Current Events > Your date: "I won't have sex until marriage"

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ZannoL
04/23/21 9:47:29 PM
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Is that a dealbreaker for you?



Would it be a dealbreaker if your date disclosed they wouldnt have sex with you until marriage?






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Irony
04/23/21 9:48:24 PM
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I usually don't make it to the date

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The Trent
04/23/21 9:48:49 PM
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Sure date I believe you its okay

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ZannoL
04/23/21 9:49:25 PM
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It would be a dealbreaker. Sexual compatibility is important. What if you wait until marriage and discover the two of you dont mesh at all

Thats just me though. What about you dudes?
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awesome999
04/23/21 9:49:33 PM
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Sure, her choice
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MabusIncarnate
04/23/21 9:49:40 PM
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Yeah probably, I don't care if that's shallow. It's more in the respect that she is likely very religious if those are her values and I'm not the church going type, and we wouldn't work out anyway.

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BloodMoon7
04/23/21 9:49:44 PM
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Good. I too am a super virgin.

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ZannoL
04/23/21 9:49:56 PM
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The Trent posted...
Sure date I believe you its okay
Someone is confident
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BeantownHero
04/23/21 9:50:16 PM
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Absolute deal breaker

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g0ldie
04/23/21 9:50:29 PM
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yea, I'd likely tell her it wasn't going to work out.

I have no issues with people with convictions like that, but since ours don't align, I wouldn't want to waste either of our time.

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Trumble
04/23/21 9:50:35 PM
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If she's shoving that preference in my face before it even becomes relevant, I'll take that as a general red flag that she's crazy. But otherwise, not a problem.

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The Trent
04/23/21 9:50:41 PM
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ZannoL posted...
Someone is confident

It ain't tricking if you got it

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Choco
04/23/21 9:50:46 PM
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topics like this are wild to me because "sex" is really vague and i have no idea what interpretation you're going for

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ChocoboMogALT
04/23/21 9:51:50 PM
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I went 10 years in basically a common law marriage before making it "official", it's definitely a deal breaker.

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ZannoL
04/23/21 9:52:18 PM
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Choco posted...
topics like this are wild to me because "sex" is really vague and i have no idea what interpretation you're going for
Sex as in going down, intercourse, etc.
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YugiNoob
04/23/21 9:54:09 PM
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Heh, that's what my last girlfriend said, but she ended up being the one who brought my dong in for a landing :3

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ZannoL
04/23/21 9:54:22 PM
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The Trent posted...
It ain't tricking if you got it
I like your confidence
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ZannoL
04/23/21 9:54:30 PM
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YugiNoob posted...
Heh, that's what my last girlfriend said, but she ended up being the one who brought my dong in for a landing :3

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Guide
04/23/21 9:58:54 PM
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ZannoL posted...
It would be a dealbreaker. Sexual compatibility is important. What if you wait until marriage and discover the two of you dont mesh at all

Thats just me though. What about you dudes?

Unless you're only into some very niche stuff, which should come up in conversation, I think two virgins could figure out what they're into with each other. Plenty of people sleep around without often hitting compatibility issues, right? Also, that mental real estate is not yet terraformed -- lots of people only learn to like things after an experience and associated memory.

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Choco
04/23/21 10:01:20 PM
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ZannoL posted...
Sex as in going down, intercourse, etc.
in that case yeah it's a dealbreaker

the concept of "no sex until marriage" never made sense to me anyway
if the point is that marriage is more important than sex it should literally be the other way around

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Joeydollaz
04/23/21 10:01:35 PM
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Pretty sure hookers exists still

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YugiNoob
04/23/21 10:02:35 PM
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ZannoL posted...
It was an awkward moment because it happened when we were making out beneath the stairs of her apartment building.

...And an old lady who also lived there walked by :<

Luckily there were washing machines and driers that blocked her view lol. But she shooshed us away lol

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DrizztLink
04/23/21 10:09:00 PM
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DrizztLink
04/23/21 10:17:00 PM
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dantesdmc posted...
Normalising fornication leads to trivialization of sex and relationships. You are supposed to fall in love once and stick with her for the rest of your life. Marriage is about commitment and sacrifice not just about lust. Most people's minds are too clouded with lust and is the reason why there is so much adultery and depravity in the modern world.
This is what "purity" education gets you, folks.

Get to fuckin' before you wind up like Jebediah over here.

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Choco
04/23/21 10:23:25 PM
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dantesdmc posted...
Normalising fornication leads to trivialization of sex and relationships. You are supposed to fall in love once and stick with her for the rest of your life. Marriage is about commitment and sacrifice not just about lust. Most people's minds are too clouded with lust and is the reason why there is so much adultery and depravity in the modern world.
Normalising getting married leads to trivialization of marriage and relationships. You are supposed to fall in love once and stick with her for the rest of your life. Sex is about commitment and love not just about lust. Most people's minds are too clouded with lust and is the reason why there is so much adultery and depravity in the modern world.

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WingsOfGood
04/23/21 10:25:22 PM
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Wife material.
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dave_is_slick
04/23/21 10:26:13 PM
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dantesdmc posted...
Normalising fornication leads to trivialization of sex and relationships. You are supposed to fall in love once and stick with her for the rest of your life. Marriage is about commitment and sacrifice not just about lust. Most people's minds are too clouded with lust and is the reason why there is so much adultery and depravity in the modern world.
shut up

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RemixRBG
04/23/21 10:30:30 PM
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No

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MedeaLysistrata
04/23/21 10:31:40 PM
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I voted no by accident but I would want to have sex before marriage

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Antbregante
04/23/21 10:32:56 PM
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Okay. Do you know where the nearest Married by Elvis place is?

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AThirstyCamel
04/23/21 10:32:58 PM
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17 people on CE said no

I'm shocked but I'm not shocked
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Shadowplay
04/23/21 10:33:18 PM
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It's a deal breaker because it means that she believes in the existence of a god that was conceived by a bunch of nomadic cattle herders.

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pfh1001
04/23/21 10:33:25 PM
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I'd probably ask a follow up question or two before deciding. Such as:

Is she still a virgin?
What religion is she (assuming she's fairly religious)?
Is she interested in sex, but wanting to wait for the right person?
Or, does she have more of a sex-negative view via things like guilt/anxiety/etc.

Just from the one statement, it wouldn't be an automatic deal breaker, but depending on how she answered all of those questions, it could be.
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NoxObscuras
04/23/21 10:33:30 PM
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Generally speaking, I'd be fine with that. I don't mind waiting. But, thinking more about it, that's usually a religious decision and if she's super religious, me being agnostic would mean we clash a lot... Tough one.

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Choco
04/23/21 10:34:55 PM
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Shadowplay posted...
it means that she believes in the existence of a god
No.

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RedJackson
04/23/21 10:35:04 PM
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This happened to me, it was fun for a bit - to her religion was important and since I was familiar with it I tried to get hip to that

The tension was amazing, just feeling like you really wanted someone and they wanted you

but it didnt work out for multiple reasons, mostly the fact that we had two different views on the same religion and a part of me felt like I was going to go to hell anyways so I didnt wanna drag her down >_>

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Damn_Underscore
04/23/21 10:37:47 PM
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If it's the perfect woman then no.

So I think there must be women in real life where the answer would be no also.

You can still make out and cuddle

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Cobra1010
04/23/21 10:39:20 PM
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My desperate pig cousin literally got married in March so they could fuck. All his wedding photos were them and their parents in surgical masks.

Meanwhile my chad friend was originally going to have his wedding in 2020 but he just delayed until further notice it like its nothing.

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averagejoel
04/23/21 10:43:18 PM
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it's not a dealbreaker in and of itself. being a religious weirdo, though, is a dealbreaker

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ZannoL
04/23/21 11:16:32 PM
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Majority voting yes.
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Shadowplay
04/23/21 11:52:23 PM
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Choco posted...
No.
The vast majority of the time it does.

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OpenlyGator
04/24/21 12:23:38 AM
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That arrangement is not worth it for modern men looking for commitment anymore. The divorce system rakes middle class men over the coals as a standard. Holding out for one booty is not worth that. Society is different now and no longer supports that arrangement. Plenty of other reliable ways to fix a man's thirst that do not involve a ring...

That ring is the man's prize to give. Do NOT EVER give it up cheap. Save it only for a partner who's down with working as hard to care for you as they expect you to care for them. No one else. Have some fucking standards.

NEVER tie your thirst for sex with that ring. Keep that shit separate.
If you give it up for sex, you DESERVE to get roasted in divorce.

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ZannoL
04/24/21 10:40:16 AM
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Bump
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The Trent
04/24/21 10:41:37 AM
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Gurifisu
04/24/21 10:58:41 AM
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2nd date at the courthouse to get a marriage cert?

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Solid Sonic
04/24/21 11:10:04 AM
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Fine by me. There are other metrics by which to measure a relationship.

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