Current Events > Are you a virgin???

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dantesdmc posted...

Only western societies look down on virgins. Being virgin means you have great self control. Many great men like Nikola Tesla and Isaac Newton died virgins but their contributions far surpass what most people could accomplish. Most studies show that people with the highest IQs breed less or not breed at all while people with lower IQs have the most children.

lol this some incel shit right here

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STEROLIZER posted...

They could for $500 dollars

Too risk-adverse, lacking in knowledge, etc.

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For real though why arent people going to brothels? Using tinder?

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ShyOx posted...

For real though why arent people going to brothels? Using tinder?

Maybe some don't care?

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I have it on good authority stero can't even get it up without watching a jake paul video.

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Ryven posted...

Maybe some don't care?

Id believe that for a few but en masse absolutely not

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Dragon239 posted...

Too risk-adverse, lacking in knowledge, etc.

I think the risk is pretty low when you can stop it at any time, you can say no whenever you want, and you get to pick the girl/guy from a photo set and its all agreed on beforehand. If I had the money Id have done it when I was still single, there is no shame in it

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ShyOx posted...

Using tinder?

Doesn't help.

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ShyOx posted...

For real though why arent people going to brothels? Using tinder?

I've been on tinder all day and yesterday lmao, I ain't gettin' matches.
Brothels are also like, across the enormous country that is the USA, in very specific areas.

ShyOx posted...

I think the risk is pretty low when you can stop it at any time, you can say no whenever you want, and you get to pick the girl/guy from a photo set and its all agreed on beforehand. If I had the money Id have done it when I was still single, there is no shame in it

TBH I dunno what you're even suggesting here, unless it's "go to nevada" or something.
Then that has its own risks involved in travel, isolated tourism in an unknown area, everything about the financials.

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KogaSteelfang posted...

Doesn't help.

What about lowering standards? I dont believe this is true if youre a human looking man person.

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ShyOx posted...

What about lowering standards? I dont believe this is true if youre a human looking man person.

As if I can afford high standards.

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Yeah. I'm mediocre looking, socially awkward, and passive by nature, which as a straight dude means you don't get to date.
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Graycap posted...

Yeah. I'm mediocre looking, socially awkward, and passive by nature, which as a straight dude means you don't get to date.

I say again, tinder. Bumble.

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ShyOx posted...

I say again, tinder. Bumble.

Works for some guys, but statistically not ones of my demographics. Wish I had the stats.
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Graycap posted...

Works for some guys, but statistically not ones of my demographics. Wish I had the stats.

Just swipe left on everyone. Youll find one

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Sex is bad for the environment, don't do it.

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ShyOx posted...

Just swipe left on everyone. Youll find one

Do you even use Tinder

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I haven't used tinder in at least a year, but the scattergun approach is the only way it really works tbh. I could never fully embrace it the way some do, but I know guys who start casually talking to a girl and then just stop looking for anyone else. No wonder you don't ever meet anyone. That's not how you do it.

Also people whose whole profile is pics that look like you took a pic just for tinder.

Just find some pics of yourself doing shit that you got organically and use those.

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No.

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Nope
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CanuckCowboy posted...

I have it on good authority stero can't even get it up without watching a jake paul video.

I have it on great authority that you are a simp

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Graycap posted...

Yeah. I'm mediocre looking, socially awkward, and passive by nature, which as a straight dude means you don't get to date.

I have you tagged as someone who's suicidal. No lie. I'm not even sure where that has come from, tag could have been there for years, and we are just now interacting again.

I hope life has gotten better for you. If you ever want to chat DMs are open. But I'd recommend going to the redpill Reddit and asking for help.

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STEROLIZER posted...

But I'd recommend going to the redpill Reddit and asking for help.

The f***? no

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STEROLIZER posted...

I have it on great authority that you are a simp

Yeah but that authority was you calling me a simp in a context which implied you didn't even know what that meant at the time so...

More to the point Id rather simp for nick and nate than Jake and Logan.

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Dragon239 posted...

The f***? no

It works if only for giving someone self worth.

If the incel Reddit is "poor me, fuck the world,I hate women and Chad's"

Then the red pill reddit is "your life sucks, the world is fucked, feminist ideology is bullshit, let's all become Chad's"

Incels accept their situations. Red Pill change their situations.

Both are similar, but red pill people go on to become confident loving husband's & father's...while incels go on to a lifetime of hopless loneliness.

Both are hated by women for being misogynistic or whatever, but ones legitimately helpful and one is just sad.

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CanuckCowboy posted...

Wellm... thats a take.

Requote me. I edited to make it less harsh.

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STEROLIZER posted...

It works if only for giving someone self worth.

If the incel Reddit is "poor me, fuck the world,I hate women and Chad's"

Then the red pill reddit is "your life sucks, the world is fucked, feminist ideology is bullshit, let's all become Chad's"

Incels accept their situations. Red Pill change their situations.

Both are similar, but red pill people go on to become confident loving husband's & father's...while incels go on to a lifetime of hopless loneliness.

Both are hated by women for being misogynistic or whatever, but ones legitimately helpful and one is just sad.

You're fucking welcome stero. Lol

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CanuckCowboy posted...

Yeah but that authority was you calling me a simp in a context which implied you didn't even know what that meant at the time so...

More to the point Id rather simp for nick and nate than Jake and Logan.

Jake & Logan made more money in a few months than the Diaz Brothers did in a lifetime. With that said, the Diaz Brothers are literally my teammates, so I'd back them against the Paul Brothers anytime. You barking up the wrong tree simp.

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No but it's been so long I feel like I'm becoming one

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STEROLIZER posted...

Jake & Logan made more money in a few months than the Diaz Brothers did in a lifetime. With that said, the Diaz Brothers are literally my teammates, so I'd back them against the Paul Brothers anytime. You barking up the wrong tree simp.

The diaz bros are set for life cause they don't need to constantly show off and blow all their money whle jake got raided by the irs last year.

Cmon

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STEROLIZER posted...

Both are hated by women for being misogynistic or whatever, but ones legitimately helpful and one is just sad.

No. Being "educated" and deep-diving into hating the world and feminism isn't "helpful", and the 2 options are "incel murder-suicide" or "manipulative s***lord."

You don't need to join that mess to develop simple confidence and/or a sense of belonging so you can "change your situation."

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Yes but I matched with someone online recently lol. Here's to hoping this will be ma year.

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Dragon239 posted...

No. Being "educated" and deep-diving into hating the world and feminism isn't "helpful", and the 2 options are "incel murder-suicide" or "manipulative s***lord."

You don't need to join that mess to develop simple confidence and/or a sense of belonging so you can "change your situation."

Feminism isn't helpful in a dating context. It only makes men second guess their approach out of fear of offending the woman or creeping her out. Guys who aren't burdened by those concerns are able to approach more women more confidently, and refrain from blaming themselves for approaches that don't work out.

I took the feminism stuff to heart and as a result I can't figure out when it's actually appropriate to pursue women. Society gets more tolerant by the day, but the male virginity rates only increase. It just stifles intimate development.
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Does your mom know youre a virgin

ShyOx posted...

Just swipe left on everyone. Youll find one

Uh swipe left = pass, swipe right = like

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ImAMarvel posted...

What does that mean? >_>

Use that energy you feel when you're attracted to her and incorporate it into your overall person and show her that you want her. Basically, flirt. Be lively and interested when you talk to her, use your eyes to lock with hers and check her out, give genuine compliments on stuff you like about her, be physical and playful, get closer, be honest, make moves, etc. She's more than just another person, she's a person that you are attracted to, so you gotta embrace it otherwise she wont know (cause nobody is a mind reader).

You don't have to be Mr Smooth Pro Casanova but you should embrace those feelings and embody it when you interact with her.

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ShyOx posted...

For real though why arent people going to brothels? Using tinder?

pride? i don't know who would want to go to a brothel to lose their virginity.

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Graycap posted...

Feminism isn't helpful in a dating context. It only makes men second guess their approach out of fear of offending the woman or creeping her out. Guys who aren't burdened by those concerns are able to approach more women more confidently, and refrain from blaming themselves for approaches that don't work out.

I took the feminism stuff to heart and as a result I can't figure out when it's actually appropriate to pursue women. Society gets more tolerant by the day, but the male virginity rates only increase. It just stifles intimate development.

Bullshit.

People making excuses like this is the problem. Women expecting to be treated with a little respect isn't unreasonable. If you can't interact with them on those terms, they are not the problem, and turning to reprehensible predatory behaviours is not the solution.

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Got some like an hour ago, but I'm gay and married so getting laid is easy mode.

IloveJesus posted...

Bullshit.

People making excuses like this is the problem. Women expecting to be treated with a little respect isn't unreasonable. If you can't interact with them on those terms, they are not the problem, and turning to reprehensible predatory behaviours is not the solution.

You don't get it.

If the goal is to never make somebody uncomfortable with advances the only way to ensure that is to never approach period.

At the very least the only people who will be successful are the ones who "don't sweat it" when it comes to making somebody uncomfortable by accident.

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IM VIRGIN



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Yeah I just lack social skills and any semblance of game/romance

When I was younger I went to the gym and was more of a flirt but it never yielded desired results.
Honestly both looks and personality wise I am just not a desirable mate.

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IloveJesus posted...

Bullshit.

People making excuses like this is the problem. Women expecting to be treated with a little respect isn't unreasonable. If you can't interact with them on those terms, they are not the problem, and turning to reprehensible predatory behaviours is not the solution.

There seems to be some false assumption from folks that unless a man simps to a woman's every waking needs, then they aren't respecting them?

If a man wants to attract a women, they must first self improve themselves and become successful. Ironically enough, traits like confidence, confrontational, aggressive, arrogance...these are traits that guide men into successful lives, and are traits that women actually find attractive in spite of what Feminism says.

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STEROLIZER posted...
STEROLIZER posted...

34 people. Wow! I have a question for ya'll...

Why are you a virgin?

I'm not interested in casual sex, and I've never had much luck with relationships. I also find that I don't really care that much. Maybe I'm ace?

STEROLIZER posted...

There seems to be some false assumption from folks that unless a man simps to a woman's every waking needs, then they aren't respecting them?

Not sure how you got that from what I posted.

STEROLIZER posted...

f a man wants to attract a women, they must first self improve themselves and become successful.

Agreed.

STEROLIZER posted...

confidence

Good

STEROLIZER posted...

confrontational, aggressive, arrogance

Bad

STEROLIZER posted...

and are traits that women actually find attractive in spite of what Feminism says.

So you're saying that women don't know what they want but you do? I mean, just the fact that you're assuming all women want the same thing is a major issue. Not all men want the same qualities in a partner. Why would all women?

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Filipino Rebellion posted...

A born-again virgin (also known as a secondary), is a person who, after having engaged in sexual intercourse, makes some type of commitment not to be sexually active again until marriage (or some other defined point in the future, or indefinitely), whether for religious, moral, practical, or other reasons, and is ...

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Born-again_virgin

It may only be 3:30AM where I'm at, but that is the dumbest shit I've read all day, Jesus.
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IloveJesus posted...

So you're saying that women don't know what they want but you do? I mean, just the fact that you're assuming all women want the same thing is a major issue. Not all men want the same qualities in a partner. Why would all women?

I'm saying that women don't realize what they like. Women all have the same complaints against men, because in general they are all attracted to and pursue the same type of man. Confident, Aggressive, Not Agreeable, and Arrogant/Selfish.

This is because those are typically the traits associated with a successful male. Men tend to be attractive to just physical qualities - like we'll fuck the cashier at McDonalds without a second guess if she's hot enough. What women find attractive is a whole lot more complex.

Women typically try to date up, and find a partner that has:

• More noteworthy accomplishments
• Higher career aspirations
• Higher social status
• Higher paying job
• Better possessions
• More interesting
• More assertive
• More money
• Better life

...than they do.

So since these types of men are typically Uber Alpha Males, women (especially super hot ones) tend to only ever date or romantically involve themselves with men who are Confident, Brash, Loud, Aggressive (not physically), Assertive, Arrogant, and Selfish.

If a women dates 10 guys, and they all have the above traits, then they'll start to say things like...I want a man who is intune with this emotions, who listens to me, who doesn't always have to be right, isn't afraid to cries, is risk averse, avoids confrontation, and puts my needs first.

But you know who that guy is they just described? That's either their gay friend, or the poor sap they have "friend zoned" - the one whom they go to in order to complain about the confident, brash, loud, assertive, arrogant, asshole that they are currently fucking.

You catch my drift here? Women get pissed off at the guys they date, and claim they want them to change. But they are all attracted to the same type of guy. If those guys actually changed then they wouldn't be attracted to them anymore...because they would just be Jimmy...and Jimmy has been friendzoned for 15 fucking years.

What I'm saying is that it is understandable to complain about one's life. We all do it. Since girls are attracted to your standard "alpha guy template" then that is what they end up complaining about. However, if they were actually hated these qualities, and were actually attracted to all the fucking things they say that they claim they wish these "Chads" would morph into...well...then there wouldn't be 100 virgins on CE now would there?

This is where the whole "blue & red pill" analogies comes from. You can take the blue pill, and continue perceiving the world in how women (and mainstream media) tell you it is to be perceived, or you can take the red pill and perceive the world how it truly is. Once you recognize how the world operates, then you can learn to successfully operate within it.

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