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lww99
12/09/20 8:18:59 AM
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Going on 3 weeks of her not being in the mood

When we do end up having sex, I feel like its more out of obligation than her actually wanting to.

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The Trent
12/09/20 8:19:40 AM
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put on some sexy anime for her and get her in the mood first

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lww99
12/09/20 8:21:00 AM
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I surprised her with some lingerie last night and she wouldnt even try it on

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lww99
12/09/20 8:21:40 AM
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LivingLegend posted...
Oh boy... You probably arent very good at eating pussy, are you?

used to be an issue years ago. But I eat both front and back now

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emblem boy
12/09/20 8:21:45 AM
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Has it always been like this?
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TimmyTinsel
12/09/20 8:21:55 AM
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lww99 posted...
I surprised her with some lingerie last night and she wouldnt even try it on

Moms can be stubborn sometimes.
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lww99
12/09/20 8:22:43 AM
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when we first got together like 7 years ago, we would go at it pretty frequently.

but yeah its been a reoccurring problem for awhile now. Life just seems to get in the way.


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Vicious_Dios
12/09/20 8:23:49 AM
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TimmyTinsel posted...
Moms can be stubborn sometimes.

Bruh... LMFAO!

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lww99
12/09/20 8:25:19 AM
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its mainly her work schedule. She doesnt get home until 7 or so, usually pretty exhausted. Doesnt wanna cook, shower, and then have sex after working all day. Understandable

I offer to help but doesnt really matter.

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Parappa09
12/09/20 8:25:27 AM
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i mean youve been in a relationship for 7 years so its not uncommon for that to happen

but i know when im going through stressful periods in life i dont wanna bang at all

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lww99
12/09/20 8:25:43 AM
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TimmyTinsel posted...
Moms can be stubborn sometimes.
Turbo virgin projection detected.

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The Trent
12/09/20 8:30:11 AM
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lww99 posted...
its mainly her work schedule. She doesnt get home until 7 or so, usually pretty exhausted. Doesnt wanna cook, shower, and then have sex after working all day. Understandable

I offer to help but doesnt really matter.

you're fucking up focusing on the sex part then
focus on the other shit like cooking and cleaning so she can just come home and shower and relax a few days a week instead of slave driving and then being expected to put out in sexy lingerie

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lww99
12/09/20 8:30:23 AM
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LivingLegend posted...
Offer to do oral and tell her she doesnt have to do anything in return.

Trust me.

Even if you dont get your dick sucked, she will remember if you put in the effort to make her cum just to make her happy...

If she says she has a headache just tell her you want to kiss her clit and thats it... No dick... Just some good head.

Its better to get your foot in the door than nothing happening at all...

no issue there, I enjoy foreplay. She usually doesnt reciprocate bc we just get right into it after going down on her.


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TimmyTinsel
12/09/20 8:31:02 AM
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lww99 posted...
Turbo virgin projection detected.

Dont be upset man.
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lww99
12/09/20 8:31:26 AM
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The Trent posted...
you're fucking up focusing on the sex part then
focus on the other shit like cooking and cleaning so she can just come home and shower and relax a few days a week instead of slave driving and then being expected to put out in sexy lingerie

we both work full time, and I do plenty around the house. We just work different shifts. Im at work before she wakes up.

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lww99
12/09/20 8:32:10 AM
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TimmyTinsel posted...
Dont be upset man.

Im not upset about a literal 2nd grade insult. Try harder next time.

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The Trent
12/09/20 8:34:10 AM
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oh okay then don't try harder at other things, my bad

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Oatcakes
12/09/20 8:37:45 AM
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lww99 posted...
we both work full time, and I do plenty around the house. We just work different shifts. Im at work before she wakes up.

If you get home before her though, wouldn't it make sense to cook/clean (not saying every day like)?

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lww99
12/09/20 8:37:50 AM
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I get what youre saying, but I usually go down on her until she tells me to fuck her.

its not like I rush the process. But I hear you

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TimmyTinsel
12/09/20 8:37:58 AM
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lww99 posted...
Try harder next time.

Thats what your gf said.

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lww99
12/09/20 8:41:31 AM
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Oatcakes posted...
If you get home before her though, wouldn't it make sense to cook/clean (not saying every day like)?

I do. But I already do like 75% of the work with that in mind.

I do the grocery shopping, laundry, all outdoor housework, vacuum, garbage, etc.

She does most of the cooking, and cleans the litter more often than me

we split the dishes

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lww99
12/09/20 8:42:45 AM
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TimmyTinsel posted...
Thats what your gf said.

Happy now youre roasted.

3/10.

just like how much your mom cares about you

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The Trent
12/09/20 8:42:46 AM
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i'm going to roll back a bit, i don't know what i was thinking
have you tried some sexy anime to get her in the mood?

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Oatcakes
12/09/20 8:44:33 AM
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Fair. Me and my ex used to do about 50/50, although I'd do more on weeks where she finished at 7pm.

Cooking is a big one, maybe you could talk about shifting stuff about? Adds quite a bit of time to the night if you get home and the food is ready, rather than coming in and then cooking. Like with laundry, could get her to do that as I'm guessing it isn't something done daily?

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lww99
12/09/20 8:44:56 AM
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TimmyTinsel
12/09/20 8:47:46 AM
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lww99 posted...
3/10.

just like how much your mom cares about you

Man Im sorry. Get your stuff figured out and come back
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An_Actual_Chad
12/09/20 8:51:38 AM
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TC is she introverted by any chance?

My college roommate is going through the same thing with his girl and I'm just trying to see if I can figure out some answers for him.

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lww99
12/09/20 8:54:58 AM
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i feel bad but I always end up resenting her a bit when this happens.

which she inevitably picks up on, and makes the problem worse.

but its hard not to get annoyed when theres no end in sight

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lww99
12/09/20 8:55:39 AM
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An_Actual_Chad posted...
TC is she introverted by any chance?

My college roommate is going through the same thing with his girl and I'm just trying to see if I can figure out some answers for him.

kinda. But this wasnt always a problem for us

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MrResetti
12/09/20 8:55:41 AM
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This was me with my fiancee. My libido was just gone. She then got caught up on all these body image issues then started suspecting me of cheating when I wasn't and things just weren't great.

Have fun tc!

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lww99
12/09/20 9:33:36 AM
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The Trent
12/09/20 9:38:54 AM
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glad we could help!

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teepan95
12/09/20 9:39:41 AM
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Good luck dude
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3PiesAndAFork
12/09/20 9:39:53 AM
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Show her some of TimmyTurner's 2nd grade jokes to lighten the mood.

Try meal prepping on the weekends. It sucks having to cook everyday.

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FrankJaegr
12/09/20 9:42:58 AM
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The Trent posted...
glad we could help!

lmfao
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Returning_CEmen
12/09/20 9:44:12 AM
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Buy her some supplements that give her more energy. Since you said 3 weeks I take it this is also an issue on days off?
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Returning_CEmen
12/09/20 9:46:17 AM
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Also you have been together for 7 years, are you two engaged or married? If not, that might also be an issue
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Cleo_II
12/09/20 9:47:17 AM
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Is she on hormonal birth control?
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lww99
12/09/20 9:55:27 AM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
Also you have been together for 7 years, are you two engaged or married? If not, that might also be an issue

engaged.
Cleo_II posted...
Is she on hormonal birth control?

no she cant take pretty much any form of bc due to her epilepsy. Itll throw off her medication.

Returning_CEmen posted...
Buy her some supplements that give her more energy. Since you said 3 weeks I take it this is also an issue on days off?
sometimes. if it happens, its typically when shes off.

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FrankJaegr
12/09/20 9:58:45 AM
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Man its time for you to have some STEAMY, PASSIONATE, HOT stew made with fresh ingredients

maybe put on this song while you do it:
https://youtu.be/ykOx68fPzYs

maybe some EROTIC massages or some DEEP KISSING... while NAKED
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lww99
12/09/20 10:03:12 AM
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FrankJaegr posted...
Man its time for you to have some STEAMY, PASSIONATE, HOT stew made with fresh ingredients

maybe put on this song while you do it:
https://youtu.be/ykOx68fPzYs

maybe some EROTIC massages or some DEEP KISSING... while NAKED
I love erotic massage. She wont go for it.

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Cleo_II
12/09/20 10:14:49 AM
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Could her epilepsy medication be whats causing it?
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lww99
12/09/20 10:16:12 AM
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I dont think its listed as a possible side effect. Shes been on the same medication since i met her.

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