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Wii_Shaker 01/28/21 1:59:55 AM #1:	Even by Grindr standards. I was messaged by an older daddy-type guy. He seemed legit and had his stuff together. So after chatting for a while and sending back and forth a few pics we decided to meet up at his place. At first everything seemed normal, he gave me the address and I parked. He tells me that he has to wait until his daughter leaves before he can have me over. She leaves and he invites me into his home. He's acting kind of shady but assures me that he has the house to himself for the time being. As I follow him down the stairs I specifically remember seeing family photos on the wall but it didn't throw up any red flags at the moment. We settle in and start talking and unwinding. Before long, one thing leads to another and things begin to get physical. It was at this time that we hear somebody coming down the stairs of the supposedly empty house. The next thing I know, I hear somebody outside the bedroom door, it's the guy's wife. He freaks out and tells me to get dressed and get all my stuff together. He tells me that he is going to tell her that we were in the room because he's selling me drugs (as if that's any better). The wife is livid. She sees my clothes in the basement living room and asks why I needed to have my clothes off in order for her husband to sell me drugs. She then asks to see the drugs that her husband supposedly sold me. Since he basically pulled the drug deal excuse out of his ass and the wife is becoming more irate the longer I stay, I grab my bag and get the hell out of this situation. As I make my way to the front door the wife snaps at me, "Don't you ever come back here". As if that's something I would actually do. I got in my car and that was that. If dude would have been upfront with me, I wouldn't have put myself in that sketchy situation and would have never agreed to meeting up. I don't know what wrath his wife had in store for him and frankly I don't care. Anyway, that was my day. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM <cite>Wii_Shaker posted [p:950004938] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Even by Grindr standards. I was messaged by an older daddy-type guy. He seemed legit and had his stuff together. So after chatting for a while and sending back and forth a few pics we decided to meet up at his place. At first everything seemed normal, he gave me the address and I parked. He tells me that he has to wait until his daughter leaves before he can have me over. She leaves and he invites me into his home. He's acting kind of shady but assures me that he has the house to himself for the time being. As I follow him down the stairs I specifically remember seeing family photos on the wall but it didn't throw up any red flags at the moment. We settle in and start talking and unwinding. Before long, one thing leads to another and things begin to get physical. It was at this time that we hear somebody coming down the stairs of the supposedly empty house. The next thing I know, I hear somebody outside the bedroom door, it's the guy's wife. He freaks out and tells me to get dressed and get all my stuff together. He tells me that he is going to tell her that we were in the room because he's selling me drugs (as if that's any better). The wife is livid. She sees my clothes in the basement living room and asks why I needed to have my clothes off in order for her husband to sell me drugs. She then asks to see the drugs that her husband supposedly sold me. Since he basically pulled the drug deal excuse out of his ass and the wife is becoming more irate the longer I stay, I grab my bag and get the hell out of this situation. As I make my way to the front door the wife snaps at me, "Don't you ever come back here". As if that's something I would actually do. I got in my car and that was that. If dude would have been upfront with me, I wouldn't have put myself in that sketchy situation and would have never agreed to meeting up. I don't know what wrath his wife had in store for him and frankly I don't care. Anyway, that was my day. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jumi 01/28/21 2:04:01 AM #2:	Next time get a motel room. --- XBL Gamertag: Rob Thorsman Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/robertvsilvers <cite>jumi posted [p:950004992] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Next time get a motel room. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
g0ldie 01/28/21 2:06:02 AM #3:	damn, that's wild, lol. --- The pamphlet on First Life contains 93 lies and 7 truths. The truths don't provide any answers. <cite>g0ldie posted [p:950005021] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>damn, that's wild, lol. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hambo the Hog 01/28/21 2:16:12 AM #5:	Damn what a douche. --- I'm sorry, but 10,000 of ANYTHING on a PS2 would absolutely destroy your framerate. It'd be like playing chess through the mail. ~johnboy1 <cite>Hambo the Hog posted [p:950005158] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Damn what a douche. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShyOx 01/28/21 2:24:44 AM #6:	This is a good story. It brings joy. It may not be a happy one, but it's a good one. --- http://img836.imageshack.us/img836/6938/vyqp.jpg DIPLOMACY <cite>ShyOx posted [p:950005270] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>This is a good story. It brings joy. It may not be a happy one, but it's a good one. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shadowplay 01/28/21 2:30:40 AM #7:	Ctrl + F "Blood was everywhere" not found. --- I make a topic in Final Fantasy 12 to ask if Tifa! They said no Tifa. Hardness gone!-gandob <cite>Shadowplay posted [p:950005379] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Ctrl + F "Blood was everywhere" not found. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Temporal 01/28/21 2:33:13 AM #8:	This is what happens when casual sexual meetups become the norm. --- are you even real? <cite>Temporal posted [p:950005428] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>This is what happens when casual sexual meetups become the norm. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 01/28/21 2:37:43 AM #9:	Why weren't the family photos a redflag? --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:950005506] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Why weren't the family photos a redflag? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wii_Shaker 01/28/21 3:14:27 AM #10:	jumi posted... Next time get a motel room. There won't be a next time with this clown. Lost_All_Senses posted... Why weren't the family photos a redflag? Because people are allowed to have photos of their families in their house. I didn't realize the situation I was walking into to begin with is the point. He presented the house as his place. There were no stipulations in the conversation that mentioned a wife and initially there was no daughter in the picture either. Temporal posted... This is what happens when casual sexual meetups become the norm. It's this or Tinder. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM <cite>Wii_Shaker posted [p:950006083] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>jumi posted... </cite> <quote>Next time get a motel room.</quote>There won't be a next time with this clown. Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>Why weren't the family photos a redflag?</quote>Because people are allowed to have photos of their families in their house. I didn't realize the situation I was walking into to begin with is the point. He presented the house as his place. There were no stipulations in the conversation that mentioned a wife and initially there was no daughter in the picture either. Temporal posted... </cite> <quote>This is what happens when casual sexual meetups become the norm.</quote>It's this or Tinder. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 01/28/21 3:30:13 AM #11:	Wii_Shaker posted... Because people are allowed to have photos of their families in their house. I didn't realize the situation I was walking into to begin with is the point. He presented the house as his place. There were no stipulations in the conversation that mentioned a wife and initially there was no daughter in the picture either. I'm just prodding. Not judging. Im also the type to put the pieces together in hindsight. Were you guys drinking? --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:950006292] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Wii_Shaker posted... </cite> <quote>Because people are allowed to have photos of their families in their house. I didn't realize the situation I was walking into to begin with is the point. He presented the house as his place. There were no stipulations in the conversation that mentioned a wife and initially there was no daughter in the picture either.</quote> I'm just prodding. Not judging. Im also the type to put the pieces together in hindsight. Were you guys drinking? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kakapo 01/28/21 3:38:25 AM #12:	ShyOx posted... This is a good story. It brings joy. It may not be a happy one, but it's a good one. --- Did my singing please you? No, the words you sang were wrong 24 hour party parrot <cite>Kakapo posted [p:950006415] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>ShyOx posted... </cite> <quote>This is a good story. It brings joy. It may not be a happy one, but it's a good one.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Parappa09 01/28/21 3:44:59 AM #13:	that's disappointing that he lied about his situation to you beforehand AND then made it worse with the drug excuse i always feel grindr is the place for wild shit like this --- https://imgur.com/uUaFvGj <cite>Parappa09 posted [p:950006507] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>that's disappointing that he lied about his situation to you beforehand AND then made it worse with the drug excuse i always feel grindr is the place for wild shit like this </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wii_Shaker 01/28/21 4:15:28 AM #14:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Were you guys drinking? No drinking. It was the middle of the day and I still had to work my night job. It seemed like he had what he thought was a small window to fool around and he didn't account for the wife. The wife's response makes me feel like he's done stuff like this before. Whatever. I'm just grateful that I got out of that situation relatively unharmed. Parappa09 posted... i always feel grindr is the place for wild shit like this You're not wrong though. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM <cite>Wii_Shaker posted [p:950006904] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>Were you guys drinking?</quote> No drinking. It was the middle of the day and I still had to work my night job. It seemed like he had what he thought was a small window to fool around and he didn't account for the wife. The wife's response makes me feel like he's done stuff like this before. Whatever. I'm just grateful that I got out of that situation relatively unharmed. <quote>Parappa09 posted... </cite>i always feel grindr is the place for wild shit like this</quote>You're not wrong though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Parappa09 01/28/21 4:31:12 AM #15:	do you have any other meets planned? --- https://imgur.com/uUaFvGj <cite>Parappa09 posted [p:950007068] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>do you have any other meets planned? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wii_Shaker 01/28/21 4:32:36 AM #16:	Parappa09 posted... do you have any other meets planned? Yes but with partners I know and trust. Shooting from the hip has not panned out well for me. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM <cite>Wii_Shaker posted [p:950007083] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Parappa09 posted... </cite> <quote>do you have any other meets planned?</quote>Yes but with partners I know and trust. Shooting from the hip has not panned out well for me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 01/28/21 4:37:35 AM #17:	You should have just banged the husband in front of the wife to establish dominance over the household. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:IfGodCouldDie IGN:SuperPattyCakes FC: SW-1615-6159-5504 Boop Trooper reporting for duty. <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:950007134] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>You should have just banged the husband in front of the wife to establish dominance over the household. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wii_Shaker 01/28/21 4:39:15 AM #18:	IfGodCouldDie posted... You should have just banged the husband in front of the wife to establish dominance over the household. There's a number of ways it could have played out. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM <cite>Wii_Shaker posted [p:950007156] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>IfGodCouldDie posted... </cite> <quote>You should have just banged the husband in front of the wife to establish dominance over the household.</quote>There's a number of ways it could have played out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 01/28/21 4:40:25 AM #19:	Wii_Shaker posted... There's a number of ways it could have played out. Concerned she'd be into it? --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:IfGodCouldDie IGN:SuperPattyCakes FC: SW-1615-6159-5504 Boop Trooper reporting for duty. <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:950007172] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Wii_Shaker posted... </cite> <quote>There's a number of ways it could have played out.</quote>Concerned she'd be into it? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OpenlyGator 01/28/21 4:41:43 AM #20:	You get what you're willing to put up with. Live and learn. --- The funny thing about telling others to take the high road is how often it's hypocritical advice. http://tryimg.com/8/2017/06/28/IdSqD.png <cite>OpenlyGator posted [p:950007183] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>You get what you're willing to put up with. Live and learn. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShyOx 01/28/21 4:49:37 AM #21:	Get out there and get it, glad to see you taking a chance. It's not easy and can be scary af, but I still think you made the right decision at least giving it a shot. Not your fault dude had Lannister army level baggage train --- http://img836.imageshack.us/img836/6938/vyqp.jpg DIPLOMACY <cite>ShyOx posted [p:950007264] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Get out there and get it, glad to see you taking a chance. It's not easy and can be scary af, but I still think you made the right decision at least giving it a shot. Not your fault dude had Lannister army level baggage train </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dark_SilverX 01/28/21 5:02:19 AM #22:	Sounds like a grand time. You should have stayed and recommend to the wife to watch and observe. --- Rather a Zoom Thanksgiving than an ICU Christmas. don't compare games to feces -- if you've an opinion worth mentioning, do so civilly <cite>Dark_SilverX posted [p:950007380] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like a grand time. You should have stayed and recommend to the wife to watch and observe. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 01/28/21 5:14:51 AM #23:	Jeez, that guy sounds like a real asshole, but also a complete idiot. That, or the risk of being caught excites him or something. Anyway, its stories like this one that make me nervous about dating sites. Sorry you had to go through that. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:950007502] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Jeez, that guy sounds like a real asshole, but also a complete idiot. That, or the risk of being caught excites him or something. Anyway, its stories like this one that make me nervous about dating sites. Sorry you had to go through that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wii_Shaker 01/28/21 4:37:10 PM #24:	Shablagoo posted... That, or the risk of being caught excites him or something. Anyway, its stories like this one that make me nervous about dating sites. I thought this also, maybe he knew he would get caught. Dating has always been a mess, even before Covid and even before dating apps. It inherently is a pain in the ass. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM <cite>Wii_Shaker posted [p:950025918] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote> That, or the risk of being caught excites him or something. Anyway, its stories like this one that make me nervous about dating sites. </quote> I thought this also, maybe he knew he would get caught. Dating has always been a mess, even before Covid and even before dating apps. It inherently is a pain in the ass. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 01/28/21 6:53:41 PM #25:	Wii_Shaker posted... Dating has always been a mess, even before Covid and even before dating apps. It inherently is a pain in the ass. True, and to be fair to online dating my favorite cousin met his wife online and I love her a lot and they have had several children with each other so it definitely can work out. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:950030568] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Wii_Shaker posted... </cite> <quote>Dating has always been a mess, even before Covid and even before dating apps. It inherently is a pain in the ass.</quote> True, and to be fair to online dating my favorite cousin met his wife online and I love her a lot and they have had several children with each other so it definitely can work out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AvlButtslam 01/28/21 7:03:26 PM #26:	"Don't ever come back" sounds a bit mild for that to have been the first time she's caught him lol. That's a pretty funny story tho tbh. I've had my share of stinkers from Grindr and the other apps but nothing too crazy like that fortunately. --- Hey kiddies <cite>AvlButtslam posted [p:950030890] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>"Don't ever come back" sounds a bit mild for that to have been the first time she's caught him lol. That's a pretty funny story tho tbh. I've had my share of stinkers from Grindr and the other apps but nothing too crazy like that fortunately.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nfearurspecimn 01/28/21 7:04:35 PM #27:	lol funny story at least lel --- Wake up. You have to wake up. currently a preta/hungry ghost Dai Grepher: I was wrong. My entire theory is incorrect. Zero Mission IS a remake of Metroid. <cite>nfearurspecimn posted [p:950030924] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>lol funny story at least lel </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ZeroX91 01/28/21 7:08:27 PM #29:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Why weren't the family photos a redflag? Why wasnt the daughter needing to leave first one? --- If the universe is so big why wont it fight me? <cite>ZeroX91 posted [p:950031072] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>Why weren't the family photos a redflag?</quote>Why wasnt the daughter needing to leave first one? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Naysaspace 01/28/21 7:09:24 PM #30:	jesus christ. imagine "selling drugs" out of the family household where your daughter lives as the EXCUSE! --- (edited 1/18/2021 6:36:37 AM) <cite>Naysaspace posted [p:950031110] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>jesus christ. imagine "selling drugs" out of the family household where your daughter lives as the EXCUSE! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkChozoGhost 01/28/21 8:01:27 PM #31:	He should've just gone to the men's room at the zoo like other gay dads --- My sister's dog bit a hole in my Super Mario Land cartridge. It still works though - Skye Reynolds 3DS FC: 3239-5612-0115 <cite>DarkChozoGhost posted [p:950032923] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>He should've just gone to the men's room at the zoo like other gay dads </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 01/28/21 8:19:42 PM #32:	if the wife is hot she can use me for revenge --- https://imgur.com/286sD4e http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:950033511] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>if the wife is hot she can use me for revenge </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Frizzurd 01/28/21 8:41:04 PM #33:	Temporal posted... This is what happens when casual sexual meetups become the norm. I agree. I am gay myself, yet I hate hookup culture. --- Super Mario Maker 2: Cauca Ape JVC-2R6-4QG <cite>Frizzurd posted [p:950034251] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Temporal posted... </cite> <quote>This is what happens when casual sexual meetups become the norm.</quote>I agree. I am gay myself, yet I hate hookup culture. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ZeroX91 01/28/21 9:47:44 PM #34:	Frizzurd posted... I agree. I am gay myself, yet I hate hookup culture. I dont get why its still a thing not like its pre90s...but im not gay so...shrug --- If the universe is so big why wont it fight me? <cite>ZeroX91 posted [p:950036319] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Frizzurd posted... </cite> <quote>I agree. I am gay myself, yet I hate hookup culture.</quote>I dont get why its still a thing not like its pre90s...but im not gay so...shrug </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 01/28/21 9:51:11 PM #35:	Jesus, the balls on the dude to invite you over to his family home while his wife is upstairs --- CE's Resident Scotsman. https://imgur.com/ILz2ZbV <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:950036431] in My Grindr ... [t:79264200]...</cite> <quote>Jesus, the balls on the dude to invite you over to his family home while his wife is upstairs </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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