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21WIVES_CHILL 12/20/20 11:21:40 PM #51:	No thanks. I have some friends that are currently in one and theyve regret that decision and theres no way out because you essentially pay for child support for a kid that's not yours if you call it quits. <cite>21WIVES_CHILL posted [p:948587436] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>No thanks. I have some friends that are currently in one and theyve regret that decision and theres no way out because you essentially pay for child support for a kid that's not yours if you call it quits. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 12/20/20 11:22:43 PM #52:	I would never date a single mom says man who no woman wants to date. --- I'm in Chicago, I'm shaking my head. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:948587465] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>I would never date a single mom says man who no woman wants to date. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 12/20/20 11:28:02 PM #53:	JustMyOpinion posted... Awww I have my own fan. How cute! Not a fan, just someone who recognizes your posts for what they are. Of course, its unsurprising that you lack the ability to tell the difference. Flockaveli posted... I would never date a single mom says man who no woman wants to date. This 21WIVES_CHILL posted... No thanks. I have some friends that are currently in one and theyve regret that decision and theres no way out because you essentially pay for child support for a kid that's not yours if you call it quits. Lol nah none of the single moms Ive dated ever resulted in this. If anything, they were the ones hooking me up with gifts and shit. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948587590] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>JustMyOpinion posted... </cite> <quote>Awww I have my own fan. How cute!</quote> Not a fan, just someone who recognizes your posts for what they are. Of course, its unsurprising that you lack the ability to tell the difference. Flockaveli posted... </cite> <quote>I would never date a single mom says man who no woman wants to date.</quote> This 21WIVES_CHILL posted... </cite> <quote>No thanks. I have some friends that are currently in one and theyve regret that decision and theres no way out because you essentially pay for child support for a kid that's not yours if you call it quits.</quote> Lol nah none of the single moms Ive dated ever resulted in this. If anything, they were the ones hooking me up with gifts and shit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Shablagoo 12/20/20 11:50:05 PM #55:	No one is butthurt but you. It drips through every single post you make. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948588218] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>No one is butthurt but you. It drips through every single post you make. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Shablagoo 12/20/20 11:58:21 PM #58:	Whats with the wild fantasy? I noticed your garbage post ITT and commented on it, nothing more. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948588415] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Whats with the wild fantasy? I noticed your garbage post ITT and commented on it, nothing more. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Shablagoo 12/21/20 12:03:42 AM #60:	JustMyOpinion posted... It's not an isolated incident. says the only person keeping track lmao --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948588541] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>JustMyOpinion posted... </cite> <quote>It's not an isolated incident.</quote> says the only person keeping track lmao </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Background_Guy 12/21/20 12:25:39 AM #62:	now kiss <cite>Background_Guy posted [p:948589043] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>now kiss </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pfh1001 12/21/20 12:46:58 AM #63:	I have before, but I would not do it again. <cite>pfh1001 posted [p:948589560] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>I have before, but I would not do it again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BoyOfBattle 12/21/20 12:55:45 AM #64:	date? fuck no man smash and dash? for sure. --- WHITE HOT HEAT FAN SINCE 2020. Jimmy "The Master" Butler. Duncan "The Admiral" Robinson. Tyler "The" Herro. we already won. <cite>BoyOfBattle posted [p:948589780] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>date? fuck no man smash and dash? for sure. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 12/21/20 2:20:20 AM #65:	Background_Guy posted... now kiss puffs lips --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948591353] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Background_Guy posted... </cite> <quote>now kiss</quote> puffs lips </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vicious_Dios 12/21/20 2:29:21 AM #66:	Background_Guy posted... now kiss lmao Have you seen them both? --- S / K / Y / N / E Twitch/YouTube/GT: *Adzeta* <cite>Vicious_Dios posted [p:948591517] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Background_Guy posted... </cite> <quote>now kiss</quote> lmao Have you seen them both? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IllegalAlien 12/21/20 2:31:34 AM #67:	only if she was really sexy like that meme earlier --- "Never argue with an idiot, they drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience." <cite>IllegalAlien posted [p:948591551] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>only if she was really sexy like that meme earlier </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bass_X0 12/21/20 2:36:48 AM #68:	BoyOfBattle posted... date? fuck no man smash and dash? for sure. Smash and wave dash. --- "Well, it's not a bad game. It's made by Capcom, so how could it?" ~ AVGN <cite>Bass_X0 posted [p:948591632] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>BoyOfBattle posted... </cite> <quote>date? fuck no man smash and dash? for sure.</quote> Smash and wave dash. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VTBM 12/21/20 7:53:55 AM #69:	Turbam posted... Not her --- https://imgur.com/e7sCCSb <cite>VTBM posted [p:948595477] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Turbam posted... </cite> <quote>Not her</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bass_X0 12/21/20 8:04:57 AM #70:	Single moms have got it going on. --- "Well, it's not a bad game. It's made by Capcom, so how could it?" ~ AVGN <cite>Bass_X0 posted [p:948595683] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Single moms have got it going on. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Prismsblade 12/21/20 8:50:17 AM #71:	Solid Snake07 posted... I'm not on the market but if I were it definitely wouldn't be a deal breaker. I already have a kid so it could actually be a plus. Honestly it's pretty pathetically insecure to say no for any reason besides not wanting children. Theres nothing wrong with people wanting to start from a clean slate. And from there, at their own pace. Which is why statements such as yours come across as condescending. --- 3DS FC:3368-5403-9633 Name: Kaizer PSN: Blackkaizer <cite>Prismsblade posted [p:948596472] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Solid Snake07 posted... </cite> <quote>I'm not on the market but if I were it definitely wouldn't be a deal breaker. I already have a kid so it could actually be a plus. Honestly it's pretty pathetically insecure to say no for any reason besides not wanting children.</quote>Theres nothing wrong with people wanting to start from a clean slate. And from there, at their own pace. Which is why statements such as yours come across as condescending. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 12/21/20 10:01:41 AM #72:	Prismsblade posted... Theres nothing wrong with people wanting to start from a clean slate. And from there, at their own pace. Which is why statements such as yours come across as condescending. Exactly. Lol at the caping for single moms in this topic. It you dont want to date a single mom, youre an insecure neckbeard turbo virgin that no one would want to date anyway FOH with that BS. Maybe some people just dont want to deal with that amount of baggage (and yes, kids are a form of baggage whether you like the term or not). Or maybe someone just wants to start their own family. If me not wanting to seriously date single moms makes me a turbo virgin neckbeard that no one would date in your made up little fantasy world, then I guess Ill be the king of neckbeard turbo virgins in your made up little fantasy world. Doesnt change reality. --- https://imgur.com/PHWbltB <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:948598093] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Prismsblade posted... </cite> <quote>Theres nothing wrong with people wanting to start from a clean slate. And from there, at their own pace. Which is why statements such as yours come across as condescending.</quote>Exactly. Lol at the caping for single moms in this topic. It you dont want to date a single mom, youre an insecure neckbeard turbo virgin that no one would want to date anyway FOH with that BS. Maybe some people just dont want to deal with that amount of baggage (and yes, kids are a form of baggage whether you like the term or not). Or maybe someone just wants to start their own family. If me not wanting to seriously date single moms makes me a turbo virgin neckbeard that no one would date in your made up little fantasy world, then I guess Ill be the king of neckbeard turbo virgins in your made up little fantasy world. Doesnt change reality. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrankJaegr 12/21/20 10:08:41 AM #73:	It was great until I noticed that >_> <_< >_> lets just say she let it all out one day and said too much <_< <cite>FrankJaegr posted [p:948598267] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>It was great until I noticed that >_> <_< >_> lets just say she let it all out one day and said too much <_< </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 12/21/20 1:21:14 PM #74:	Lmao at thinking ppl without kids are some kind of clean slate. Never gonna be a clean slate, kiddos were all human. Nothing is a clean slate. No one. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948604351] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Lmao at thinking ppl without kids are some kind of clean slate. Never gonna be a clean slate, kiddos were all human. Nothing is a clean slate. No one. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Offworlder1 12/21/20 1:28:36 PM #75:	Never, there are so many attractive single women without children it's foolish to waste time with single mothers in a relationship. --- "Always two there are, a master and an apprentice" 3DS FC: 1564 - 7512 - 1815 <cite>Offworlder1 posted [p:948604597] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Never, there are so many attractive single women without children it's foolish to waste time with single mothers in a relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DepreceV2 12/21/20 1:57:50 PM #76:	Shablagoo posted... Lmao at thinking ppl without kids are some kind of clean slate. Never gonna be a clean slate, kiddos were all human. Nothing is a clean slate. No one. Who thinks that its a clean slate? --- I will admit I'm wrong if you prove me wrong. It's how it always should be <cite>DepreceV2 posted [p:948605556] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Lmao at thinking ppl without kids are some kind of clean slate. Never gonna be a clean slate, kiddos were all human. Nothing is a clean slate. No one.</quote> Who thinks that its a clean slate? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 12/21/20 2:03:09 PM #77:	Shablagoo posted... Lmao at thinking ppl without kids are some kind of clean slate. Never gonna be a clean slate, kiddos were all human. Nothing is a clean slate. No one. No one ever said the people were a clean slate. They are talking about the familial situation. If you dont understand that then thats on you. --- https://imgur.com/PHWbltB <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:948605711] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Lmao at thinking ppl without kids are some kind of clean slate. Never gonna be a clean slate, kiddos were all human. Nothing is a clean slate. No one.</quote>No one ever said the people were a clean slate. They are talking about the familial situation. If you dont understand that then thats on you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 12/21/20 2:13:42 PM #78:	DepreceV2 posted... Who thinks that its a clean slate? Prismsblade posted... Theres nothing wrong with people wanting to start from a clean slate. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948606050] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>DepreceV2 posted... </cite> <quote>Who thinks that its a clean slate?</quote> Prismsblade posted... </cite> <quote>Theres nothing wrong with people wanting to start from a clean slate.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 12/21/20 2:14:51 PM #79:	Twin3Turbo posted... No one ever said the people were a clean slate. They are talking about the familial situation. If you dont understand that then thats on you. Nothing is a clean slate, so it doesnt matter. A person without kids could be a nasty monster and a person with them could be your soulmate. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948606093] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Twin3Turbo posted... </cite> <quote>No one ever said the people were a clean slate. They are talking about the familial situation. If you dont understand that then thats on you.</quote> Nothing is a clean slate, so it doesnt matter. A person without kids could be a nasty monster and a person with them could be your soulmate. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 12/21/20 2:18:10 PM #80:	Shablagoo posted... Nothing is a clean slate, so it doesnt matter. A person without kids could be a nasty monster and a person with them could be your soulmate. You seem real caught up on the term clean slate when its probably more accurately less baggage And in my age range I have dated no shortage of women with far less baggage than a woman with kids so Im not settling for it. If you want to, be my guest. --- https://imgur.com/PHWbltB <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:948606195] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Nothing is a clean slate, so it doesnt matter. A person without kids could be a nasty monster and a person with them could be your soulmate.</quote>You seem real caught up on the term clean slate when its probably more accurately less baggage And in my age range I have dated no shortage of women with far less baggage than a woman with kids so Im not settling for it. If you want to, be my guest. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DepreceV2 12/21/20 2:30:52 PM #82:	@Shablagoo I was assuming he meant not having the responsibilities of someone elses child --- I will admit I'm wrong if you prove me wrong. It's how it always should be <cite>DepreceV2 posted [p:948606587] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>@Shablagoo I was assuming he meant not having the responsibilities of someone elses child </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 12/21/20 2:33:25 PM #83:	Twin3Turbo posted... so Im not settling for it Theres no settling. Im sorry you have such a warped view of mothers that you for whatever reason consider them lesser. Personally, my mom was always my favorite person on Earth, so Ive never in my life looked down at a mother even a smidgen. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948606675] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Twin3Turbo posted... </cite> <quote>so Im not settling for it</quote> Theres no settling. Im sorry you have such a warped view of mothers that you for whatever reason consider them lesser. Personally, my mom was always my favorite person on Earth, so Ive never in my life looked down at a mother even a smidgen. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 12/21/20 2:35:08 PM #84:	DepreceV2 posted... @Shablagoo I was assuming he meant not having the responsibilities of someone elses child Thats an ok concern but like I said Ive dated several single moms and none of them have ever expected anything from me. In fact, they were the ones giving me gifts. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948606749] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>DepreceV2 posted... </cite> <quote>@Shablagoo I was assuming he meant not having the responsibilities of someone elses child</quote> Thats an ok concern but like I said Ive dated several single moms and none of them have ever expected anything from me. In fact, they were the ones giving me gifts. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 12/21/20 2:35:33 PM #85:	Wheres the stigma come from where dudes think single moms are freeloaders? Guys whove never dated one? --- I'm in Chicago, I'm shaking my head. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:948606766] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Wheres the stigma come from where dudes think single moms are freeloaders? Guys whove never dated one? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Twin3Turbo 12/21/20 2:41:38 PM #87:	Shablagoo posted... Theres no settling. Im sorry you have such a warped view of mothers that you for whatever reason consider them lesser. Personally, my mom was always my favorite person on Earth, so Ive never in my life looked down at a mother even a smidgen. Its not looking down on them. Its literally preferring the tons of women with demonstrably less baggage. I wouldnt date someone with 100k in debt either (unless she was realistically paying it off) for the same reason. Or someone with a ton of mental issues. Theres no need for me to considering I regularly date those without all that extra baggage. And interesting that you bring the mom thing up. My mom was a single mom too and would be the first one to ask me wtf I was doing if I brought one to her. Ask me how I know. --- https://imgur.com/PHWbltB <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:948606972] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Theres no settling. Im sorry you have such a warped view of mothers that you for whatever reason consider them lesser. Personally, my mom was always my favorite person on Earth, so Ive never in my life looked down at a mother even a smidgen.</quote>Its not looking down on them. Its literally preferring the tons of women with demonstrably less baggage. I wouldnt date someone with 100k in debt either (unless she was realistically paying it off) for the same reason. Or someone with a ton of mental issues. Theres no need for me to considering I regularly date those without all that extra baggage. And interesting that you bring the mom thing up. My mom was a single mom too and would be the first one to ask me wtf I was doing if I brought one to her. Ask me how I know. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 12/21/20 2:45:25 PM #88:	no, I don't even want kids of my own right now --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:948607097] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>no, I don't even want kids of my own right now </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DDirtyDastard 12/21/20 2:47:33 PM #89:	I've done it a couple times. One of them didn't have custody. The other's kids were already fully grown and didn't live at home. I almost dated one before those two, but she literally couldn't find any time to get away from the kid so I ended up writing off the whole thing. <cite>DDirtyDastard posted [p:948607159] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>I've done it a couple times. One of them didn't have custody. The other's kids were already fully grown and didn't live at home. I almost dated one before those two, but she literally couldn't find any time to get away from the kid so I ended up writing off the whole thing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 12/21/20 2:49:32 PM #90:	Flockaveli posted... Wheres the stigma come from where dudes think single moms are freeloaders? Guys whove never dated one? Most definitely. Twin3Turbo posted... Its not looking down on them. Its literally preferring the tons of women with demonstrably less baggage. I wouldnt date someone with 100k in debt either (unless she was realistically paying it off) for the same reason. Or someone with a ton of mental issues. Theres no need for me to considering I regularly date those without all that extra baggage. And interesting that you bring the mom thing up. My mom was a single mom too and would be the first one to ask me wtf I was doing if I brought one to her. Ask me how I know. Its very weird to me that you conflate having a child with having mountains of debt and/or having mental issues. I think you have some stuff you need to work out tbh. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948607234] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Flockaveli posted... </cite> <quote>Wheres the stigma come from where dudes think single moms are freeloaders? Guys whove never dated one?</quote> Most definitely. Twin3Turbo posted... </cite> <quote>Its not looking down on them. Its literally preferring the tons of women with demonstrably less baggage. I wouldnt date someone with 100k in debt either (unless she was realistically paying it off) for the same reason. Or someone with a ton of mental issues. Theres no need for me to considering I regularly date those without all that extra baggage. And interesting that you bring the mom thing up. My mom was a single mom too and would be the first one to ask me wtf I was doing if I brought one to her. Ask me how I know.</quote> Its very weird to me that you conflate having a child with having mountains of debt and/or having mental issues. I think you have some stuff you need to work out tbh. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 12/21/20 2:51:38 PM #91:	Shablagoo posted... Most definitely. Its very weird to me that you conflate having a child with having mountains of debt and/or having mental issues. I think you have some stuff you need to work out tbh. children are expensive especially today, gone are the days where your child leaves your house and works at 18, now your child is living with you well in to their late twenties. --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:948607297] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Most definitely. Its very weird to me that you conflate having a child with having mountains of debt and/or having mental issues. I think you have some stuff you need to work out tbh.</quote> children are expensive especially today, gone are the days where your child leaves your house and works at 18, now your child is living with you well in to their late twenties. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DepreceV2 12/21/20 2:53:32 PM #92:	Shablagoo posted... Thats an ok concern but like I said Ive dated several single moms and none of them have ever expected anything from me. In fact, they were the ones giving me gifts. Fair enough. However, here is my concern. I dont want kids. Sure I can date a single mom however, there is a clear risk because the child is already present. If Im looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with then its clear the child will be involved. There is no way around that. Another thing, if I decided to marry this single mom for whatever reason while not wanting children, and, god forbid, something happens to her like possible death, who do you think will be responsible for that child? That will fall on my lap. I mean, Im pretty sure it will fall on my lap by law. If I dont want children, that is a legitimate risk Im not willing to take. Its not a shot at the mom. She can be amazing. However, Im still protecting myself and my self interests --- I will admit I'm wrong if you prove me wrong. It's how it always should be <cite>DepreceV2 posted [p:948607363] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Thats an ok concern but like I said Ive dated several single moms and none of them have ever expected anything from me. In fact, they were the ones giving me gifts.</quote> Fair enough. However, here is my concern. I dont want kids. Sure I can date a single mom however, there is a clear risk because the child is already present. If Im looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with then its clear the child will be involved. There is no way around that. Another thing, if I decided to marry this single mom for whatever reason while not wanting children, and, god forbid, something happens to her like possible death, who do you think will be responsible for that child? That will fall on my lap. I mean, Im pretty sure it will fall on my lap by law. If I dont want children, that is a legitimate risk Im not willing to take. Its not a shot at the mom. She can be amazing. However, Im still protecting myself and my self interests </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 12/21/20 2:56:22 PM #93:	DepreceV2 posted... Fair enough. However, here is my concern. I dont want kids. Sure I can date a single mom however, there is a clear risk because the child is already present. If Im looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with then its clear the child will be involved. There is no way around that. Another thing, if I decided to marry this single mom for whatever reason while not wanting children, and, god forbid, something happens to her like possible death, who do you think will be responsible for that child? That will fall on my lap. I mean, Im pretty sure it will fall on my lap by law. If I dont want children, that is a legitimate risk Im not willing to take. Its not a shot at the mom. She can be amazing. However, Im still protecting myself and my self interests That is fair, personally I like kids (much of my work life has involved childcare/teaching), so a woman having children has never been a negative thing in my eyes. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948607461] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>DepreceV2 posted... </cite> <quote>Fair enough. However, here is my concern. I dont want kids. Sure I can date a single mom however, there is a clear risk because the child is already present. If Im looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with then its clear the child will be involved. There is no way around that. Another thing, if I decided to marry this single mom for whatever reason while not wanting children, and, god forbid, something happens to her like possible death, who do you think will be responsible for that child? That will fall on my lap. I mean, Im pretty sure it will fall on my lap by law. If I dont want children, that is a legitimate risk Im not willing to take. Its not a shot at the mom. She can be amazing. However, Im still protecting myself and my self interests</quote> That is fair, personally I like kids (much of my work life has involved childcare/teaching), so a woman having children has never been a negative thing in my eyes. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nemu 12/21/20 2:56:44 PM #94:	No. Zero interest in kids, pretty much would always be a dealbreaker. There's also the fact that the kids, rightfully, will come first for her, so they need someone with true interest in being a parent. <cite>nemu posted [p:948607472] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>No. Zero interest in kids, pretty much would always be a dealbreaker. There's also the fact that the kids, rightfully, will come first for her, so they need someone with true interest in being a parent. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 12/21/20 3:10:43 PM #95:	Shablagoo posted... Most definitely. Its very weird to me that you conflate having a child with having mountains of debt and/or having mental issues. I think you have some stuff you need to work out tbh. In the context of being baggage? They all are so its really not weird at all but just do you buddy --- https://imgur.com/PHWbltB <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:948607932] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Most definitely. Its very weird to me that you conflate having a child with having mountains of debt and/or having mental issues. I think you have some stuff you need to work out tbh.</quote>In the context of being baggage? They all are so its really not weird at all but just do you buddy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 12/21/20 3:12:32 PM #96:	Nah definitely weird af lmao but just do you buddy --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948607992] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Nah definitely weird af lmao but just do you buddy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 12/21/20 3:23:21 PM #97:	nemu posted... No. Zero interest in kids, pretty much would always be a dealbreaker. There's also the fact that the kids, rightfully, will come first for her, so they need someone with true interest in being a parent. exactly, I don't understand why people get butthurt when guys say this. Do you want a guy that will care for your kids or a guy that doesn't give two craps? --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:948608369] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>nemu posted... </cite> <quote>No. Zero interest in kids, pretty much would always be a dealbreaker. There's also the fact that the kids, rightfully, will come first for her, so they need someone with true interest in being a parent.</quote> exactly, I don't understand why people get butthurt when guys say this. Do you want a guy that will care for your kids or a guy that doesn't give two craps? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 12/21/20 3:25:55 PM #98:	Shablagoo posted... Nah definitely weird af lmao but just do you buddy Its ok bro. Ive met plenty like you that refuse to see kids for what they are (baggage) just because the term hurts their feelings. Im used to it. --- https://imgur.com/PHWbltB <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:948608445] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Nah definitely weird af lmao but just do you buddy</quote>Its ok bro. Ive met plenty like you that refuse to see kids for what they are (baggage) just because the term hurts their feelings. Im used to it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Prismsblade 12/21/20 3:55:24 PM #99:	Shablagoo posted... Lmao at thinking ppl without kids are some kind of clean slate. Never gonna be a clean slate, kiddos were all human. Nothing is a clean slate. No one. First appearances are everything, and not trying to sound rude, but nothing screams baggage more so then children at first glance. More so becuase you cant really hide them like you can debt, old lovers, or major character flaws. Flockaveli posted... Wheres the stigma come from where dudes think single moms are freeloaders? Guys whove never dated one? It's from our older times. Such woman werent considered freeloaders, but when it was the mans duty to provide and forfeit everything for his family up to, and including there lives..... I shouldnt have to tell you why doing so for another mans blood and legacy wouldnt sit well with most of them. --- 3DS FC:3368-5403-9633 Name: Kaizer PSN: Blackkaizer <cite>Prismsblade posted [p:948609489] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Lmao at thinking ppl without kids are some kind of clean slate. Never gonna be a clean slate, kiddos were all human. Nothing is a clean slate. No one.</quote>First appearances are everything, and not trying to sound rude, but nothing screams baggage more so then children at first glance. More so becuase you cant really hide them like you can debt, old lovers, or major character flaws. Flockaveli posted... </cite> <quote>Wheres the stigma come from where dudes think single moms are freeloaders? Guys whove never dated one?</quote>It's from our older times. Such woman werent considered freeloaders, but when it was the mans duty to provide and forfeit everything for his family up to, and including there lives..... I shouldnt have to tell you why doing so for another mans blood and legacy wouldnt sit well with most of them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 12/21/20 4:03:05 PM #100:	Twin3Turbo posted... Its ok bro. Ive met plenty like you that refuse to see kids for what they are (baggage) just because the term hurts their feelings. Im used to it. Its ok bro, I value human life and mothers. Ive met plenty that dont. Im used to it. Prismsblade posted... It's from our older times. Such woman werent considered freeloaders, but when it was the mans duty to provide and forfeit everything for his family up to, and including there lives..... I shouldnt have to tell you why doing so for another mans blood and legacy wouldnt sit well with most of them. See thats exactly where I fall off. Old school machisimo is really stupid all-around imo. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:948609723] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Twin3Turbo posted... </cite> <quote>Its ok bro. Ive met plenty like you that refuse to see kids for what they are (baggage) just because the term hurts their feelings. Im used to it.</quote> Its ok bro, I value human life and mothers. Ive met plenty that dont. Im used to it. Prismsblade posted... </cite> <quote>It's from our older times. Such woman werent considered freeloaders, but when it was the mans duty to provide and forfeit everything for his family up to, and including there lives..... I shouldnt have to tell you why doing so for another mans blood and legacy wouldnt sit well with most of them.</quote> See thats exactly where I fall off. Old school machisimo is really stupid all-around imo. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 12/21/20 4:12:27 PM #101:	Shablagoo posted... Its ok bro, I value human life and mothers. Ive met plenty that dont. Im used to it. Ill wait for you to point out where I said I didnt value human life. Actually, Ill wait for you to point out where I stated I think of single mothers as less than as well, since you said that earlier too. Spoiler, I never did, but I know you need to build that straw man to bulldoze down. --- https://imgur.com/PHWbltB <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:948610046] in Would you ... [t:79183955]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Its ok bro, I value human life and mothers. Ive met plenty that dont. Im used to it.</quote>Ill wait for you to point out where I said I didnt value human life. Actually, Ill wait for you to point out where I stated I think of single mothers as less than as well, since you said that earlier too. Spoiler, I never did, but I know you need to build that straw man to bulldoze down. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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