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nothanks1 12/25/20 3:32:57 PM #1:	Literally the one person who most likely saved me from an even worse situation won't ever be found since I can't even remember her surname and nobody I asked even remembered her This was about 25 years ago she moved away Happy fucking Holidays or whatever the fuck it is you all celebrate/don't celebrate the situation was (don't read it'll probably ruin your day) ~~almost got raped by a random strange man when I was like 7 but she interrupted him trying to convince me to take my clothes off~~ --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:948749227] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>Literally the one person who most likely saved me from an even worse situation won't ever be found since I can't even remember her surname and nobody I asked even remembered her This was about 25 years ago she moved away Happy fucking Holidays or whatever the fuck it is you all celebrate/don't celebrate the situation was (don't read it'll probably ruin your day) almost got raped by a random strange man when I was like 7 but she interrupted him trying to convince me to take my clothes off</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nothanks1 12/25/20 4:22:12 PM #2:	So now what do I do? I've come to accept life is ultimately fucking pointless since I can't find her Doesn't help at all she wasn't even from the area she lived like 30 minutes away --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:948750704] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>So now what do I do? I've come to accept life is ultimately fucking pointless since I can't find her Doesn't help at all she wasn't even from the area she lived like 30 minutes away</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 12/25/20 4:22:59 PM #3:	It was me. You're welcome. --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:948750718] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>It was me. You're welcome. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrankJaegr 12/25/20 4:26:24 PM #4:	nothanks1 posted... So now what do I do? I've come to accept life is ultimately fucking pointless since I can't find her Doesn't help at all she wasn't even from the area she lived like 30 minutes away I mean if youre feeling up for it I guess you can make a FB post asking for people to repost it and hopefully it makes its way to her feed if she has FB >_> <cite>FrankJaegr posted [p:948750816] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>nothanks1 posted... </cite> <quote>So now what do I do? I've come to accept life is ultimately fucking pointless since I can't find her Doesn't help at all she wasn't even from the area she lived like 30 minutes away</quote> I mean if youre feeling up for it I guess you can make a FB post asking for people to repost it and hopefully it makes its way to her feed if she has FB >_> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nothanks1 12/25/20 4:27:48 PM #5:	FrankJaegr posted... I mean if youre feeling up for it I guess you can make a FB post asking for people to repost it and hopefully it makes its way to her feed if she has FB >_> Literally just know her first name Don't even know the street she lived on or where she even moved to a few days later. I've accepted I can't even find her On the other hand I've accepted everything is pointless and I have no idea what to do with the rest of my life --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:948750860] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>FrankJaegr posted...</cite> <quote> I mean if youre feeling up for it I guess you can make a FB post asking for people to repost it and hopefully it makes its way to her feed if she has FB >_></quote> Literally just know her first name Don't even know the street she lived on or where she even moved to a few days later. I've accepted I can't even find her On the other hand I've accepted everything is pointless and I have no idea what to do with the rest of my life</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VipaGTS 12/25/20 4:28:16 PM #7:	i know this seems like a joke...but go to reddit. there has to be a subreddit where people help you find someone. If you know any details about her they might be able to help. They've done it before. --- "I devour urine just like my Portland Trailblazers, with piss poor defense." <cite>VipaGTS posted [p:948750871] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>i know this seems like a joke...but go to reddit. there has to be a subreddit where people help you find someone. If you know any details about her they might be able to help. They've done it before. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kingbuffet 12/25/20 4:29:30 PM #8:	What about the police report maybe its on there <cite>Kingbuffet posted [p:948750908] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>What about the police report maybe its on there </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nothanks1 12/25/20 4:30:29 PM #9:	We're literally talking in the mid 1990s Like I get most of the posts are going to say keep trying but I've done it all At one point I literally tracked down like 40 people who would have been the same age group of her at the time where she hung out and nobody knows. Like maybe 3 even remembered her --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:948750935] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>We're literally talking in the mid 1990s Like I get most of the posts are going to say keep trying but I've done it all At one point I literally tracked down like 40 people who would have been the same age group of her at the time where she hung out and nobody knows. Like maybe 3 even remembered her</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nothanks1 12/25/20 4:30:53 PM #10:	Kingbuffet posted... What about the police report maybe its on there >implying I was 7 and my mom insisted I was lying so there was no report --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:948750948] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>Kingbuffet posted...</cite> <quote>What about the police report maybe its on there </quote> >implying I was 7 and my mom insisted I was lying so there was no report</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrankJaegr 12/25/20 4:31:40 PM #11:	nothanks1 posted... Literally just know her first name Don't even know the street she lived on or where she even moved to a few days later. I've accepted I can't even find her On the other hand I've accepted everything is pointless and I have no idea what to do with the rest of my life Seen children reunited this way with their biological parents they had no idea about - its DEFINITELY recommended imo <cite>FrankJaegr posted [p:948750973] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>nothanks1 posted... </cite> <quote>Literally just know her first name Don't even know the street she lived on or where she even moved to a few days later. I've accepted I can't even find her On the other hand I've accepted everything is pointless and I have no idea what to do with the rest of my life</quote> Seen children reunited this way with their biological parents they had no idea about - its DEFINITELY recommended imo </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nothanks1 12/25/20 4:32:15 PM #12:	FrankJaegr posted... Seen children reunited this way with their biological parents they had no idea about - its DEFINITELY recommended imo I've already done it. I've done the local groups too This was in the last year too --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:948750984] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>FrankJaegr posted...</cite> <quote> Seen children reunited this way with their biological parents they had no idea about - its DEFINITELY recommended imo</quote> I've already done it. I've done the local groups too This was in the last year too</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrankJaegr 12/25/20 4:35:12 PM #13:	nothanks1 posted... I've already done it. I've done the local groups too This was in the last year too Bummer, much luck to you man - hope you get the closure you need :l Thats all I really had >_> sorry <cite>FrankJaegr posted [p:948751071] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>nothanks1 posted... </cite> <quote>I've already done it. I've done the local groups too This was in the last year too</quote> Bummer, much luck to you man - hope you get the closure you need :l Thats all I really had >_> sorry </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrToothHasYou 12/25/20 4:48:47 PM #14:	nothanks1 posted... I've come to accept life is ultimately fucking pointless since I can't find her Forgive me if this is insensitive but, why do you need to be able to find her for your life to have meaning? --- An Injury to One is an Injury to All https://iww.org/ <cite>MrToothHasYou posted [p:948751441] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>nothanks1 posted... </cite> <quote>I've come to accept life is ultimately fucking pointless since I can't find her</quote>Forgive me if this is insensitive but, why do you need to be able to find her for your life to have meaning? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nothanks1 12/25/20 4:50:06 PM #15:	MrToothHasYou posted... Forgive me if this is insensitive but, why do you need to be able to find her for your life to have meaning? Because for many, many years I was convinced it never happened. My mom said it never happened and what did happen was I was making it up because I didn't want to get into trouble. I don't even know anymore. Like I assumed the girl would have more of a memory of it than I would. --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:948751475] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>MrToothHasYou posted...</cite> <quote>Forgive me if this is insensitive but, why do you need to be able to find her for your life to have meaning? </quote> Because for many, many years I was convinced it never happened. My mom said it never happened and what did happen was I was making it up because I didn't want to get into trouble. I don't even know anymore. Like I assumed the girl would have more of a memory of it than I would.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VipaGTS 12/25/20 4:50:52 PM #16:	MrToothHasYou posted... Forgive me if this is insensitive but, why do you need to be able to find her for your life to have meaning? Yea this here..I understand you want to find her, but just be happy she was there. be happy she saved you and now move forward. build yourself on that. Someone else might step into your life and help you the same way, but if you keep blocking them out thinking about this person from decades ago you'll never get to see them...just be happy she was there. --- "I devour urine just like my Portland Trailblazers, with piss poor defense." <cite>VipaGTS posted [p:948751500] in I had a ve... [t:79199074]...</cite> <quote>MrToothHasYou posted... </cite> <quote>Forgive me if this is insensitive but, why do you need to be able to find her for your life to have meaning?</quote>Yea this here..I understand you want to find her, but just be happy she was there. be happy she saved you and now move forward. build yourself on that. Someone else might step into your life and help you the same way, but if you keep blocking them out thinking about this person from decades ago you'll never get to see them...just be happy she was there. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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