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deupd_u
04/10/21 7:11:43 PM
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I asked to see her last weekend, and she said she was busy with family Easter stuff all weekend, but maybe next weekend if I'm free. I said "yeah, that'd be great" w/e and she never messaged back. I forgot about her, honestly, but then I realized now is next weekend and I'm bored, so I hit her up again. I just joked, "Did you die? RIP Emily," and she responded "Nah, I'm just not as interested in you as I am other people." I said "Wow, someone ate their harsh-browns for breakfast," and she unmatched me.

She seemed pretty chill before; that was surprisingly rude. Oh, well. She was fat anyway. I was going to be doing her a favor. It was just jarring \_()_/

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Naysaspace
04/10/21 7:16:04 PM
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deupd_u posted...
Wow, someone ate their harsh-browns for breakfast,"

I bet you whine about being ghosted too right? She dodged a bullet, holy moly

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deupd_u2
04/10/21 7:17:16 PM
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Naysaspace posted...


I bet you whine about being ghosted too right? She dodged a bullet, holy moly

The things you guys react to is almost random. As if that makes me a total psycho
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masticatingman
04/10/21 7:17:20 PM
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Unless her family is just super religious theres no way she was really busy during the whole weekend.

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Eliza-Schuyler
04/10/21 7:18:55 PM
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deupd_u posted...
that was surprisingly rude. Oh, well. She was fat anyway. I was going to be doing her a favor. It was just jarring \_()_/
yikes, TC. she really dodged a bullet here.

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SomeLikeItHoth
04/10/21 7:19:21 PM
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deupd_u posted...
I forgot about her, honestly
Lmao okay

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ADFrench2
04/10/21 7:20:18 PM
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deupd_u posted...
... I said "yeah, that'd be great" w/e and she never messaged back. I forgot about her, honestly, but then I realized now is next weekend and I'm bored, so I hit her up again. I just joked, "Did you die? RIP Emily," and she responded "Nah, I'm just not as interested in you as I am other people."
lmao

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FrisbeeDude
04/10/21 7:20:52 PM
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deupd_u posted...
Oh, well. She was fat anyway. I was going to be doing her a favor. It was just jarring \_()_/

This is clown behavior.


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Wii_Shaker
04/10/21 7:21:06 PM
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I don't think she was being rude at all. Most women will dance around what they really mean instead of being direct. Consider yourself lucky. Eh, and who knows, maybe she'll come around again. That's sort of how these dating apps work sometimes.

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Ryuko_Chan
04/10/21 10:28:51 PM
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HA

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Master Kazuya
04/10/21 10:32:40 PM
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deupd_u posted...
and she responded "Nah, I'm just not as interested in you as I am other people."

This isn't really rude at all. She's being honest with you and you took her disinterest in you personally. She has no obligation to find you continually interesting.

Next time just be like "Ok" or some joke or don't respond at all, you don't get anything out of throwing some sarcastic comment other than a short term gotcha moment. Hence why you're here to absolve the tension.

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Ryuko_Chan
04/10/21 11:49:54 PM
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imo the world would be a much happier place if women were more willing to say "im just not as interested in you as i am other people"

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J03can
04/10/21 11:57:02 PM
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She gave you something when you didnt deserve anything

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Rathinor
04/11/21 12:03:48 AM
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deupd_u posted...
She was fat anyway. I was going to be doing her a favor.
You're scrawny with chicken legs. Fat is punching up for you if anything
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deupd_u2
04/11/21 2:42:26 PM
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J03can posted...
She gave you something when you didnt deserve anything

You guys always say shit like this, and it's cringe. "You don't DESERVE to have a woman be civilized to you! You should be grateful you share her same plane of existence! You should be willing to pay her $1,000 to cough in your eyes! You should drop and kowtow to God in thanks for the mere concept of women. You don't de serve toev en LIVE"

I'm cringing right now. I'm going to do it again. Here it comes

Uh

There it was, that was me cringing. I'm physically recoiling from your bad take on life
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CanuckCowboy
04/11/21 2:43:14 PM
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You got a straightforward honest reply and you have managed to take offense to that.

Thats problematic dude.

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The Trent
04/11/21 2:43:31 PM
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Hahahahaha its okay tc i believe you

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jon1012
04/11/21 2:44:01 PM
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So she was honest with you, didnt lead you on and youre mad?

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deupd_u2
04/11/21 2:45:52 PM
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jon1012 posted...
So she was honest with you, didnt lead you on and youre mad?

You'd have to have very bad social skills to not see how that particular sentence was quite intentionally rude
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jon1012
04/11/21 2:46:08 PM
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deupd_u posted...
Oh, well. She was fat anyway. I was going to be doing her a favor.
Ok, and you claim she was fat as if it stopped you from hitting on her in the first place?

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orcus_snake
04/11/21 2:46:24 PM
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Naysaspace posted...
I bet you whine about being ghosted too right? She dodged a bullet, holy moly

what are you taling about that was super funny and hardly combative, especially because she was actually harsh so responding with humor and not a real insult or anything of the sort is very smooth.

You're fine TC, you didnt really need someone not interested.

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The Trent
04/11/21 2:46:51 PM
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shockthemonkey posted...
hey I was gonna say that! *pouts*

Dont steal my lines unless you credit me!

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CanuckCowboy
04/11/21 2:47:33 PM
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deupd_u2 posted...
You'd have to have very bad social skills to not see how that particular sentence was quite intentionally rude

It was a perfectly fine response and id appreciate that far more than some wishy washy bs that just gives false hope because she's too "nice" to be up front about her lack of interest. Or just being left on read.

Its not rude at all and its certainly not intentionally rude.

You sound like a poster child for an r/incels thread right now.

"She wasn't interested omg how rude!"

No.

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jon1012
04/11/21 2:47:42 PM
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deupd_u2 posted...
You'd have to have very bad social skills to not see how that particular sentence was quite intentionally rude

it wasnt to me. It was just brutally honest. This is when you dust yourself off and move on.

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Machete
04/11/21 2:48:32 PM
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CanuckCowboy posted...


It was a perfectly fine response and id appreciate that far more than some wishy washy bs that just gives false hope because she's too "nice" to be up front about her lack of interest.

Its not rude at all and its certainly not intentionally rude.

You sound like a poster child for an r/incels thread right now.


You say right now but really he always sounds like that >_>
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Big_Nabendu
04/11/21 2:48:45 PM
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\_()_/

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CanuckCowboy
04/11/21 2:49:19 PM
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Machete posted...
You say right now but really he always sounds like that >_>

Honestly as far as duped goes I mostly just know him as the guy with chicken legs and a gold maga knife. Lol

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orcus_snake
04/11/21 2:49:33 PM
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jon1012 posted...
Ok, and you claim she was fat as if it stopped you from hitting on her in the first place?

I forgot to add, this is certainly not an oklay way to think

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3PiesAndAFork
04/11/21 2:49:52 PM
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Ryuko_Chan posted...
imo the world would be a much happier place if women were more willing to say "im just not as interested in you as i am other people"
They don't because of people like the TC. If this had happened in person, it could have been worse for her.

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The Trent
04/11/21 2:50:50 PM
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3PiesAndAFork posted...
They don't because of people like the TC. If this had happened in person, it could have been worse for her.

i would hate to be accosted with terrible, pun-based jokes as well
i get it

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Machete
04/11/21 2:53:54 PM
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CanuckCowboy posted...


Honestly as far as duped goes I mostly just know him as the guy with chicken legs and a gold maga knife. Lol


Yeah. He's mostly that, and a pic of the topic list of ce from several years ago with lava and skeletons.
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Tenlaar
04/11/21 2:56:33 PM
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Aeriis posted...
There are more polite ways to be like "sorry, I've met someone else" or something
This sounds like you saying that she should have lied to protect his feelings instead of just telling the truth.
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Grubhub
04/11/21 2:57:05 PM
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deupd_u2 posted...
You guys always say shit like this, and it's cringe. "You don't DESERVE to have a woman be civilized to you! You should be grateful you share her same plane of existence! You should be willing to pay her $1,000 to cough in your eyes! You should drop and kowtow to God in thanks for the mere concept of women. You don't de serve toev en LIVE"

I'm cringing right now. I'm going to do it again. Here it comes

Uh

There it was, that was me cringing. I'm physically recoiling from your bad take on life
Bruh you straight up a cringe lord right now.
smh
Bro melted down hard and worked himself into a shoot

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deupd_u2
04/11/21 3:01:16 PM
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Grubhub posted...

Bruh you straight up a cringe lord right now.
smh
Bro melted down hard and worked himself into a shoot

Classic deupd_u melty
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Ryuko_Chan
04/11/21 11:40:29 PM
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3PiesAndAFork posted...
They don't because of people like the TC. If this had happened in person, it could have been worse for her.
yeah, true. lot of odd folks in this world

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smoke_break
04/11/21 11:48:36 PM
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Aeriis posted...
Anyway, imo she was rude. There are more polite ways to be like "sorry, I've met someone else" or something
This, she was definitely being snarky.

In any case, the last part of your first post is concerning, TC. Just a negative mentality to have about people and dating, I'd work on that.

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