Current Events > New coworker thinks I'm pathetic. *Sigh*

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KogaSteelfang
05/14/21 4:55:25 PM
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She was the one who trained me at this job 3 years ago. We both ended up leaving, but I came back 1.5 years ago, and she came back this past Monday. I DESPISED working with her before, because she constantly asks super personal questions and is openly judgemental.

When she was training me, she kept prodding about my personal life, and my relationships. After days of prodding and pushing for an answer, I admitted to her that I'd never dated anyone. To which she straight up asked if I was a virgin, and I was nervous to answer so she figured it out.

Now I'm the one training her since she was

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Squall28
05/14/21 4:57:33 PM
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Why was she so nosy?

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WashYourHands
05/14/21 4:58:35 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Let HR deal with her
You would report someone to HR for asking personal questions even if you never asked them to stop?

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3PiesAndAFork
05/14/21 4:58:44 PM
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Ask her if she wants to bang

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refmon
05/14/21 4:58:56 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
To which she straight up asked if I was a virgin, and I was nervous to answer so she figured it out.

This is hot

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argonautweakend
05/14/21 4:59:15 PM
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Ehh fuck her. Shes a loser.
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AirFresh
05/14/21 4:59:50 PM
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This is the making of an anime.

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Zikten
05/14/21 5:00:39 PM
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She sounds really rude
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philsov
05/14/21 5:01:50 PM
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you caring about being a virgin is what's pathetic.
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JoeBurrow
05/14/21 5:02:47 PM
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philsov posted...
you caring about being a virgin is what's pathetic.
Yeah, TC is the problem there and not his bitch co-worker
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JTilly
05/14/21 5:03:14 PM
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Rate her looks on a scale of 1-10?

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philsov
05/14/21 5:06:33 PM
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JoeBurrow posted...
Yeah, TC is the problem there and not his bitch co-worker


Given his posting history/gimmick -- yes.
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WingsOfGood
05/14/21 5:08:12 PM
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Sounds like she was interested in you but you felt pitiful about yourself and made her change her mind and feel the same.
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ThirstForBLOOD
05/14/21 5:10:35 PM
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She sounds pretty toxic
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JoeBurrow
05/14/21 5:12:07 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
Sounds like she was interested in you but you felt pitiful about yourself and made her change her mind and feel the same.
If that were the case it's more likely she just didn't want to deal with someone with no experience at TC's age. Because the vast majority of women don't. So why should he feel any different than he does now?
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KogaSteelfang
05/14/21 5:27:25 PM
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lol, I didn't finish typing. I'm at work and set my phone down when I got busy. I checked back to finish typing and it was posted... Ugh. Well, I'll finish the rest in a bit.

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David1988
05/14/21 5:35:22 PM
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JTilly posted...
Rate her looks on a scale of 1-10?


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WashYourHands
05/14/21 5:37:39 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
I would expect my coworkers to be professionals so that I wouldnt have to talk to HR for anything regarding them. If they fail to act professional, thats on them.
All work and no play makes for a dull day.

But seriously, if you asked them to stop and/or told them you dont feel comfortable answering those questions and they continue then I can understand getting hr involved. But going to hr bc they asked you about your dating life seems a bit much.

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KogaSteelfang
05/14/21 5:43:29 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
Now I'm the one training her since she was
...since she was rehired. I got paired with her again to make sure remembers the computer system. It took less than 20 minutes before she was prodding about my personal life because she remembered. My anxiety kicked in and I clammed up, which made her angry and fuss at me for making things awkward. Every time I'd answer something she'd judge.

She told me I'd have to go for a younger woman if I wanted kids, then judged me for saying I'd rather date someone my age or a bit younger.

This is stressful. She's training at the other hotel Monday-Wednesday and I just hope I'm not paired with her again.

Also, I wasn't for sure if I was gonna post this. I was gonna type it out and see how I felt, but it got posted anyways. Sorry.

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KogaSteelfang
05/14/21 5:44:22 PM
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JTilly posted...
Rate her looks on a scale of 1-10?
Totally average, 5.0

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Legato-and-Vash
05/14/21 5:46:36 PM
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How old are you? If you don't mind me asking.The opening post didn't really sound like she was being an asshole, but just nosy/curious. Your 2nd post makes it sound like she's an ass though.

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KogaSteelfang
05/14/21 5:48:40 PM
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Legato-and-Vash posted...
How old are you? If you don't mind me asking.The opening post didn't really sound like she was being an asshole, but just nosy/curious. Your 2nd post makes it sound like she's an ass though.
I'm 37. So, was 34ish when we first met. I wouldn't say she's an ass, she's nice, she's just very... intrusive? I am not comfortable around her, simply because of the way she asks things.

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NoxObscuras
05/14/21 5:56:12 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
...since she was rehired. I got paired with her again to make sure remembers the computer system. It took less than 20 minutes before she was prodding about my personal life because she remembered. My anxiety kicked in and I clammed up, which made her angry and fuss at me for making things awkward. Every time I'd answer something she'd judge.

She told me I'd have to go for a younger woman if I wanted kids, then judged me for saying I'd rather date someone my age or a bit younger.

This is stressful. She's training at the other hotel Monday-Wednesday and I just hope I'm not paired with her again.

Also, I wasn't for sure if I was gonna post this. I was gonna type it out and see how I felt, but it got posted anyways. Sorry.
Wait wait wait... TC, do you know how old she is? If she's younger than you, asking about your relationship status/past relationships and trying to convince you that dating a younger woman is better... C'mon man.

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KogaSteelfang
05/14/21 6:05:09 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
Wait wait wait... TC, do you know how old she is? If she's younger than you, asking about your relationship status/past relationships and trying to convince you that dating a younger woman is better... C'mon man.
She's 28, but I seriously doubt she has any interest in me with the amount of judgement she passed on me being this way.

philsov posted...
you caring about being a virgin is what's pathetic.
That's only part of it. I've explained it many times before, that part of the situation isn't what bothers me. It's being unable to find anyone, and feeling inferior. It's what sex represents that I want, that I could manage to find someone to want to be with me, that despite my shortcomings that they'd be willing to share a part of themselves with me(physical or relationship wise). I want a real connection, and it stands to reason that if one could tick all the boxes to get sex, they'd tick them for simply finding a partner.

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III-URBAN-III
05/14/21 6:06:57 PM
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Is she smashable?

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JTilly
05/14/21 6:08:32 PM
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if you play your cards right, shed probably be down to have pity sex, no cap

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Flamer_Blue
05/14/21 6:10:56 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Let HR deal with her
Pretty much.
Report her to HR and don't discuss anything personal with her.
She seems like a trainwreck waiting to happen.

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III-URBAN-III
05/14/21 6:11:27 PM
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JTilly posted...
if you play your cards right, shed probably be down to have pity sex, no cap

Yeah OP should definitely spontaneously try and tounge her arsehole I agree.

Edit: if she's pretty

Oh I see you rated her a 5. Better get an injunction against her.

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What_
05/14/21 6:20:01 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Let HR deal with her

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EnglishBullDoug
05/14/21 6:22:05 PM
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She's probably thinking "How's this guy going to teach me how to do my job? He can't even figure out how to get into my pants."
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Trumpo
05/14/21 6:23:51 PM
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That's workplace discrimination
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DJquackquack
05/14/21 6:24:52 PM
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It sounds like she likes you dude.

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EnglishBullDoug
05/14/21 6:25:13 PM
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Also, you could make this super easy. When it comes up, and she gets judgmental, just be like "What? Do you want to help me out with this problem?" and **** her in the break room. These things happen, and it usually starts with a girl being super nosey. Women are only like that when they want to learn more about you and they prefer learning about what they find interesting.
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trappedunderice
05/14/21 6:27:18 PM
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Flamer_Blue posted...
Pretty much.
Report her to HR and don't discuss anything personal with her.
She seems like a trainwreck waiting to happen.
Nah, that would be a bitch move.
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3PiesAndAFork
05/14/21 6:27:30 PM
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III-URBAN-III posted...
Yeah OP should definitely spontaneously try and tounge her arsehole I agree.

Edit: if she's pretty

Oh I see you rated her a 5. Better get an injunction against her.
5 is perfectly average, nothing wrong or unfuckable about it.

TC your next topic should be either "I got fired for asking my annoying coworker to fuck me" or "I fucked my annoying coworker"

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Cornmuffins
05/14/21 6:28:36 PM
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I'll wait for the full context before I say something snarky
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EnglishBullDoug
05/14/21 6:32:09 PM
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3PiesAndAFork posted...
5 is perfectly average, nothing wrong or unfuckable about it.

TC your next topic should be either "I got fired for asking my annoying coworker to fuck me" or "I fucked my annoying coworker"
Yeah, I ****ed a 6/10 the other night and it was some of the wildest NHB porn sex I have ever had. I would definitely be willing to **** a 5 at this point.
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III-URBAN-III
05/14/21 6:32:48 PM
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3PiesAndAFork posted...
5 is perfectly average, nothing wrong or unfuckable about it.

TC your next topic should be either "I got fired for asking my annoying coworker to fuck me" or "I fucked my annoying coworker"

You know what you're right there, ignore what I said OP, go give her 7 lashes of penis.

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KogaSteelfang
05/14/21 6:41:33 PM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
What other people think about you does not matter. They will think what you project. Project patheticness and they will reciprocate those sentiments.
I am pretty awkward. It takes me so long to become comfortable with someone, it's ridiculous. In this case, it was more than that. I was worried she'd remember, embarrassed that she did, and offput by her questions again. I can generally hide my patheticness, but not this time.

Squall28 posted...
Why was she so nosy?
Idk... She just is. She even admitted that she knows that she asks uncomfortable questions, but that wouldn't stop her. Then she acted like she was offended when I stopped giving many answers.

I just hope she doesn't say anything to anyone else. I'm actually kind of respected at this job, and if she blows my cover, idk, I may not want to stay here.

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EnglishBullDoug
05/14/21 6:49:20 PM
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If you **** her she won't be able to spill the beans that you are a virgin and you'll gain MORE respect.
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KogaSteelfang
05/14/21 6:52:35 PM
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Cornmuffins posted...
I'll wait for the full context before I say something snarky
I dont have any more to give. Previous coworker got rehired, remembered something personal she learned about 3 years ago, and brought it up again with a TON of other personal questions.

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KogaSteelfang
05/14/21 6:54:24 PM
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EnglishBullDoug posted...
Yeah, I ****ed a 6/10 the other night and it was some of the wildest NHB porn sex I have ever had. I would definitely be willing to **** a 5 at this point.
I know, I saw the topic. I purposefully avoided posting there.

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Cornmuffins
05/14/21 6:59:20 PM
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Now that I'm caught up, this sums up TC well.

philsov posted...


Given his posting history/gimmick -- yes.

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KogaSteelfang
05/14/21 7:01:30 PM
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Cornmuffins posted...
Now that I'm caught up, this sums up TC well.
At least I'm getting a couple of tags out of this topic. :/

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