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rexcrk 05/30/21 7:28:47 PM #101:	Whenever these topics pop up, people always seem to vilify people who dont want kids. Like, it isnt for everyone. You dont know how others live. For me, its definitely an anxiety thing. I dont like having to worry about things. And its also a financial thing. Im in my early 30s and I only JUST got a job that (I think) pays well. But thats for me. If I had to take care of a child, I dont think it would be possible on my salary, or it would be possible but very non-ideal living conditions. Im not putting a kid through that. And of course theres the whole thing with not having a woman in my life. Id love to find someone and Id also like to spend time with JUST them for a while before we have kids. But, again, at my age, its getting less and less likely. I dont want to be one of those people who has kids at age 40+. So please, be a little more empathetic towards people who dont want kids. It isnt always neckbeard manchildren reasons. --- Bah weep grannah weep ni ni bon <cite>rexcrk posted [p:954471331] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>Whenever these topics pop up, people always seem to vilify people who dont want kids. Like, it isnt for everyone. You dont know how others live. For me, its definitely an anxiety thing. I dont like having to worry about things. And its also a financial thing. Im in my early 30s and I only JUST got a job that (I think) pays well. But thats for me. If I had to take care of a child, I dont think it would be possible on my salary, or it would be possible but very non-ideal living conditions. Im not putting a kid through that. And of course theres the whole thing with not having a woman in my life. Id love to find someone and Id also like to spend time with JUST them for a while before we have kids. But, again, at my age, its getting less and less likely. I dont want to be one of those people who has kids at age 40+. So please, be a little more empathetic towards people who dont want kids. It isnt always neckbeard manchildren reasons. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MushroomMuncher 05/30/21 7:28:49 PM #102:	Lonestar2000 posted... If your solution to that problem is more people the system is broken and needs to be fixed. Please, i would love to hear some literal who on the internet's opinion on changing the entire retirement system --- Do I look like I know what a jpeg is <cite>MushroomMuncher posted [p:954471333] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>Lonestar2000 posted... </cite> <quote>If your solution to that problem is more people the system is broken and needs to be fixed.</quote>Please, i would love to hear some literal who on the internet's opinion on changing the entire retirement system </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SwiggitySwoogit 05/30/21 7:31:31 PM #103:	It's not surprising that the socially awkward people here can't figure out why someone could possibly want kids. <cite>SwiggitySwoogit posted [p:954471418] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>It's not surprising that the socially awkward people here can't figure out why someone could possibly want kids. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Crescente 05/30/21 9:08:17 PM #104:	Conflict posted... You responded to that 30 minutes after it ended so you looked weird as hell there. Agreed. Let's be friends. No more conflict. <cite>Crescente posted [p:954474237] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>Conflict posted... </cite> <quote>You responded to that 30 minutes after it ended so you looked weird as hell there.</quote> Agreed. Let's be friends. No more conflict. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ccidz 05/30/21 9:34:46 PM #105:	I'm looking into adoption since I'm not able to have kids and it's because I feel as if life would be a bit more fulfilling. Not so much for the fact that I have a kid, but because I've always wanted to be a father and provide the love and care I didn't receive as a child and I would enjoy it despite how exhausting it would be. That sounds selfish when I read it back, but I know what I'm trying to say. --- I'm surprised you can even type with this murderer's balls dangling on your face. _Rets_ 2017 <cite>ccidz posted [p:954475017] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>I'm looking into adoption since I'm not able to have kids and it's because I feel as if life would be a bit more fulfilling. Not so much for the fact that I have a kid, but because I've always wanted to be a father and provide the love and care I didn't receive as a child and I would enjoy it despite how exhausting it would be. That sounds selfish when I read it back, but I know what I'm trying to say. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nasty_Nitro 05/30/21 9:43:18 PM #106:	ccidz posted... I'm looking into adoption since I'm not able to have kids and it's because I feel as if life would be a bit more fulfilling. Not so much for the fact that I have a kid, but because I've always wanted to be a father and provide the love and care I didn't receive as a child and I would enjoy it despite how exhausting it would be. That sounds selfish when I read it back, but I know what I'm trying to say. I find the main motive for child birth is self fulfillment and living up to standards --- OG status Triple OG Status Jaguars, Miami Heat, ROH, NJPW, AEW supporter <cite>Nasty_Nitro posted [p:954475298] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>ccidz posted... </cite> <quote>I'm looking into adoption since I'm not able to have kids and it's because I feel as if life would be a bit more fulfilling. Not so much for the fact that I have a kid, but because I've always wanted to be a father and provide the love and care I didn't receive as a child and I would enjoy it despite how exhausting it would be. That sounds selfish when I read it back, but I know what I'm trying to say.</quote> I find the main motive for child birth is self fulfillment and living up to standards </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
R1masher 05/30/21 9:48:23 PM #107:	Its what youre supposed to do... so the human race can exist --- R1R1R1R1R1R1 <cite>R1masher posted [p:954475453] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>Its what youre supposed to do... so the human race can exist </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MaddenDude-- 05/30/21 9:52:47 PM #108:	The purpose is to carry on the bloodline and make the ancestors proud. --- I am Dan_Haren <cite>MaddenDude-- posted [p:954475588] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>The purpose is to carry on the bloodline and make the ancestors proud. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nasty_Nitro 05/30/21 9:54:13 PM #109:	R1masher posted... Its what youre supposed to do... so the human race can exist That just doesnt seem like good motivation at all. The human race is pretty trash --- OG status Triple OG Status Jaguars, Miami Heat, ROH, NJPW, AEW supporter <cite>Nasty_Nitro posted [p:954475632] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>R1masher posted... </cite> <quote>Its what youre supposed to do... so the human race can exist</quote> That just doesnt seem like good motivation at all. The human race is pretty trash </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
skermac 05/30/21 9:59:45 PM #110:	Kids arecfun awhen really young they mix up words and create a lot of laughs --- To the edge of the universe and back, endure and survive <cite>skermac posted [p:954475813] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>Kids arecfun awhen really young they mix up words and create a lot of laughs </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TrollTrace 05/30/21 10:14:07 PM #111:	Supposedly by 2050 there will be age reversal medicine. Things like nanobiotech, and other stuff will make it possible for people to live indefinitely or at the very least biblical lifespans. Having children is a bit pointless with this considered. In the next coming decades medicine will be so advanced that having children might become a thing of the past. Something like talomerization(sp) seems completely possible within our lifespan. The question is, who in the world wants to live a healthy lifestyle on this planet past the age of like...50? This world is really crazy. I see no point in living past 50. I also see no point in children at this point right now. If by some miracle they can fix whatever is wrong with my brain(i have a brain disorder) then i would be happy living a very long healthy life but i still would not want children. Bringing children into this world at any period of time is not a good idea. Surely they will suffer if they see their parents die which is very likely. Then its the vicious cycle all over again. Sorry. Rather be with a person i love and not have children and grow old and just have as much fun as possible. <cite>TrollTrace posted [p:954476209] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>Supposedly by 2050 there will be age reversal medicine. Things like nanobiotech, and other stuff will make it possible for people to live indefinitely or at the very least biblical lifespans. Having children is a bit pointless with this considered. In the next coming decades medicine will be so advanced that having children might become a thing of the past. Something like talomerization(sp) seems completely possible within our lifespan. The question is, who in the world wants to live a healthy lifestyle on this planet past the age of like...50? This world is really crazy. I see no point in living past 50. I also see no point in children at this point right now. If by some miracle they can fix whatever is wrong with my brain(i have a brain disorder) then i would be happy living a very long healthy life but i still would not want children. Bringing children into this world at any period of time is not a good idea. Surely they will suffer if they see their parents die which is very likely. Then its the vicious cycle all over again. Sorry. Rather be with a person i love and not have children and grow old and just have as much fun as possible. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JOSGABRIEL 05/30/21 10:28:45 PM #112:	Making yourself miserable, no other reason --- --*PSN:* Jos2793 <cite>JOSGABRIEL posted [p:954476640] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>Making yourself miserable, no other reason </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CapnMuffin 05/30/21 10:31:45 PM #113:	Creating life, becoming god for a moment. <cite>CapnMuffin posted [p:954476715] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>Creating life, becoming god for a moment. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kim Kusanagi 05/30/21 11:09:52 PM #114:	Nasty_Nitro posted... I just got married 3yrs ago and its perfec Where in the world are you based on that they allowed you to marry your RH --- Live to train. Train to fight. Fight to live. Take me away, I don't mind, but you better promise I'll be back in time! <cite>Kim Kusanagi posted [p:954477818] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>Nasty_Nitro posted... </cite> <quote>I just got married 3yrs ago and its perfec</quote> Where in the world are you based on that they allowed you to marry your RH </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkProto05 05/31/21 3:04:52 PM #115:	I dont have kids. Dont want kids. However, I can see why two people who love each other a lot and are best friends may want kids. They are creating a bond through that child. If I ever meet such a person I can see myself changing my mind and wanting a kid. But if it doesnt happen no way would I ever want a kid. --- Alpha Sapphire FC: 2552 5569 3267 <cite>DarkProto05 posted [p:954496361] in What is th... [t:79486387]...</cite> <quote>I dont have kids. Dont want kids. However, I can see why two people who love each other a lot and are best friends may want kids. They are creating a bond through that child. If I ever meet such a person I can see myself changing my mind and wanting a kid. But if it doesnt happen no way would I ever want a kid. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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