Current Events > CE talk me out of trying to date a single mom

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In fact, she might actually be in a healthy loving relationship. I don't know or care

So do I like, explain I'm good with kids and won't let them on CE? Because I think her oldest one is a 9 year old girl and would not let her on CE so that shows I'm good with kids right???
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chad ce must have some tips
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no thanks

If you're good with kids,go for it. If you'd be a negative influence, fuck up outta her life. You don't have to jump right into playing daddy. Act like an Uncle until you know it's something you could see as serious. Don't let this salty CEmen who can't share attention with a kid lead you to be as shallow as them. They can be alone while you find happiness in actually being somebody decent

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Children are amazing though
It's the fact that she might think it's mine that worries me
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nothanks1 posted...

Children are amazing though
It's the fact that she might think it's mine that worries me

Just let her know you don't feel comfortable with beimg too involved before a certain point because you don't want to chance hurting the kid emotionally

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I'm pretty sure all of the women I work with are aware they need to treat me like a child so that's all fine
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I have monday to find out if she's single
How do i do this
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You are incapable of getting dates with anyone

Well she has kids that were not yours, she might expect you to help raise her kids, the father might show up every once in a while to see how his kids are doing, the father might give you cold glare (I guess jealously, since he ain't banging the woman your with), he might kill you on the day he decides to randomly hang out with you and the whole shabam ends up on channel 5 with those condescending news anchors detailing the whole ordeal or a random anchor showing up to your place talking to the wife and kids.

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So you're saying get the father deported?
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Homeless_Waifu posted...

Well she has kids that were not yours, she might expect you to help raise her kids, the father might show up every once in a while to see how his kids are doing, the father might give you cold glare (I guess jealously, since he ain't banging the woman your with), he might kill you on the day he decides to randomly hang out with you and the whole shabam ends up on channel 5 with those condescending news anchors detailing the whole ordeal or a random anchor showing up to your place talking to the wife and kids.

Kinda this tbh, I mean - you might get some free fruit snacks for awhile

but eventually youll be bringing those home for her so >_>

Homeless_Waifu posted...

Well she has kids that were not yours, she might expect you to help raise her kids, the father might show up every once in a while to see how his kids are doing, the father might give you cold glare (I guess jealously, since he ain't banging the woman your with), he might kill you on the day he decides to randomly hang out with you and the whole shabam ends up on channel 5 with those condescending news anchors detailing the whole ordeal or a random anchor showing up to your place talking to the wife and kids.

I have a feeling this type of paranoia stops you from exploring most things in life. Or you're joking. Hoping it's the latter, for your sake.

Also, you guys react to situations like you have to be spineless in the situation and play into everything the person wants with no ability to pushback and say.

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