get propositioned by the hookers here in Vegas.

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Metal_Bug posted...

It sounds like she appreciated the gesture you made for her, regardless of what she thinks your motive was. So I don't see why you're saying you're screwed, unless you're trying to humble brag about an interaction you had with a female.

Or maybe you're worried that she got the wrong idea and she's not your type. If that's the case, just continue to be nice, but don't ever flirt with her. Girls are used to letting guys make all the moves, so if she keeps coming around and doesn't feel like it's going anywhere, she'll give up eventually and look elsewhere. I've only had two incidents where they absolutely would not take the hint and I ended up having to be a dick.

Eh, if I wanted to brag about that stuff I be making a lot more topics about it lol yeah more worried she got the wrong idea, not that she isn't attractive and she works as a realtor so she makes good bank. More or less I don't want to be in a relationship and if I'm tempted i may go for it and it jsut end up with me breaking her heart or wasting her time. That's why I'm screwed lol so hopefully it is just a margarita lol

BloodMoon7 posted...

Just go for da smash. Even if she was just joking and isn't up for da smash you still get a margarita out of it.

ToadallyAwesome posted...

This. I cant see how you can lose.

Well for me smashing will cause feelings and my christian side consider it's a special occasion so I don't want to just smash and pass. Not that ik against sex out of wedlock I jsit consider it soemthing you shouldn't do unless your in a relationship. Mainly cause it can cause drama or hurt feelings.

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If your issue is you dont think you're worthy; understand that's her decision, not yours. If she likes you it would be more selfish than not to just turn her down because of your own self doubt. Maybe she sees something in you you dont see yourself.

You said you pay for other people's things out of your own pocket; that sounds like you're a generous person and maybe that's what shes looking for.

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Lokison posted...

If your issue is you dont think you're worthy; understand that's her decision, not yours. If she likes you it would be more selfish than not to just turn her down because of your own self doubt. Maybe she sees something in you you dont see yourself.

You said you pay for other people's things out of your own pocket; that sounds like you're a generous person and maybe that's what shes looking for.

Well my thing is, I'm horrible when it comes to relationships. When I'm not depressed I'm good at it, but once I get depressed I turn into a monster. I get extrmely anti-social and moody. I will say the cruelest meanings thing I can say just so the other person leaves me. Just to ruin my life. Which also fucks them up, breaks their heart and isn't fair to them. But I am a overly nice and flirtatious person, which gets me in trouble as I do get tempted to be in a relationship. But I know how I am and how it's gonna end up.

Anyways, she came in tonight and she didn't mention it but she had a big smile on her face. I didnt bring it up and she said see you tomorrow. I told her it may be my last night for a while since we will be getting another employee to cover nights. She said she ya next time then and I said bye. Had to bite my tongue in asking if she was free this weekend so we can do the margarita thing.*sigh*

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