Current Events > Study: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9 to 1

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pogo_rabid
05/28/21 6:21:18 PM
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Women don't need dating apps to get unlimited chad dick. Who woulda thunk it

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bsp77
05/28/21 6:21:56 PM
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CalypsoDoom posted...
There's also a lot of dudes on there who aren't single so that may make the numbers disproportionate as well
This is true. Every woman I know has stories about married men, often pretending to be single, but having very strict times on when they have to be home

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apocalyptic_4
05/28/21 6:29:32 PM
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I still manage to get matches and dates on tinder

I'm in southern Ontario though it might be better here statistically

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What_
05/28/21 6:31:15 PM
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I seriously weep for all of you that I have to date this way
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bsp77
05/28/21 6:40:56 PM
#55:


apocalyptic_4 posted...
I still manage to get matches and dates on tinder

I'm in southern Ontario though it might be better here statistically
I always did too. Twin Cities, MN

But while I could get a few matches a day, women I know get 50+ a day, so even "successful" guys pale in comparison

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Goldice
05/28/21 6:42:10 PM
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Choco posted...

but how does that happen

Some of it is biological. Some of it is cultural (a man chasing many women is applauded. A woman chasing many men is derided.)

Some of it is women have higher standards then men.
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bsp77
05/28/21 6:45:04 PM
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Goldice posted...
Some of it is biological. Some of it is cultural (a man chasing many women is applauded. A woman chasing many men is derided.)

Some of it is women have higher standards then men.
Also, women who are single and want to date know they can just go out to a bar or they have a friend group where they know there is interest. Many never use online dating in the first place because they never feel they need to

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DoctorPiranha3
05/28/21 6:47:56 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Also, women who are single and want to date know they can just go out to a bar or they have a friend group where they know there is interest. Many never use online dating in the first place because they never feel they need to
That works for extroverted social girls pretty well. And they don't get as swarmed with dicks as they would online - easier to send a message than approach a girl in person.
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masticatingman
05/28/21 7:03:35 PM
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At least from what I've seen before, I'd also imagine part of this is that women will go out of their way to actually delete their entire profile if they're getting into a more serious relationship. Although that wouldn't explain the 1 to 9 ratio. Probably also affected by the super obvious fact that dating culture greatly encourages men to initiate dating possibilities with women already, so women can be approached, well, anywhere regardless.

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Mackorov
05/29/21 5:36:22 AM
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DoctorPiranha3 posted...
That works for extroverted social girls pretty well. And they don't get as swarmed with dicks as they would online - easier to send a message than approach a girl in person.
Yeah I notice that. Extroverted girls on dating apps are quite rare and evne if you match with them, they're very likely also talking to 20+ other guys and 99% likely gonna ghost your ass within the same day.
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Mackorov
05/29/21 5:40:51 AM
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Choco posted...
I don't get how the dating meta is so asymmetrical when there's an almost equal number of men and women
This is something very interesting I always wondered upon. But that's the harsh reality I learnt:

equality does not mean fairness.

the dating games is extremely tilted towards women's favour. There was a report published before stating how the 80/20 rule is true for the genders. 80% of women go after the 20% of men, so the rest of 80% of men are left fighting amongst themselves.

Most women don't need dating apps because they are always being approached by guys anyway. The ones that do go on dating apps tend to do so for either just friendly chats, entertainment out of boredom (esp. during this lockdown) or just looking to expand their network or promote their stupid instagram. I've seen some super attractive girls on the app and have been there for god knows over a few years already. They're obviously just exploiting their popularity there.
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Mackorov
05/29/21 5:45:36 AM
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masticatingman posted...
At least from what I've seen before, I'd also imagine part of this is that women will go out of their way to actually delete their entire profile if they're getting into a more serious relationship. Although that wouldn't explain the 1 to 9 ratio. Probably also affected by the super obvious fact that dating culture greatly encourages men to initiate dating possibilities with women already, so women can be approached, well, anywhere regardless.

Some reasons I can think of:
  1. men are more opportunistic in their pursuits. this means some may even go on dating apps even if they're attached/married already
  2. men are more likely to look for more than just a r/s, like hookups. meanwhile if a girl goes on the dating app, she's more likely looking for smth serious
  3. women may actually be more social than men and have a wider pool of friends to tap to for dating. I mean... just look at the gender ratio of CE or reddit... I feel like most women don't bother browsing the internet as much because they go out more often for social activities
  4. since women generally get far far more success on the dating app, they're unlikely to stay there long. Meanwhile most men never find success so their profile just lingers in the void of the app...causing a massive accumulation of more and more profiles thereafter


Also, do keep in mind they conducted this on Tinder, known more for hookups and y'know it's mostly men looking for the hookups, not women. If they did a study on a more serious app like CMB, I think the gender ratio should be SLIGHTLY more balanced.
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Schwarz
05/29/21 5:47:13 AM
#63:


Girls are picky because guys aren't picky

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PSXOnlineCCC
05/29/21 7:50:45 AM
#64:


Online dating is female privilege

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Mackorov
05/29/21 1:24:17 PM
#65:


Has any guy here actually tried creating a female dating profile? You can practically see the massive difference in scale of likes you'll get...
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DravenRainrix
05/29/21 2:11:26 PM
#66:


Mackorov posted...
Has any guy here actually tried creating a female dating profile?

I did.
I picked an average girls photo, it was a group shot at a comic con and I zoomed in, cropped it so it was kinda blurry and such.
Within a few minutes of my profile going 'live' I had messages.
Within 24 hours I had been inundated.

So I deleted it, tried again with the exact same profile info but a different name, city and no picture. Within a few minutes I had messages, in 24 hours there were at least 50 messages. 1 guy messaged 'me' repeatedly, first was like 'Hey', then 'what u up to?', then 'y ain't you replying?' and then 'why join POF if you ain't gonna reply?'
Then he called me a stuck up bitch... This was over night when I was asleep. I deleted the profile very quickly.


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Mackorov
05/29/21 11:48:27 PM
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So I deleted it, tried again with the exact same profile info but a different name, city and no picture.

are you freaking srs? Men still swipe right on profiles with no picture? lol
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DravenRainrix
05/30/21 2:35:12 AM
#68:


Mackorov posted...
are you freaking srs? Men still swipe right on profiles with no picture? lol

Well TBF it was POF and back then, swiping wasn't a thing in POF really. But yeah, seems that even no pics women get messages.

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metralo
05/30/21 2:38:29 AM
#69:


Mackorov posted...
How do dating apps get away with scamming like this is crazy. Probably because media outlets dominated by SJWs dont care about investigating such an issue and exposing it to the wider general public


jesus fucking Christ youre such a fucking loser

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DravenRainrix
05/30/21 3:03:09 AM
#70:


@Mackorov

A tale in 3 screen shots.

Out of interest this morning inset up a woman profile on POF.
First screen shot shows the time i got the verification text message, 7.46am
Second shot shows how many messages i got in about 10 minutes.
This is before 8am on a Sunday, so imagine how many I'd get say mid afternoon when people are awake and such.

Third screen shot is the profile I made with a photo from one of those stock photo places.




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Iloveyou5
05/30/21 3:04:06 AM
#71:


Jfc men are thirsty lol

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DravenRainrix
05/30/21 3:06:15 AM
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Profile info and as you can see my notifications are almost 30... In 15 minutes..:



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Iloveyou5
05/30/21 3:06:49 AM
#73:


That is sad.

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DravenRainrix
05/30/21 3:07:32 AM
#74:


Iloveyou5 posted...
That is sad.

Me.making the profile?
I agree, but it is interesting.

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Iloveyou5
05/30/21 3:15:39 AM
#75:


DravenRainrix posted...
Me.making the profile?
I agree, but it is interesting.
No not you. But the entire topic premise. 9 dudes fighting over 1 girl.

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Mackorov
05/30/21 3:21:10 AM
#76:


Iloveyou5 posted...
No not you. But the entire topic premise. 9 dudes fighting over 1 girl.
lol.

and I'm sure you can imagine how many more there are when it's a girl with an established bio and everything
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DravenRainrix
05/30/21 3:23:31 AM
#77:


Account deleted.
In 30 minutes I had 11 inbox messages, most saying "Hi" on bragging about his "size" and one guy i might have replied too if i were real:



Then there was 37 interested and 15 meet me.



No wonder women dislike POF.

Also, my profile was a single.mum with a low paid job. Imagine if I'd picked a stunning woman's photos and no kids.

Iloveyou5 posted...
No not you. But the entire topic premise. 9 dudes fighting over 1 girl.

Well I'm glad you didn't mean me, I agree with you though.

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Mackorov
05/30/21 3:29:44 AM
#78:


DravenRainrix posted...
Account deleted.
In 30 minutes I had 11 inbox messages, most saying "Hi" on bragging about his "size" and one guy i might have replied too if i were real:



Then there was 37 interested and 15 meet me.



No wonder women dislike POF.

Also, my profile was a single.mum with a low paid job. Imagine if I'd picked a stunning woman's photos and no kids.

Well I'm glad you didn't mean me, I agree with you though.

what's the woman picture you used? curious to know lol
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DravenRainrix
05/30/21 3:31:30 AM
#79:


Mackorov posted...
what's the woman picture you used? curious to know lol



I even did a dodgy crop and left some of "My" kids face in it.
I don't know who the woman is, she isn't bad looking at all TBF, but not all done up and glam and pouty etc.


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