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SomeGuyUO
05/27/21 12:04:05 PM
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Guy: Hey, you finally got back on AM shifts
Girl: Yeah you know how much I hate them
Guy: Damn, I was just starting to get used to you on PM shifts
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Irony
05/27/21 12:05:08 PM
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Sounds like sexual harassment

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Bananana
05/27/21 12:05:11 PM
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thats just a regular conversation

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LookANinja
05/27/21 12:06:18 PM
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Guy: Damn, I was just starting to get used to you on PM shifts

Why you gotta bring that up man?

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MACisBack
05/27/21 12:08:50 PM
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Its sounds wrong like you want her to stay on PM shifts. IF you flirt say something like, my day will be brighter now that you're back on AM shifts or its good to have you back to where you belong and then give her a genuine smile.

I am not an expert in flirting, just giving you my thoughts.

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RebelElite791
05/27/21 12:09:53 PM
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Where is the flirting

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SomeGuyUO
05/27/21 12:17:48 PM
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MACisBack posted...
Its sounds wrong like you want her to stay on PM shifts. IF you flirt say something like, my day will be brighter now that you're back on AM shifts or its good to have you back to where you belong and then give her a genuine smile.

I am not an expert in flirting, just giving you my thoughts.

I'm on PM shifts.
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RebelElite791
05/27/21 12:18:01 PM
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RebelElite791 posted...
Where is the flirting


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scar the 1
05/27/21 12:31:04 PM
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Did you wink or something when you said it because I don't get what's flirty about it

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KawiKa
05/27/21 12:32:04 PM
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If that's flirting, the human race is gonna die out real fast.

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No_U_L7
05/27/21 12:33:37 PM
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KawiKa posted...
If that's flirting, the human race is gonna die out real fast.

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Lost_All_Senses
05/27/21 12:34:04 PM
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Yeah, that's not gonna register as flirting unless you're all tone. I mean, tone can make anything flirting.

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Jiek_Fafn
05/27/21 12:36:00 PM
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Was your dick out during this? Otherwise I'm not understanding how this is supposed to let you know that you're interested.

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Shablagoo
05/27/21 12:41:15 PM
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Is this good flirting or cringe?

Guy: Good morning!
Girl: Good morning!
Guy: *walks toward work station*

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Lost_All_Senses
05/27/21 12:46:37 PM
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Shablagoo posted...
Is this good flirting or cringe?

Guy: Good morning!
Girl: Good morning!
Guy: *walks toward work station*

What you don't see is, she's biting her lip and staring at your back as you walk away. You're fuckin in there, bro. With that Disney channel flow.

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No_U_L7
05/27/21 12:49:25 PM
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Here, let me help you TC

SomeGuyUO posted...
Guy: Hey, you finally got back on AM shifts
Girl: Yeah you know how much I hate them
Guy: Cool, I kinda like seeing you first thing in the morning


That was from 10 sec of thinking and super rusty, I may even be able to do better but that should suffice
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EnglishBullDoug
05/27/21 12:49:25 PM
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I thought there was something I was missing but it seems that TC considers sterile small talk to be flirting.
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Lost_All_Senses
05/27/21 1:01:16 PM
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No_U_L7 posted...


That was from 10 sec of thinking and super rusty, I may even be able to do better but that should suffice

Tbf, some people can pull off genuine. My whole thing is to have nothing planned. Which tbf, doesn't have the highest success rate lol. But does anything other than money and really good appearance have a high success rate? And even then, it's just cause it mostly attracts disingenuous people as well.

I dunno if TC is trying to get laid or more tho. You come from a place where you usually assume it's the former and I usually assume it's the latter.

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RebelElite791
05/27/21 1:02:21 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
You come from a place where you usually assume it's the former
Scofield has never had sex

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No_U_L7
05/27/21 1:03:18 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...


Tbf, some people can pull off genuine. My whole thing is to have nothing planned. Which tbf, doesn't have the highest success rate lol. But does anything other than money and really good appearance have a high success rate? And even then, it's just cause it mostly attracts disingenuous people as well.

I dunno if TC is trying to get laid or more tho. You come from a place where you usually assume it's the former and I usually assume it's the latter.


based off his 40 topics in 5 days about the same girl, he's trying to get laid

just trying to illustrate the thought process behind some good light work flirting
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Lost_All_Senses
05/27/21 1:06:39 PM
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RebelElite791 posted...
Scofield has never had sex

Doesn't mean he'd never become ready tho. If you don't become jaded over it, you can get over yourself and still be ready or become ready to just accept a fun time.

I been out the game forever and went through depression in-between and all that. But now I'm at a point, Id just have fun if the opportunity comes. I want more, but I'm entering every relationship with no intention so I can make the best out of what's there. People are complex. I could leave with a new friend, a one night stand or anything in-between. I'm not gonna reject any of it because Im stuck in my feelings and jaded.

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Lost_All_Senses
05/27/21 1:08:10 PM
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No_U_L7 posted...
based off his 40 topics in 5 days about the same girl, he's trying to get laid

See, I thought you were going the other way with this as well. I think it's creepier to be obsessed with someone you just want to be laid by >_>. Like...the fuck you do when you're actually into the girl on a deeper level then? That's scary. I dunno. I might just move different. Im open minded.

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SomeGuyUO
05/27/21 1:08:55 PM
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I just wanna talk more with this girl lol.

I only work PMs so now I'll only see her on the way out.

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Lost_All_Senses
05/27/21 1:10:24 PM
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SomeGuyUO posted...
I just wanna talk more with this girl lol.

No expectations. See, that's what Im talking about. That's how you do it. Why try to think 10 steps ahead when you can just try to enjoy step 1. My mans.

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Notti
05/27/21 1:10:53 PM
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Shablagoo posted...
Is this good flirting or cringe?

Guy: Good morning!
Girl: Good morning!
Guy: *walks toward work station*


She'll be thinking about that good morning all day! and all night.
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Lost_All_Senses
05/27/21 1:12:44 PM
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Btw. Your flirting being too light is way easier to work on than your flirting being too overwhelming, so I wouldn't stress it too much. Just try to be a lil more forward when you want to get to know someone. I'm at the point I just tell people my intentions from the gate. Cause if you don't like my intentions, why am I even trying? Plus, like your situation, my intentions are always innocent.

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Master_Bass
05/27/21 1:12:56 PM
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RebelElite791 posted...
Where is the flirting


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I4NRulez
05/27/21 1:14:03 PM
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Shablagoo posted...
Is this good flirting or cringe?

Guy: Good morning!
Girl: Good morning!
Guy: *walks toward work station*

I actually had a girl that would say good morning to me every day. She would go out of her way to do it. So it can be considered flirting.

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awesome999
05/27/21 1:16:31 PM
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Bananana posted...
thats just a regular conversation

RebelElite791 posted...
Where is the flirting

KawiKa posted...
If that's flirting, the human race is gonna die out real fast.

Shablagoo posted...
Is this good flirting or cringe?

Guy: Good morning!
Girl: Good morning!
Guy: *walks toward work station*

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Dakimakura
05/27/21 1:19:24 PM
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I like how the original post is neither flirting nor cringe, but all the suggestions to TC are all cringe.

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SomeGuyUO
05/27/21 1:24:24 PM
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I wanted to say she had a cute outfit the other day but got interrupted by another coworker asking for something.

Later in the day I ended up just complimenting her boots and she goes on about her outfit on how she likes to look cute and I smile back and nod. So I guess I can compliment her now without feeling weird.

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Strider102
05/27/21 1:25:40 PM
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Man, flirting has changed a lot since the old days.

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awesome999
05/27/21 1:28:26 PM
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I just told a girl (on Tinder, I'm not an animal) that it'd be fun to ruin her life and she said 'haha sure wassup' or something along those lines
That I did not expect
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Lost_All_Senses
05/27/21 1:28:37 PM
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Strider102 posted...
Man, flirting has changed a lot since the old days.

https://youtu.be/QO40MAH_WWg

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SomeGuyUO
05/27/21 1:28:51 PM
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Her face lit up when she thought I said I smoked weed cuz she does and i was like nah haven't done that.
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No_U_L7
05/27/21 1:30:55 PM
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SomeGuyUO posted...
I wanted to say she had a cute outfit the other day but got interrupted by another coworker asking for something.

Later in the day I ended up just complimenting her boots and she goes on about her outfit on how she likes to look cute and I smile back and nod. So I guess I can compliment her now without feeling weird.



complimenting womens outfits is not flirting

SomeGuyUO posted...
Her face lit up when she thought I said I smoked weed cuz she does and i was like nah haven't done that.


should have run with it...could have smoked with her
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Lost_All_Senses
05/27/21 1:34:18 PM
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SomeGuyUO posted...
Her face lit up when she thought I said I smoked weed cuz she does and i was like nah haven't done that.

I wouldn't recommend doing it for the first time with her. That might cause anxiety. But maybe not. It's different for everyone.

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I4NRulez
05/27/21 1:34:36 PM
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No_U_L7 posted...
should have run with it...could have smoked with her

he said he doesnt smoke

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Lost_All_Senses
05/27/21 1:35:51 PM
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I4NRulez posted...
he said he doesnt smoke

Fuck that. She pulls out a needle, he better get with it. Does he want this girl or not?! :3

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DepreceV2
05/27/21 1:35:54 PM
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https://youtu.be/c2YdWb_5Ado

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awesome999
05/27/21 1:36:16 PM
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CalypsoDoom posted...


Why didn't she immediately unmatch

I will wonder that for the rest of my life
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SomeGuyUO
05/27/21 1:36:40 PM
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No_U_L7 posted...
complimenting womens outfits is not flirting

should have run with it...could have smoked with her


Well i was debating whether saying you're looking cute today or that outfit is cute.

Anyway, back on the weed thing, how can I bring it up again. I'm willing to try it lol. I was thinking of being like "what's smoking weed like. I was always curious but the people who have ever offered me weed before looked like the sketchiest people of all time. You look trustworthy, hook me up lol".
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amgoamgo
05/27/21 1:39:15 PM
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Farewell f**k?
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No_U_L7
05/27/21 1:43:25 PM
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SomeGuyUO posted...


Well i was debating whether saying you're looking cute today or that outfit is cute.

Anyway, back on the weed thing, how can I bring it up again. I'm willing to try it lol. I was thinking of being like "what's smoking weed like. I was always curious but the people who have ever offered me weed before looked like the sketchiest people of all time. You look trustworthy, hook me up lol".


"you look cute" can be considered flirting...it definitely isn't "good" flirting. you probably want to tailor something specifically to her/the situation

the smoking route is probably burnt. you got the buying temperature spike when her face lit up, then immediately let her down (wtf lol). you can't immediately go right back down that route while still sub communicating any sort of congruence and confidence. if it comes back organically in convo then go for it
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Dakimakura
05/27/21 1:44:49 PM
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womens like to talk about their outfits TC. They especially seem to be proud of their boots. You should not derive anything more from the conversation than that. They are by no means obligated to have any feelings towards you because you mentioned their clothing.

The good news for you is that she has already decided awhile ago if she would have sex with you or not. No amount of random conversation is going to change that. So stop playing stupid games and just put yourself out there or give up. Because unless you put yourself out there nothing will come from regular human conversations.

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Lost_All_Senses
05/27/21 1:46:09 PM
#49:


SomeGuyUO posted...
Well i was debating whether saying you're looking cute today or that outfit is cute.

Anyway, back on the weed thing, how can I bring it up again. I'm willing to try it lol. I was thinking of being like "what's smoking weed like. I was always curious but the people who have ever offered me weed before looked like the sketchiest people of all time. You look trustworthy, hook me up lol".

As a smoker, I'm not mad at that approach. Don't try to smoke like a veteran tho. I'm so far removed from the first time I smoked and I was a teenager. I have no idea how it feels to be your around my age now and smoke for the first time.

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philsov
05/27/21 1:50:11 PM
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"hey, since we don't see each other any more at work, how's about we see each other over at this bar friday night"
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