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DarthAragorn
03/26/21 6:02:49 PM
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One_Day_Remains posted...
Do you think the human life expectancy is 35?
No, but I think that if you're a virgin that late not by choice there's something deeply wrong with you that's unlikely to be fixable
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Orlando_Jordan
03/26/21 7:07:41 PM
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ExtremeLuchador posted...
Law enforcement won't hire you because it's considered a risk.
For real? LOL

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KainWind
03/26/21 7:32:17 PM
#53:


DarthAragorn posted...
No, but I think that if you're a virgin that late not by choice there's something deeply wrong with you that's unlikely to be fixable

You've been acting very depressing lately. Maybe you should talk to someone.

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nfearurspecimn
03/26/21 7:33:15 PM
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randy_123r posted...
Would they even be able to tell if you are one?
yeah

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Solid Sonic
03/26/21 7:33:53 PM
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dantesdmc posted...
Why is being a virgin so looked down upon? I guess people who hated the conservative culture of traditional family values demonized people who choose that lifestyle in a way to bring them to their side. They have been successful, I must say.

Apparently having sex for the first time changes your outlook on life and attitude.

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I MEAN...yeah, it definitely does that. I've had sex, who's saying I haven't? Was it Scotty? Oooh...that Scotty. >_>'

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One_Day_Remains
03/26/21 7:40:44 PM
#56:


DarthAragorn posted...

No, but I think that if you're a virgin that late not by choice there's something deeply wrong with you that's unlikely to be fixable


And you're wrong.

We literally have living proof of the contrary on this board. Again, stop spreading bullshit. Enough. This is how you encourage suicide rates.
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nfearurspecimn
03/26/21 8:49:20 PM
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Well I can tell people just "know". It's apparent.

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One_Day_Remains
03/26/21 8:49:25 PM
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Catboy doesn't even talk to girls so how the fuck would he know lmao
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DarthAragorn
03/26/21 9:21:53 PM
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One_Day_Remains posted...
And you're wrong.

We literally have living proof of the contrary on this board. Again, stop spreading bullshit. Enough. This is how you encourage suicide rates.
Lol I'm not wrong

30+ year old virgins are fucked and not in the sex way
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One_Day_Remains
03/26/21 9:25:27 PM
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That's what you choose to believe because you legitimately enjoy feeling the way you do. I'd rather you not poison the minds of people who have genuine ambition.
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Atralis
03/26/21 9:33:09 PM
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It depends on who are you are with even when it comes to a romantic partner. I had about the most awkward romantic history you could imagine up to the age of 32. I met a girl when I was 24 and it ended horribly and it put me off relationships for a long time.

I had practically no experience sexually. When I met my current fiance (2+ years ago at this point) she was a virgin and I was practically a virgin and we were both honest about our lives up to that point and it worked out and partly because we were both so awkward we were able to explore this whole aspect of ourselves together.
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pure_temper
03/26/21 9:33:28 PM
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man if you're over 30 and you can't get any, lower your standards wtf

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The Catgirl Fondler
03/26/21 9:58:42 PM
#65:


The Top Crusader posted...


Makes sense, but it seems weird to me that anyone would ask. Although I was married in the first half of my 20's so I suppose it wouldn't be a topic of conversation anyone would bring up with me.


Ironically, I was more or less asked the same day I made that post.

My new primary care provider was asking general questions about sexual activity/STDs and to keep the laundry list of questions short I just outright told her I was a virgin. Of course, she then thought I was a "technical" one and I had to reiterate that I have not engaged in hand/oral sex either.

She was legit baffled and asked again if I really was 37 years old, lmao.
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PikachuMaxwell
03/26/21 10:00:45 PM
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Who cares?

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DarthAragorn
03/26/21 10:02:37 PM
#67:


PikachuMaxwell posted...
Who cares?
I think the over 30 virgins care
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berlyman101
03/26/21 10:09:07 PM
#68:


The Catgirl Fondler posted...
Ironically, I was more or less asked the same day I made that post.

My new primary care provider was asking general questions about sexual activity/STDs and to keep the laundry list of questions short I just outright told her I was a virgin. Of course, she then thought I was a "technical" one and I had to reiterate that I have not engaged in hand/oral sex either.

She was legit baffled and asked again if I really was 37 years old, lmao.

I have no idea why this is but a lot of women seem not to get how many "normal" guys have never had sex or even sexual contact. Or just men in general regardless of their looks or status. It really must be that much of a different life experience that they don't consider it or the factors at play.

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DarthAragorn
03/26/21 10:10:49 PM
#69:


berlyman101 posted...
I have no idea why this is but a lot of women seem not to get how many "normal" guys have never had sex or even sexual contact. Or just men in general regardless of their looks or status. It really must be that much of a different life experience that they don't consider it or the factors at play.
Yeah seems like women don't get how easy they have it in this regard
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tremain07
03/26/21 10:13:27 PM
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I kinda care, I'm over 30 but I can't remember if I'm 31 or 32 anymore, I hate yself, my interactions withthe public are very limited and small, I don't know how to make myself a person of interest or worht caring about because people scare me, they talk about all these things I don't understand and on top of that even with my hearing aids it's difficult to understand people, my longest conversation with a stranger was 2 minutes and it was just us talking about the various medical problems we have, I don't even remember his name. Finally, I'm too used to being alone and isolated so being out of that enviorment I feel stressed, worried and full of timidness, one time a police officer asked if I was fine because I looked frantic like I was trying to hide from someone when in reality I was frantic because it was the first time I had to use an Uber and I was running doomsday scenarios in my head like I wouldnt be able to find them, Id get in the wrong car, I'
d be kidnapped and mugged ,ect.

I mean it worked out but I couldn't help but freak out like that, my family says I'm a natural worrywart and always jump to the worst case scenarios, like this time my aunt didnt' come home at 9 like usual so I freaked out thinking she wrecked out somewhere and was stranged or got run off the road by a maniact and died, or that other time I heard my brother got a new job so I started worrying the place was infected or he
d get lost or that Id get lost trying to find it, I just cant handle stuff like that even being alone with my thoughts just throws my mind into chaos and bad places so I distract myself with this site or spend my nights in a ball of darkness in my room feeling like scum, and losery because I can
t stop thinking the worst of things

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Returning_CEmen
03/26/21 10:24:11 PM
#71:


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nfearurspecimn
03/27/21 4:20:37 AM
#72:


DarthAragorn posted...
I think the over 30 virgins care
it's not just that, it's that people judge you for it harshly

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ExtremeLuchador
03/27/21 10:15:15 AM
#73:


You get judged if you're 35 and never been married.

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Blue_Inigo
03/27/21 10:18:39 AM
#74:


Makeveli_lives posted...
At that point pay an escort
This tbh

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Prismsblade
03/27/21 10:32:17 AM
#75:


dantesdmc posted...
Why is being a virgin so looked down upon? I guess people who hated the conservative culture of traditional family values demonized people who choose that lifestyle in a way to bring them to their side. They have been successful, I must say.
Yea, by 30yo you'd think people would be more curious in regards to your education, skills, career, income, stability, and wealth at this point in life.

But no, it's usually just your virginity, as if that still mattered at all after HS.

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sLaCkEr408___RJ
03/27/21 10:34:47 AM
#76:


Might've been kinda cute in your 20s, but 30s is absolutely adorable
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GateOfDoom
03/27/21 10:58:56 AM
#77:


sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
Might've been kinda cute in your 20s, but 30s is absolutely adorable
Adorable? Don't you mean pathetic
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DarthAragorn
03/27/21 11:02:53 AM
#78:


Definitely pathetic

It's pathetic in your 20s even
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Blue_Inigo
03/27/21 11:12:13 AM
#79:


DarthAragorn posted...
Definitely pathetic

It's pathetic in your 20s even
Nah

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DarthAragorn
03/27/21 11:12:37 AM
#80:


Blue_Inigo posted...
Nah
Early 20s maybe not

Mid to late 20s absolutely
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Crescente
03/27/21 11:23:39 AM
#81:


Don't worry about being a virgin so much. Eventually you will find someone whether you're 18 or 38. But the important thing is being out there and meeting people. If you don't try to meet as many people as you can, your chances will be lower. So don't let being a virgin get to you, just be yourself as much as you can and be and confident and eventually you'll get it.
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SquirtleSkwad
03/27/21 11:24:23 AM
#82:


I'm all about being comfortable with yourself, but if you haven't gotten laid even until 30, you need some self reflection.

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sLaCkEr408___RJ
03/27/21 11:30:58 AM
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DuranOfForcena posted...
gee, no shit? you think that has never occurred to people who are still virgins over 30?
You're implying self reflection is ineffective. What do you suggest?
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sLaCkEr408___RJ
03/27/21 11:42:09 AM
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DuranOfForcena posted...
i'm not implying anything. i'm saying virgins over 30 don't need some internet rando to tell them that they need to do some self reflection.
I'm asking what you think they need
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creativerealms
03/27/21 11:47:08 AM
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Why should I even care? I am asexual.

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GateOfDoom
03/27/21 11:57:47 AM
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DuranOfForcena posted...
i don't know. if i knew what they needed, then i wouldn't be one myself. i know what they don't need though, and that's people who aren't virgins and who have absolutely no idea what it's like to still be a virgin in your 30s saying stuff like oh it's gonna happen eventually or oh sex isn't that big a deal or oh relationships suck anyway you should be glad you're not in one or oh having sex won't make you happy. people think they know what it's like to be a virgin past 30 because they were a virgin until whatever age in their late teens or early twenties they lost it at, and it's just not the same thing at all. every failure, every time you choke at what could be an opportunity, every effort you make to put yourself out there that ends up in disappointment, all compounds on each other and makes it seem further and further away, and you still get told to just keep trying and it'll happen. it's frustrating that so many people just really don't understand what it is like.
I'll tell you what it's like embarrassing, depressing, feel like I've already wasted half my life.
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ManaYuka
03/27/21 11:59:55 AM
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You really dont have to tell anyone. We'd already know based on how you act.

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ZeroX91
03/27/21 12:03:10 PM
#91:


Why CEmen always tryin to make other CEmen feel bad? Arent you all supposed to be friends and shit?

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ExtremeLuchador
03/27/21 1:42:02 PM
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Conservative cultures expect you to be married with kids by age 25.

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skermac
03/27/21 1:45:42 PM
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It not a big deal just do what the Bible says

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DarthAragorn
03/27/21 1:46:19 PM
#94:


This is my future

Holy fuck I hate it and I hate myself
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One_Day_Remains
03/28/21 2:26:45 PM
#96:


It seems like there's lingering insecurity among both virgins and non-virgins here lmao. If you're unironically suggesting that someone hire an escort, you are royally insecure. That has never helped anybody with their deep-seated issues that led to their situation and it's not going to start now.

Maybe stop associating shit to ages like there's a time limit on when you're supposed to have sex and just work on self-improvement.
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VTBM
03/28/21 2:31:14 PM
#97:


I tell everyone!

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Bryon25
03/29/21 9:59:50 PM
#98:


Well, reading through this topic made me feel pretty bad about myself. I'm 36 years old and still a virgin. I used to come on here and complain about it for years. I used to post my text conversations with various girls. They were cringe worthy, and most people here just laughed and made fun of me. Called me a gimmick. So I stopped coming here. I also gave up on ever getting a girlfriend. I deleted tinder and okcupid. Unfortunately, this did not magically make my sex drive disappear. Or my desire to have a wife and child. You know, someone to love me. I'm still lonely as dirt. I still want sex and deed much too often. I have hundreds of pics of girls that I find attractive on my phone. I've actually considering buying one of those life sized sex dolls. It's beyond pathetic.

You might ask how or why this happened. Well I've come to the conclusion that I'm just weird, shy, awkward, and insecure. My looks are 50/50. Some girls have said that I'm good looking, while others have said that I was ugly. Back in elementary school I was the weird kid who sat alone in the gym while there was a halloween party going on. After that I was homeschooled due to bullying. So I spent my teenage years separated from other kids my age. Girls especially. Never had a prom or a first date. My social skills are severely underdeveloped. I didn't go to college, but looking back, I wish I had.

There's another issue. About a month ago I got a hard lump on my left thigh. After several visits to the doctor's office, they found out that it's soft tissue sarcoma. It's curable, but I have to have surgery in about a week. They have no idea where this came from. Not many women are going to want a guy that's had cancer. During my appointments, my own doctors thought that there was something wrong with me mentally. Like I had autism or something. Cause I was so quiet and shy. I told them no. I'm just shy and awkward. Even when talking to my female nurses, I paused for a few seconds in between sentences to think of what to say. I've never been officially diagnosed with a mental problem. But I think it's probably something there.

Even my own aunt (who's like a mom to me) told me that if the doctors ask anything about my sex life, or if there's any issues there, to just lie and say that I have no problems there. In other words, don't tell them that I'm a virgin. Cause they'll definitely think that somethings wrong with me. That was pretty embarrassing. Even she knows it's pathetic. Anyway I'm sorry for the wall of text. Just wanted to get this off my chest.

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HODL_Austin_Era
03/29/21 10:01:57 PM
#99:


Just pay for it...god...we all do in some form. It's never just free.

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nfearurspecimn
03/29/21 10:26:27 PM
#100:


good luck with the surgery, bryon

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Damn_Underscore
03/29/21 10:44:28 PM
#101:


"Self improvement" or "work on yourself" is not a helpful, positive, or good phrase.

If someone is 30 and is a virgin, has no friends, has never had a romantic partner, etc. they very well may have a disorder or mental illness that inherently makes having a social life difficult or impossible. Or possibly they moved around most of their life and never really had time to make any permanent friends, or something like that. No amount of "self improvement" is going to fix that. Either way, that implies the person they are now is not good enough and they need to become someone else to be loved or even liked or cared about. That is incredibly discouraging.

And on top of that, so many would rather hate on people in this situation than try to help or encourage them. It's just a sad state of affairs.

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