them pronouns, would you?

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Joker98 01/03/21 3:40:42 AM #1:	If someone asked you to use only they/them pronouns, would you? Yes No If someone asked you to use only they/them pronouns, would you? - Results (195 votes) Yes 66.67% (130 votes) 130 No 33.33% (65 votes) 65 Scenario: Your friend tells you they're nonbinary and wants you to only use they/them pronouns. What is your response? --- ~~Every day I'm husseling and busseling~~ <cite>Joker98 posted [p:949045419] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote> If someone asked you to use only they/them pronouns, would you? Yes No Vote View Results If someone asked you to use only they/them pronouns, would you? - Results (195 votes) Yes 66.67% (130 votes) 130 No 33.33% (65 votes) 65 Show Voting Form Scenario: Your friend tells you they're nonbinary and wants you to only use they/them pronouns. What is your response? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kisai 01/03/21 3:41:36 AM #2:	I sort of use them already by default. --- WHO MODS THE MODERATORS? <cite>Kisai posted [p:949045436] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>I sort of use them already by default. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AlCalavicci 01/03/21 3:43:04 AM #3:	Those saying No: Why not? You don't give a shit about your friend? --- http://images4.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20111123223446/simpsons/images/9/99/K.png I didn't even give you my coat! <cite>AlCalavicci posted [p:949045451] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Those saying No: Why not? You don't give a shit about your friend? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Back_Stabbath 01/03/21 3:43:19 AM #4:	being respectful of someones identity isn't hard, so absolutely. --- https://imgur.com/Iv5fRLt <cite>Back_Stabbath posted [p:949045454] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>being respectful of someones identity isn't hard, so absolutely. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Creep_2020 01/03/21 3:48:56 AM #5:	If I insisted on calling them he/him or she/her when theyd asked me to do otherwise, Id be a pretty shitty friend. --- Have I carved enough, my Lord? Child, you are a bone <cite>The_Creep_2020 posted [p:949045516] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>If I insisted on calling them he/him or she/her when theyd asked me to do otherwise, Id be a pretty shitty friend. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joker98 01/03/21 3:52:34 AM #7:	BoyOfBattle posted... i'd tell him to shut the fuck up and yes i used him. i don't befriend girls i only fuck em. class act --- ~~Every day I'm husseling and busseling~~ <cite>Joker98 posted [p:949045555] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>BoyOfBattle posted... </cite> <quote>i'd tell him to shut the fuck up and yes i used him. i don't befriend girls i only fuck em.</quote>class act </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
g0ldie 01/03/21 3:53:59 AM #9:	yea. I try to it as a default, like others have said, but I sometimes slip up. --- The pamphlet on First Life contains 93 lies and 7 truths. The truths don't provide any answers. <cite>g0ldie posted [p:949045570] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>yea. I try to it as a default, like others have said, but I sometimes slip up. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TerrifyingRei 01/03/21 3:57:42 AM #10:	i have no friends so this is irrelevant --- Light the match, set my body ablaze! There's no where left to hide when your mind is stuck in a cloudy haze <cite>TerrifyingRei posted [p:949045616] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>i have no friends so this is irrelevant </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Creep_2020 01/03/21 4:02:16 AM #11:	Joker98 posted... class act Somehow, I dont think hed need to worry about girls wanting to his friend. --- Have I carved enough, my Lord? Child, you are a bone <cite>The_Creep_2020 posted [p:949045663] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Joker98 posted... </cite> <quote>class act</quote>Somehow, I dont think hed need to worry about girls wanting to his friend. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClockworkHare 01/03/21 4:03:10 AM #12:	They politely requested I use their preferred pronouns? Yes, I'm fine with that. They initially got upset, screamed at me for not magically already knowing their preferred pronouns and then demanded I use them? Oh no, it's war. And they will lose... --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. https://tryimg.com/u/2020/08/11/1tZ1gcH.jpg <cite>ClockworkHare posted [p:949045672] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>They politely requested I use their preferred pronouns? Yes, I'm fine with that. They initially got upset, screamed at me for not magically already knowing their preferred pronouns and then demanded I use them? Oh no, it's war. And they will lose... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrizztLink 01/03/21 4:05:30 AM #13:	"My name is Stephen." "Fuck you, snowflake, I'm gonna call you Chris." --- http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://imgur.com/M8h2ATe https://imgur.com/6ezFwG1 <cite>DrizztLink posted [p:949045702] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>"My name is Stephen." "Fuck you, snowflake, I'm gonna call you Chris." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Machete 01/03/21 4:29:56 AM #14:	Yes, though I would probably say something like "this may take some getting used to so if I slip up, don't hesitate to correct me but please be calm and respectful about it. I'll do my best as it is, but I respond explosively if people overreact to me/raise their voice/attempt to shame or anything like that, so being that way with me is literally always going to be counterproductive. If I use the wrong words, it will never be out of disrespect or lack of effort." I don't think it would happen, but they would deserve fair warning on my tendencies. I've had conversations with coworkers about nonbinary actors on shows we watch and afaik, I haven't misspoken in situations like that when there are no stakes, so when talking to the actual person, I think I would get used to it quickly and not say the wrong things. --- Who can @ Mention me? -Nobody- "the final thing that set the mods off was a picture of two lions having sex." -boxington <cite>Machete posted [p:949045969] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Yes, though I would probably say something like "this may take some getting used to so if I slip up, don't hesitate to correct me but please be calm and respectful about it. I'll do my best as it is, but I respond explosively if people overreact to me/raise their voice/attempt to shame or anything like that, so being that way with me is literally always going to be counterproductive. If I use the wrong words, it will never be out of disrespect or lack of effort." I don't think it would happen, but they would deserve fair warning on my tendencies. I've had conversations with coworkers about nonbinary actors on shows we watch and afaik, I haven't misspoken in situations like that when there are no stakes, so when talking to the actual person, I think I would get used to it quickly and not say the wrong things.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Rinku_ 01/03/21 4:36:17 AM #15:	Yes, cause I'm not an asshole. <cite>_Rinku_ posted [p:949046041] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Yes, cause I'm not an asshole. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TrainerNeo_02 01/03/21 4:47:57 AM #16:	Oh, I voted no thinking they wanted me to use they/them pronouns. Im forgetful so Ill probably forget but eventually Ill remember and get used to it. --- This shall be your final destination. Do you stare fate dead in the eyes and charge through? Or will you cower in fear and allow the dark abyss to consume you? <cite>TrainerNeo_02 posted [p:949046163] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Oh, I voted no thinking they wanted me to use they/them pronouns. Im forgetful so Ill probably forget but eventually Ill remember and get used to it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
K3vintheDork 01/03/21 4:53:40 AM #17:	No. Dorks/Dorkish. --- So what you're saying is... you're a dork? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mT8co7Cnkg4 <cite>K3vintheDork posted [p:949046220] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>No. Dorks/Dorkish. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TrainerNeo_02 01/03/21 4:57:57 AM #18:	ClockworkHare posted... They politely requested I use their preferred pronouns? Yes, I'm fine with that. They initially got upset, screamed at me for not magically already knowing their preferred pronouns and then demanded I use them? Oh no, it's war. And they will lose... The latter actually happened and resulted in me losing many friends. Apparently they told me but it wasnt directly so I didnt know, and they assumed I was just an asshole. --- This shall be your final destination. Do you stare fate dead in the eyes and charge through? Or will you cower in fear and allow the dark abyss to consume you? <cite>TrainerNeo_02 posted [p:949046264] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>ClockworkHare posted... </cite> <quote>They politely requested I use their preferred pronouns? Yes, I'm fine with that. They initially got upset, screamed at me for not magically already knowing their preferred pronouns and then demanded I use them? Oh no, it's war. And they will lose...</quote>The latter actually happened and resulted in me losing many friends. Apparently they told me but it wasnt directly so I didnt know, and they assumed I was just an asshole. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dingydang166 01/03/21 5:04:31 AM #19:	I'd probably say sure then purposely not do it but play it off as an accident every single time. <cite>Dingydang166 posted [p:949046332] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>I'd probably say sure then purposely not do it but play it off as an accident every single time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ForsakenHermit 01/03/21 5:07:33 AM #20:	Of course I might screw up here or there but I would do my best to use the right pronouns. --- Beware the fanatic! Too often his cure is deadlier by far than the evil he denounces!-Stan Lee RIP Make Arcades Great Again! <cite>ForsakenHermit posted [p:949046362] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Of course I might screw up here or there but I would do my best to use the right pronouns. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jpenny2 01/03/21 5:30:36 AM #21:	Dey/dem --- Fren Code: 2767-3374-3343 \|\| IGN: Penny \|\| TSV: 3067 \|\| Sig NFT I hate sarcasm. I'm also not too fond of irony. \| Permanently banned <cite>jpenny2 posted [p:949046636] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Dey/dem </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tsuyoi3 01/03/21 6:02:32 AM #22:	Yes, at least I'd try. I might slip from time to time --- Manliness transcends both space, and time. <cite>Tsuyoi3 posted [p:949046957] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Yes, at least I'd try. I might slip from time to time </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flauros 01/03/21 6:03:55 AM #23:	I would tell them "Sorry I only use amatuer nouns". --- https://imgur.com/iQep35u https://imgur.com/nhHkg9L https://imgur.com/A3kur0P https://imgur.com/Hj9RrC6 <cite>Flauros posted [p:949046972] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>I would tell them "Sorry I only use amatuer nouns". </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
snake_5036 01/03/21 6:04:04 AM #24:	I already do this for people. --- You felt your sins weighing on your neck. <cite>snake_5036 posted [p:949046975] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>I already do this for people. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shotgunnova 01/03/21 6:06:25 AM #25:	Sure. --- Take me down from the ridge where the summer ends And watch the city spread out just like a jet's flame <cite>Shotgunnova posted [p:949046989] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Sure. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamsungGearS2 01/04/21 3:59:31 PM #26:	No. --- Devices: iPhone 12, HP Envy x360, Dell Inspiron 545S, Kindle Fire HD 10, 2018 Toyota Corolla LE, 2017 Ford Focus ST https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9y1is8lL6E <cite>SamsungGearS2 posted [p:949099254] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>No. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Socrawheeze 01/04/21 4:00:14 PM #27:	Of course <cite>Socrawheeze posted [p:949099282] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Of course </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alteres 01/04/21 4:05:38 PM #28:	Sure, but in complete honesty it would be helpful if they were a bit androgynous or went for an unusual look. ...something to remind my brain that I wasnt supposed to follow the ingrained usage. Otherwise I would probably stumble a couple times and have to correct myself. --- ........the ghost in the machine... IGN: Fox, FC: 5344-2646-0982 <cite>Alteres posted [p:949099495] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Sure, but in complete honesty it would be helpful if they were a bit androgynous or went for an unusual look. ...something to remind my brain that I wasnt supposed to follow the ingrained usage. Otherwise I would probably stumble a couple times and have to correct myself. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Returning_CEmen 01/04/21 4:10:06 PM #29:	My girlfriend said one of her coworkers got mad that another referred to them as she and the coworker identifies as non-binary fem and her pronouns are they and them. <cite>Returning_CEmen posted [p:949099633] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>My girlfriend said one of her coworkers got mad that another referred to them as she and the coworker identifies as non-binary fem and her pronouns are they and them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MTRodaba2468 01/04/21 4:12:58 PM #30:	Of course. I have no problems with respecting one's identity. Machete posted... Yes, though I would probably say something like "this may take some getting used to so if I slip up, don't hesitate to correct me but please be calm and respectful about it. I'll do my best as it is, but I respond explosively if people overreact to me/raise their voice/attempt to shame or anything like that, so being that way with me is literally always going to be counterproductive. If I use the wrong words, it will never be out of disrespect or lack of effort." I don't think it would happen, but they would deserve fair warning on my tendencies. I've had conversations with coworkers about nonbinary actors on shows we watch and afaik, I haven't misspoken in situations like that when there are no stakes, so when talking to the actual person, I think I would get used to it quickly and not say the wrong things. I didn't say anything at all about how not to react if I did slip up, but I actually had a similar talk with two of my friends whom have come out as transgender or non-binary recently, apologizing in advance if I did slip up and use the wrong pronouns, and making sure they knew that if it occurred, it wasn't due to a lack of respect at all. They were both very understanding, especially since they acknowledged that I'd known them under what turned out to be incorrect pretenses, so they realized that there would be a period of adjustment. --- "You need a hobby. I suggest sticking forks in your eyes."-DJosef http://www.facebook.com/mtrunplugged <cite>MTRodaba2468 posted [p:949099747] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Of course. I have no problems with respecting one's identity. Machete posted... </cite> <quote>Yes, though I would probably say something like "this may take some getting used to so if I slip up, don't hesitate to correct me but please be calm and respectful about it. I'll do my best as it is, but I respond explosively if people overreact to me/raise their voice/attempt to shame or anything like that, so being that way with me is literally always going to be counterproductive. If I use the wrong words, it will never be out of disrespect or lack of effort." I don't think it would happen, but they would deserve fair warning on my tendencies. I've had conversations with coworkers about nonbinary actors on shows we watch and afaik, I haven't misspoken in situations like that when there are no stakes, so when talking to the actual person, I think I would get used to it quickly and not say the wrong things.</quote> I didn't say anything at all about how not to react if I did slip up, but I actually had a similar talk with two of my friends whom have come out as transgender or non-binary recently, apologizing in advance if I did slip up and use the wrong pronouns, and making sure they knew that if it occurred, it wasn't due to a lack of respect at all. They were both very understanding, especially since they acknowledged that I'd known them under what turned out to be incorrect pretenses, so they realized that there would be a period of adjustment. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
King_Hutton 01/04/21 4:16:33 PM #31:	Obviously, what kind of shitty friend would refuse something as simple as using proper pronouns? --- All hail King Hutton Official Carter Hutton fanboy <cite>King_Hutton posted [p:949099888] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Obviously, what kind of shitty friend would refuse something as simple as using proper pronouns? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Questionmarktarius 01/04/21 4:19:35 PM #32:	"But, 'they' is plural!" once, then get over it. <cite>Questionmarktarius posted [p:949099996] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>"But, 'they' is plural!" once, then get over it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 01/04/21 4:19:41 PM #33:	I'll do it, but probably mess up a lot. It's how they respond to me being slow to be able to do it that makes the difference. Like, I constantly mess up when talking about anything, so if you're getting irritated at that, you can go somewhere. I'm constantly working on it and there's nothing more I can do for you. --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:949099999] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>I'll do it, but probably mess up a lot. It's how they respond to me being slow to be able to do it that makes the difference. Like, I constantly mess up when talking about anything, so if you're getting irritated at that, you can go somewhere. I'm constantly working on it and there's nothing more I can do for you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Uta 01/04/21 4:22:00 PM #34:	Already do this with my enby friends, though sometimes I slip. --- Others don't get to dictate what's normal and what isn't. It's something we decide for ourselves. That's why it's the most important thing to us. <cite>Uta posted [p:949100090] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Already do this with my enby friends, though sometimes I slip. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ghostblob 01/04/21 4:30:43 PM #35:	My fiancee is non-binary and uses they/them which I stick to almost all of the time apart from with my family where we've both realised they mean well but are never going to understand the concept of being non-binary. Part of the reason I've not said anything to most people IRL about my own gender identity (nb but I'm fine with him or them) So yeah it's totally normal for me. --- https://letterboxd.com/magnoliamoon/ <cite>ghostblob posted [p:949100392] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>My fiancee is non-binary and uses they/them which I stick to almost all of the time apart from with my family where we've both realised they mean well but are never going to understand the concept of being non-binary. Part of the reason I've not said anything to most people IRL about my own gender identity (nb but I'm fine with him or them) So yeah it's totally normal for me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PoundGarden 01/04/21 4:44:36 PM #36:	A friend or family member I suppose, otherwise trans men and transwomen pronouns is about the extent of my gender tolerance. And I have no problem doing so I just personally dont buy into gender fluidity. I've interviewed (and hired) trans people just fine, so in that scenario I would use neutral pronouns if requested so as not to start a bunch of drama and get through the interview. It's literally never happened (gender fluid person) though out o hundreds of interviews. --- "You go. I'm just going to stare at the lake and think about how I almost just killed a baby." <cite>PoundGarden posted [p:949100916] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>A friend or family member I suppose, otherwise trans men and transwomen pronouns is about the extent of my gender tolerance. And I have no problem doing so I just personally dont buy into gender fluidity. I've interviewed (and hired) trans people just fine, so in that scenario I would use neutral pronouns if requested so as not to start a bunch of drama and get through the interview. It's literally never happened (gender fluid person) though out o hundreds of interviews. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joker98 01/04/21 10:27:29 PM #37:	PoundGarden posted... I just personally dont buy into gender fluidity. That's like saying you don't buy into gravity. It's still a thing even if you don't "buy into it" >It's literally never happened (gender fluid person) though out o hundreds of interviews. Oh so you've asked everybody you've interviewed if they're gender fluid? --- ~~Every day I'm husseling and busseling~~ <cite>Joker98 posted [p:949112898] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>PoundGarden posted... </cite> <quote>I just personally dont buy into gender fluidity. </quote>That's like saying you don't buy into gravity. It's still a thing even if you don't "buy into it" >It's literally never happened (gender fluid person) though out o hundreds of interviews. Oh so you've asked everybody you've interviewed if they're gender fluid? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shadowplay 01/04/21 10:33:58 PM #38:	Fuck no. --- I make a topic in Final Fantasy 12 to ask if Tifa! They said no Tifa. Hardness gone!-gandob <cite>Shadowplay posted [p:949113116] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Fuck no. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Heavy_D_Forever 01/04/21 10:37:17 PM #39:	I don't understand how it would ever come up in a one on one conversation honestly. Like if I was asking someone to hang out I'd say "Hey, do you want to hang out?" I don't see how a pronoun would ever be necessary. --- E-A-G-L-E-S EAGLES <cite>Heavy_D_Forever posted [p:949113228] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>I don't understand how it would ever come up in a one on one conversation honestly. Like if I was asking someone to hang out I'd say "Hey, do you want to hang out?" I don't see how a pronoun would ever be necessary. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joker98 01/05/21 12:14:58 AM #40:	Heavy_D_Forever posted... I don't understand how it would ever come up in a one on one conversation honestly. Like if I was asking someone to hang out I'd say "Hey, do you want to hang out?" I don't see how a pronoun would ever be necessary. It could come up when you're referencing something someone else said about the person --- ~~Every day I'm husseling and busseling~~ <cite>Joker98 posted [p:949116227] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Heavy_D_Forever posted... </cite> <quote>I don't understand how it would ever come up in a one on one conversation honestly. Like if I was asking someone to hang out I'd say "Hey, do you want to hang out?" I don't see how a pronoun would ever be necessary.</quote>It could come up when you're referencing something someone else said about the person </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Unsugarized_Foo 01/05/21 12:16:12 AM #41:	My friend? No, they go by guy or buddy --- "All I have is my balls and my word, and I don't break them for anyone!"-Tony Montana <cite>Unsugarized_Foo posted [p:949116256] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>My friend? No, they go by guy or buddy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArizonaDreaming 01/05/21 12:17:58 AM #42:	Literally none of my friends or family have ever asked me to do this, so nah. <cite>ArizonaDreaming posted [p:949116304] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Literally none of my friends or family have ever asked me to do this, so nah.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joker98 01/05/21 12:19:55 AM #43:	ArizonaDreaming posted... Literally none of my friends or family have ever asked me to do this, so nah. So if one did ask, you would go, "No, I'm not doing that because nobody's asked me before" ? Sound logic XD --- ~~Every day I'm husseling and busseling~~ <cite>Joker98 posted [p:949116359] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>ArizonaDreaming posted... </cite> <quote>Literally none of my friends or family have ever asked me to do this, so nah.</quote>So if one did ask, you would go, "No, I'm not doing that because nobody's asked me before" ? Sound logic XD </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArizonaDreaming 01/05/21 12:20:53 AM #44:	Joker98 posted... So if one did ask, you would go, "No, I'm not doing that because nobody's asked me before" ? Sound logic XD Well, tbh, we probably wouldn't be friends if they asked me and were insistent on it. I'm all for people doing what they want to do, but I'm going to do what I want to do. <cite>ArizonaDreaming posted [p:949116381] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Joker98 posted...</cite> <quote> So if one did ask, you would go, "No, I'm not doing that because nobody's asked me before" ? Sound logic XD </quote> Well, tbh, we probably wouldn't be friends if they asked me and were insistent on it. I'm all for people doing what they want to do, but I'm going to do what I want to do.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joker98 01/05/21 12:24:28 AM #45:	ArizonaDreaming posted... Well, tbh, we probably wouldn't be friends if they asked me and were insistent on it. I'm all for people doing what they want to do, but I'm going to do what I want to do. They'd be better off without you as a friend, TBH. Someone who refuses to respect your pronouns isn't a friend. --- ~~Every day I'm husseling and busseling~~ <cite>Joker98 posted [p:949116465] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>ArizonaDreaming posted... </cite> <quote>Well, tbh, we probably wouldn't be friends if they asked me and were insistent on it. I'm all for people doing what they want to do, but I'm going to do what I want to do.</quote>They'd be better off without you as a friend, TBH. Someone who refuses to respect your pronouns isn't a friend. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArizonaDreaming 01/05/21 12:24:56 AM #46:	Joker98 posted... They'd be better off without you as a friend, TBH. Someone who refuses to respect your pronouns isn't a friend. It's a free country, so more power to them. God bless America. <cite>ArizonaDreaming posted [p:949116477] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Joker98 posted...</cite> <quote> They'd be better off without you as a friend, TBH. Someone who refuses to respect your pronouns isn't a friend. </quote> It's a free country, so more power to them. God bless America.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nothanks1 01/05/21 12:25:13 AM #47:	I only really use first names or nicknames --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:949116480] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>I only really use first names or nicknames</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MKScorpion 01/05/21 12:26:18 AM #48:	Sure, it doesn't affect me and im not an asshole. Idc if you want to be an it, ill call you whatever you want. <cite>MKScorpion posted [p:949116503] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Sure, it doesn't affect me and im not an asshole. Idc if you want to be an it, ill call you whatever you want. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PoundGarden 01/05/21 12:27:24 AM #49:	Joker98 posted... That's like saying you don't buy into gravity. It's still a thing even if you don't "buy into it" >It's literally never happened (gender fluid person) though out o hundreds of interviews. Oh so you've asked everybody you've interviewed if they're gender fluid? No.....nobody has ever asked me to use gender neutral pronouns. Nice try at twisting my words tho --- "You go. I'm just going to stare at the lake and think about how I almost just killed a baby." <cite>PoundGarden posted [p:949116536] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>Joker98 posted... </cite> <quote>That's like saying you don't buy into gravity. It's still a thing even if you don't "buy into it" >It's literally never happened (gender fluid person) though out o hundreds of interviews. Oh so you've asked everybody you've interviewed if they're gender fluid?</quote> No.....nobody has ever asked me to use gender neutral pronouns. Nice try at twisting my words tho </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VTBM 01/05/21 12:31:33 AM #50:	I think it's fuckin stupid BUT it does not hurt or affect me in anyway so why not? As long as they ask nicely. :3 --- https://imgur.com/e7sCCSb <cite>VTBM posted [p:949116638] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>I think it's fuckin stupid BUT it does not hurt or affect me in anyway so why not? As long as they ask nicely. :3 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joker98 01/05/21 12:35:40 AM #51:	VTBM posted... I think it's f in stupid BUT it does not hurt or affect me in anyway so why not? As long as they ask nicely. :3 Why is it stupid? --- ~~Every day I'm husseling and busseling~~ <cite>Joker98 posted [p:949116738] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>VTBM posted... </cite> <quote>I think it's f in stupid BUT it does not hurt or affect me in anyway so why not? As long as they ask nicely. :3</quote>Why is it stupid? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NobleWill8 01/05/21 12:49:17 AM #52:	I don't think it's dumb or anything, I just can't wrap my dumb head around it lol. Nonetheless, I have no problem switching preferred pronouns on the fly. --- "When life gives you lemons, you clone those lemons, and create super lemons." <cite>NobleWill8 posted [p:949117026] in If someone... [t:79215616]...</cite> <quote>I don't think it's dumb or anything, I just can't wrap my dumb head around it lol. Nonetheless, I have no problem switching preferred pronouns on the fly. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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