Current Events > "Dating is bullshit" by VandorLee

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When ever I was single i was sad, lonely and depressed. The problem with that is if you ever say "Hey, im sad, lonely and depressed. Want to go out?" the answer is no.

When I ask a girl out im saying im sexually interested but lets go have a formal date to see if we like each other. In short: I want them but i also want them to want me so i want to be what they want.

This requires me to bullshit things like independence, intelligence, charisma and a sense of humour. You cant bullshit too hard or its obvious so try to add some sincerity.

You have to do this until she wants you. At that point you can start to slowly be honest that your depressed and all that unattractive bullshit youve been hiding. If shes still interested then awesome, proceed to find out where it leads. If not try again with someone else.

Im married with a daughter. I aint going back to the dating game. Hopefully.

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Why bump it 9 hours later?

Id just assume its an alt of mine.

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Maybe he just wanted to let you know somebody read this post. Now you know at least 2 people have.

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Sounds like the problem is you

I come from a mindset of thriving, not surviving. I never need anyone else to be happy
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Tc talking to himself wtf?

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I clicked this link expecting a youtube link of a overdramatic song and instead got an overdramatic post

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what does your wife think of dating?